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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by jeromestarks: 8:18am On Dec 04, 2022
Marpol2021:
Daddy!!! Virgins are very rare to find,how can one locate them...
My dear son, when you're ready to start a family, read this https://www.nairaland.com/7345496/places-find-virgin-woman

For now, fvck any girl you want.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Starzo: 8:25am On Dec 04, 2022
MessiahMARLIANS:



Yes. Olden days Wisdom

So that it is approved that the daughter is not sold out at an expensive price.

Somehow in the future, if the husband claims that he owns full right over his wife and makes her suffer in his home; she can peacefully return 15 Naira back to him and leave his home.


It makes enough sense to me and this is how marriages should be coordinated so that many men would stop abusing many women over the expensiveness of the cost of dowry paid over their head.

Many Men are Pained by the High Sum of Money that they give away.

grin


Atleast 10 Naira and 5 Naira can once again find themselves worthy in The Land of Nigeria again.

I don see wettin we go use them do for Naija.

15 Naira that cannot buy 1 sachet of pure water in UGEP nor Calabar. grin
You're still been extorted

Men dey suffer sha
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Mindlog: 8:26am On Dec 04, 2022
jeromestarks:

My dear son, when you're ready to start a family, read this https://www.nairaland.com/7345496/places-find-virgin-woman

For now, fvck any girl you want.

Las, las you would end up being the baby daddy to one or more of those girls, who would drag you to cater for your child/children.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by MessiahMARLIANS: 8:34am On Dec 04, 2022
olasaad:


So what happened to the the 150k, 100k and the different 10k you gave to her family in the case of divorce, is she going to return it to As in wisdom will not kill this people


In Our Case, there will NEVER Be A Divorce.


To Ascertain This; Last Week; When I travelled down to Calabar to for some Banking Alignment, I did Get A Permanent Tattoo of My Mum's Name and Her Name on My Right Leg.


I did this for A Purpose.


I did this as A Personal Blood Covenant Between Myself and I (My Inner Self).


I know How Men Could Be Fallible...


I know How One "Pussy" can Tire Man....


I know How Men Always Want To Eat Rice, Bean, Pomo, Egg, Fish and Spaghetti whilst Still Having Fufu, Pounded Yam and Egusi on The Side....


I know how my future influence and wealth would Attract A lot of Women To Me Based on My Various Agricultural and Digital Website Solutions for Women and Youths of Africa.



Hence - Prior To All of These; I did inscribe Their Names, My Name and My POVERTY ALLEVIATION COIN (PAC) Project on My Leg.




I will forever want to be with The Woman that Believed in My Digital Ambitions Even When A lot of People Thought I was Building and Living in a Castle on The Air.




And, if I forever want to be with her, I need to stay clear from The ONLY THING WOMEN DETEST MOST IN LIFE which They call "CHEATING".



To a very large extent, Sexual Cheating is the highest precursor to Many Failed and Failing Marriages.


Your Woman can put up with any of other of your nastiness, but when you CHEAT on Her Sexually with another person, Her ENERGY LEVEL with You Naturally Drops.


And even if she genuinely still loves and forgives you; You already Broke The Sexual Covenant between Both of You and as such Exposed Yourself and Your Marriage to Lots of Spiritual and Financial Adversities, Ills, Limitations and Hindrances.



When Your Sexual Life between You and Your Wife is PURE, You'll Always Get It's Reward.


(Just like what I'm surprisingly enjoying here... It's the first time in about 7 years that Any of my thread will reach the frontpage of Nairaland.

And Why is That ?

" Marriage" - The First Institution of God Almighty and Union between MAN and WOMAN.

And To a Great Extent; The Energies That Continues To Evolve between Our Sexual Purity has Helped Contribute to This).





That's How GOD ALMIGHTY Works.


That's How Marriage Should Work.



Genuineness and Sexual Purity.







I should drop my e-biro here for now.








~ TMOA.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by OVB123: 8:38am On Dec 04, 2022
Privatepart00:
shocked

Only heaven knows the number of human beings that will be a meal to them

They are all smiles to you, unknowingly they are codedly sharing your body parts among themselves

The more bigger you are , the more fighting to reveal who takes the buttocks .

For dash I won’t have anything doing with any girl from there
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by MessiahMARLIANS: 8:40am On Dec 04, 2022
Starzo:

You're still been extorted

Men dey suffer sha

Extortion is when you suffer to pay for what you are not Happy to pay for.


I'm very much happy and delighted to observe the cultural rites of getting married to My Wombman Goddess.


She Carries The Womb That will Reproduce My Offsprings.

So, All Necessary Rites Must Be Observed.


15 Naira is not Extortion to me.

How is it extortion to you?






As for the rest of the many packages on the list; many of them would be used for the forthcoming ceremonies.



So, where is the extortion you are yearning about ?

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by princewarri1985: 8:43am On Dec 04, 2022
jeromestarks:

I stand with you brother.

virgin or no marriage!
No hymen, no commitment!
just imagine after spending millions for an over used pussy all in the name of marriage and the woman go still get mind carry the pussy go give another man for outside. A guy in my neighbourhoodiin warri here spent 1.2 million naira on his marriage 2 months later his wife was caught in an hotel fighting her ex boyfriend for sleeing with another woman, meaning she is still fucking her ex boyfriend. As we speak the marriage don pack up and 1.2 million naira gone down the drain, IS THAT NOT FRAUD?? for me we will keep giving them the dick and bounce and when i want to marry i will simply look for a good virgin and marry. NO #HYMEN NO MARRIAGE.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Starzo: 8:49am On Dec 04, 2022
MessiahMARLIANS:


Extortion is when you suffer to pay for what you are not Happy to pay for.


I'm very much happy and delighted to observe the cultural rites of getting married to My Wombman Goddess.


She Carries The Womb That will Reproduce My Offsprings.

So, All Necessary Rites Must Be Observed.


15 Naira is not Extortion to me.

How is it extortion to you?






As for the rest of the many packages on the list; many of them would be used for the forthcoming ceremonies.



So, where is the extortion you are yearning about ?


You're still been extorted


Nobody should be made to pay exorbitant amounts just to tie the knot with someone they claim to love

If she is a blessing to you, then you're also a blessing to her.

But na only you dey pay money to settle down with her

Men dey suffer sha

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by OVB123: 8:50am On Dec 04, 2022
CaveAdullam:
1. Hungry sets of old men and women who wait yearly to siphon innocent inlaws. There's nothing to write about them - just dry gins, gossip, ignorance, and gullibility.

2. Their exorbitant and crazy traditional charges will make one wonder if their daughter is a goddess formed in paradise under the Blue moon.

This has contributed to many ladies tarrying long in spinsterhood after they lose their fiance to the crazy bride prices.

3. Men always find it enjoyable paying these charges because they are in love and want to prove their love to their brides. But what happens after the wedding? Wedding expenses make men suffer financially during the marriage because the money that ought to be invested or saved was squandered to please multiple gap tooth village individuals who don't care about the success of their marriage.

4. White weddings and traditional weddings are just for the sake of it. Anything aside bride price is meaningless. A court wedding is enough and simple. Save your funds or invest them in something better.

5. The bride's family should think of reasonable and possible ways to develop their community instead of acting parasitic on innocent grooms.

But the nonsense will not stop until the groom stops paying attention to the useless marriage list and absurd conditions.

Man, don't get tensioned over anything.

Happy married life. Be fruitful and multiply. And may your home know love, peace, and prosperity.

Thanks.

Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Starzo: 8:50am On Dec 04, 2022
princewarri1985:
just imagine after spending millions for an over used pussy all in the name of marriage and the woman go still get mind carry the pussy go give another man for outside. A guy in my neighbourhoodiin warri here spent 1.2 million naira on his marriage 2 months later his wife was caught in an hotel fighting her ex boyfriend for sleeing with another woman, meaning she is still fucking her ex boyfriend. As we speak the marriage don pack up and 1.2 million naira gone down the drain, IS THAT NOT FRAUD?? for me we will keep giving them the dick and bounce and when i want to marry i will simply look for a good virgin and marry. NO #HYMEN NO MARRIAGE.

I nor wan even marry at all sef

Nigerian marriages na big extortion

Na the men dey suffer am
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by vickydevoka(m): 9:15am On Dec 04, 2022
dalass:
This bride price of #15.00 is funny.

However the Papa, Mama, relatives, community money and demands self is more than bride price grin

Wisdom no go Kee some people.

What you're adding with bags of rice, big cans of tomato paste up to 3 different seasonings

Hilarious cheesy cheesy grin
Na sense . Incase dere duta Bleep up na 15 Naira dem go return.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by MrDoGood(m): 9:21am On Dec 04, 2022
dalass:
This bride price of #15.00 is funny.

However the Papa, Mama, relatives, community money and demands self is more than bride price grin

Wisdom no go Kee some people.

What you're adding with bags of rice, big cans of tomato paste up to 3 different seasonings

Hilarious cheesy cheesy grin


It doesn't mean you will just drop 15 naira. At least, drop like 50,000 and they will just remove 1k and tell you to take the rest. They're not selling their daughter
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by coputa(m): 9:21am On Dec 04, 2022
Connected1:

Yen yen yen

Do they stay in marriages?
Are they good wives?

Don't come online to deceive people by marketing your tribe, I rather marry an ugep woman that's a known cannibalist than an Urhobo woman.

Even if it's a free wife and the family didn't request any items, you will still spend above 100k, Urhobo women don't stay in marriages, their men don't even marry them, they are just good for babymamaism because they are very unreliable.
On the contrary,an urhobo woman is very patient and tolerant and they're among the few left that respects tradition,that's why 90% of their men go after them.You can hardly find an urhobo woman in a brothel or found involving in any act of sexual rascality.An Urhobo woman,no matter what happens, always stays in her husband's house to take care of her children.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Reference(m): 9:22am On Dec 04, 2022
Here we go again.
Human trafficking and white slavery masquerading as tradition.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by naturefellow(m): 9:23am On Dec 04, 2022
DIAMANTE1759:
u just dey mention ugep n ekori without telling us which state
at least tell us the state
read the text again
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Iamthoney(m): 9:24am On Dec 04, 2022
Blake755:
Wenti football dey do there
Dem go play ball on wedding day grin
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by daminho1994(m): 9:39am On Dec 04, 2022
MessiahMARLIANS:
I'm from The Yoruba Part of Nigeria too.

However; As an Agricultural Journalistic Entertainment Tourist (AJET); I Travelled Down To Cross River State and Have Settled in Ekori, Yakurr Local Government Area for about 2 Years since I left The Year 2020 EndSars Protest in Ikeja, Lagos State.


To The Glory of God Almighty;

I'll be getting Married To My Bossom and Missing Rib Whom I Met This Year as an MTN Customer Care Representative when i went to retrieve my line at The MTN Office in UGEP Town.

We will be getting married Next Weekend - December 9, 10; 202.

All Nairalanders are invited grin

As a teacher on Nairaland; She's now a nairalander too...and I'm teaching her to teach other people on Nairaland How to bank "Customer Care Representative" Jobs with Brands and Top Companies.

(For Your Information; UGEP is The Town That Yearly Host "MISS LEBOKU" which is One of The Paramount Rural Tourism Attractions for Business Initiators and Investment Tourist.

My Present Wife-To-Be attended to me very respectfully, selflessly and sacrificially like MTN was Her Papa's Office.

And Since I loved her selflessness and respectful manners - Somehow Today; The rest is HISTORY.

Below is The Bride Price Provided to me from her family.

This is exactly what is obtainable in The South-South; Precisely UGEP.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by gift01: 9:39am On Dec 04, 2022
Was at Ugep last year. That city; the many local vigilante checkpoints due to cultism. Walking alone at night is highly not advised. Their girls are beautiful but no try runs person babe if not fight Dey their blood. Pretty ladies everywhere. Food is cheaper. The meat I ate there got stuck in my tooth for months. Indiscriminate siting of casket makers. They have good road network. Just forget night life even if you have a car. Call girls plenty

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Aguiyimba(m): 9:41am On Dec 04, 2022
jeromestarks:

Some people are destined to pick up bad things in life. They're destined to get the worst outta this life. They're the ones to marry the girls we fvcked and left. They're the ones to eat and marry leftovers.
Are you one of them or not?

Thank God karma is not your family member. It will pay you in full

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by daminho1994(m): 9:44am On Dec 04, 2022
daminho1994:


I camp in Obubra NYSC orientation camp and I was posted to Ugep Local government. My stay was very fun and a memorable one. The food culture are the love showed to me was very much that I wanted to stay. Going to market was always fun. I stayed at Oja and son's house close to the local government guest house.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by omooba969(m): 9:45am On Dec 04, 2022
FuckSilly:

Use your brain!
Everything is not about sex but reality and common sense should tell you how things work...
If sex is not everything, why can't you take a known prostitute home as a wife?

Abeg park one side, do prostitutes fvck themselves - no be una dey chook prick in every available hole?

Wanna be giving lectures on 'how things work' - is your brain working?

Abeg swerve!

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by LincolnOnyeabor: 9:50am On Dec 04, 2022
vince96w2:
He was cohabiting with a lady from that area. Unfortunately she died without him doing any marriage rites. I can't remember if they had kids..I was quite young and I have not seen him in over 25 years. .Due to his love for her, he decided to take her body home..They insisted that he does all marriage rites and he did and on a certain day, he said kids were playing with his toes that this is their own.. They were to kill him that night and for some unknown reasons the room he was allocated to stay with the corps wouldn't open when it was time.. Early hours of that the following day, he miraculously made his way out of there without notice and fled for his life never to return. I was like 8 years when he shared that story and fear has not left my heart since then.. I sincerely fear anyone from Calabar as a whole and Ngwa since I heard that story..

There is also a place in Abia..My friend told me they eat visitors too..Fear did not let me follow him home..He said the village before his..They will go and mount road block and take people if occasion happens in their vicinity..So if they have a program, they escort their visitors to a safe place before they return . ..
Still scared as I type this..

shocked shocked shocked shocked

Things dey happen oooo

Sweet Baby Jesus!
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Agbebakun22: 9:53am On Dec 04, 2022
udumosam23:


The bride price is traditional thing and must not exceed that amount, and must be paid with different Nigerian currencies. Although some clans have modified the amount to 1,885 to enable all currencies to be represented.

Every other rights are negotiable depending on the strength of the suitor. The yakurr women generally are homely and receptive, respectful and kind. There are still a few terrible ones though.

Cannibalism amongst the yakurr people is a long past history. Although their traditional and cultural activities still pictures these thoughts, they're now far from reality.

I am myself a yakurr man and I married from my community Idomi 8 years back. I also paid #15 bride price and other kepon and lezima expenses took about 130k and it was lauded to be an expensive marriage rites, I was hailed as a man amongst my Kingsmen.

He is blessed whose wife is a yakurr woman. They don't leave their husbands easily.
I don't expect negative word from u since i see u are from there. Hoping they will not eat off his head one day. Once a human eater will always be a human eater nothing can change that. Hope u are not part of them sha
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by princewarri1985: 9:54am On Dec 04, 2022
Starzo:


I nor wan even marry at all sef

Nigerian marriages na big extortion

Na the men dey suffer am
The one wey dey pain me pass be say despite all the negative news about all these vagina people emanating from social media everyday, alot of men are still #SLEEPING and them non won wise up untill they become a victim theirself and the next thing they start crying fowl. alot of me are so foolish. they need to keep their guard up. real me cant fall for all this vagina people antics, i dey run key to key for warri here with them make we see who get key pass.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by PoliteActivist: 9:59am On Dec 04, 2022
udumosam23:



Also means friendly, kind, gracious and cordial. Pls consult a broader dictionary.

Note the word dialectal. Any word can mean anything in a dialect. But there is the universal meaning (see below). Please don't use the word homely unless you are saying a girl is unattractive. I see it on NL all the time, and finally decided to correct it.

Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Starzo: 10:02am On Dec 04, 2022
princewarri1985:
The one wey dey pain me pass be say despite all the negative news about all these vagina people emanating from social media everyday, alot of men are still #SLEEPING and them non won wise up untill they become a victim theirself and the next thing they start crying fowl. alot of me are so foolish. they need to keep their guard up. real me cant fall for all this vagina people antics, i dey run key to key for warri here with them make we see who get key pass.
I just Taya for some men

Dem nor go ever get sense
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by FuckSilly: 10:05am On Dec 04, 2022
omooba969:


Abeg park one side, do prostitutes fvck themselves - no be una dey chook prick in every available hole?

Wanna be giving lectures on 'how things work' - is your brain working?

Abeg swerve!
Very senseless talk.
Don't you people think before typing or talking?
Do prostitutes fuçk themselves? Is that supposed to be a reasonable question?
If prostitutes don't advertise themselves or make themselves available for sex, will anyone fuçk them?

It is the laziness and GREED that's in you people's souls that turns you into prostitutes.
How many bodycount can you have before you have SENSE?
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Agbebakun22: 10:08am On Dec 04, 2022
WantsandMore:
Cross River Girls are the best oh...second to Dangbala Women, I miss my Boki Babe that year. God bless your new home Bro. May God also bless my baby girl that year. Took care of me and what not but eventually que Sera Sera. Love & Light to y'all.
Dangbala in which state?
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by MessiahMARLIANS: 10:10am On Dec 04, 2022
princewarri1985:
just imagine after spending millions for an over used pussy all in the name of marriage and the woman go still get mind carry the pussy go give another man for outside. A guy in my neighbourhoodiin warri here spent 1.2 million naira on his marriage 2 months later his wife was caught in an hotel fighting her ex boyfriend for sleeing with another woman, meaning she is still fucking her ex boyfriend. As we speak the marriage don pack up and 1.2 million naira gone down the drain, IS THAT NOT FRAUD?? for me we will keep giving them the dick and bounce and when i want to marry i will simply look for a good virgin and marry. NO #HYMEN NO MARRIAGE.

You are right.

Such women needs to be arrested.

When a man commits too much money for your dowry and such woman commits adultery with her man, then such woman should be arrested for some years.


I mean;

There should be a Prison Punishment for Adulterers.


Males and Females.



Not the kind of Kiri-Kiri Prisons.



But, Truly People should get to pay for their marital infidelities so that we can keep the INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE Pure and Sacred as It Should Originally Be.

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Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by WantsandMore: 10:10am On Dec 04, 2022
Agbebakun22:
Dangbala in which state?
Edo State. Be like that name don trigger your Dada.
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Johnn78: 10:10am On Dec 04, 2022
Cool
Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by Agbebakun22: 10:13am On Dec 04, 2022
udemzyudex:


Marriage favours the man too, especially if you marry a good woman.

Wait till you grow old, then you will understand.
So na the woman wan come dey help u ? Abeg black man mentality again. So old that are not married u mean they're miserable?. Forget about old age. Overstressed urself cux u are married na die u go just die before ur time tryin to fullfil ur responsibilties. No be everybodi go marry and stop the old age bla bla. Make i first reach there first i go know.

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