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"Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 2:07pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
"Make Money and Women Will Come" Society and women tell this to men who are unsuccessful in dating to give them some hope. The idea is that they should not worry, they should just work harder and generate wealth. When they get money women will beg them to be their girlfriends and wives. But, if women will come when you make the money, have you ever wondered where they are now? Let's assume that they will effectively be with you later, after you become rich. OK now, in the meantime, who are they with? Are they sitting at home, chastely waiting for you to make money? Are they working on themselves while preserving their purity to deserve you when you finally make it? No. Where are they then? They are with other guys they judge worthy of their youth and freshness. And you are not on the list. So, you have to wait. And to not let you hanging, they give you the task to accumulate the wealth they will enjoy after the other guys have enjoyed their bodies. See, that advice (make money and women will come) would be apt if, after becoming rich, the women that will come are virgins. But, they are not. Who took their virginity then? A guy who was just as broke as you were when girls and society told you to make money first. This advice is thus hypocritical... but also dangerous. Many young men unsuccessful in dating will follow this advice. They will work very hard at school, at work, and in life to finally be able to attract women (among other reasons.) Eventually many of them make it. After all these painful years of work, it is high time to harvest the rewards: money, respect, security, stability, confidence, wisdom, -oh and, what did they say will come with financial success again? Ah yes, women! But, as they look left and right, they realize that most women are damaged beyond repair, many are single mothers, and virtually none of them are pure. And when they understand that the guys who took these women purity where in the very same state they thought they had to grow from to attract them, these men become bitter. They feel scammed. And rightly so. Unfortunately, this frustration can lead to hatred and violence. And this is not good for men themselves and society as a whole. This is one of the reasons why a man should not succeed for women. Succeed for you and your legacy first and foremost. And when you do succeed, be ruthless in your selection of women. When dealing with women, never lean on your money. That is dehumanizing as money is an object and, more importantly, it is external to you -- you are not your money. Money can come and go, but your inner strength and masculinity stays. And keep in mind that no amount of money entitles you to a woman's body. No amount of money protects you from the games women play. No amount of money can compensate for lack of attraction. Men and women should stop giving this advice to our sons. We must encourage them by all means to generate wealth and succeed in life. But let's not fool them with "women will come", without telling them the full story. As these men are busy building, most women are busy fvcking. 83 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Raalsalghul: 2:19pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Isn't this the reason Jeshal is always talking about vetting and Jeromestarks about virginity? 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 2:37pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Raalsalghul: For JESHAL, yes. But I don't Jeromestarks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by tochez24(m): 3:39pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Kipaji: Perfectly said..... For me No virginity no relationship/marriage!!! 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by JoeRizzla(m): 3:45pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Nice One, No hymen No Marriage. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Nyascobar1414: 3:54pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Most real men(SIMPs and f00ls) have no pride and ego that they wife up repented non-virgins with their hard earned money.. There are some of these f00ls that go a long way to collect loans from banks to get married... Actually,most guys wont eventually marry virgins, but if you dont see a virgin,kindly go for surrogacy. Conntract marriage or cohabitation is also cool whereby the bills is shared 50:50, you can get a housemaid for the housechores.. Your commitment is too precious for a non-virgin... NO HYMEN, NO RING. 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by omolasho: 4:16pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Where are they then? They are with other guys they judge worthy of their youth and freshness . And you are not on the list. So, you have to wait. And to not let you hanging, they give you the task to accumulate the wealth they will enjoy after the other guys have enjoyed their bodies. See, that advice;make money and women will come would be apt if, after becoming rich, the women that will come are virgins. And when they understand that the guys who took these women purity where in the very same state they thought they had to grow from to attract them, these men become bitter. They feel scammed. And rightly so. Unfortunately, this frustration can lead to hatred and violence. And this is not good for men themselves and society as a whole. Succeed for you and your legacy first and foremost. And when, you do succeed be ruthless in your selection of women. No amount of money protects you from the games women play. No amount of money can compensate for lack of attraction. As these men are busy building, most women are busy fvcking. Thank you oops. Personally I believe that when you marry a lady that was disvirgined by another man, it is dishonor to your dignity, pride and Ego as a man. I can never love such lady. Imagine how they share unclothedness, the sweat, sperm, kisses, positions, etc tweeeeeh! I cringe, and the society makes it look like no big deal! Let every man marry ladies they disvirgined. Am outa here abeg 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 5:30pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
omolasho: Indeed. This society wants men to accept everything. But women, on the other side, firmly maintain their standards. Thousands of years ago, women went for providers and men went for virgins. Today, women still go for providers, while men feel lucky to marry damaged and overused women. Look, even in nature, if you are not the first you are the last. Out of the million sperms sprinting towards the egg, only one of them fertilizes it: the FIRST ONE. After fertilization, All the other sperms have no more business with the egg and are KILLED. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by LIVINGICONREBOR: 5:42pm On Dec 05, 2022 |
Nice. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:59pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
What of the man no make am |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by vanitybutiwanti: 10:28pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
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Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Mcslize: 10:35pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
You've just said absolutely nothing less but the simple bitter truth. I have never supported the idea of a man working his ass out simply for the sole purpose of attracting women. If you're a young man doing that, permit me to tell you for free, you lack purpose. Work hard for yourself and immediate family not because of a woman. Do know that, if you make money before you find love, be rest assured, it's your money most ladies will marry not you. You won't feel that genuine love from a partner as a man. You will always feel left out in the world of true love. Remove the money and see how fast she will leave you, heavily abuse you and start following other rich men outside. Just know you just succeeded marrying a gold digger and a hoe as a young man. Guys, be wise. Don't let anyone fool you. The best time to find the love of your life is when you have nothing. If you must find one after you've made it, make it a paramount standard that she too must be a made lady herself. With that, you will have the rest of mind that she didn't come for your money cuz she too is made for life. If you are made already but still haven't settled down? Better look for a lady that is made too to balance things up. Going for a liability after you are made, is not a wise decision. Do you know why? Most of these ladies do set standards for men, like "He must be tall". "He must be wealthy". If ladies that are liabilities can boldly set standards such as "I want a tall guy, fair in complexion and must be very wealthy", why can't our men of this generation also set standards for the women they will marry? Don't let anyone fool you. You're the prize as a man. Set standards for the type of woman you will like to marry so you won't end up marrying wrongly or marrying a chronic gold digger after you've suffered to make it in life. Be wise and be warned! That being said, guys, do you know there are some highly curious facts that many of us are still yet to know about sex? Watch these extremely shocking psychological facts about sex that will blow your mind. No 40 will shock you! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vz38eM4lIg0 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by LINSAR: 10:38pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Here in the university, I shake my head repeatedly when I see some girls' lifestyles. You know why? It's one unfortunate man that'll finally marry them. Imagine a girl that used her püssy to sponsor her education saying "I want a God fearing and responsible man." A girl that is being passed around for s*x in her neighborhood will be saying "You're not my type." Before marrying a lady, I'll tell her family "If I marry your daughter and discover she's not 'intact', I'm collecting back the bride price paid." 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by InfinityFabric: 11:03pm On Dec 06, 2022 |
Money amplifies whatever it met. If you're a dork before money, you'll become a bigger dork. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by obinnazy(m): 6:40am On Dec 07, 2022 |
AFTER MAKING MONEY, GO FOR VIRGINS. In my hood, I see rich gee guys running after pretty broke ladies for love and sex 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by obinnazy(m): 6:44am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Lastweek, I asked myself few questions. One was, why do men celebrate weddings/marriages? Why should you be happy to throw party that you found someone who's coming to depend on you and your resources?? A female friend said 'GOD CREATED MEN TO BE SIMP' 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by obinnazy(m): 6:50am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Most rich guys are surrounded by fake ladies and fake love. When I go out and I see what guys are doing for their ladies, I laugh. The moment they stop doing all that, those ladies will leave them and move to other available guys. I know guys who stopped their gfs from working... 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Nobody: 9:19am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Kipaji: Threads like this is the reason why I prefer Nairaland to prostitute app (Instagram). 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Nobody: 9:26am On Dec 07, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414: Virgins suplus for this life my brother. When it's time to birth a child, na virgin or nothing. As long as I'm financially successful, I will always see many virgins to choose from. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Nobody: 9:57am On Dec 07, 2022 |
vanitybutiwanti: Use them and dump them bro. If I mistakenly date a university student that is in 100 level, I will stop her from going to school same way davido did Chioma. They only need to know how to read and write. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 1:42pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
LINSAR: ... ubunja: 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Savedday: 5:15pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
Stop getting marry to a 9ja girl. They respect their baby daddy than a husband. Simple fact! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by marlow1962(m): 5:22pm On Dec 07, 2022 |
I no fit buy wertin other guys don rubbish. I know my worth, I can’t settle for less. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by dontai(m): 8:07am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Omo, you finished talk. I detest the phrase with every being in me. Marriage have really lost it values, thanks to the simps out there. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by dhiqson(m): 10:49am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Thread flowing with milk (sense) and honey (wisdom) TAlIbanCumRAdE 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Mekanus(m): 11:23am On Dec 08, 2022 |
Truer words have never been said. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Do not be a fool. The other guys before you didn't need to marry, commit to, or provide for her. They did not have to go through all these dates, "getting to know each other" phase, and billing. 9 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Kipaji: 12:19pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
ubunja on "make money and women will come" https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/672#103671082 Extract: ubunja: 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
So after you hustle for the most of your lives to make money only to be rewarded a virgin whose chastity last the minute you pluck the cherry. Then you start to wonder what's next? Kikikikikiki the way you all reason like cockroaches ehn ! Not bothered though, its still a win win for my sisters out there . All they need is retain the hymen, chop life without stress. Black guys dull no be small. 4 Likes |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Haydens: 1:48pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
LINSAR: Bro you have said it all. I have already made it up to myself. To even marry a graduate fit hard me cos of their lifestyle. Come UNIBEN and you go see shege. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by Haydens: 1:55pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Just imagine you went to a shop and bought a phone of ₦70,000 then you brought it home, then your friend was like nah I bought this exact phone for ₦30,000 and another one tells you nah I bought t it for ₦2,000 and another told you that I got it for free. You that bought it for ₦70,000 how will you feel ? Well his writing is not about phone. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) by millstone(m): 2:42pm On Dec 08, 2022 |
Kipaji: Man I could kiss you for this, no homo lol . I will also add that as a man it also takes longer to build wealth so let's say you finally get your big break at the age of 30-35 it's best to settle for younger ladies between 18-23. You can meet them young and build something meaningful with them. Better chances of meeting them as virgins or better you won't be settling with someone who lots of guys both broke, rich, yahoo and others have passed around 3 Likes |
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