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Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 5:21pm On Dec 09, 2022
Am dating this girl for like 4 months now the relationship has not been that bad just like every other relationship out there but now the problem is sometimes I feel like to break up with her am also the one that deflowered her the last time I tried breaking up with her because of a small issue she cried I don't just know since I had sex with her my love for her had gone cold am hurting her because I don't give her attention again and if I continue this relationship it will just be like I'm using her just for sex while some times I feel like I miss her if we have not talked for a while am just confused on what to do...
Am treating her really badly currently making her cry a lot and I don't like it is just my emotions

Please I do need advice on how to go about this
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Thortp(m): 5:26pm On Dec 09, 2022
Both of you will still be alright
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by 3verblazing(m): 5:34pm On Dec 09, 2022
Bradford111:
Am dating this girl for like 4 months now the relationship has not been that bad just like every other relationship out there but now the problem is sometimes I feel like to break up with her am also the one that deflowered her the last time I tried breaking up with her because of a small issue she cried I don't just know since I had sex with her my love for her had gone cold am hurting her because I don't give her attention again and if I continue this relationship it will just be like I'm using her just for sex while some times I feel like I miss her if we have not talked for a while am just confused on what to do...
Am treating her really badly currently making her cry a lot and I don't like it is just my emotions

Please I do need advice on how to go about this
you both need to grow up!
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 5:40pm On Dec 09, 2022
[quote author=3verblazing post=119029206]you both need to grow up![/quote
Please can you explain better please
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Muffassa: 5:41pm On Dec 09, 2022
[quote author=Bradford111 post=119029347][/quote]Bet both of you're are still in your teens
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 5:42pm On Dec 09, 2022
Muffassa:
Bet both of you're are still in your teens
So that's the reason for me feeling that way?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by EzegeNdiigbo: 5:51pm On Dec 09, 2022
i think you are obviously running away from your responsibility of giving her money for xmax grin grin
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Suunnn(f): 6:09pm On Dec 09, 2022
Bradford111:
Am dating this girl for like 4 months now the relationship has not been that bad just like every other relationship out there but now the problem is sometimes I feel like to break up with her am also the one that deflowered her the last time I tried breaking up with her because of a small issue she cried I don't just know since I had sex with her my love for her had gone cold am hurting her because I don't give her attention again and if I continue this relationship it will just be like I'm using her just for sex while some times I feel like I miss her if we have not talked for a while am just confused on what to do...
Am treating her really badly currently making her cry a lot and I don't like it is just my emotions

Please I do need advice on how to go about this
Time

Give it time, but on a serious note judging from all you have said i i'm getting angry with you already
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Muffassa: 6:16pm On Dec 09, 2022
Bradford111:
So that's the reason for me feeling that way?
Did I guess right?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Muffassa: 6:21pm On Dec 09, 2022
Muffassa:
Did I guess right?
Regardless tho you gotta work on your emotions judging by your what you said the girl will def feel used.
Nar your type dey turn them to monster later. You broke her hymen she doesn't deserve that cold treatment from you.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by tayo60(f): 6:24pm On Dec 09, 2022
After you disvirgin her, you no want her again. I think you have a big problem, I blame d girl for not keeping her virginity for a better man. Dey close leg, they won't hear! Even with ordinary sharwama and ice-cream, dey don open leg yakata.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Dec 09, 2022
So you found a virgin for a rebound relationship. Lol something redpillers will kill for grin grin. Like I read a thread where they are telling each other to hustle, make money then marry a firjin grin grin.

That fiiiirrrrjin you are using to pick teeth cheesy grin
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Magnoliaa(f): 6:31pm On Dec 09, 2022
Persephone1:
So you found a virgin for a rebound relationship. Lol something redpillers will kill for grin grin. Like I read a thread where they are telling each other to hustle, make money then marry a firjin grin grin.

That fiiiirrrrjin you are using to pick teeth cheesy grin
grin grin grin

Girllll.

Btw, this OP is such an attention-seeker always creating fictitious stories.

I wouldn't take him seriously.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by wisdomkid: 6:35pm On Dec 09, 2022
How old are u?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 6:36pm On Dec 09, 2022
Suunnn:
Time

Give it time, but on a serious note judging from all you have said i i'm getting angry with you already
Sorry is just my emotions I will give it time as you said thanks
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 6:37pm On Dec 09, 2022
Magnoliaa:
grin grin grin

Girllll.

Btw, this OP is such an attention-seeker always creating fictitious stories.

I wouldn't take him seriously.
Is it not fiction will you pay me? Why will I create a fictional story to gain what?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 6:38pm On Dec 09, 2022
Muffassa:
Regardless tho you gotta work on your emotions judging by your what you said the girl will def feel used.
Nar your type dey turn them to monster later. You broke her hymen she doesn't deserve that cold treatment from you.
I will try thanks
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Dec 09, 2022
Magnoliaa:
grin grin grin

Girllll.

Btw, this OP is such an attention-seeker always creating fictitious stories.

I wouldn't take him seriously.
Lol...you should have seen the threads and how these guys were screaming firgin like primary school kids hailing father Christmas cheesy grin So funny

I remember him from a thread he opened to wail that his girlfriend chose work over him cheesy
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by nicerod(m): 7:02pm On Dec 09, 2022
U never loved her in the first place

Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Treasuredgift(f): 7:07pm On Dec 09, 2022
I pray other women learn from this.


Never give sex to a person you are not married to.

Most of the the young men today are just Bleep boys. Upem, they won't hear.


We will be here to read your stories sha
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Blakjewelry(m): 7:21pm On Dec 09, 2022
3verblazing:
you both need to grow up!
Seriously children wey dey dance adult dance.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 7:24pm On Dec 09, 2022
Treasuredgift:
I pray other women learn from this.


Never give sex to a person you are not married to.

Most of the the young men today are just Bleep boys. Upem, they won't hear.


We will be here to read your stories sha
Is not my fault I thought I loved her is not my emotions currently I no longer feel a thing for her
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by polite2(m): 7:26pm On Dec 09, 2022
But wat exactly has she done wrong? I guess she shouldn't ve given you her virginity
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 09, 2022
Better believe the way you disvirgin anothe man’s future wife your own future spouse is getting fu…ck somewhere right now.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by ifihearam: 7:44pm On Dec 09, 2022
Mods please take this to the kids section'

Thank you kindly.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by BlackMan6969(m): 8:02pm On Dec 09, 2022
To all you ignorant young muther-fuckers. If u know she's a virgin & ur not ready to marry her, just let her be. It's obvious ur a young, dumb, son of a bitch. I'm really angry right now. U muther-fuckers disvirgin girls & dump them, then come online & b talking bull-shit about our girls. Right now i wish bob-risky would locate u & Bleep u in the ASS. IDIOT.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 09, 2022
Bradford111:
Is not my fault I thought I loved her is not my emotions currently I no longer feel a thing for her
Sorry to say, you just confirmed you don't love her. undecided
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Dec 09, 2022
polite2:
But wat exactly has she done wrong? I guess she shouldn't ve given you her virginity
Exactly, what is the reason why she deserves this harsh treatment?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Bradford111(op): 9:32pm On Dec 09, 2022
TPGoddess:
Sorry to say, you just confirmed you don't love her. undecided
No I'm just confused sometimes I do while sometimes I feel nothing for her maybe is just connected to be being in my early 20s don't know
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by Nobody: 9:52pm On Dec 09, 2022
Bradford111:
No, I'm just confused sometimes I do while sometimes I feel nothing for her maybe is just connected to being in my early 20s don't know
Well, what can I say? It is up to you, but that sucks because either way, it does look like you were not serious with her. I don't know what you want to hear, that we should justify your reason. Nawa
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing To Hurt Her?? by gabrielmatt: 9:55am On Dec 10, 2022
Persephone1:
So you found a virgin for a rebound relationship. Lol something redpillers will kill for grin grin. Like I read a thread where they are telling each other to hustle, make money then marry a firjin grin grin.

That fiiiirrrrjin you are using to pick teeth cheesy grin
lol
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