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Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Enemyofpeace: 12:12pm On Dec 15, 2022
Na our prick dey help us o





Below are list of people Buhari wished Goodluck but eventually lule(lost)

Anthony Joshua
Super Eagles
Kamaru Usman
Isreal Adesanya
Super Falcons
Tobi Amusan
Morocco

in 2023, Buhari would be wishing APC Goodluck & guess what?

Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Jamie1000: 12:14pm On Dec 15, 2022
gonkin:
U dont have to be employed to have money. Ive not been working for 2 years now but i have lots skill set. The skills are there for whenever an opportunity rises. As at this time last year i go a contract from outdoor signage installations. It was a project to last 3 months and installations all over lagos. The thing no easy, lagos thugs, lastma and others show me pepper especially mushin and agege areas even badagry. But that project paid my rent, that of my parents and some other bills. It was bout 3m for the project but dem oga sef wen get me the project collect their cut.

This year too i have work for me and covered the bills of my parent. My account balance na die. Im single too, staying alone with no kids but my skills are whats kept my on key. Till work starts again. I still drive a big ass 4x4, yeah my cloths are 2 years old, i hardly had meat in my meals and when it becomes critical i cut down to 1 heavy meal a day. My guy e no easy but relying on someone for upkeep is what im avoiding. Just sharpen ur skill. Opportunity will come
The grind
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Zardex(m): 12:17pm On Dec 15, 2022
Its not easy
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Hollyharjii: 12:17pm On Dec 15, 2022
Hmmm, I had the experience last year, I know what it is to be jobless, one could imagine a banker who was laid off without savings
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by capricornlady: 12:17pm On Dec 15, 2022
Unemployed family men or broke men should stop procreation, that's usually the cause of their problems.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Godsonkemz(m): 12:18pm On Dec 15, 2022
The ugly part of it is that the unemployed spend the most on data. When I finished service, the jobs that were coming were as good as having no job. I decided to quit my last managerial job so I can focus on building my entrepreneurship abilities. It was a tough decision but I thank God today that I made that decision.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Nawttiboi007(m): 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2022
But u mumu small o
entrep88:
Yes now, but Omo see the OP balance like FM frequency grin grin grin
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by WowSweetGuy(m): 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2022
Begging ofcourse from friends and family
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by JayEntaur(m):
olasaad:
That data is another problem on is own. Imagine buying 20gb for 5k and it won't last you for a month. Unlike before when we used to buy 1gb for 1k and you will use it for one month but now 1gb don't even last for a day. This makes me wonder how all this jobless ladies using iPhone and always online all day using tiktok and Instagram how much data they consume and where the money comes from.
Why do 20gb for N5,000 when you can do 40gb for same amount?
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by ybalogs(m): 12:26pm On Dec 15, 2022
Nah God ooo
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by seanwilliam(m): 12:27pm On Dec 15, 2022
Lol. Even grin people that are employed are complaining how much more the unemployed peeps.


Honestly it’s very very tough to be a man .. when I was young I always wanted to grow up so fast so that I’ll be eating plenty meats and not doing chores .
grin

Now I’ll I wish to go back to the time wey dem I still be small pikin without problem . To just eat, sleep , play , zero worries. grin
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Saintinoo(m): 12:28pm On Dec 15, 2022
olasaad:
That data is another problem on is own. Imagine buying 20gb for 5k and it won't last you for a month. Unlike before when we used to buy 1gb for 1k and you will use it for one month but now 1gb don't even last for a day. This makes me wonder how all this jobless ladies using iPhone and always online all day using tiktok and Instagram how much data they consume and where the money comes from.
An unemployed man using data of 5k should remain poor for life, reality have not dawned on him.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Khayceeofficial(m): 12:42pm On Dec 15, 2022
Saintinoo:
An unemployed man using data of 5k should remain poor for life, reality have not dawned on him.
That depends on what he/she uses that data for
I consume more than 7.5gb in a week and that's due to my jobs in and around the internet. Still, I was asked to resign from my workplace around February

So, not everyone indulges n wastes precious data on watching things that ain't beneficial on Tiktok and the likes
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Alexiiydon: 12:44pm On Dec 15, 2022
FalseProphet1:
By this time next year more than 80% of the entire population of Nigeria would have Japa, leaving the country literally empty.

This I have seen.
where dem won see money to japa that one self requires money
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by tishbite41(m): 12:49pm On Dec 15, 2022
seanwilliam:
Lol. Even grin people that are employed are complaining how much more the unemployed peeps.


Honestly it’s very very tough to be a man .. when I was young I always wanted to grow up so fast so that I’ll be eating plenty meats and not doing chores .
grin

Now I’ll I wish to go back to the time wey dem I still be small pikin without problem . To just eat, sleep , play , zero worries. grin
No be only u
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Adesuwag(m): 12:51pm On Dec 15, 2022
MarketDispatch:
Not always so ..I want to make my hair , or my data will soon finish, sub for me to 10 people hoping to smash her kpekus, 9 out of 10 will send her money...( Crowdfunding from Kpekus hopefuls keeps her bank account always loaded)
your b.utthole serves the same
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Austriaopen(m): 12:52pm On Dec 15, 2022
JayEntaur:
Why do 20gb for N5,000 when you can do 40gb for same amount?
Which network and code pls?
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Waffarianman(m): 12:56pm On Dec 15, 2022
With my lil palm tree,palm oil, cassava and fisheries farming within konsign me consign unemployment. You guys should go into farming nai sure pass
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by mikaael(m): 1:00pm On Dec 15, 2022
entrep88:
Guys abeg my UBA Leo no wear father Christmas cap like OP own pls help!
Lol
Send money Make i hep u buy am cap
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by kinzation(m): 1:08pm On Dec 15, 2022
SO sorry about your plight broo.. how have ubeen coping outside the banking life

i'm also a banker tho

Hollyharjii:
Hmmm, I had the experience last year, I know what it is to be jobless, one could imagine a banker who was laid off without savings
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by deavicky(m): 1:09pm On Dec 15, 2022
blingxx:
Sugardaddies , yahooboys, ex boyfriends .. the normal fine girl privileges girls wey God will still punish
count sugar daddy out of it at the moment because e no easy for us too.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Sapeleboy911(m): 1:12pm On Dec 15, 2022
Austriaopen:
Which network and code pls?
Airtel, dial *141# select my area and you will see the option of 40GB for #5000, the icing on the cake is you get an additional bonus of #15000 to call any network in Nigeria, the airtime bonus has a validity period of 1 week. Although from my personal experience, if you bought the airtime from your bank account or someone transferred airtime to you. You won't see that 40GB option, you have to buy the airtime, and recharge it using the normal *126*pin# recharge code.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by ecolime(m): 1:14pm On Dec 15, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
Na our prick dey help us o





Below are list of people Buhari wished Goodluck but eventually lule(lost)

Anthony Joshua
Super Eagles
Kamaru Usman
Isreal Adesanya
Super Falcons
Tobi Amusan
Morocco

in 2023, Buhari would be wishing APC Goodluck & guess what?
Those guys are jinxed. Na only Tobi Amusan I pity. Her career is too young to be dead.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Fearyourcreator: 1:27pm On Dec 15, 2022
Lamanii22:
If the man has an understanding and supportive wife, they would cope
My wife showed me pepper
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by gonkin(m): 1:28pm On Dec 15, 2022
Kaycee54321:
Why do you drive a 4x4 and don't have meat in your meals?

Are you some sort of vegan?
Sometimes i use my 4x4 to tow and haul luggage. Eithet when someone is moving out an apartment or into an apartment. It also covers.

Meat no dey make belle full.

If 1 piece of meat is ₦200 and 4 wraps of fufu is also ₦200, ill go for an extra 4 wraps.
When u are on a budget, its quantity over quality.

There are times i could stay a whole month without eating meat then i forget the taste of meat. But that full belle, i dont joke with.

Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Fearyourcreator: 1:28pm On Dec 15, 2022
vickyfrancis1:
It hasn't been easy... sometimes e come resemble whether Dem curse person...this country sef.. person go get certificate+ skills yet hunger go dy flog am left, right, and center.

Abeg make we vote right ooo...na wicked leaders put us for this depression mode we dy.

Some days na 1 square meal, other better days na 2 square meal... Life is just unnecessarily hard. embarassed
You get certificate and skills and you come broke gan... You lazy be that... No government go help you aje... Na me talk am...
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Fearyourcreator: 1:30pm On Dec 15, 2022
Corrosiveman:
grin
Na God de run am
Once you get Farm
Yu have solved 50% of your problem
Am still going to farm ...
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by coputa(m): 1:34pm On Dec 15, 2022
Being unemployed is a self made decision,if you pocket your ego, there're
a lot of jobs out there that you can do to keep body and soul together.The lazy and the proud always complain that there's no job.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by Holla911(m): 1:35pm On Dec 15, 2022
gonkin:
Sometimes i use my 4x4 to tow and haul luggage. Eithet when someone is moving out an apartment or into an apartment. It also covers.

Meat no dey make belle full.

If 1 piece of meat is ₦200 and 4 wraps of fufu is also ₦200, ill go for an extra 4 wraps.
When u are on a budget, its quantity over quality.

There are times i could stay a whole month without eating meat then i forget the taste of meat. But that full belle, i dont joke with.
Fueling this beast isn't a joke.
Kudos to you.
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by WowSweetGuy(m): 1:36pm On Dec 15, 2022
seanwilliam:
Lol. Even grin people that are employed are complaining how much more the unemployed peeps.


Honestly it’s very very tough to be a man .. when I was young I always wanted to grow up so fast so that I’ll be eating plenty meats and not doing chores .
grin

Now I’ll I wish to go back to the time wey dem I still be small pikin without problem . To just eat, sleep , play , zero worries. grin
Worries dey for school assignments
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by BigBashiru: 1:40pm On Dec 15, 2022
KingClavi:
For the past days now, I've not been able to afford anything, no hope from anywhere at all, just trust in God.

These few days, I know how I feel inwardly and tries my best to stay out of trouble or provocative arguments.

But amidst these feelings, I still worry about how men with children and probably a wife, cope in today's Nigeria.

I'm not married, neither do I have children or living with anyone. Just that NYSC is happening to me and I'm seeing what seems to be like "shege" already.

This evening, I just decided to check if miracle could happen to my bank account. LOL, UBA never disappointed me.

So guys, how do you guys cope?
The concept of wife is dead. Let the woman generate money and take care of herself...
Re: How Do Unemployed Family Men Cope Abeg? by gonkin(m): 1:43pm On Dec 15, 2022
Holla911:
Fueling this beast isn't a joke.
Kudos to you.
Im a grease monkey myself. I have modded this vehicle so severely, its about 18mpg from 11. Leaned out the a/f ratio, done a fan clutch and egr delete.


I pay attention to every detail. Stock 0-60 is around 13 to 15 secs. I moded it to do 0-60 in less than 10. My best is 9.2

Not boring drive at all

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