₦airaland Forum

imadiyi:
"It's not like that,,ok? The thing is, girl, if you need money from a relationship, aim at guys who are ok, but if you couldn't get any na u cun no oo. Guys, if you ain't ready to give girls money while dating, then, aim for girls that are working class,who ain't interested in cash, rather than love,,ok?

In an avenue that you discarded the above counsel, and decided to target who nor get for luv, and who get 4 money, at the same time, babe, you are a prostitute; don't be deceived,,ok? And for guys, in a situation where you go for girls whose interest is a cash cow, and you couldn't provide, guy, you are a broke ass"

Please, guys, before you approach any lady for a relationship, and ladies before you accept any advance from a guy, think of the bolded above, in other to avert 'long John ',,ok?

englishmart:
I met a lady some months ago at a fast food vendor (mai shayi spot) She was ordering tea and bread. When she got her orders, she took them and sat close to the table where I was downloading a meal of Noodles and fried eggs. We exchanged quick glances and then greetings.

To cut the story short, after her meal, she paid #250 which was the cost of what she had. I had to wait till she paid before initiating any further conversation. I ended up getting her number that night and we started speaking frequently. As time whisked by, we started dating.

Few days into the relationship, she complained about her cream, that she needed to replace her finished cream and it was worth #3500. We're still testing the microphone and you're already acting extortionate? No problem. I gave her 2.5k, and asked that she should make it up. I didn't want to start what I couldn't finish, so I was careful with taking up her responsibilities.

She grudgingly took the 2.5k and merely appreciated it. Lol.
In about a week's time, she visited, and as usual was Hungry. She said she wanted jollof rice. I had rice and ingredients, all she needed was fish, meat, or so. So I gave her 2k in cash to get meat, fish, or both. She rejected the money that it was too small. She ended up having noodles and fried eggs. While she was leaving she told me she liked my perfume, and didn't even wait for permission before throwing it into her bag. I wasn't okay with that, but I shrugged it off.


She visited at night on Friday to leave the next day.
In the morning of Saturday, as she was about leaving, she said she was hungry and needed something for breakfast. I had just bought bread and some groceries on Friday. I'm talking about an expensive bread, a quality that she 99% probably hasn't tasted. (and I don't mean this spitefully)
I showed her the tin of milk and milo on the table and asked her to make tea and eat. She refused, claiming she won't enjoy the tea and bread without egg. I persuaded her to manage it like that, that the bread itself was rich and eggs were an unnecessary luxury. She refused to bend and insisted no eggs, no breakfast of tea and bread.
"Okay, no problem, go and buy the eggs"
"With which money? Did you give me any money?" she replied.
Like Seriously?
You want to enjoy luxury that you can't afford? You should have just said you needed food and not a relationship.
You don't think you need a job not a man? I reminded her where and how I met her, how she was eating agege bread and watery tea, one that would fail for Nigerian prisons standard. Now she's suddenly classy

How does it make you feel to put your welfare at the mercies of a fellow adult, when you, as an adult are not handicapped? How do you expect any form of respect when you can't take care of yourself without desperately needing to be in one scamlationship or another?

She flared up and started ranting, saying stuff like "didn't you know you couldn't take care of me before you approached me?" I did my best to calm her down before she pulled down my apartment. When she calmed after ceaseless vituperations and vitriols, I told her the relationship wouldn't survive another hour.
We broke up immediately. Now she's screaming" men are scum" all over WhatsApp and Facebook. That was before I blocked the needy.

I'm not gonna continue. Before we met, you were living, so go on.

englishmart:
Na me dey home, so e suppose be 0-2. But I won 4-2

akwesenana:
Away over 1.5 na 100 odds.
You were supposed to keep a clean sheet.
Imagine real Madrid conceding 2 against Bendel insurance.
You lost.

Yet Saudi Arabia beat Argentina.

Eyesstone:
"long story short".

If this is actually a short version, I wonder how the full version would have been.

virginprincess:
Nairaland men and their unending lies all just to spite women,mtcheeeeeew.

toujurs:
So after fucking her, you realised she had a high taste

This guy ehn. Anyways you did well, letting her go, i was at the mall a certain time when a guy slapped his babe, even kicked her.

And the stupid girl was begging him for mercy, it was obvious the guy had money, because he was looking so fresh, and drove a benz.

In my mind i was wondering how her dad would be weeping over his daughter, he struggled to train in school, so she could live a better life. Is being treated by a man like trash because of long throat and laziness. It's really a shame.

AndroidAI:
Your first mistake was that 2.5k for cream. You proved that you be maga. Men like you are women pleasers -- simps -- you find it hard to say NO to women! Learn to be stingy!!

RichAbujaGuy:
Op, you were knacking this babe's treasure box and you make a thread about having to feed her small food? I resist labeling this behavior.

Sanguine:
Englishmart, I like your writing style, plus your choice of words.

englishmart:
I dey play with caution. I know from the beginning say na maga she dey find. Me too get wetin I dey find, but I find am cautiously.

englishmart:
Funny how it sounded false. This is Something you and your most of your gender are guilty of

englishmart:
I met a lady some months ago at a fast food vendor (mai shayi spot) She was ordering tea and bread. When she got her orders, she took them and sat close to the table where I was downloading a meal of Noodles and fried eggs. We exchanged quick glances and then greetings.

To cut the story short, after her meal, she paid #250 which was the cost of what she had. I had to wait till she paid before initiating any further conversation. I ended up getting her number that night and we started speaking frequently. As time whisked by, we started dating.

Few days into the relationship, she complained about her cream, that she needed to replace her finished cream and it was worth #3500. We're still testing the microphone and you're already acting extortionate? No problem. I gave her 2.5k, and asked that she should make it up. I didn't want to start what I couldn't finish, so I was careful with taking up her responsibilities.

She grudgingly took the 2.5k and merely appreciated it. Lol.
In about a week's time, she visited, and as usual was Hungry. She said she wanted jollof rice. I had rice and ingredients, all she needed was fish, meat, or so. So I gave her 2k in cash to get meat, fish, or both. She rejected the money that it was too small. She ended up having noodles and fried eggs. While she was leaving she told me she liked my perfume, and didn't even wait for permission before throwing it into her bag. I wasn't okay with that, but I shrugged it off.


She visited at night on Friday to leave the next day.
In the morning of Saturday, as she was about leaving, she said she was hungry and needed something for breakfast. I had just bought bread and some groceries on Friday. I'm talking about an expensive bread, a quality that she 99% probably hasn't tasted. (and I don't mean this spitefully)
I showed her the tin of milk and milo on the table and asked her to make tea and eat. She refused, claiming she won't enjoy the tea and bread without egg. I persuaded her to manage it like that, that the bread itself was rich and eggs were an unnecessary luxury. She refused to bend and insisted no eggs, no breakfast of tea and bread.
"Okay, no problem, go and buy the eggs"
"With which money? Did you give me any money?" she replied.
Like Seriously?
You want to enjoy luxury that you can't afford? You should have just said you needed food and not a relationship.
You don't think you need a job not a man? I reminded her where and how I met her, how she was eating agege bread and watery tea, one that would fail for Nigerian prisons standard. Now she's suddenly classy

How does it make you feel to put your welfare at the mercies of a fellow adult, when you, as an adult are not handicapped? How do you expect any form of respect when you can't take care of yourself without desperately needing to be in one scamlationship or another?

She flared up and started ranting, saying stuff like "didn't you know you couldn't take care of me before you approached me?" I did my best to calm her down before she pulled down my apartment. When she calmed after ceaseless vituperations and vitriols, I told her the relationship wouldn't survive another hour.
We broke up immediately. Now she's screaming" men are scum" all over WhatsApp and Facebook. That was before I blocked the needy.

I'm not gonna continue. Before we met, you were living, so go on.

englishmart:
I'm too old to tell lies. I have good morals. Thanks in advance.

Jashub:
Hope say you ynash her if not na 2-0 you do

virginprincess:
Nairaland men and their unending lies all just to spite women,mtcheeeeeew.

Crampyblood:
You sabi all this Grammer and you go carry olosho from Mai shayi shop?

Niqqas make una try de level up na

omolasho:
You did fairly.
Howbeit this is the thing, when you take Sex out of a relationship then you have Clarity. You wouldn't need a soothsayer or much prayers to know if the lady is The One or not. 95% of ladies use sex to manipulate and deceive men into a Marriage of Inconvenience

However, when it boils down to you jerkingoff and you get a bitch. Stop coming there to nag the bitch(always hungry, can't afford her hair of 3/3.5k and sleeping over in your room and sexing all night) is this or that because you both knew it's a game of give and take.

Hence, avoid abusing the sacred word; Relationship

Crampyblood:
You sabi all this Grammer and you go carry olosho from Mai shayi shop?

Niqqas make una try de level up na

thymm:
Good morals that lead you to have carnal knowledge of poor hungry girls

My good morals have an elastic limit. It has nothing to do with carnal or spiritual knowledge

Savedday:
Op, you be pure learner. You never know 9ja girls!

All 9ja girls know how to do is scam you with love. They are professional Olosho. All of them.

No matter how they dress or talk, they are all the same

Jennyclay:
Lies Lies Lies.

Pls is it gas, stove or coal pot you used in cooking this lies.