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So I have noticed a few things recently, I look like I’m better than every of my neighbors and I am starting to feel too comfortable and targeted.

On most occasions it feels like people are out to get me, you can tell by their attitude that they feel like I’m acting better than them all because of how I dress and live. It’s the being a king in a village where everyone is barely able to afford a three square meal.

It wasn’t always like this as I was once like them, barely able to feed myself but God smiled upon me and my living conditions have drastically improved. I can come out wearing an original moisannite diamond worth more than 200k and that’s just a bracelet and if im in the midst of people who are drinking Chelsea dry gin they look at me like either a bank to fulfill their desires or a proud person who’s showing off to them , meanwhile im just living my best life since im getting old anyways, it’s either I wear diamond now before it’s too late, over 30 years and counting. But my environment is not making my life any easier. Im in the trenches of delta if you want to know.

I’m battling with relocating but I’m wondering if I should make a move all based off living with the elites of Lagos lekki area as I can comfortably afford to live with them.

Please I need your advice, what do you think?

Remain a king in a village or become a normal person in a city filled with elites?

Nigerians are always angry by default.

They all want a better life and when they see people who lives that life, most of them gets jealous and angry about their own situation which turn to unprovocative hatred.

Right now, u are more like a public nuisance.
I'd advice u to move out of ur environs, at least for ur safety.
BTW, its better to surround urself with people in ur class.

Change your environment by all means

It doesn't really matter if you move or not haters will be haters anywhere any time, even among the elites in the city you might still encounter neighbours will will feel threatened by your status. Best you can do is be yourself and mind how you relate with everyone.

You don't have to move from you state just change your current location if you are fed up of the people around you.

Tokskob2008:
It doesn't really matter if you move or not haters will be haters anywhere any time, even among the elites in the city you might still encounter neighbours will will feel threatened by your status. Best you can do is be yourself and mind how you relate with everyone.

You don't have to move from you state just change your current location if you are fed up of the people around you.

I don’t think people living in lekki will envy me because I’m not really rich, just abit better than average. They will either see me as one of them or even below them. I want to see people that I can envy, in my case I’m the one everyone envies. It doesn’t motivate me, I feel miserable. Sometimes the hate they show affects my mood even.

Alaye split the 10k into 5 places and gift it to the 1st 5 people that did comment on the thread.


Is there anything like best advice ni?

Wealthbrain22:
So I have noticed a few things recently, I look like I’m better than every of my neighbors and I am starting to feel too comfortable and targeted.

On most occasions it feels like people are out to get me, you can tell by their attitude that they feel like I’m acting better than them all because of how I dress and live. It’s the being a king in a village where everyone is barely able to afford a three square meal.

It wasn’t always like this as I was once like them, barely able to feed myself but God smiled upon me and my living conditions have drastically improved. I can come out wearing an original moisannite diamond worth more than 200k and that’s just a bracelet and if im in the midst of people who are drinking Chelsea dry gin they look at me like either a bank to fulfill their desires or a proud person who’s showing off to them , meanwhile im just living my best life since im getting old anyways, it’s either I wear diamond now before it’s too late, over 30 years and counting. But my environment is not making my life any easier. Im in the trenches of delta if you want to know.

I’m battling with relocating but I’m wondering if I should make a move all based off living with the elites of Lagos lekki area as I can comfortably afford to live with them.

Please I need your advice, what do you think?

Remain a king in a village or become a normal person in a city filled with elites?

Follow your heart and mind with focus

Don't think of re-locating now.

All of us are not going to last long hence there is every need to enjoy your life each day. Why did i say so?

1 the people at your present location are below you hence you can always get what you want around you easily. You are like a king here and that feeling alone should give you joy cos you are more favoured by God than others around you.

2 Moving to a high class enviroment has a price. If you did not fortified yourself well, you may come back empty handed cos people that live in posh areas are sometimes evil. They can bring you down bro

3 Rich are very jealous, they don't want another person below the radder to overtake them. That means a new posh enviroment will attract many enemies more than your present location.

4 The people in your village may be jealous but may not have the means to bring you down.




In a nutshell, stay where you are and develop untill it becomes necessary to relocate due to your engagements

Relocate only and if you truly want to. Don't relocate because you feel targeted in your current location.

Witches, wizards and haters dey everywhere. Dem go still enter their jet come meet you anywhere you dey for this earth.

Dem fly go meet one guy for UK and dem deport him black asss back to base for killing a parrot in UK. No be juju be that?
That news hit nairaland front page.