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An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by setobaba: 9:58pm On Oct 27, 2019
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by logohaven1: 10:06pm On Oct 27, 2019
:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by subtlemee(f): 10:10pm On Oct 27, 2019
She's expecting you to react so ignore her let her be disappointed

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Sonfethopia: 10:10pm On Oct 27, 2019
Dont post her nude. She still isn't over you and wants to flirt with u but I advise u don't accept she might set u up with rape or so.

Ignore her completely.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Rednaxelot: 10:18pm On Oct 27, 2019
logohaven1:
:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?
so you still believe some of the fables posted here on nairaland?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Kaeboy(m): 10:24pm On Oct 27, 2019
Keep the evidence then ignore her. That's exactly what she wants, your reaction. If she continues then send her the nude then don't reply anything she say after grin

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Otisker(m): 10:25pm On Oct 27, 2019
She is in severe pains, ignore her!

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Originalsly: 10:34pm On Oct 27, 2019
Kaeboy:


......If she continues then send her the nude then ......


.........ask..... do you really want to trend?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by setobaba: 10:38pm On Oct 27, 2019
logohaven1:
:oGeez. Which kind of heartless human being is that one na?

Or is that one part of healing during a breakup too?
This is serious bro, you may want to view this

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Offpoint: 10:56pm On Oct 27, 2019
Guys stop dating psychos

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by setobaba: 11:02pm On Oct 27, 2019
Offpoint:
Guys stop dating psychos
How would one know they are psychos until you date one?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by futurerex: 11:05pm On Oct 27, 2019
Are you not resting in peace after the breakup?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Offpoint: 11:07pm On Oct 27, 2019
setobaba:
How would one know they are psychos until you date one?
Test them... they can't hide it forever.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by chigoizie7(m): 11:10pm On Oct 27, 2019
Whatever you did to that girl to be so bitter by doing such. I am so sorry to say but she deserved it

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by luminouz(m): 11:21pm On Oct 27, 2019
setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.


Pls lalasticalala help on this.
Mumu men with their wailings and boring posts!

Whatever stopped you from uploading her own on IG and tagging RIP. Do you really need to create a thread asking what to do?

This is sincerely becoming irritating of the men here!

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Bigflamie(m): 12:37am On Oct 28, 2019
''She once threatened two of my ex via social media''.

Dude stop living this kinda careless lifestyle it doesn't pay, anyway experience will teach you in a hard way if you don't get yourself together.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by kingxsamz(m): 1:10am On Oct 28, 2019
Guy, just ignore, she'll probably die from lack of attention.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Prideofthelion: 3:32am On Oct 28, 2019
Two of ur exes?..a student shocked....
Go to court...justice will also become ur ex....
A smart lawyer will argue that she didn't say rest in peace dead man
Bydway, see the kind of cocoanut head ur dealing with..see what she's writing ..."what a great lost"...mtchewww....o' boy focus on ur studies..engage in some huzzles, make some cash and ameliorate the heavy burdens for ur parents who are struggling day and night, starving themselves to train u in this peculiar country with horrible economic atmospheric temperature..

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by J111333(m): 3:39am On Oct 28, 2019
Send her the "rip pics" just to let her know you saw it and don't say another word.
Be wary of that girl, she may wanna hurt you real bad someday. Watch your back and make sure you keep tabs on her for now.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 5:57am On Oct 28, 2019
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by paulsir: 6:06am On Oct 28, 2019
EmptyCoconutHead:
wait till she's engage and is ready for marriage, then create a fake account, message her with her nude and tell her to pay a certain amount of money or else you will release it to her prospective groom and his family and if she doesn't u then release it publicly and Tag all her Facebook friends along
You are a wicked brother

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by zed7: 6:26am On Oct 28, 2019
Maturity is when you can be the bigger person. Let it go but just send her a message that you wouldn't tolerate such again.
The worst thing that can happen to anyone in a relationship is to be with a bitter and insecure person. It's a terrible experience which I have once experienced. Never hesitate to break up with such a person. Negative energy abounds in such relationships which is very unhealthy for the sane person.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by rOsy247(f): 6:41am On Oct 28, 2019
If the story is true, send her a message telling her that if she tries it again you'll upload her nude everywhere online. Tell her your eyes are on her.

I feel pity for her tho, she's hurting.


By the way, move away from where she can trace you o cos there is possibility that she can harm you.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by GreenArrow1(m): 6:56am On Oct 28, 2019
"Course mate?" This wan Na children gist. Abeg who can direct me to the family section?

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by generationz(f): 7:55am On Oct 28, 2019
You dated someone who spells loss as lost undecided

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by cybriz82(m): 8:18am On Oct 28, 2019
Go n carry ur cross alone abeg.only u with ex,exe,and exes na wa for u ooo.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by Proffdada: 8:57am On Oct 28, 2019
Attempted murder and intent grin












But I feel there are two sides to this story

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:57am On Oct 28, 2019
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.
Firstly,
Whatever you do, never post her nude pic or ever use it against her AT ALL.
It's now an offence that carries jail term!
Be guided.

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Re: An Ex Posted My Picture Tagging It RIP Pls I Need A Legal Or Best Advice by iamapplord(m): 8:57am On Oct 28, 2019
Bb

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