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E be like say the gal get psycho problem that comes and go

Bradford111:
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Emeka Japan and Edu Malaysia are in town ...that's why she broke up with you.

Bradford111:
Waking up this morning I texted my gal but was surprised to be replied with a “let’s end it” text was trying to ask her what the matter was but she didn’t explain..
So I accepted my fate, she doesn’t know I got her as a friend or TikTok so I chatted her on TikTok and got her to tell with what the issue was…
She told me on TikTok about she suspecting me to be talking with girls on my WhatsApp and she has ego issues
That she hates apologizing as she is not used to that but being with me she always apologizes when she is wrong that it’s hurts her…
I wanted to try and beg her for we to come back but hearing this thing from her has killed my thoughts of that
Am thinking of taking back the phone i bought for her and move on as is almost the starting for a new year
Am I doing the right thing
Please I need advices from my learned people here


I will upload screenshots of our conversations

You just have to let the phone go because she won't give it to you
She may claim that you have been sleeping with her

Just ignore her and move on
Dont be surprise she will come back to look for you

By then you will be the one doing the shakara

That girl loves you but she is afraid. No matter what don't leave her

This is a shit test and unfortunately, OP has failed.
From the way your girl types, she probably has some form of "mental disorder" she may or may not be aware of.

Why will a girl ask for breakup? Do you know the reason? It's because you're no longer valuable in her eyes, either she wants to stay alone, got some nigga she just met and wants to explore with or she wants to shit test you, any other reasons are derivatives of these three reasons above.

Op, you don't know what to do because you've been spellbound.
Do you want to marry her? I'll advise you shouldn't because the red flags are numerous!

She has ego issues, jealousy issues ( you know the funny thing about ladies is that they chat with multiple guys or allow multiple guys flirt with them but they want their boyfriends to be chatting with only them, (set awon werey, iku pa gbogbo yin!), She finds it difficult to apologize (this is a strong issue o) and these are few of the red flags.

When a girl initiates breakfast, 95% of the time, she's ready to change ships (if she's not already in one sef) or she wants to monkey branch.

You're confused Op because you've invested some resources into her already, it Will bite you in your skin to let it all slide!
All this bullshit about relationship doesn't make you happy, don't buy it. Why can't you create your own happiness?

In summary, enjoy your breakfast and be free as a bird, love yourself, engage multiple ladies, be the price, let ladies be taking care of you (if you want), don't just be centered on one lady alone except you've vetted her and she's worth it!

Yes, and always remember, she's not your girl, she's for the street. There are many things about her that you don't know yet!

Op leave the girl and move on. Let the phone be one of those things you invested in her life.

See as he saved her name with My Love. Change it to Our Love. Maybe Our Love don jam another guy .. She will certainly bring up excuses to make you be at fault, even if she was the one at fault .

frozen70:
You just have to let the phone go because she won't give it to you
She may claim that you have been sleeping with her

Just ignore her and move on
Dont be surprise she will come back to look for you

By then you will be the one doing the shakara

I can't let that phone go no matter what

Bradford111:
I can't let that phone go no matter what

Ok naw, collect it after all its a gift

Bradford111:
I don't understand what you are saying

You will understand later my friend.

Sebi it's the same girl you said you want to leave in your previous thread,?


Na the phone collection issue dey na, if she doesn't give you nko, whose name is on the receipt?

You better don't be violent, don't let devil use you, next time know what you can afford to buy for next gf

lereinter:
Sebi it's the same girl you said you want to leave in your previous thread,?


Na the phone collection issue dey na, if she doesn't give you nko, whose name is on the receipt?

You better don't be violent, don't let devil use you, next time know what you can afford to buy for next gf

My name is on the receipt

SPAMBOX7:
Shit test shit test. Op don fall yakata. Power about to change hands and balls about to be squashed

Omo this is one of the greatest mistake I made..
I was too reactive..
Chaaiii...d thing dey pain me till now
Anyway, I never get sense that time

dontrulee:
This is a shit test and unfortunately, OP has failed.
From the way your girl types, she probably has some form of "mental disorder" she may or may not be aware of.

Why will a girl ask for breakup? Do you know the reason? It's because you're no longer valuable in her eyes, either she wants to stay alone, got some nigga she just met and wants to explore with or she wants to shit test you, any other reasons are derivatives of these three reasons above.

Op, you don't know what to do because you've been spellbound.
Do you want to marry her? I'll advise you shouldn't because the red flags are numerous!

She has ego issues, jealousy issues ( you know the funny thing about ladies is that they chat with multiple guys or allow multiple guys flirt with them but they want their boyfriends to be chatting with only them, (set awon werey, iku pa gbogbo yin!), She finds it difficult to apologize (this is a strong issue o) and these are few of the red flags.

When a girl initiates breakfast, 95% of the time, she's ready to change ships (if she's not already in one sef) or she wants to monkey branch.

You're confused Op because you've invested some resources into her already, it Will bite you in your skin to let it all slide!
All this bullshit about relationship doesn't make you happy, don't buy it. Why can't you create your own happiness?

In summary, enjoy your breakfast and be free as a bird, love yourself, engage multiple ladies, be the price, let ladies be taking care of you (if you want), don't just be centered on one lady alone except you've vetted her and she's worth it!

Bradford111 listen to this man.
I pass through what he said.
The bolded is what you should take seriously.

Bradford111:
My name is on the receipt

Hmmm!

You heard a premonition

Bradford111:
Waking up this morning I texted my gal but was surprised to be replied with a “let’s end it” text was trying to ask her what the matter was but she didn’t explain..
So I accepted my fate, she doesn’t know I got her as a friend or TikTok so I chatted her on TikTok and got her to tell with what the issue was…
She told me on TikTok about she suspecting me to be talking with girls on my WhatsApp and she has ego issues
That she hates apologizing as she is not used to that but being with me she always apologizes when she is wrong that it’s hurts her…
I wanted to try and beg her for we to come back but hearing this thing from her has killed my thoughts of that
Am thinking of taking back the phone i bought for her and move on as is almost the starting for a new year
Am I doing the right thing
Please I need advices from my learned people here


I will upload screenshots of our conversations

dopamine trigger simps

You even went to buy her phone?

SPAMBOX7:
Shit test shit test. Op don fall yakata. Power about to change hands and balls about to be squashed

Op na confirm learner. He would have ignored her for good one month chai! she don see op finish. One girl blocked me on Nov 11 after a sweet conversation the previous night, I rushed straight to one bar collect 1 bottle of Desperados drink first. As I dey drink wetin I day hear for my head is "no more billing, no more billing" na so I smiled and left her. I tried her number on Christmas day, omo she don unblock me o, she immediately called back na so I use her airtime wish her "happy xmas" From intels from one woman close to her, the woman said she no dey happy this xmas and she was so unkept.

cc thegidredpiller this brother needs help before it's too late

That is them they are very saucy and rude, they cant apologize when they are wrong all of dem na fish brain dem get absolutely notin de inside full of shakara and empty useless life

Bradford111:
What should I do please?

Bros let her go. Have seen her types before and there's absolutely nothing you can do.

You're feeling insecure hence you Went and started chatting her on all platforms (even hiding your identity). Bros, a real man Won't bother replying her let's break up message, he'll ignore her ass and only call her up when he wants to bang her pussy.

However, oga why on earth would you buy a Nigerian girl a phone? Is she your wife? Are you her father? I'm sure you bought her that Phone because you thought you're the only banging her pussy? This is exactly the problem I have With you simps!

Oga collect your phone back and let her go. I think you're the nice guy type, hence she feels extremely vulnerable to have you. Bros, na bad boys and yahoo boys wey go destroyed her life with crazy adventures she dey find. You better let her go. I have seen her type a lot. Let her go but make sure you collect your phone back.