I will have to go straight to the point.

The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.

Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.

The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.

Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.

Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day.

another heart break... Bro leave the girl and continue with ur life... Simple

Apply common sense biko

Pele


I have witnessed first hand how the son of men and the daughters of eve commit this travesty in God's house. And it is common with the members of the choir * especially the youth choir in some quarters.

My advice is break things up now....

Lol.

My brother, I can fully assure you of one thing.


It will end in tears.

Just take your time... Think it through... Whatever decision you make I am in full support....

DanseMacabre:
Lol.

My brother, I can fully assure you of one thing.


It will end in tears.

Lol... Premium tears my brother, Premium Lager tears..

She kissed and romanced two different guys within 3 hours... Na that one shock you

If you truly love someone, you can't forgive and accept them back when they cheat on you. Never refriend a b!tch that once betrayed your love.

Do not marry any girl less than 25yrs. That's all I know. At that age, they are yet to understand what and how their body works.

There are girls who are less than 25 and good but what's their number and what are the chances that you will meet one of them. After series of heartbreaks, that's when they will develop some level of compliance and make choices between a good guy and a Bleep boy

You're still thinking, continue thinking, when you finish thinking, we'll start our own thinking

DanseMacabre:
Lol.

My brother, I can fully assure you of one thing.


It will end in tears.

firat class tears bro... One thing I always tell my guys is that; people especially adults don't change

My brother I will advice you quite the relationship so that you won't regret in marriage

In case you still refuse to learn or hear word





W.O.N.M.A. do


It's rare to find a girl who doesn't cheat this days, the table is turning girls are becoming the players. That's why I don't Do the dating game.

maybe your dick game is wack

try doing kegels and control the way you breathe during sex

one more thing, she is still in her hoeing phase

Ezennwa:



Anyways, I doubt this story sha

Keep your doubts for your doctor when next he shows you your COVID-19 results.

u are thinking of quitting LMAO

Op, call it off immediately....... She has no regards whatsoever for you or the relationship you so cherish.
She's doing this now, its never going to stop after you guys get married. She's still in her best years and will always experiment when the chance comes up.
I said so


Receive my Peace

Ezennwa:
hmm!

Sin is more than turning our backs on God, it is turning our backs on life, Immorality is much more than adultery and dishonesty, it is living drab, colorless, dreary, stale, unimaginative lives.

Without moral progress, stimulated by faith in God, immorality in all its forms will proliferate and strangle goodness and human decency.

Mankind will not be able to fully express the potential nobility of the human soul unless faith in God is strengthened.


Anyways, I doubt this story sha

My brother i pray you don't find your self in this situation ...ever

This op no serous, u are still thinking of quiting.

heykims:
This op no serous, u are still thinking of quiting.

Please let him think. Even prostitutes do marry.

The way everybody just dey cheat these days esp girls ehhhh, plenty girls go remain unmarried...Both the unfaithful ones yet to marry and the married adulterers... Baby mama go full everywhere and HIV go increase (cos that your shy girlfriend you think is faithful, when she go wan cheat she no go tell the guy to wear condom because she's shy.. It will just happen). Trust is too expensive mehn. Fear women, missionary wife don ever open pussy for me but I dodge that bullet, she insult me say I no be man (insult pain me die but I happy for my decision)

Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

CC:

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy

I guess she was just window-shopping.

all the 22 year old to chop life small abeg

You needed an advice bah.... Op marry her u hear..... idiots will be looking 4 answer nd solution to thr prob wen dey knw wat 2 do... mtchew.

This is what happens when you pardon and accept a woman who cheats. You are only giving her the go-ahead to do more.

Once a woman cheats on you, forget it. She will always think she can get away with it.

You should have terminated the relationship the first time you caught her.

Is it too hard to break up with an unfaithful partner? Dem no tie you put for there o bros, leave her, nurse the pains of a break up and continue with your life please.

I know its not easy to let go,most especially when you invested in it(the relationship) so much.

I will advice you to let her go to the choir boy,because if she really love and respects you,she won't love another guy.. Imagine she cheating on you,while in your hux,eating your food,using ur pef ,and you also using your energy/skills to make her cum. The truth is ,if you still marry her ,your driver/gateman will doggy style her in your house,when you travel for biz...

That your girlfriend is wicked.. Op run for your life.. Is better not to marry ,than to marry what will cut your life short..

baba here's a piece of advice.

any woman that you haven't pay her Dowry you don't have right over her, if e vex you go pay her bride price and have her.

Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

CC:

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy

are you really asking us if you should quit ?you should flee from that relationship..its so toxic and a lot is afloat that you don't know ..first and foremost she's a sex addict,she has high sexual libido you don't want to leave with a girl like that ,she can Bleep anything AnD everything when you are away and this things has high implications to a mans life and his children ..if you continue the warth of God will surely visit you and you can't wit stand it ..how can a girl make love in the church ..it shows how irresponsible she is .abeg ooo..a girl you make love to in less than 3 hours is still not OK for that day..just imagine one week ,she go rape person .

Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

CC:

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy

For those reading comments, sorry for quoting the entire post. OP! Did you see the text I emboldened? Your answer lies there.