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Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 4:49pm On Jun 03, 2018
You wanna use the baby for rituals grin
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op):
wapu:
Honestly I'll turn you down if it's my decision to make.

With the rate of child abuse in this world, I don't trust anyone anymore.

Get married and adopt or have yours.

Hahaha, trust me, I am going to treat the child so well that if I don't tell people that she is adopted, they will never know, I am going to give this child the best the world has to offer. And besides they said they will be coming from time to time to check on her and that's if my application is successful.

And about getting married LOL, that is not my priority list and like I said earlier, I don't do baby mamas...

Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 5:25pm On Jun 03, 2018
Pipedreams:
You wanna use the baby for rituals grin
Lol, I knew it was just a matter of time before a comment like this comes up, well I don't blame you one bit, we are in Nigeria where a lot of ignorant fellow thinks one can get rich through some fetish means.

Now ask yourself this question, if the gods are half as potent as people claim, do you think that the British would have defeated and colonize Nigeria and other African countries who hold such superstitious beliefs..
Use ur brain, it's not there for fancy... tongue
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 3:59am On Jun 09, 2018
TMTR:

Hahaha, trust me, I am going to treat the child so well that if I don't tell people that she is adopted, they will never know, I am going to give this child the best the world has to offer. And besides they said they will be coming from time to time to check on her and that's if my application is successful.

And about getting married LOL, that is not my priority list and like I said earlier, I don't do baby mamas...

It's quite a long process especially in Lagos State. I advise you apply outside Lagos State.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by emadamysy: 6:54pm On Jun 09, 2018
Please write if your application was successful. Want to know the process involved and cost. Looking at doing this
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
TMTR:
I rarely have time for myself not to talk of having the time to volunteer at an orphanage home that's why I want to adopt.
How will u take care of an infant when u don't have time for yourself? You must think raising a child equals raising a dog or cat?? Go buy a puppy or a kitten if u that lonely.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by adamapple: 8:28am On Jun 10, 2018
TMTR:
Thanks for your inputs but why do you suggest a boy child cause I have a girl child in mind to adopt..
As a single man, u won't b given a female child bcs of wats goin on dese days. U can only b given a female child if u r gay (America) or mayb u hv money or influence (Naija)
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by adamapple: 8:36am On Jun 10, 2018
TMTR:
I rarely have time for myself not to talk of having the time to volunteer at an orphanage home that's why I want to adopt.
U wil hv 2 find tym. U nid 2 kip goin 2d orphanage at least 1nce a month 4 6 months to 1 yr 2 visit d children & buy stuff 4 dem. U nid 2 connect wit d children den cari out any project in d orphanage. Adoptin a child is a long & tedious process evn 4 couples nt 2 talk of a single man lyk u. Xcept u want a child frm all dose shady orphanages. 1 baby dre is 600k. Twins 1.2 milla. I ran faster dan my legs cud cari me. Ur choice anyway
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:15pm On Jun 12, 2018
grin

So i can't adopt as well coz i am not married?

Here's the thing, how about find a mother who got plenty of kids and cannot raise for another one or a young girl who prefer to abort the child?

Coz this is what i am thinking..

1. Look for someone who is pregnant but willing to give up the child..
2. Approach that mother that u will shoulder all the expenses from pre-natal, meds, labor & extra bonus once the baby is born.
3. Make sure u are there in every check-up/doc appointment.
4. Once the baby is due, buy all those things the baby needs from clothes to crib to tons of diapers..
5.Once the baby is ready for the registration, make sure it is YOU will fill up the form.

I have a friend who did this exactly..
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jun 12, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin

So i can't adopt as well coz i am not married?

Here's the thing, how about find a mother who got plenty of kids and cannot raise for another one or a young girl who prefer to abort the child?

Coz this is what i am thinking..

1. Look for someone who is pregnant but willing to give up the child..
2. Approach that mother that u will shoulder all the expenses from pre-natal, meds, labor & extra bonus once the baby is born.
3. Make sure u are there in every check-up/doc appointment.
4. Once the baby is due, buy all those things the baby needs from clothes to crib to tons of diapers..
5.Once the baby is ready for the registration, make sure it is YOU will fill up the form.

I have a friend who did this exactly..
Its way easier getting pregnant i think
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:31pm On Jun 12, 2018
dairykidd:
Its way easier getting pregnant i think
grin


Not everyone can bear a child my friend wink

I will adopt as well but i will do that once i reach my last goal in life grin

My time is ticking here in Asia.. cheesy
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jun 12, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin


Not everyone can bear a child my friend wink

I will adopt as well but i will do that once i reach my last goal in life grin

My time is ticking here in Asia.. cheesy
Are u serious.. About not being able to bear a child embarassed
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by QueenSuccubus(f): 2:38pm On Jun 12, 2018
dairykidd:
Are u serious.. About not being able to bear a child embarassed
grin

Me no yarn about kids ooo..
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jun 12, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
grin

Me no yarn about kids ooo..
Lolzz okay
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by WoundedLamb: 4:59pm On Sep 07, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
c its not only nigeria dear.even western countries no matter your sexuality,dey want two people in a partnership esp marraige . its poor countries like ethopia DAT bend d rules becos she get money And was helping the children. Its he LPs d child to not rely solely on u,but there is anoda help In d life of the child..backyard adoption is easier but too risky . jail time sef if things go south
This is so not true.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Xinyi: 4:36pm On Jan 04, 2023
Please who is looking for a baby to adopt....
4-5months old pregnancy...
The person have been trying to abort but am doing my best to talk her out of it.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by shantti(m): 4:48pm On Jan 04, 2023
TMTR:
Una sha must find something negative to talk,, not everybody has a dirty mind like you, like WTF you insinuating, like just the thought of it makes me sick and for you to think that way.
You must be sick upstairs

What's wrong with people of the world, ffs
stop throwing tantrums, this is a very valid question that was asked to u sir. why do u as a SINGLE GUY want a girl child over a boy child. why? Any feasible reason? Can u alllow ur beloved little daughter to live with an unmarried male stranger?
i dont think any ophanage will consent to ur strange request. Even if u r not a pedophile, the ophanage has no way of verifying it, hence they will want to save their girl children by not giving any to u
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by shantti(m): 4:53pm On Jan 04, 2023
the only reasonable thing for u to do is to get married and have your own baby.
if u dont want to marry now, then exercise some patience about wanting a child.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by TMTR(op): 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2023
Why are you bleating like a he-goat on heat all over my thread, for your info you should check the update to this thread on my profile,

Na by force to marry


shantti:
the only reasonable thing for u to do is to get married and have your own baby.
if u dont want to marry now, then exercise some patience about wanting a child.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by finegirl233: 10:06pm On Jan 04, 2023
mimimile93:
Op go to ministry of women affairs or orphanage homes. They will tell you what to do. Make sure you adopt a boy child.
I am also looking that way.
OP listen to advice. i wish you goodluck.

This is a old thread. I comment before i saw the date. So op, were you successful?
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Meandmycrew(f): 10:07pm On Jan 04, 2023
Are you now with the child you seek?
TMTR:
Why are you bleating like a he-goat on heat all over my thread, for your info you should check the update to this thread on my profile,

Na by force to marry
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by FalseProphet1(m): 11:14pm On Jan 04, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
Come and adopt me. I'm still a baby. tongue
Come let me adopt you... wink
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:54am On Jan 05, 2023
FalseProphet1:
Come let me adopt you... wink
I'll frustrate your life.
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Adaisback(f): 12:55pm On Jan 05, 2023
Oya, come and adopt me biko grin
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by BaddestQueen(f): 1:06pm On Jan 05, 2023
Adaisback:
Oya, come and adopt me biko grin
let me adopt you biko
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by Adaisback(f): 1:11pm On Jan 05, 2023
BaddestQueen:
let me adopt you biko
I said 'adopt' not someone to impregnate me
Re: I Want To Adopt A Child by BaddestQueen(f): 1:12pm On Jan 05, 2023
Adaisback:
I said 'adopt' not someone to impregnate me
Hahahahaha cheesy
you're very funny
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