₦airaland Forum

FavouredNK:
Why are you talking as if the only reason women goes into relationships is for their bills to be paid by the man? Relationship is not all about one person depending on the other for financial responsibilities, stop basing your relationship only for the financial gain rather than genuine love and affection. People like you are the reason Nairaland guys generalize insults on Nigerian ladies. Pls add more value to urself and the rest of other ladies out there.

pretydiva:
But na wa for you oo. Shey na him born the girl ni? Does she not have parents? Is she handicap? So what does the girl bring in return??

aktolly54:
nobody expect anything in return but they don't have a good heart and quick to forget things. If you give your guy 5k and give a female friend 5k and compare how both go respond . you will know girls don't fancy things because someone somewhere will give her 10x of what you give her

onyeego:
Giving actually makes you to never lack.
The way the faces of people who are in need lights up with joy when you render help to them is always delightfully blissful.
I am not being religious but ever since I started giving many years ago I've only increased financially.
Just beware of those who will manipulate and turn you into their cash cow, there are those who will also think that you stupid.

Lastly, give only what you can afford to give without grudge.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

HydraFeeds:
Give but give with sense because a tree doesn’t make forest and we all need help once in a while . Don’t listen to anyone that says giving doesn’t make you poor. People don’t really care about you but their own skin . The hype you’re getting is because they’re getting from you but the moment there’s nothing more from you ,they will kick you . Cut off all friends that are parasites they should go and hustle for money if it’s easy,most of the people that asking too much from you won’t give you if the role is reversed.

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

SenatePresdo:
I love giving.
But the problem is, when you give someone all the time, the very first time you will refuse to give them, they will forget all the ones you have given them and start forming attitude.

It annoys my soul!

Napata77:
You are a miserly, wicked, selfish, shallow, and wretched fool.

Pray your business doesn't collapse one day, and you are forced to beg somebody for assistance.

And I pray you get treated the way you are asking those who have a lot of money to treat those who don't have.

WICKED DEVIL.

If you don't want to help people in need, that is your choice, but don't come online telling rich people not to give poor folks money. THAT IS SATANIC.

What if some rich guy read your comment, and was about to help his young nephew with a business loan, or his friend with treatment for a sick relative, and then decides NOT TO DO ANY OF THAT based on this evil vomit you typed, do you realise you will get your KARMA for ruining other people's lives?

You need to check yourself. Stupid idiot.

pretydiva:
But na wa for you oo. Shey na him born the girl ni? Does she not have parents? Is she handicap? So what does the girl bring in return??

onyeego:
I can relate, people have this attachment they develop towards any source that guarantees their survival,this attachment grows overtime into entitlement.
Any attempt to separate them from the source is always resisted.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

blaquebelle:
Stingy person don drop quote

What you don't realise is that the more you help people, the more doors will be open for you. Because an answer to your prayers is an answer to many people's prayers. It's good to cultivate the habit of giving, especially for people who really need it. You will reap the blessings, as long as your hustle is legit oo.
And never forget that even you would need help from someone else eventually.
Stay blessed.

Goodmarlian:
When your rich uncle or friend refuse to give you that money you are asking for, don't blame them. Sometimes it is not their fault.

You see this Nigeria, once people notice you have little change they will never let you rest everybody will be asking you for favour both boys and girls. The more people you help the more others get the information and still come to you for financial assistance.

Take me for example, I am not rich I am just hustling inside campus. I run a POS business, a business I started with just 30k.

Because people see that I deal with cash, they believe I have a lot of money. There is no day someone doesn't ask me for one favour or the other. If it is not buy me food, it is I need tfare, can I get 5k ,10k ,15k. Ladies try so hard to manipulate me into doing their bidding. If I don't oblige, they call me stingy, akagum etc,it is just so annoying.

This 2023 I want to have very little but reasonable friends. In fact i don't even want to have a girlfriend so I can grow my business to the next level.

People will nearly beg you back into poverty, be wise, hide yourself.

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

12fruits:
Then what will the lady bring to the table?

Jennyclay:
You're indeed a stingy man... so you don't want a girlfriend because you don't want to spend on her .


Incase you don't know, no lady would want to stay with a stingy man.... so if you are avoiding ladies because of common billing, you will still spend when you eventually want a girlfriend. You can't escape it. Keep running!

Biko, this is a new year, you men should learn to spend on your girlfriend/wife. Don't tight your hands.

Akagum!

AFONJAPIG:
Am just tired .. only this December alone I bought 8 phones to relatives, it didn't end there, Christmas gifts are sure, even as u cry to them your on life support they don't give a fuccck.. I'm even becoming afraid of opening my WhatsApp messages due to relatives.. if man Continue this way, person go kpai just like that

emmaodet:
Funny enough, if you die today, people who have been calling frantically for your help and acting as if they will die if you don’t send that money any moment will somehow surprisingly survive and life will move on quietly as nothing has happened
Me, I no fit kill myself for anybody again

Example- I have an app I do record all my daily spendings on.
From the attached picture, I sent money to this man 4 times last year yet he has started asking me for money again. Just 5 weeks after and I have more than 20 of him asking me for money regularly.
In December I gave out over 200k to family and friends despite managing myself.
November more than 300k and October over a million all these despite not working since October and no income coming in, just spending spending spending.
Have transferred his contact to my archive straight.

Rememberdeath:
I had 1.7 million last year October. I spent 1.3 on billing from people. When I calculated it I nearly cried. I am broke again in 2023. If you dey give too much, you will be back to poverty. Rich Men that gives only give from their excesses. Don't inconvenience your self .. all these bullshits that givers never lack na bullshit. Those that don't lack are already rich. They can never go broke again even if they don't give. Don't give out the money you supoose to use to build your future. I am terribly regretting my actions like this.

emmaodet:
Funny enough, if you die today, people who have been calling frantically for your help and acting as if they will die if you don’t send that money any moment will somehow surprisingly survive and life will move on quietly as nothing has happened
Me, I no fit kill myself for anybody again

Example- I have an app I do record all my daily spendings on.
From the attached picture, I sent money to this man 4 times last year yet he has started asking me for money again. Just 5 weeks after and I have more than 20 of him asking me for money regularly.
In December I gave out over 200k to family and friends despite managing myself.
November more than 300k and October over a million all these despite not working since October and no income coming in, just spending spending spending.
Have transferred his contact to my archive straight.