Samantha123:
Shut up!!!

Sigh!!! Obviosuly, I've ve done something wrong... we dont know each other enough even fight....if i've offended u....its not intentional..... so i sincerely apologize

Silent treatment and stop eating her food, as a form of protest.

U better take dis issue very serious. It's really a strong negative sign. Blatant disregard to ur authority in dat manner is so so wrong. At least she wud have tried to convince u for ur approval. Is it that her journey is more important than her husband and marriage? This is a reflection of lack of respect for her husband and value for her marriage. Take this matter very serious Oga. U can tell her u wanna end the marriage and watch her reaction. Cos apparently she does not even care.

Rechargeam247:

She works, she has businesses. The children are in the university.

She isn't cheating, just disrespectful.

really? and u want advice from young couples? How have you been getting her to apologize all dis while cuz I doubt if this is the first time she disobeyed Ur order.

Saintmary:




If you're not cheating on her, and she's not cheating on you, the only solution is to hold your peace.


If you need someone to flex your muscles on, face your kids.



At that age, you shouldn't even think of controlling your wife. She has sacrificed so much to give your kids a stable childhood, the least you could do is let her have some peace in her life at this stage.


She didn't steal money, she didn't beat your Mom, she only attended a party, why are you looking for trouble where there's none?

You obviously don't have a father in your life.You won't be spouting nonsense if you had.You sound like a teenager.

Saintmary:



Why don't you lock her up in the house?


This woman has kids in the university, so she will be above 40. She has her own businesses, a fully matured elderly woman.


You want to be ordering her around like a 16 year old?


You people are not ready.

So the fact she has a business,above 40 and has kids in the university gives her the right to disrespect her husband


Women will neve have sense.So if I am a man and I am 50,I have kids in the university and i am wealthy.
If u want to go out ,i shouldn't inform my wife or explain to her the reason I need to go If she doesn't want me to.

Women can't handle power or money, they will burn everything to the ground .So it mean you won't have respect again.


MEN MARRY WOMEN WHO RESPECT YOU.WOMEN DON'T LOVE MEN.THEY ONLY RESPECT YOU

Amasimichael:
U better take dis issue very serious. It's really a strong negative sign. Blatant disregard to ur authority in dat manner is so so wrong. At least she wud have tried to convince u for ur approval. Is it that her journey is more important than her husband and marriage? This is a reflection of lack of respect for her husband and value for her marriage. Take this matter very serious Oga. U can tell her u wanna end the marriage and watch her reaction. Cos apparently she does not even care.

He shouldn't threaten her with divorce.He should scale back and observe her well after communicating his feelings.Then if there is no improvement,he should divorce her straight up.

jimmychang:


So the fact she has a business,above 40 and has kids in the university gives her the right to disrespect her husband


Women will neve have sense.So if I am a man and I am 50,I have kids in the university and i am wealthy.
If u want to go out ,i shouldn't inform my wife or explain to her the reason I need to go If she doesn't want me to.

Women can't handle power or money, they will burn everything to the ground .So it mean you won't have respect again.


MEN MARRY WOMEN WHO RESPECT YOU.WOMEN DON'T LOVE MEN.THEY ONLY RESPECT YOU

You were so much in a hurry you just pulled out a response from your anus.



You didn't bother to read the original post properly, neither did you understand my response.


You didn't see the part where the man said his wife informed him about the event before attending.


You just want to vent your frustrations on someone abi

jimmychang:



You obviously don't have a father in your life.You won't be spouting nonsense if you had.You sound like a teenager.

You this ant, what is your problem?


If I have a father, a responsible, honorable man who taught me that you and your types are the kind of men to avoid, how is that your problem?

If your own father never valued your mother, how is that my own problem?


If your mother never stood up for herself and she was treated like a rag by your father and his family, how is that my own problem?


If you cannot get a quality, intelligent woman and all you have is broken, emotionally unstable women who don't know their left from right, how is that my own problem?


Stay in your filthy environment, roll with your dirty low lifers, and maintain your lane, okay?

Saintmary:



You this ant, what is your problem?


If I have a father, a responsible, honorable man who taught me that you and your types are the kind of men to avoid, how is that your problem?

If your own father never valued your mother, how is that my own problem?


If your mother never stood up for herself and she was treated like a rag by your father and his family, how is that my own problem?


If you cannot get a quality, intelligent woman and all you have is broken, emotionally unstable women who don't know their left from right, how is that my own problem?


Stay in your filthy environment, roll with your dirty low lifers, and maintain your lane, okay?

You don't have a father with this above statement I have concluded.The fact that you tell someone before hand doesn't automatically mean you have been given permission.Use your head.

Funny thing is that he has been allowing her go out since without problem.Just this once he has his reservations she disobeyed.Isn't that a red flag to you?(ungrateful)

My mum was humble and submissive and she never remarried again.You see the love and respect.Even in death my dad is respected.

Like is said most women are too emotional and ungrateful.Once they have money their husband becomes their houseboy.Shalom.

Saintmary:



You were so much in a hurry you just pulled out a response from your anus.



You didn't bother to read the original post properly, neither did you understand my response.


You didn't see the part where the man said his wife informed him about the event before attending.


You just want to vent your frustrations on someone abi

I am not frustrated, I was only frustrated at your shallow and slow mindset.Mind you I didn't say backward because I still think you can learn.

Girl calm down and think slowly.

jimmychang:



You don't have a father with this above statement I have concluded.The fact that you tell someone before hand doesn't automatically mean you have been given permission.Use your head.

Funny thing is that he has been allowing her go out since without problem.Just this once he has his reservations she disobeyed.Isn't that a red flag to you?(ungrateful)

My mum was humble and submissive and she never remarried again.You see the love and respect.Even in death my dad is respected.

Like is said most women are too emotional and ungrateful.Once they have money their husband becomes their houseboy.Shalom.

So, your opinion is that women should not have money.


Because you insecure, immature man-babies need someone to rub your fragile ego for you.


It's such a pity that you had to drag such a responsible woman who chose to focus on her children after her husband's demise, and refused to remarry into such an unnecessary online banter, I'm talking about your mother.


Can't you see that you're the ungrateful one?


She sacrificed her financial prospects and the possibility of becoming richer on her own because she didn't want to share you and your siblings for your extended family to turn you to house helps.


She didn't do it because of respect for your dad, she did it for you.



You need to use your brain better, women have the power and right to make choices, and your mother's case is not the same for all women. Some women are fortunate to have money, some chose to struggle to have money, and they end up rich, if you can't swallow the reality, look for a poor woman and marry her jejely.



Stop crying in our ears, pick your type of woman and face front okay?




Now, don't you ever mention my Father anymore unless you want me to change it for you.

Saintmary:



So, your opinion is that women should not have money.


Because you insecure, immature man-babies need someone to rub your fragile ego for you.


It's such a pity that you had to drag such a responsible woman who chose to focus on her children after her husband's demise, and refused to remarry into such an unnecessary online banter, I'm talking about your mother.


Can't you see that you're the ungrateful one?


She sacrificed her financial prospects and the possibility of becoming richer on her own because she didn't want to share you and your siblings for your extended family to turn you to house helps.


She didn't do it because of respect for your dad, she did it for you.



You need to use your brain better, women have the power and right to make choices, and your mother's case is not the same for all women. Some women are fortunate to have money, some chose to struggle to have money, and they end up rich, if you can't swallow the reality, look for a poor woman and marry her jejely.



Stop crying in our ears, pick your type of woman and face front okay?




Now, don't you ever mention my Father anymore unless you want me to change it for you.

Like I said she did it for my dad LOL.she said it herself.You think you know better.You haven't answered my question.If you made money as a wife and you think you are now bigger than your husband then you should divorce him.You don't need to disrespect him at all.

Most Nigerian women aren't submissive,if they have money they will show their true colours.A submissive woman is a woman who has money or can be dangerous and choose not to.She still obeys her husband even if she has the money or capability to go.That is why I date girls who have something going for them lol.

On the part that she suffered and raise the children and bla bla bla.The husband didn't raise the children too right?.She was the one that impregnated herself I guess When she had nothing, didn't he provide for her or sacrifice his time for her and the kids lol.He never said he was irresponsible.She is the ungrateful one.All the times he sweated to provide food on the table is now nothing right?


Who cares if women have money Most times they don't give it to their husbands it is for themselves.While the husbands money is for the family.Some are so stingy that they still ask their husbands for detergent money even if they have millions.

Men like me don't give a Bleep if their wife have money

jimmychang:



Like I said she did it for my dad LOL.she said it herself.You think you know better.You haven't answered my question.If you made money as a wife and you think you are now bigger than your husband then you should divorce him.You don't need to disrespect him at all.

Most Nigerian women aren't submissive,if they have money they will show their true colours.A submissive woman is a woman who has money or can be dangerous and choose not to.She still obeys her husband even if she has the money or capability to go.That is why I date girls who have something going for them lol.

On the part that she suffered and raise the children and bla bla bla.The husband didn't raise the children too right?.She was the one that impregnated herself I guess When she had nothing, didn't he provide for her or sacrifice his time for her and the kids lol.He never said he was irresponsible.She is the ungrateful one.All the times he sweated to provide food on the table is now nothing right?


Who cares if women have money Most times they don't give it to their husbands it is for themselves.While the husbands money is for the family.Some are so stingy that they still ask their husbands for detergent money even if they have millions.

Men like me don't give a Bleep if their wife have money

You will continue to search for submissive women until you realize what you need to do.


Keep wailing.

jimmychang:



Like I said she did it for my dad LOL.she said it herself.You think you know better.You haven't answered my question.If you made money as a wife and you think you are now bigger than your husband then you should divorce him.You don't need to disrespect him at all.

Most Nigerian women aren't submissive,if they have money they will show their true colours.A submissive woman is a woman who has money or can be dangerous and choose not to.She still obeys her husband even if she has the money or capability to go.That is why I date girls who have something going for them lol.

On the part that she suffered and raise the children and bla bla bla.The husband didn't raise the children too right?.She was the one that impregnated herself I guess When she had nothing, didn't he provide for her or sacrifice his time for her and the kids lol.He never said he was irresponsible.She is the ungrateful one.All the times he sweated to provide food on the table is now nothing right?


Who cares if women have money Most times they don't give it to their husbands it is for themselves.While the husbands money is for the family.Some are so stingy that they still ask their husbands for detergent money even if they have millions.

Men like me don't give a Bleep if their wife have money

You will continue in your endless search for submissive women until you realize what you need to do.


Keep wailing.

Saintmary:


You will continue in your endless search for submissive women until you realize what you need to do.


Keep wailing.

I will get a submissive woman definitely no cap.

jimmychang:



I will get a submissive woman definitely no cap.

You mean you will get a dodoyo, okay

Vinnie2000:


You are so OLD FASHIONED and NARROW MINDED,Bro.

Its ur Type that Locks their Wives inside House and Bans them from Using Android Phones.

A Female Colleague Just Quit in our Company because her Husband did Not like her Mingling with Males..
Now She is Complaining of being Broke all the Time.

If You as a Man Treat ur Wife Well and you Fcvk her well in Bedroom, She will NEVER cheat.

Change ur Archaic Mentality, Bro!

Never-Ever Say Never .... But She will Always Come Home Anyway ... Only Personal Resolution Can make a Woman or Man not to Cheat which is Difficult in this New era due to Cute-Beauties Dudes/Gals Everywhere. There is no One fit it All !!

Only Personal Resolution which also requires Battles not to be Broken and breached ... 2023 na ihm we dey !

inspirator1:
He is not sterile, Samantha. Just know their those who know how to bid their time and avoid any form of public shaming. Stories abound where ladies takes drugs immediately after copulation with their husbads; most often is because of a deep seated hurt. He did his test and not sterile even active in service.

To me being romantic is relative in my relationship. My wife loves it when I cook meals especially soup. Take This scenario now..the wife walks in excepting the husband to rant hell fire down, she see a dished meal on the table waiting for her. Aswear, thoughts will run through her heads, some frightening o. Imagine dishing the food and telling her to eat up, that you have done yours earlier.

People like you might not last long ..

Keeping Bitterness inside of You and Pretending like all is Well ....

Me ehn, I will Insult You wellwell and We go shout for each Other's Head .... I would create drama and tell you the hazard of telling you not to go Out ...

The Reverse Psychology Will now Come in like this

"if anything happens to You now You wan turn me to Widower"

You wan turn my Children to Motherless ehn, Which Women Out There can take care of them better than their Mother Ehn ....

You wan Make your Families tell me I use you for Ritual especially that Your Uncle wey get Cone Head wey go dey look me anyhow

Mbaaaa .... This House today no go contain you and I ... Na so I go lock her for Chest .... dey Drag ... na so I go shed crocodile tears small ... we begin Kiss and fvck away my disappointment....

Go again next time ... Another strategy ....

If you no sabi act telemundo and Nollywood... Nigerian Girls wouldn't find you interesting!

There is no one rule fit it all Just study your partner Weaknesses and use it against her without Her knowing and be diversifying laslas .... Show her everything is in her best interests and not your own selfish interest ...

Once You Lock Her Maternal instinct and Emotional Thresholds ... even if she wan buy Maggi she go tell you ... Na you go Tire for the tell No be You wan Hear am

ranmoor:
This is "see finish". You shouldn't have allowed her back inside the house. She must return to wherever she is coming from. For her to even have that courage means you have been weighed and found light. You are doing good and reasonable man for woman, I pity you. Growing up, my uncle use to fvck one married woman, she will tell her family she is going for business trip which is partially true but she must spend 2 days in his house. As for me, she must bring her parents before she comes back into that house.
since you have allowed her in, the best thing is to abandon her totally, sometimes sleep out or come home very late and go straight to your room. You can even plan a trip, vacation and go without informing her. it is even easier since the kids are in university

You no go Allow Mother of Your Children Enter her own House ...

Bad Situation doesn't need bad solution Nwoke

This new era Women no be by Gragra ... She would provoke you to your own Death and she will now go out wellwell !

If you Abandoned her totally and she Abandoned You totally Nko We have Rebellious women nowadays... Dem go match you toe to toe for Your Madness except the butterfly of love still dey fly in her head ...

No even suffer yourself by sleeping out and coming late ... na you dey suffer because she go don sleep and chopped before you come in ...

Your Aggressions go come multiply ... na ihm dey make husband dey beat dem wife or possibly murder ....

Simply call her and tell her in a very stern voice why you asked her not to trip ... una fit Raise Voice at Each Other Blabla .... Stamp your feet Down and Reverse her medulla before you have monster as a wife who will hitheto Monstrous your Children .....

A Man must be more matured than his wife
A woman would always submit willingly to a Matured Man ...

Women are not expected to Get Sense with their Man, Your Job as a Man is to Maturedly make her see things from Your Sense ... This Involves some Scamming(Reverse Psychology) ... If she get sense as You ... You can't tame a Fully Lighted Woman, She would Rebel ... Na Scope Bro !

Samantha123:
If he's not sterile, then how come he doesn't have a single child with his wife?

If I do something wrong and you cook and buy flowers for me in return, I'll surely repeat that same thing over and over again because for me actions speak louder than words.

If you tell me not to do something, but your actions does otherwise, then I'll see no need to apologise..

Reality ... There is difference between Pampering and Caring ..

A sane Man Cares for His Woman But Never Pamper nor Indulge in her Silliness and I don't want to Pamper Me too nor Indulge in My Stupidities... if I fvcked Up, Simply Call me Out !

advanceDNA:


Sigh!!! Obviosuly, I've ve done something wrong... we dont know each other enough even fight....if i've offended u....its not intentional..... so i sincerely apologize

U no well Nigga ... A lady tell you make you Shut Up and You dey apologise

Na where una no Suppose Vex una go dey vex up and Down dey cause Wahala!

Samantha123, I hereby Insult Your Left Nyansh on his Behalf for telling a Seemingly grown ass man to Shut Up

DonroxyII:
U no well Nigga ... A lady tell you make you Shut Up and You dey apologise

Na where una no Suppose Vex una go dey vex up and Down dey cause Wahala!

Samantha123, I hereby Insult Your Left Nyansh on his Behalf for telling a Seemingly grown ass man to Shut Up

Lol...guy...u no get vawulence reach ooo...

me and this one get small history... she still just dey para.....once in a while ......u gats accomodate peace...

advanceDNA:


Lol...guy...u no get vawulence reach ooo...

me and this one get small history... she still just dey para.....once in a while ......u gats accomodate peace...

Ehn ehn ... No wahala .. Oya go draw am much closer make una settle everything

DonroxyII:
You no go Allow Mother of Your Children Enter her own House ...

Bad Situation doesn't need bad solution Nwoke

This new era Women no be by Gragra ... She would provoke you to your own Death and she will now go out wellwell !

If you Abandoned her totally and she Abandoned You totally Nko We have Rebellious women nowadays... Dem go match you toe to toe for Your Madness except the butterfly of love still dey fly in her head ...

No even suffer yourself by sleeping out and coming late ... na you dey suffer because she go don sleep and chopped before you come in ...

Your Aggressions go come multiply ... na ihm dey make husband dey beat dem wife or possibly murder ....

Simply call her and tell her in a very stern voice why you asked her not to trip ... una fit Raise Voice at Each Other Blabla .... Stamp your feet Down and Reverse her medulla before you have monster as a wife who will hitheto Monstrous your Children .....

A Man must be more matured than his wife
A woman would always submit willingly to a Matured Man ...

Women are not expected to Get Sense with their Man, Your Job as a Man is to Maturedly make her see things from Your Sense ... This Involves some Scamming(Reverse Psychology) ... If she get sense as You ... You can't tame a Fully Lighted Woman, She would Rebel ... Na Scope Bro !

Do you mean the man is not mature and that is why the woman disobey him? Don't u think the man has already stamped his feet and insist that she should not go but all to no avail? So as a man you are scared of woman leaving you? SMH.

My bro, there is a stage in marriage when your wife will grow wings especially when she thinks she doesn't need you or just out of "what will happen". How you react will determine how your marriage will be for the rest of your life.
I have a boss, he built a house and wanted to move in. At that time, all the kids are grown in Universities. The wife said she is not going because that place is not in the main town. There was still 3months rent left when the man moved, the wife didn't. After about 4 months, the wife came to beg that she wants to move in. The man asked who do you think you are that I your husband said A and you insisted on doing B?. He asked her to go back and live her life in the city. It takes the intervention and plea from the wife family before the man later accepted her.

Case 2: I have a very close neighbor. l was very close to both husband and wife. Both are well educated, husband works in O&G, very gentle and cool guy. Everything is going very well. One day, I came back from work, I saw the wife's face swollen and bruised. 2 days later, I asked the wife what happened. She said it is one woman (who is already divorced) pushed her to not tolerate rubbish from her husband ooo. All because the husband is giving his family some assistance. She told me she has learned her lesson. She knows she over push the husband, she even tore his clothes... Etc

So my brother, women know what they are doing. They will always want to test water. How you react makes you a man. There are stages for talk and actions.

ranmoor:


Do you mean the man is not mature and that is why the woman disobey him? Don't u think the man has already stamped his feet and insist that she should not go but all to no avail? So as a man you are scared of woman leaving you? SMH.

My bro, there is a stage in marriage when your wife will grow wings especially when she thinks she doesn't need you or just out of "what will happen". How you react will determine how your marriage will be for the rest of your life.
I have a boss, he built a house and wanted to move in. At that time, all the kids are grown in Universities. The wife said she is not going because that place is not in the main town. There was still 3months rent left when the man moved, the wife didn't. After about 4 months, the wife came to beg that she wants to move in. The man asked who do you think you are that I your husband said A and you insisted on doing B?. He asked her to go back and live her life in the city. It takes the intervention and plea from the wife family before the man later accepted her.

Case 2: I have a very close neighbor. l was very close to both husband and wife. Both are well educated, husband works in O&G, very gentle and cool guy. Everything is going very well. One day, I came back from work, I saw the wife's face swollen and bruised. 2 days later, I asked the wife what happened. She said it is one woman (who is already divorced) pushed her to not tolerate rubbish from her husband ooo. All because the husband is giving his family some assistance. She told me she has learned her lesson. She knows she over push the husband, she even tore his clothes... Etc

So my brother, women know what they are doing. They will always want to test water. How you react makes you a man. There are stages for talk and actions.

So true Bro .. Thanks for the OT ... I really appreciate

Creamypussy:
Have a talk with her and point our her disobedience, if she flame's up snub her until she apologize.

Make her feel she's not existing with you in that same house your silence will eat her up until she apologize. But don't hit her.

i would love to eat your pussy

Mecka:
i would love to eat your pussy

Hope your dick is hard?

Creamypussy:

Hope your dick is hard?

yes. Where are you based?

Mecka:
yes. Where are you based?

Seriously.