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Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:27pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
I bliv the reason why in some homes the children after making it in life come back to take better care of their moms than their dads is because, in most cases mothers are the biggest support systems to their children. A dad can train the child in school but will be the first to give up on the same child if he or she comes out a failure academically but most moms never give up on their children. They'll keep pushing them till they make it in life. If a child graduates with a pass or 3rd class most times it's the mothers that make sure the child acquires a skill. They'll make sure they help the child establish a business because they can't bear to see him fail whereas mosth fathers, once u graduate frm a higher instution they're done with u. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by budaatum: 9:34pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Mums invest 9 months carrying their child in their belly and about another 2 years letting said child eat them, so I'd say a mum's investment is far greater than whatever a father invests in said child. It's hard to invest so much and lose hope in one's investment, so many mums tend to HODL, as oppose to [some, more] fathers who might disinvest in non-performing assets. Children do tend to pay back in the end. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:41pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
budaatum:That's why i can never criticise those children who treat their moms better than the dads because behind every success there's always a hidden story 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by rickpat(m): 9:42pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
some fathers never became a daddy to their kids just sperm donor... some mothers never became a mummy to their kids just an incubator unit PLEASE PARENTS INVEST YOUR TIME AND EVERY OTHER NEEDED RESOURCES IN THE LIFE OF YOUR KIDS... my mum sacrificed everything us my father?..hmmm..story for another day.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:47pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
rickpat:If u take better care of ur mom than ur dad 2moro i knw you'll be criticsed severely by majority of pple who have zero knowledge of ur story |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by rickpat(m): 9:51pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:ofcourse,we do our best for our mum..the world knows it..she deserves the best always..and God will in His Mercies provide for us to give her that..I DON'T JOKE WITH THE OLD WOMAN 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by dollytino4real(f): 9:52pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Do u know the power of bresst milk? Not formulas 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:53pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
rickpat:God will help u nd ur siblings to continue taking good care of her 1 Like |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by rickpat(m): 9:56pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome:Amen |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by everythinggirly(f): 10:20pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
May God bless all the amazing mother's out there. Kiddos to them! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:33pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
budaatum: what do you mean invest in 9 month, there is not investing there its natural process there is no two ways about, if you want to have a child naturally nature lets you carry it for 9 months Looking after a child is not an investment thats what you are meant to do 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by JeffreyJunior: 10:51pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
This is because some moms, not all, manipulate the children emotionally to believe they care for them more than their fathers do. Also, several fathers are what I call deadbeat dads who must have bottles of beers every evening at the expense of hungry children. Even if the beer is awoof, why can't they ask the buyer to buy them food items for their families instead? If I wan buy you beer and you ask that I use the money to buy you few cups of garri instead, trust me, I will gladly oblige. In all these, we men and especially fathers should be engaging their kids more to avoid this issue of buying kai-kai for us and buying hollandis for the women. I know many fathers make sacrifices but they need to be visible to these kids so that when they carry the kai-kai come as usual, you go get mouth shout at them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by SyrusdeHansome(m): 10:56pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
JeffreyJunior:Nice point 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:57pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
SyrusdeHansome: in nearly all societies mothers are primary cares spend most times Look at most african culture and tradition fathers, rarely babysit there own children, rarely play with them children games etc Fathers are feared as they dont tolerate stupid aka children games etc hence children tend to go to mum Then the other side is fathers spend more time working and providing than also giving time to know there own children. Children tend to see the mum suffering in trying to make $1 out of the $0.50 but the kids dont know that the $0.50 was brought in by daddy. so kids see the picture of mum suffering on her own. ( am not taking away credit to those mums who are really providing for families while daddy has no direction) Mothers are the ones who spin whatever daddy brings in and make it big, so kids see mum doing the magic, in front of them while daddy's effort is not seen directly, so kids can be biased towards mum but the main thing is mothers are primary carers that alone leaves a big impact on children Finally women tend to be more vulnerable so as children we try to protect your mums from vultures. A man can sleep openly in a street and no one will bother him and woman can not she will end up as a rape victim |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by Fiscus105(m): 3:46am On Jan 12, 2023 |
With posts I have read before me, I think, and I now understand why people here on nairaland often condemned and criticize marriage institution, majority came from dysfunctional upbringing, where only mother invested on children while father go about drinking and sleeping with various women. I wish you guys can see other family, where father and mother taking responsibilities, infact, where father takes more responsibility of his family. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Most Children Take Better Care Of The Mom Than The Dad by Saintmary(f): 2:56pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: No wonder your children will value their mother more than you. You are very insensitive and ungrateful. 2 Likes |
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