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I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 9:33pm On Jan 14, 2023
I want to find out if recommendations can help me get a good lady to settle down in marriage this year.

I am in search of a young girl i can marry and as much as i am searching i also want to involve some credible people in church or elsewhere to help me find a good girl that i can settle down with.

I dont know if this is a good idea but i have heard that some people got very good women for marriage through recommendations. I just want to try.

I really just want a woman who is prudent, who loves God, prayerful and attractive.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by onyeego(m): 9:38pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:
I want to find out if recommendations can help me get a good lady to settle down in marriage this year.

I am in search of a young girl i can marry and as much as i am searching i also want to involve some credible people in church or elsewhere to help me find a good girl that i can settle down with.

I dont know if this is a good idea but i have heard that some people got very good women for marriage through recommendations. I just want to try.

I really just want a woman who is prudent, who loves God, prayerful and attractive. Please chat me up if you are interested. 08065130886.
Recommendations is good but just know she will pretend before marriage and her true colours will appear after marriage.

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Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 9:39pm On Jan 14, 2023
Hmm
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mrkumareze(m): 9:42pm On Jan 14, 2023
Have you checked all your ex, there's no one worth marrying ? Getting into marriage of recommendation may not give you a wife of choice .

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Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Kajaard: 9:45pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:
Hmm


You better look for a woman yourself? What's the problem?

You can't talk to women?

There are women in your place of work, your church, your gym all around you.

You need to make the decision yourself and stop relying on people's recommendations. That's how people get into terrible marriages.

You placed an emphasis on young women, lol. Be careful what you wish for. Young girls these days want to experience the world before settling down. You should rather look for a responsible lady that has maturity for marriage. A lady that possesses the traits you want in a wife. That's the more reason you need to do the search yourself.

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Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 9:45pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mrkumareze:
Have you checked all your ex, there's no one worth marrying ? Getting into marriage of recommendation may not give you a wife of choice .

But i learned that before now, our forebears married mostly through recommendations and it worked well. I really dont know if that was a defining factor or something else.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 9:47pm On Jan 14, 2023
Kajaard:


You better look for a woman yourself? What's the problem?

You can't talk to women?

There are women on your place of work, your church, your gym all around you.

You need to make the decision yourself and stop relying on people's recommendations. That's how people get into terrible marriages.

I didnt say i cant talk to a woman. I said i am searching too.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Kajaard: 9:49pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:


I didnt say i cant talk to a woman. I said i am searching too.

You missed out some part of what I wrote. See below. Happy searching

Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mrkumareze(m): 9:52pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:


But i learned that before now, our forebears married mostly through recommendations and it worked well. I really dont know if that was a defining factor or something else.

See u see retired olosho grin . Our forefathers trained their children in culture and heritage . Today, you can't define anyone 50% by tribe.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 10:00pm On Jan 14, 2023
Kajaard:


You missed out some part of what I wrote. See below. Happy searching

That i am interested in a woman that is young doesn't mean i need a teenager. Ofcourse i need a mature woman.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Cutehector(m): 10:05pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:


That i am interested in a woman that is young doesn't mean i need a teenager. Ofcourse i need a mature woman.
i have a friend who is looking for a husband.. Are you of yoruba descent?
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 10:06pm On Jan 14, 2023
Cutehector:
i have a friend who is looking for a husband.. Are you of yoruba descent?
. No
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Cutehector(m): 10:07pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:
. No

ok what is your tribe
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 10:13pm On Jan 14, 2023
Cutehector:
ok what is your tribe

Ibibio.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by EbenezerTriumph: 10:24pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:

Ibibio.
how much you get?
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 10:34pm On Jan 14, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
how much you get?

Silly question. Very common in nairaland.
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by EbenezerTriumph: 10:41pm On Jan 14, 2023
Mode4:

Silly question. Very common in nairaland.
ado useme
Re: I Want To Settle Down And I Need Suggestions by Mode4: 10:49pm On Jan 14, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
ado useme

I dont belong to your class. Go to the bush where you belong.

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