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AmazonTopaz:
Magnolia and folake4u, I trust that you are both fine.

I have two questions for you.

1). What is your view on Prince Harry's book "Spare" which seems to be making sales and how do you view what he is doing to his family?

2). Do you think or believe that Trans-women are women or are you like me who views them as trans-women only aka the JK Rowling and Chimamanda Adichie whose views on Trans-women I share.

Hello Topaz.

I adopt Mango's answer about the Trans women.
I haven't fully accepted them as women. I just see them for what they are which is Trans-women.


Hmmm. About Harry and Meghan.
I really like this couple. They're actually my favourite in the British family.

But...I think Harry is talking too much these days. I'm actually getting irritated by all these talks.
The sooner people realize he's not taking a stance against his colonialist family, but are just upset about not being able to participate in it the way they thought they would be able to, the freer we will all be.

folake4u:
Hello Topaz.

I adopt Mango's answer about the Trans women.
I haven't fully accepted them as women. I just see them for what they are which is Trans-women.


Hmmm. About Harry and Meghan.
I really like this couple. They're actually my favourite in the British family.

But...I think Harry is talking too much these days. I'm actually getting irritated by all these talks.
The sooner people realize he's not taking a stance against his colonialist family, but are just upset about not being able to participate in it the way they thought they would be able to, the freer we will all be.

Why do people want him to take a stance against his family?

Harry and his wife are attention seekers I am happy that you are admitting that they are talking too much and it is getting irritating they will win sympathies for the Royal family soon if they don't live a quiet life in California.

AmazonTopaz:
Why do people want him to take a stance against his family?

Harry and his wife are attention seekers I am happy that you are admitting that they are talking too much and it is getting irritating they will win sympathies for the Royal family soon if they don't live a quiet life in California.

Probably because of the way the Royal Family treated Meghan. And also there's sheer hatred for them too.

Lol. Honestly. They should live a quiet life. All these talks with Oprah and co is just irking and really irrelevant.

folake4u:
Probably because of the way the Royal Family treated Meghan. And also there's sheer hatred for them too.

Lol. Honestly. They should live a quiet life. All these talks with Oprah and co is just irking and really irrelevant.

Were you there to know how they treated her?
Someone that as a fiancee got to spend Christmas with the family her mom was even invited and was given a trip and immediate meeting with the Queen something Catherine never even got.
Nah I think Meghan has a problem because she seems to have issues with a lot of people too she isn't blameless.

Their refusal to live a quiet life shows you the kind of people they both are and it is sad for Harry to sell his family for dollars.

AmazonTopaz:
Were you there to know how they treated her?
Someone that as a fiancee got to spend Christmas with the family her mom was even invited and was given a trip and immediate meeting with the Queen something Catherine never even got.
Nah I think Meghan has a problem because she seems to have issues with a lot of people too she isn't blameless.

Their refusal to live a quiet life shows you the kind of people they both are and it is sad for Harry to sell his family for dollars.

I wasn't there, true but the Media wrote that the Royal Family was unwelcoming to her.

Hmm. Well I don't know.

Williams still get him own for body. All of them though.

Before we know it, Meghan will return back to acting.

Harry and Meghan can’t live a quiet life when the royal family is the using the British media as their mouthpiece. They write 50 articles about them a day but want them to live it down quietly.

I don’t understand why people don’t see these folks for who they are.
Seriously doubt any of there “talking too much” would have even occurred if they weren’t horribly mistreated in the beginning and are still being mistreated.

Dreadful people like these make horrible statements about Meghan and the RF invites them over for dinner to laugh and cozy up together. You want her to keep her head down under such a cloud of hate and be a good girl about it.

I don’t understand the absolute lack of empathy towards her.

AmazonTopaz:
Were you there to know how they treated her?
Someone that as a fiancee got to spend Christmas with the family her mom was even invited and was given a trip and immediate meeting with the Queen something Catherine never even got.
Nah I think Meghan has a problem because she seems to have issues with a lot of people too she isn't blameless.

Their refusal to live a quiet life shows you the kind of people they both are and it is sad for Harry to sell his family for dollars.

cococandy:
Harry and Meghan can’t live a quiet life when the royal family is the using the British media as their mouthpiece. They write 50 articles about them a day but want them to live it down quietly.

I don’t understand why people don’t see these folks for who they are.
Seriously doubt any of there “talking too much” would have even occurred if they weren’t horribly mistreated in the beginning and are still being mistreated.

Dreadful people like these make horrible statements about Meghan and the RF invites them over for dinner to laugh and cozy up together. You want her to keep her head down under such a cloud of hate and be a good girl about it.

I don’t understand the absolute lack of empathy towards her.

They are no longer working Royals so I don't get that part of the Royal family using the British media to attack her or having any obligation not to have dinner with whomever they choose. She ran away from the hateful media for privacy but did a Netflix documentary and interview to achieve what exactly. When you are a public figure you cannot control the narrative, it is a futile effort Kate, Fergie and even Diana have all had their share or different narratives written about them and we have not heard Kate doing interviews to lament. Famous people most times don’t even respond to media scrutiny. They are living in LA I don't see who is mistreating. I believe she is a problematic person very good at victimhood. My issue is with Harry whom I believe needs help you don't do that to your family for dollars or public sympathy that you write and lament about how jealous you are of your brother being the heir and you being the spare. The book had to be fact checked and some of his claims are no longer coherent. I feel really sorry for both of them though, both at odds with their families but somehow they remain blameless on the issue.
Oh please.

folake4u:
I wasn't there, true but the Media wrote that the Royal Family was unwelcoming to her.

Hmm. Well I don't know.

Williams still get him own for body. All of them though.

Before we know it, Meghan will return back to acting.

From what I saw publicly they were. Even Harry himself said Meghan called Kate "baby brain" ordered Ice cream truck for her people and didn't bother about the Cambridges, took unsolicited pictures on Charlotte, all these made her at odds with Kate.

William and Kate get their own for body but we don't see them come on air to lament about their privileges.
Meghan should get back to her D-list acting instead of profiting off her husband's family and new found famed in the name of docuseries, etc.

Since she’s not a working Royal I wonder why they couldn’t let her be. Why follow her around and harass her perpetually? Either you are willfully turning a blind eye to the malicious viciousness they’ve meted out to her or you don’t have the complete picture. If you had the complete picture you wouldn’t compare all these people to Meghan when not one them had 50 articles written about them in one day. All negative. All from the same source

What I know is that the language of “playing victim” has been used by her aggressors frequently and is now a regurgitated talking point by those who have bought into their own version of things.

That Netflix documentary is more than warranted because obviously you guys are more than excited to believe whatever negative thing you read about them. They have to tell their own side. And I’m very glad they did. Let posterity be the judge.

You don’t know her. Don’t have any proof of anything she actually did to anyone but you’re very certain she’s a problematic person. Do you realize your biases stem from what you read online which are all fueled by the British media? The British Media that’s in cahoots with her step mom-in-law?

All I can do is pray for everyone that if they find themselves in such a situation that someone extends them kindness.

People say they are seeking attention but won’t stop talking negatively about them. Always writing articles, internet posts, topic after topic. All negative and they didn’t do ONE damn thing to you!

Lord have mercy

AmazonTopaz:
They are no longer working Royals so I don't get that part of the Royal family using the British media to attack her or having any obligation not to have dinner with whomever they choose. She ran away from the hateful media for privacy but did a Netflix documentary and interview to achieve what exactly. When you are a public figure you cannot control the narrative, it is a futile effort Kate, Fergie and even Diana have all had their share or different narratives written about them and we have not heard Kate doing interviews to lament. Famous people most times don’t even respond to media scrutiny. They are living in LA I don't see who is mistreating. I believe she is a problematic person very good at victimhood. My issue is with Harry whom I believe needs help you don't do that to your family for dollars or public sympathy that you write and lament about how jealous you are of your brother being the heir and you being the spare. The book had to be fact checked and some of his claims are no longer coherent. I feel really sorry for both of them though, both at odds with their families but somehow they remain blameless on the issue.
Oh please.

cococandy:
Since she’s not a working Royal I wonder why they couldn’t let her be. Why follow her around and harass her perpetually

Who is harassing her or following her around in LA, was Kate and other members of the family not followed around or allegedly harrassed did they form victimhood?

Either you are willfully turning a blind eye to the malicious viciousness they’ve meted out to her or you don’t have the complete picture

I used to see a glimpse of the viciousness until she went to the USA I no longer see it because she is in the public eye all by herself. It is part of what you get for being popular because people will chase or use whatever narrative they have.

If you had the complete picture you wouldn’t compare all these people to Meghan when not one them had 50 articles written about them in one day. All negative. All from the same source

Those people saw worse, unsolicited semi-naked pictures of Katherine were published online comparisons of her being an unaccomplished woman to Meghan have all been online. They are tabloids for goodness sake whose reporting or sources should be taken at face value because they are capable of lying and are ready to sell whatever story that will drive traffic to their pages. It did not start with Meghan. The media was horrible and wasn't her friend right, the tabloids don't have the so-called Royal sources anymore so why is she still in the news?

What I know is that the language of “playing victim” has been used by her aggressors frequently and is now a regurgitated talking point by those who have bought into their own version of things

That is because she is playing the victim card and is entirely blameless of anything. If it is not playing victim why do interviews and docuseries spilling the same things over and over again while telling us more breaking news to what end exactly?

That Netflix documentary is more than warranted because obviously you guys are more than excited to believe whatever negative thing you read about them. They have to tell their own side. And I’m very glad they did. Let posterity be the judge

The docuseries did not change or move a stone in how people view them because as a public figure you cannot always control the narrative. I don’t believe any negative thing about them their actions alone makes me even see it for myself because the constant silence from the Royal family is even making Harry threaten to spill more it tells me all I need to know. Their constant whining in the public eye is enough reason to even think that it is for profit making and they are enjoying it. If anything its not even bringing sympathy to them but fatigue and irritation because of the constant new series of stories we hear from Harry.

You don’t know her. Don’t have any proof of anything she actually did to anyone but you’re very certain she’s a problematic person

I can say the same about your perception of the Royal family. Why should I believe her and not them since neither of us know them or have any relationship with them. I called her problematic because she has issues with her family and same has applied to her husband's family who suddenly remembers that he has been a victim of privilege,the fact that they are never at fault in their perspectives makes me view her as one.

Do you realize your biases stem from what you read online which are all fueled by the British media? The British Media that’s in cahoots with her step mom-in-law

Is it the British media denying that he never called his family racist but rather unconscious bias? Is it the British media giving incoherencies that no longer match up with one another because the stories are becoming too old and familiar the contradictions seem to vary. They can have their own media and create their biases then if that is even true. The thing is they are the ones exposing themselves from constant whinning afterall it is even on American media I see them these days and I don't read British tabloids to get any biases.

All I can do is pray for everyone that if they find themselves in such a situation that someone extends them kindness.

People say they are seeking attention but won’t stop talking negatively about them. Always writing articles, internet posts, topic after topic. All negative and they didn’t do ONE damn thing to you!

Lord have mercy

They are attention seekers profiting from unverified claims and they should learn a thing ir two from the Royal family and keep silent then maybe they would be no negative report to give. Since they put themselves in the open people are free to talk about them. So far they are embarrassing their families and are the ones doing the damage. It is sad to see if they had shame they should not go near Charles' coronation. My problem with them is not media driven I listen to them talk and I am disappointed in their attacks against their family when they know that the allegations will never be addressed because of the Royal family's policy. You don't take your family's private issues to the public.

AmazonTopaz:
From what I saw publicly they were. Even Harry himself said Meghan called Kate "baby brain" ordered Ice cream truck for her people and didn't bother about the Cambridges, took unsolicited pictures on Charlotte, all these made her at odds with Kate.

William and Kate get their own for body but we don't see them come on air to lament about their privileges.
Meghan should get back to her D-list acting instead of profiting off her husband's family and new found famed in the name of docuseries, etc.

Hmmm. Of course William and Kate won't come out to lament because he's the future King and enjoying the privileges.

Let's not forget William's infidelity acts. It's been reported by the British Media that William meets reporters to publish nasty reports about Meghan in order for the press to stay away from talking about his scandalous activities.

I read that on Twitter and even went to British gossip blog to read further on that story. Lots of people confirmed that story.


I don't think Meghan is a bad person though.

folake4u:
Hmmm. Of course William and Kate won't come out to lament because he's the future King and enjoying the privileges.

Let's not forget William's infidelity acts. It's been reported by the British Media that William meets reporters to publish nasty reports about Meghan in order for the press to stay away from talking about his scandalous activities.

I read that on Twitter and even went to British gossip blog to read further on that story. Lots of people confirmed that story.


I don't think Meghan is a bad person though.

William and Kate will not come out because the Royal family has a policy and not because he is the future king. No member of the family reacts to public issues I have forgotten the name of the policy but there has been a policy for this before any of them you mentioned were a part of the family.
There is no proof of this so William will be so jobless to report about his sister in-law to who, where did you read that from and neither of the cheating allegations made have been proven who is the woman and why hasn't her identity been made known? So to stay away from nasty reports he is using Meghan if Meghan wasn't in the family who would he have used? This story is not storying.
Never you take Tabloids seriously, I don't even read them because their stories are fake. That is why I don't get why Harry and Meghan are alarmed at narratives that would always be drawn on public figures. My view of the pair stems from their statements and open disdain for their family which is now a profiting business for them. It is one reason I no longer believe them.
There was a time I did.

To the best of my knowledge, I know they have not come on NL to say a single word. Doubt if they know this forum even exists. However if you type her or Harry’s name, there’ll be at least a thousand posts similar to yours filled with negative stuff about them. All hearsay. That’s somehow okay isn’t it?

They are royals but at the end of the day, they are humans. Not y’all’s online punching bag who are supposed to take everything lying down or be labeled bad people.

As for the royal family, they don’t have to say anything. All they need to do is have queen consort Camilla leak whatever they want to say to the press and have the press speak for them while pretending to take the high road. It’s painfully obvious to everyone except those who have decided to hate Meghan. Imagine someone said they want to see you naked and stoned with feces in the streets and then your family invited them over for dinner to laugh and Kiki with them? I’m asking you Amazontopaz what kind of silence is that? So in your true and candid opinion, that’s not a bad thing? I’m shocked actually.

It’s one thing to be indifferent (which I was in the beginning because I don’t know these people) but to see the constant piling on. Everyone incessantly memorizing and repeating everyone else’s words as if there’s a reward for who can say the most negative thing about them. Overlooking the obvious things in front of them.

I’m done with the topic.

AmazonTopaz:
Who is harassing her or following her around in LA, was Kate and other members of the family not followed around or allegedly harrassed did they form victimhood? I used to see a glimpse of the viciousness until she went to the USA I no longer see it because she is in the public eye all by herself. It is part of what you get for being popular because people will chase or use whatever narrative they have. Those people saw worse, unsolicited semi-naked pictures of Katherine were published online comparisons of her being an unaccomplished woman to Meghan have all been online. They are tabloids for goodness sake whose reporting or sources should be taken at face value because they are capable of lying and are ready to sell whatever story that will drive traffic to their pages. It did not start with Meghan. The media was horrible and wasn't her friend right, the tabloids don't have the so-called Royal sources anymore so why is she still in the news?

That is because she is playing the victim card and is entirely blameless of anything. If it is not playing victim why do interviews and docuseries spilling the same things over and over again while telling us more breaking news to what end exactly?

The docuseries did not change or move a stone in how people view them because as a public figure you cannot always control the narrative. I don’t believe any negative thing about them their actions alone makes me even see it for myself because the constant silence from the Royal family is even making Harry threaten to spill more it tells me all I need to know. Their constant whining in the public eye is enough reason to even think that it is for profit making and they are enjoying it. If anything its not even bringing sympathy to them but fatigue and irritation because of the constant new series of stories we hear from Harry.

I can say the same about your perception of the Royal family. Why should I believe her and not them since neither of us know them or have any relationship with them. I called her problematic because she has issues with her family and same has applied to her husband's family who suddenly remembers that he has been a victim of privilege,the fact that they are never at fault in their perspectives makes me view her as one. Is it the British media denying that he never called his family racist but rather unconscious bias? Is it the British media giving incoherencies that no longer match up with one another because the stories are becoming too old and familiar the contradictions seem to vary. They can have their own media and create their biases then if that is even true. The thing is they are the ones exposing themselves from constant whinning afterall it is even on American media I see them these days and I don't read British tabloids to get any biases.

All I can do is pray for everyone that if they find themselves in such a situation that someone extends them kindness.

People say they are seeking attention but won’t stop talking negatively about them. Always writing articles, internet posts, topic after topic. All negative and they didn’t do ONE damn thing to you!

Lord have mercy

They are attention seekers profiting from unverified claims and they should learn a thing ir two from the Royal family and keep silent then maybe they would be no negative report to give. Since they put themselves in the open people are free to talk about them. So far they are embarrassing their families and are the ones doing the damage. It is sad to see if they had shame they should not go near Charles' coronation.

cococandy:
To the best of my knowledge, I know they have not come on NL to say a single word. Doubt if they know this forum even exist. However if you type her or Harry’s name, there’ll be at least a thousand posts similar to yours filled with negative stuff about them. All hearsay. That’s somehow okay isn’t it?

They are royals but at the end of the day, they are humans. Not y’all’s online punching bag who are supposed to take everything lying down or be labeled bad people.

As for the royal family, they don’t have to say anything. All they need to do is have queen consort Camilla leak whatever they want to say to the press and have the press speak for them while pretending to take the high road. It’s painfully obvious to everyone except those who have decided to hate Meghan. Imagine someone said they want to see you naked and stoned with feces in the streets and then your family invited them over for dinner to laugh and Kiki with them? I’m asking you Amazontopaz what kind of silence is that? So in your true and candid opinion, that’s not a bad thing? I’m shocked actually.

It’s one thing to be indifferent (which I was in the beginning because I don’t know these people) but to see the constant piling on. Everyone incessantly memorizing and repeating everyone else’s words as if there’s a reward for who can say the most negative thing about them. Overlooking the obvious things in front of them.

I’m done with the topic.

Gender fluid mode enabled

Considering Charles years of drama with Camilla, you'd think he have Harry's back.

Gender fluid mode disabled

AmazonTopaz:
William and Kate will not come out because the Royal family has a policy and not because he is the future king. No member of the family reacts to public issues I have forgotten the name of the policy but there has been a policy for this before any of them you mentioned were a part of the family.
There is no proof of this so William will be so jobless to report about his sister in-law to who, where did you read that from and neither of the cheating allegations made have been proven who is the woman and why hasn't her identity been made known? So to stay away from nasty reports he is using Meghan if Meghan wasn't in the family who would he have used? This story is not storying.
Never you take Tabloids seriously, I don't even read them because their stories are fake. That is why I don't get why Harry and Meghan are alarmed at narratives that would always be drawn on public figures. My view of the pair stems from their statements and open disdain for their family which is now a profiting business for them. It is one reason I no longer believe them.
There was a time I did.

Omooo. All these talks won't go anywhere oh.

At least, they're crying in their limousines. I'm still entering bike and keke.

GloriousGbola:
Gender fluid mode enabled

Considering Charles years of drama with Camilla, you'd think he have Harry's back.

Gender fluid mode disabled

When his son is embarrassing him. Harry's wife should have his back.

And Charles may have been a horrible father anyway.

AmazonTopaz:
When his son is embarrassing him. Harry's wife should have his back.

And Charles may have been a horrible father anyway.

You're not supposed to quote a male on this thread.

folake4u:
Omooo. All these talks won't go anywhere oh.

At least, they're crying in their limousines. I'm still entering bike and keke.

We will see how it goes. Hopefully, Meghan doesn't divorce him or there is no trouble in Paradise. It would be such a shame, for now they should not go to the coronation.

folake4u:
You're not supposed to quote a male on this thread.

I didn't know

I am so sorry.

Where are the rules

AmazonTopaz:


We will see how it goes. Hopefully, Meghan doesn't divorce him or there is no trouble in Paradise. It would be such a shame, for now they should not go to the coronation.

Ehen na. They're spending in pounds, I'm here with my falling naira.

We'd watch how everything unfolds. It's just a matter of time.

AmazonTopaz:
I didn't know

I am so sorry.

Where are the rules

Ahhh. That rule is the Golden Rule of this thread since Day 1.

RULE 1: No lady should mention a male on the thread and if a male comments, he should be ignored.

GloriousGbola:
Gender fluid mode enabled

Considering Charles years of drama with Camilla, you'd think he have Harry's back.

Gender fluid mode disabled

Indeed

folake4u:
Ehen na. They're spending in pounds, I'm here with my falling naira.

We'd watch how everything unfolds. It's just a matter of time.

They’ve been together 6 years with two kids.

I wish them well.

cococandy:
They’ve been together 6 years with two kids.

I wish them well.

Yeah. I hope everything goes alright for them as well.

cococandy:
Indeed

Ah. Coco oh. You're quoting a male.

Second time you're breaking the rule oh.

It's like we will start collecting money as penalty fee.

folake4u:
Ahhh. That rule is the Golden Rule of this thread since Day 1.

Correction taken.

AmazonTopaz:
Correction taken.

No wahala.

Next time, you go pay fine.

Good day ladies.

I need you to please go through this Twitter thread https://twitter.com/ownMyShame/status/1615836177415774225?t=V2FecSfIaaGGDjui-rBWjg&s=19

And tell me what is actually beautiful in many Nigerian marriages.


I will be back later to post my submission.

AmazonTopaz:
Good day ladies.

I need you to please go through this Twitter thread https://twitter.com/ownMyShame/status/1615836177415774225?t=V2FecSfIaaGGDjui-rBWjg&s=19

And tell me what is actually beautiful in many Nigerian marriages.


I will be back later to post my submission.

Na this matter I just dey leave for Facebook so.

How coincidental.

I don screenshot responses and hot teks taya.

Even went to Google this issue of Dr. Iyalla-Amadi vs. NIS and women getting a letter of consent from their husbands first before they could get an Int'l passport pre-2009.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2009/06/court-voids-immigration-condition-for-issuing-passports-to-married-women/amp/

Maidia, you DEFINITELY KNOW what my opinion on the matter will be.

I wish Average Nigerian Women godspeed in their marriages abeg.

Somebody even called them tenants disguising as Mrs., and that can be kicked out anytime.

AmazonTopaz:
Good day ladies.

I need you to please go through this Twitter thread https://twitter.com/ownMyShame/status/1615836177415774225?t=V2FecSfIaaGGDjui-rBWjg&s=19

And tell me what is actually beautiful in many Nigerian marriages.


I will be back later to post my submission.

Lemme mention Cococandy, Hathor5, and CHoccolaTE here.

I am GLEEFULLY eager to read their takes.

I wish I know some other feminist monikers off the top of my head easily to cc here lol.

Magnoliaa:
Lemme mention Cococandy, Hathor5, and CHoccolaTE here.

I am GLEEFULLY eager to read their takes.

I wish I know some other feminist monikers off the top of my head easily to cc here lol.

Unfortunately I don’t have twitter. Are there screenshots?

AmazonTopaz:
Good day ladies.

I need you to please go through this Twitter thread https://twitter.com/ownMyShame/status/1615836177415774225?t=V2FecSfIaaGGDjui-rBWjg&s=19

And tell me what is actually beautiful in many Nigerian marriages.


I will be back later to post my submission.

I know a man that banned his wife from going to see her mother. As in, he told her if she goes there, she should pack her bags same day. She started hiding to go see her mother. The mother would cry and chase her away. “How can my own daughter hide to come see me?”

Same hometown o. If you throw stone, e go touch the mama roof. The man is late now. I wonder if she would now start going to see her mother. These things happen a lot. From the gender that claims they love peace and it is women that tear family apart. Na who no know them dey fit deceive.