Sheistoopretty:
Ur dad has allowed village traditions and rubbish to enter his head how much wealth did he/is he keep behind that he is looking for a Male child to “Represent him”?

Are male children something to boast of now? women are now the ones feeding men up and down

We women have taken over the world, we own the world.. without women, earth will never be balanced... Just imagine a world without men, that means there will be no robbery, stealing, drug trafficking, fighting, cult war, kidnapping, terrorism etc

Men are the problem we have in this world and ur dad is still thinking like someone from 1800BC century, the earlier ur dad wakes up to reality that women have taken over dis world, the better for him

At bolded...
Funny enough, the men who engage in such criminal vices do so because of the excessive demands from women just to make their women happy. Should we go back to the book of Genesis in the bible? Imagine if eve was not created, men would have still be enjoying the garden of Eden without stress or worry.

Guyman01:
My dad so much cherished my sisters and when he retired they made sure he never lacked while the men were held hostage by their wives.
These days a man without daughters is missing out seriously.
Let her adopt a male child since the man is okay with that and if he has the resources

Meaning you're currently under hostage?
I pray for freedom for you my brother

Linda ikeji in the chat

If u check well, majority of the men looking for male children, are very poor with nothing to inherit from them. All they know is that the name of the family should not die.

Sheistoopretty:
Ur dad has allowed village traditions and rubbish to enter his head how much wealth did he/is he keep behind that he is looking for a Male child to “Represent him”?

Are male children something to boast of now? women are now the ones feeding men up and down

We women have taken over the world, we own the world.. without women, earth will never be balanced... Just imagine a world without men, that means there will be no robbery, stealing, drug trafficking, fighting, cult war, kidnapping, terrorism etc

Men are the problem we have in this world and ur dad is still thinking like someone from 1800BC century, the earlier ur dad wakes up to reality that women have taken over dis world, the better for him

lol why dont you mention the fact that men are also drivers, pilots, engineers, doctors, construction workers, soldiers, farmers they dominate almost every single industry . as you're im sure its a man that is feeding you right now without men, women wont be exisiting , take that straight to your chest..

Hunmmmm,, gbogbo lomo

peepydelano:
A male child is very important to an African man but that does not make the female child less of a child. The man should rest or keep popping kids till he gets his desired male child and not threaten his wife. He can simply take a second wife if he’s capable.

When the sex of the child is determined by him. He's juat foolish. Even if he geta second, thrid or tenth wife, na girls full him body. It is what you give the wife she will produce. A man has xy chromosome while a woman has xx chromosome.

He should continue ptocreating.

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Keep quiet kor...she has to announce it so people like you get the message.

Haven't you heard of females still answering their father's name in addition to that of their husband?











For example Ngozi Okonjo - Iweala

koyyess:


Keep quiet kor...she has to announce it so people like you get the message.

Haven't you heard of females still answering their father's name in addition to that of their husband?

even at that,the husband's name negates that of the girl's father.


look,when a girl is still young,people tend to normally ask 'whose child is this"?

but when a girl becomes a lady,same people will now ask 'whose wife is she"?


You see,you can't some certain things,female child and male child can never fill the same vaccuum.

peepydelano:
A male child is very important to an African man but that does not make the female child less of a child. The man should rest or keep popping kids till he gets his desired male child and not threaten his wife. He can simply take a second wife if he’s capable.

I used to think that men wanting to have male kids were just archaic. But experience has shown me that an average African should have both male and female. It is not about whether the girls could become NOI or Amina Mohammed and the boys may end up as vulcanisers tomorrow. It's not about who becomes more successful in life. That is too simplistic. There are roles that different genders fulfil culturally. As a son, I only realised the importance of my role culturally a few years ago when push came to shove. Most ladies will never have to play that role to understand, so need to even go into it.

We are Africans and anyone who cherishes key African values needs to know that. Any responsible dad should appreciate God for having kids, whatever their gender. If a man is economically capable enough, he can take a second wife. It is when the first wife refuses that it becomes an issue. Some women refuse to have a co-wife and lead to divorce. The story can have pepper and Maggi added to it later to become "wife was thrown out". Things normally lead to it including lack of compromise.

From my observation, when a daughter narrates how her divorced mother was treated in her marriage, it is 99% biased in favour of their mother. A lot of manipulation of daughters goes on while growing up. The daughters of a colleague who separated from his wife are going through that manipulation right now. The eldest daughter is increasingly taking her mother's side. The younger daughters will probably increasingly do same years from now as they get older. Even though they all used to condemn what they witnessed their mum doing to their dad. There is a reason why so many women try so hard to avoid letting kids visit their dad often when divorced. They want to control the narrative.

This is not to support or exonerate useless dads out there but these things are more complex.

And I dey here dey look for at least, ababy girl?

DeOTR:
And I dey here dey look for at least, ababy girl?

How long have you been married?

SPAMBOX7:
The male carries the Y chromosomes (XY) while the female carries only X chromosomes (XX)
The male has to donate the Y chromosomes to the female in order to reproduce a male child. However, if he fails to donate the Y but instead donates the X chromosomes then a female child pops out i.e another XX
Now that makes me wonder why men try to blame women for birthing female children only when the fault is clearly from them.

It is not only to donate, the wife's body state can also inhibit the survival of Y chromosomes. If her vaginal is acidic, Y chromosomes will not survive, but if alkaline, Y chromosomes can survive. Basically, I am referring to the women's Ph Level. Their PH level has a lot to do with the survival of sperm

He should be the one to be thrown out. He is the one with the y chromosome (for male child). Nothing concern the woman with only x chromosomes (for female child).

Sammy5413:
Feeding is not enough, one of you should look for a guy to get you pregnant so you bear him a son at home
That's bad of your father though!

What if the men they want to marry do not want single mums?
Do you not see all the insults single mums go through and you want these girls to add to the number.

B4 nko , who go feed am for old age...if he had a boy, the boy also will feed him

Your father is a lazy man, you mother inability to give him a male child was his fault, it was the chromosomes that he released that your give to him.

Men will feed dad and not make noise about it but female feed u ,ur ancestors will know

Now hunger has dealt with the man , he is collecting money from the daughters he didn't want


Some men really need to receive sense,

This man is still living in the 18th century, even we the Ancestors have moved on from those trashy traditions

tiswell:
even at that,the husband's name negates that of the girl's father.


look,when a girl is still young,people tend to normally ask 'whose child is this"?

but when a girl becomes a lady,same people will now ask 'whose wife is she"?


You see,you can't some certain things,female child and male child can never fill the same vaccuum.

Bull sh1t. Na bush mentality dey worry Una with Una buzu ideology.

Male child is very important in Ibibio culture.
If you like have 20 female children.
I have seen situations.
Please let's not heat the polity.Male children very important whether they come as shame or successful

koyyess:


So you have not heard of males giving their children their own name instead of their father's name?

will they give a new surname

Ahhh Baba no be Mama fault na, only God can give male pikin no be the woman.
Meanwhile my neighbor below and his wife are living happily without a child and everyone is ok

nazicartel:
This is same reason he needed a son. Because his son/s won't come online and be telling the whole world how they are feeding their father...



Every child is important.

If they were abandoned, they won’t even remember him much less provide for him.

Be truthful for once in your life. You won’t die

koyyess:


Bull sh1t. Na bush mentality dey worry Una with Una buzu ideology.

you can't change that which is constant bro.


It hurts,but it's just the reality.

Arizoner:
will they give a new surname

They give them their own name.
Eg. Obinna Uzor will give his name 'Obinna' as surname to his children instead of 'Uzor'.

tiswell:
you can't change that which is constant bro.


It hurts,but it's just the reality.

Constant only to backward people. Remain backward.

nazicartel:
This is same reason he needed a son. Because his son/s won't come online and be telling the whole world how they are feeding their father...



Every child is important.

Comrade

That dad was (or is still, maybe) an illiterate

Mindlog:
The women are even soft-hearted towards their father, I know a family of 3 sisters who all live in the Netherlands, 2 of them married with kids while their father and his second family are in living in extreme poverty in the Makoko slum of Lagos.

Some relatives of their father have been pleading with them to soften up and assist their father and their half-siblings but they have adamantly refused, insisting their relationship with him ended when he abandoned them in 2004 and never looked back while the same relatives now pleading for reconciliation, were nonchalant when their father abandoned them and also disowned the eldest daughter in 2009 because she went to where he was living with his other family in Jos to ask him to pay for her university education and it ended up in a physical fight and disownment.

he deserves it. May he die in poverty amen

Mindlog:
The women are even soft-hearted towards their father, I know a family of 3 sisters who all live in the Netherlands, 2 of them married with kids while their father and his second family are in living in extreme poverty in the Makoko slum of Lagos.

Some relatives of their father have been pleading with them to soften up and assist their father and their half-siblings but they have adamantly refused, insisting their relationship with him ended when he abandoned them in 2004 and never looked back while the same relatives now pleading for reconciliation, were nonchalant when their father abandoned them and also disowned the eldest daughter in 2009 because she went to where he was living with his other family in Jos to ask him to pay for her university education and it ended up in a physical fight and disownment.

That is what I consider peace of mind ooo!

I dont think is right dat a woman born yet Neva got a boy to carry family name. Stupid girl she she shd be happy shes bless why try to insult her dad on net