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Besides I don't like saying much but will make is brief.

She is a loving girl, we have dated for 6years . I and her both love each other to the very bottom of our hearts. Well am Doing fine base on my finances . Would want to tie the knot with her this December precisely .
Though relationship has come with ups and downs through out those year but at the end of everything we still waxing strong.
My major is that have realised that she more of a spender then the opposite,she hardly save her income always trying to look expensive. I have tried talking to her not directly but she keeps repeating the same mistake. Though it's her money but we save for Incase of emergency. There is nothing tangible in her account. All these moneys are mostly channel into expensive jewelry, shoes , which I know doesnt put them 3 to 4 times . The cycle continues.
Am having a second thought. I am not saying she shouldn't do so but everything she be done moderate.

If she cannot listen to you NOW, she will likely not listen to you after marriage.

Think twice before proposing.

If what you stated here is all her fault, I can authoritatively tell you that you don't have much to worry about.
She will definitely change as long as kids starts pumping in

Have you talked to her about this before coming here to tell us

U wan wife someone that isn't prudent in spending. Shey u dey whine me ni? She go run you down after marriage.

Kuvasin:
Besides I don't like saying much but will make is brief.

She is a loving girl, we have dated for 6years . I and her both love each other to the very bottom of our hearts. Well am Doing fine base on my finances . Would want to tie the knot with her this December precisely .
Though relationship has come with ups and downs through out those year but at the end of everything we still waxing strong.
My major is that have realised that she more of a spender then the opposite,she hardly save her income always trying to look expensive. I have tried talking to her not directly but she keeps repeating the same mistake. Though it's her money but we save for Incase of emergency. There is nothing tangible in her account. All these moneys are mostly channel into expensive jewelry, shoes , which I know doesnt put them 3 to 4 times . The cycle continues.
Am having a second thought. I am not saying she shouldn't do so but everything she be done moderate.

As it is now, she is a good girl but can't save

That means don't expect any financial support from her when you start raising a family

Obalacam:
If what you stated here is all her fault, I can authoritatively tell you that you don't have much to worry about.
She will definitely change as long as kids starts pumping in

Which change? Her husband and children go suffer for her hand. She will prefer to spend money on herself than her family.

tayo60:
Which change? Her husband and children go suffer for her hand. She will prefer to spend money on herself than her family.

I thought that except she is naturally wicked.

She will change.

For now she has no responsibility.

So far it's her money, she has work shes doing or a business shes doing I Will say nothing much to worry but if she ain't got any good source of income, my brother you will suffer may find it very difficult to grow above your income

olayiwola4u:
If she cannot listen to you NOW, she will likely not listen to you after marriage.

Think twice before proposing.

You're wise

Obalacam:
If what you stated here is all her fault, I can authoritatively tell you that you don't have much to worry about.
She will definitely change as long as kids starts pumping in

She can never change and no matter how you try you can't change anyone

Obalacam:
I thought that except she is naturally wicked.

There is something else about this lady that you are not telling us

Divay22:
Have you talked to her about this before coming here to tell us

Did you read before spitting trash as usual?

imagrg:
She will change.

For now she has no responsibility.

No matter responsibilities she can't change, she will only care about herself

Why dating for 6 years in the first? Times wasters .

U would have been a master degree within this same period. Too long for my liking

You haven’t talked to her directly but you have the gut to disturb us here. May thunder fire you.

By the way, drop her number here so we can advise her on your behalf

Point of correction..."Rocks" not Rock abeg...

imagrg:
She will change.

For now she has no responsibility.

I hope so .

She will drain u be wise bro




Look for a girl that fits ya personality

Her money is her money, the lesson here is don't expect financial support from her. You can as well save.