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Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Ineedhustle247: 5:08pm On Jan 20, 2023
Its been a month since Jane Wambui came back to Kenya after spending nine years toiling in Saudi Arabia She hoped to settle into a quiet life and start a business in Kiambu, but those dreams were dashed when she got home and discovered she had no money Wambui learned that her daughter Hottensia has blown over KSh 2 million (N7.4 million) she has been sending home, on partying with her friends The remainder was used to buy a Mazda Demio for Uber which was repossessed after Hottensia stopped making monthly remittances

Jane Wambui Mburu toiled in Saudi for nine years hoping to make her life and that of her son and 25-year-old daughter Hottensia Wambui better.

She worked abroad for nine years.

During that period, the 42-year-old single mum left her only daughter to take care of the little brother and rented them a house in Kiambu town, Kenya.

Daughter always assured her there was money

While she was away, Wambui's daughter got a son whom the caring mother agreed to pay for private school for, just like her son.

As time went by, the mother started feeling she could no longer continue working in Saudi Arabia due to her advanced age and the nature of her work.

At the back of her mind, she knew she was going home to settle as she had been sending money home to be kept in an account, only to arrive and get the shock of her life.

"She kept assuring me that the money was very safe in her account, almost KSh 2 million. When I came back in December I realised she looked very worried and disturbed," Wambui told Kenya's TUKO.co.ke's Hillary Lisimba.

Hottensia bought car for cab business

Upon investigation, it dawned on her that her daughter has been living large with the money and treating her friends.

Even worse, she recently took a car on loan and put in a deposit of KSh 500,000 (N1.8 million) and signed an agreement that she will be depositing KSh 62,500 (N232K) every month.

"Three months down the line she only received KSh 10,000 (N37k) from her friend driver who has been using the car as a cab. The driver told her business is slow," said the disappointed mother.

According to her, the boyfriend advised her to take the car and park it, which she did until the Mazda Demio was repossessed.

The company told Wambui to deposit KSh 380,000 (N1.4 million) for them to give back the car.

No job, no money, and school fees is nigh

What makes her more stressed is that schools are opening, she has no job, and the money she knew she would use on school fees is not there.

"I had planned to start business here in Kiambu and also pay school for my children, but as we speak even money to buy food is a problem," she noted.

Wambui adds that her daughter keeps begging for forgiveness but that does not negate the fact that all her energy and sacrifices have gone with the wind.

It is even more difficult for her to handle given that it is her own daughter who wasted her hard-earned money.

"I will never ever forgive her, unless she returns that money. I've really struggled for it for many years," she concluded.

https://www.legit.ng/people/family-relationship/1515354-woman-daughter-n74m-returns-home-find-money-spent/

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Ineedhustle247: 5:08pm On Jan 20, 2023
A minute silence for those simps saving money with Dia gefrens grin

If dem fit run dia mama
Who is you?
I mean what be you? grin

I hope ppl now understand why this forum was bashing one lady whose thread made FP some days back for trying to make her boyfriend save his money in her account.

Mariangeles:
May we never labour in vain.
Amen
And may we never run short of God's wisdom and grace

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Mariangeles(f): 5:10pm On Jan 20, 2023
May we never labour in vain.

May we never be betrayed by people we trust the most.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by jaeyking(m): 5:11pm On Jan 20, 2023
May we never labour in Vain.

After all the years of struggle.
It no go pass say na one man she spend the money for

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by thorpido(m): 5:17pm On Jan 20, 2023
The daughter for get sense say him mama na single mother na.
The mother's struggles didn't even matter to her.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Shapeaso: 5:19pm On Jan 20, 2023
The daughter will also suffer. Wayward child.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by GoldenJAT(m): 5:28pm On Jan 20, 2023
E pain me too like this!! The daughter wasn't just reasonable at all!!

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by sisisioge: 6:10pm On Jan 20, 2023
She couldn't be sending money into a bank account ba? Trust people with money and be shocked beyond wanton! People become Dracula once money is involved.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Foodqueen(f): 6:13pm On Jan 20, 2023
Lobatan

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Mindlog: 6:30pm On Jan 20, 2023
Actually the real exchange rate conversion for KSh 2 million is N11.6m not N7.4 million.

I feel for the woman, after spending 9 years in Saudi Arabia working as a house help under inhumane conditions, her daughter squandered all her sweat.

The woman ought to have been requesting the monthly bank statement be forwarded to her but fact is, she could easily have easily operated her own Kenya bank account and Mpesa, right there in Saudi Arabia but I guess she thought it was safer with her daughter, should anything happen to her in Saudi Arabia.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jan 20, 2023
Cursed child! I hate seeing my mother cry and to think I may be the reason or the cause of those tears… cursed child!

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by faithfull18(f): 9:05pm On Jan 20, 2023
Kai, this is wickedness and irresponsibility of the highest order, where does she start from now.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Holybaddo: 10:22pm On Jan 20, 2023
What caused this is the Oyinbo are rich mentality

For the daughter mind since her mother is out of the country, She have lots of money

So she squandered any money that Her mother sent
Because she believed more will come grin grin


Best of luck

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Kharol1234: 10:26pm On Jan 20, 2023
This kind thing they pain enter body..

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Houseofglam7(f): 10:55pm On Jan 20, 2023
This is painful cry

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jan 20, 2023
Mariangeles:
May we never labour in vain.

May we never be betrayed by people we trust the most.

Amen! I like your signature *hearts*

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by dochenaj: 3:50am On Jan 21, 2023
The woman should arrange with the agency she used, to send the 25 year old daughter to Saudi Arabia to do the same work she was doing and be sending back money.

That's the only solution I'll proffer.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by mu2sa2: 7:00am On Jan 21, 2023
Ignorance is a disease. She should have opened a separate bank account for her savings and sent upkeep allowance to the wayward daughter.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Mercury12(m): 8:57am On Jan 21, 2023
Pathetic.

People go through different struggles and challenges in life.
Her fate no one would wish for especially when done by someone close as a daughter and one can barely do anything about it.
May God see her through. All hope is not lost

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by kazyhm(m): 9:10am On Jan 21, 2023
mu2sa2:
Ignorance is a disease. She should have opened a separate bank account for her savings and sent upkeep allowance to the wayward daughter.

Nobody ever believes/agree that any female could be wayward until it becomes personal.

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Emmanuel909090: 12:31pm On Jan 21, 2023
Lesson learned the hard way

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Hendrixky: 12:44pm On Jan 21, 2023
One number rules of life
Don't ever you trust humans with money

Issue will come up

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by id4sho(m): 12:44pm On Jan 21, 2023
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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Luckylife(m): 12:45pm On Jan 21, 2023
As a wise person who will you vote?

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Haydens: 12:45pm On Jan 21, 2023
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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Cutehector(m): 12:45pm On Jan 21, 2023
Ineedhustle247:
A minute silence for those simps saving money with Dia gefrens grin

If dem fit run dia mama
Who is you?
I mean what be you? grin

I hope ppl now understand why this forum was bashing one lady whose thread made FP some days back for trying to make her boyfriend save his money in her account.


Amen
And may we never run short of God's wisdom and grace
cheesy

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Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Mulia9: 12:45pm On Jan 21, 2023
Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Elidrisy20: 12:45pm On Jan 21, 2023
She used it to help the poor
Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by reminisce25(m): 12:46pm On Jan 21, 2023
Oya sope Otilo
Re: Woman Who Sent Daughter N7.4M While Abroad, Returns Home To Find The Money Gone by Guest911: 12:46pm On Jan 21, 2023
Gmmm

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