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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jan 29, 2023
Madame you get sense!

Your marriage will definitely flourish by God's grace.

Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by MTAIYEM: 2:15pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.


The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.


If I may ask, when was that? I mean how many years or months back.
Thanks

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Antivirus92(m): 2:15pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.
there is no ring on your fingers
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Olachase(m): 2:15pm On Jan 29, 2023
Sammy07:


grin
maybe I should do this
lol you won do wedding 2028 grin grin
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by TheOldGods: 2:15pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:


The same marriage act that guides court wedding is still the same marriage act used to dissolve a church wedding sir.
na mumu dey do church wedding nah. Anything legal in marriage should never be done ever. As a man, for you own peace and happiness. If the marriage goes south
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Sammy07: 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2023
Kobicove:


Plan your wedding according to your financial capability.

Do not borrow to finance your wedding!

leave us, let us borrow tongue
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Johnn44: 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2023
wink
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by phorget(m): 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2023
Go borrow LAPO.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Sammy07: 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2023
Olachase:
lol you won do wedding 2028 grin grin

Too far
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Kirchoffs: 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
jeromestarks:
Imagine what men go through just to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws.

Do not go through such stress just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (virgin) by a boy who didn't even know her parents not to mention paying bride price on her.

A woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man should not expect the best from you.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry such a woman. Just fvck her and let others continue fvcking her.


Do not allow any family sell a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men to you as a bride. She isn't a bride anymore cus she has no pride left in her. No glory left in her, she's now a cargo of bad news.


Only a fool will suffer to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men. Are you the fool?



Finally, fvck any girl you want but it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. Better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful home than to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men and SUFFER IN YOUR MARRIAGE.


No hymen, NO COMMITMENT.
lack of sense

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by iamola30: 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.

Don't do it

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
akube2020:




Even 800K is much.

We had a trad ceremony and reception for 80 guests. The amount is inclusive of feeding and nice souvenir of flask, jotters and umbrella.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by sketcherJ(m): 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
jeromestarks:
Imagine what men go through just to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws.

Do not go through such stress just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (virgin) by a boy who didn't even know her parents not to mention paying bride price on her.

A woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man should not expect the best from you.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry such a woman. Just fvck her and let others continue fvcking her.


Do not allow any family sell a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men to you as a bride. She isn't a bride anymore cus she has no pride left in her. No glory left in her, she's now a cargo of bad news.


Only a fool will suffer to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men. Are you the fool?



Finally, fvck any girl you want but it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. Better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful home than to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men and SUFFER IN YOUR MARRIAGE.


No hymen, NO COMMITMENT.
you are d f.ool because U sef no be Virgin. It’s people like you that beat the drums of war online but live, you are lily-livered chicken. It’s people like you that ends up marrying hookup gals. I subscribe to the idea of marring a chaste gal, some gals in their early lives make stupid decisions because they were in love (not those ones that sell their bodies for money) should we now kill them? Or damn them? As if you, your sister or mothers have never made bad decisions. B**ch

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 2:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
MTAIYEM:



If I may ask, when was that? I mean how many years or months back.
Thanks

2020

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Shampoo77: 2:18pm On Jan 29, 2023
In 2012 President Jonathan pay plenty money to me through youwin and I collect #1m from inside take arrange my marriage😂😂

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Tenshades(m): 2:19pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

I love this.
Life no suppose hard.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by iLoveYouToo(m): 2:20pm On Jan 29, 2023
Olasyke:
Don't you have work you do? You can save up from there. Abi you wan borrow do wedding? grin


From my observation, a large proportion of married men (>50%) borrowed or got grants to to make it happen

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by pesuwe(m): 2:20pm On Jan 29, 2023
I had about 700k in my acct, that’s before we picked our wedding date, plus contribution of 400k and later outsourced another 700k, totaling 1.8m which I used for my wedding

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Clash01: 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

I did my wedding on 15 of this month after I have given my inlaws what the requested for. We proceeded to wed on a Sunday during church service and na Donuts and soft drinks we share. Everything was almost 50k. But if you see my pictures ehn you think say we spend millions.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by pesuwe(m): 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
I had about 700k in my acct, that’s before we picked our wedding date, plus contribution of 400k and later outsourced another 700k, totaling the sum of 1.8m which I used for my wedding

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Dangrace01: 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
BabaOfLagos:
My late dad was a well to do business man who was really intelligent and calculative to say the least.

He taught us what it meant to build wealth compound interest method.

We all could make 1.001% profit daily before we turned 10.

Now thats were your answer lies.

In my year 24, I had about N7m, enough money to finance my marriage without the help of anyone, thankfully I married a good woman.

So I'm teaching same wealth building systems to my children.

They should be able to start building wealth even before 5.

Please explain more

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Innobee99(m): 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
Sammy07:


How? Explain how you were able to cope after marriage
If to say I don die u for no see me type for Nairaland again. Am living fine with my family Sir.


If u want to wait until u become a billionaire before u get married, that day may never come Sir

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by 1phone(m): 2:21pm On Jan 29, 2023
Any money you put in a wedding is better assumed as money used to fund Buhari's elections.

Are you indirectly referring to how the BAT financed that c. Rearer 2015?

Oti ja lo’ju we
DIVINEEVIDENCE:
If you're asking this question then it implies you should pursue financial stability and take your eyes off marriage for now.

Me dey budget 1m for my wedding, but until I have that amount in cash and more than that in investments, marriage can wait.

Pursue financial stability first, it would take care of a whole lot of frustrations you'd otherwise experience in marriage.

Wedding is not an investment where you plough in cash expecting to reap dividends.

Any money you put in a wedding is better assumed as money used to fund Buhari's elections.

You were warned.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Yoighaman(m): 2:22pm On Jan 29, 2023
@OP

Are you joking? You don't have a source of income and you want to get married? Something must be wrong with you.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Tenshades(m): 2:22pm On Jan 29, 2023
DIVINEEVIDENCE:


Pursue financial stability first, it would take care of a whole lot of frustrations you'd otherwise experience in marriage.

Wedding is not an investment where you plough in cash expecting to reap dividends.

Any money you put in a wedding is better assumed as money used to fund Buhari's elections

Apt!
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Fiscus105(m): 2:22pm On Jan 29, 2023
FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.



Do according to ur power oga, if it's 50 guests u can feed, invite that fifty. It's not wedding that most important but marriage.

Planning how to have successfully marriage and not wedding.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by saintcasmir(m): 2:23pm On Jan 29, 2023
Pells:
Marriage is overrated
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 2:23pm On Jan 29, 2023
Clash01:


I did my wedding on 15 of this month after I have given my inlaws what the requested for. We proceeded to wed on a Sunday during church service and na Donuts and soft drinks we share. Everything was almost 50k. But if you see my pictures ehn you think say we spend millions.

To whom brain is given, sense is expected.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Sammy07: 2:24pm On Jan 29, 2023
Innobee99:
If to say I don die u for no see me type for Nairaland again. Am living fine with my family Sir.


If u want to wait until u become a billionaire before u get married, that day may never come Sir

Hmmm, but there's always this Fear In me Abeq.

Like What if, what if..
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by BadEnglish(m): 2:24pm On Jan 29, 2023
Pick a date first, and watch how u will automatically become a smart saver and thinker.
I did it and it worked. I didn't borrow a dime and my wedding was elaborate despite not having up to 500k in savings b4 picking a date.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by ghiloman28(m): 2:25pm On Jan 29, 2023

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