Good day nairalanders. Its good to meet the family again and happy new year. I know majority of people here will be familiar with my story base on my previous trends. If you are unaware, you can go to my previous trends to get better perspective. Family, another one don happen again o. You all know i told you that i caught my wife cheating with a guy some times ago. I forgave her and gave her a second chance, but it seems that word that a cheat will always be a cheat is damn true. After all the issues that have happened between myself and i, another issue of unfaithfulness was unraveled today. I noticed my wife was chatting with someone on whatsapp and when i got closer to her, she became uncomfortable and this made me to request for her phone to know whatsup. I noticed there is this guy she was chatting with and in that chat, it was obvious that she deleted the previous conversation she had with the guy. In holding the phone, a chat from this guy entered and reads... PLS MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS CHAT O. I DON'T WANT WAHALA. When i saw this chat, i was shocked and also marvelled that what could make the guy send such message to my wife if they have not been have something in common. I acted as if it was my wife that was chatting and start wining the guy to know better. The guy was saying things that look like she has something to do with my wife. One of the chat was that, he knows that he is safe cos he is sure he is always in a safe hand with her. I was angry and furious when i saw all this. I asked her what was going on between the both but you know women, she denied and started crying that there is nothing going on between she and the guy. But my people is it possible for a guy to send such kinda message to a married woman if there is nothing attached. Pls am just tired of this woman called my wife cos i decided to give her a second chance because of my two daughters but it seems she is just ready to use her own hand to destroy her marriage. Even though there is nothing going on with the both, how do i believe her this time with the previous experience have had with her. How will a married woman be so stupid and foolish and never learnt from her mistake. Pls i know you guys will abuse and insult me for accepting her back but honestly i am also regretting aswell and am ready to send her back to her family. I have had enough of all of this. God marriage is not easy atall.

All your post is always about your wife.

Shey na only you Waka come?

Continue!

Sorry to say this you re a Simp and your wife is a Hoe that can never ever change. Hope you did DNA test to accertain wether those kids are yours or not. But this your wife no love you at all to the extent of chatting with other men under your roof

My dear just imagine what this gender can do. Someone that messed up barely 5 months ago, gave her a second chance but i was very watchful of her. Just imagine, she keeps males friend that doesn't benefits her but ready to destroy her marriage but not ready to learn. Honestly nothing will make me change my mind this time. I have had enough. Men , never give a cheating wife a second chance. She will still repeat it. I regretted i did now.

Jennyclay:
All your post is always about your wife.

Shey na only you Waka come?

Continue!

I think you rushed into conclusion too quickly.
You had the phone with you, you were chatting with him, it was only a matter of chatting with the guy for like 3 days, and everything will be revealed to you.
But you don sharply dey vex.
Anyways, since it has happened before, e no suppose surprise you again.

Jennyclay:
All your post is always about your wife.

Shey na only you Waka come?

Continue!

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This man suppose be headmaster for one remote primary school for Benin,his insecurities are too much.

Guy rest abeg.

Afodot0022:
My dear just imagine what this gender can do. Someone that messed up barely 5 months ago, gave her a second chance but i was very watchful of her. Just imagine, she keeps males friend that doesn't benefits her but ready to destroy her marriage but not ready to learn. Honestly nothing will make me change my mind this time. I have had enough. Men , never give a cheating wife a second chance. She will still repeat it. I regretted i did now.

You reminded me of one funky husband here years ago that disturbed the full family section years ago...adebayoforchrist

ahnie:

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This man suppose be headmaster for one primary school for Benin,his insecurities are too much.

Honestly, he should give his wife a break.. Biko.

Everytime my wife did this...my wife did that!

Oga try the pretend at times. To catch tiff you need to behave like one.
Get your laptop, open Whatsapp and hers there and monitor her chat from there.
Or pretend to travel, stay within the neighborhood and monitor her movement.
Or contact any of those women were the run mouth is they get clue.
Fear women but no go die because her oh.
There's life even after marriage.

Jennyclay:
Honestly, he should give his wife a break.. Biko.

Everytime my wife did this...my wife did that!

E go just die throway for nothing.

I know you guys will castigate me. Some are even saying am being insecured. Can you take it when the wife you married and taking good care is not been faithful or honest i. Her dealings with you. I am far from being insecured but even if i am now, she made me be so. How do you want me to trust a woman that have fail me in so many ways and you still want me not to be insecured living with her. Honestly you guys dont get it. I am not that kind of man thag expose my home but for me to do this now, its because i cant take it no more. The pain its costing me is much. If you are married you wilk understand better. How can i live with a woman that gives me reasons to doubt her

Pls how can i get this done. Beside what evidence do i need again with all this glaring at me.

excellence44:
Oga try the pretend at times. To catch tiff you need to behave like one.
Get your laptop, open Whatsapp and hers there and monitor her chat from there.
Or pretend to travel, stay within the neighborhood and monitor her movement.
Or contact any of those women were the run mouth is they get clue.
Fear women but no go die because her oh.
There's life even after marriage.

Oga rest!

Afodot0022:
I know you guys will castigate me. Some are even saying am being insecured. Can you take it when the wife you married and taking good care is not been faithful or honest i. Her dealings with you. I am far from being insecured but even if i am now, she made me be so. How do you want me to trust a woman that have fail me in so many ways and you still want me not to be insecured living with her. Honestly you guys dont get it. I am not that kind of man thag expose my home but for me to do this now, its because i cant take it no more. The pain its costing me is much. If you are married you wilk understand better. How can i live with a woman that gives me reasons to doubt her

op you are an A-S-S-H-O-L-E!

I wont blame you though. You will always support your gender

ahnie:
Oga rest!

Afodot0022:
I wont blame you though. You will always support your gender

Hey,wey you,do not just get me started.
Pls don't ever drag me into your show of shame.
Pls enjoy your mud alone

Oga take heart you Dan enter. Try and catch her red-handed and show her her father's house

Afodot0022:
Pls how can i get this done. Beside what evidence do i need again with all this glaring at me.

Oga from what your wrote up there you don't have any evidence just suspicion and conclusions. Did she confess to you?
Get concrete evidence first. As a simple man, your can either forgive and bear the heartache that comes with or you can free to practice her profession.
Free yourself.
Don't die because of woman.

Afodot0022:
My dear just imagine what this gender can do. Someone that messed up barely 5 months ago, gave her a second chance but i was very watchful of her. Just imagine, she keeps males friend that doesn't benefits her but ready to destroy her marriage but not ready to learn. Honestly nothing will make me change my mind this time. I have had enough. Men , never give a cheating wife a second chance. She will still repeat it. I regretted i did now.

Point of correction, "imagine what your wife can do". Face your cheating wife and stop lumping the whole gender together pls

I think everyone should enter this contract called marriage within the mindset that their partner is going to cheat at one point in d relationship, all this tales by moon light wouldn't happen if u av foresight

its funny how people post things like this when you already knw the step to take. "twice bitten once shy". if everybody post there relationship problem on nairaland space will not be available for other things. Its 2023 Women full everywhere if she doesn't want to calm down and be a wife pls unto the next one.

the guy that almost broke out marriage the, i told her to block the guy and also on facebook.. with all pressure and relunctant, she did. could you believe this same guy, she has added her again on facebook with another new profile. common why wont i be insecured in all this as you all proclaim.

Third chance loading....

Oga rest abeg! If you haven't cheated on your wife too, kindly give her your phone to check.

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders. Its good to meet the family again and happy new year. I know majority of people here will be familiar with my story base on my previous trends. If you are unaware, you can go to my previous trends to get better perspective. Family, another one don happen again o. You all know i told you that i caught my wife cheating with a guy some times ago. I forgave her and gave her a second chance, but it seems that word that a cheat will always be a cheat is damn true. After all the issues that have happened between myself and i, another issue of unfaithfulness was unraveled today. I noticed my wife was chatting with someone on whatsapp and when i got closer to her, she became uncomfortable and this made me to request for her phone to know whatsup. I noticed there is this guy she was chatting with and in that chat, it was obvious that she deleted the previous conversation she had with the guy. In holding the phone, a chat from this guy entered and reads... PLS MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS CHAT O. I DON'T WANT WAHALA. When i saw this chat, i was shocked and also marvelled that what could make the guy send such message to my wife if they have not been have something in common. I acted as if it was my wife that was chatting and start wining the guy to know better. The guy was saying things that look like she has something to do with my wife. One of the chat was that, he knows that he is safe cos he is sure he is always in a safe hand with her. I was angry and furious when i saw all this. I asked her what was going on between the both but you know women, she denied and started crying that there is nothing going on between she and the guy. But my people is it possible for a guy to send such kinda message to a married woman if there is nothing attached. Pls am just tired of this woman called my wife cos i decided to give her a second chance because of my two daughters but it seems she is just ready to use her own hand to destroy her marriage. Even though there is nothing going on with the both, how do i believe her this time with the previous experience have had with her. How will a married woman be so stupid and foolish and never learnt from her mistake. Pls i know you guys will abuse and insult me for accepting her back but honestly i am also regretting aswell and am ready to send her back to her family. I have had enough of all of this. God marriage is not easy atall.

I think she needs a break, so you will help her by taking her to her parents so that she can have enough time for her game

Then, I know that her parents will come to beg for her

Tell them that you will get back to them

Keep posting them so that she will decide either to follow the guy or come back to her senses

As for your children let them start school wherever she is

Some people must have sense bye force

By the time her family and your family gather together on her matters, she will humble herself

frozen70:


I think she needs a break, so you will help her by taking her to her parents so that she can have enough time for her game

Then, I know that her parents will come to beg for her

Tell them that you will get back to them

Keep posting them so that she will decide either to follow the guy or come back to her senses

As for your children let them start school wherever she is

Some people must have sense bye force

By the time her family and your family gather together on her matters, she will humble herself

Jennyclay:
All your post is always about your wife.

Shey na only you Waka come?

Continue!

Dont blame him
He never knew that marriage have some challenges

Now they are coming up and he is feeling it negatively

Marriage is for those who are prepared for nonsense

Guy if you you no wan marry again divorce am... No come here de disturb person

You sure say she love you? Do something that will make her very jealous.

Afodot0022:
Good day nairalanders. Its good to meet the family again and happy new year. I know majority of people here will be familiar with my story base on my previous trends. If you are unaware, you can go to my previous trends to get better perspective. Family, another one don happen again o. You all know i told you that i caught my wife cheating with a guy some times ago. I forgave her and gave her a second chance, but it seems that word that a cheat will always be a cheat is damn true. After all the issues that have happened between myself and i, another issue of unfaithfulness was unraveled today. I noticed my wife was chatting with someone on whatsapp and when i got closer to her, she became uncomfortable and this made me to request for her phone to know whatsup. I noticed there is this guy she was chatting with and in that chat, it was obvious that she deleted the previous conversation she had with the guy. In holding the phone, a chat from this guy entered and reads... PLS MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS CHAT O. I DON'T WANT WAHALA. When i saw this chat, i was shocked and also marvelled that what could make the guy send such message to my wife if they have not been have something in common. I acted as if it was my wife that was chatting and start wining the guy to know better. The guy was saying things that look like she has something to do with my wife. One of the chat was that, he knows that he is safe cos he is sure he is always in a safe hand with her. I was angry and furious when i saw all this. I asked her what was going on between the both but you know women, she denied and started crying that there is nothing going on between she and the guy. But my people is it possible for a guy to send such kinda message to a married woman if there is nothing attached. Pls am just tired of this woman called my wife cos i decided to give her a second chance because of my two daughters but it seems she is just ready to use her own hand to destroy her marriage. Even though there is nothing going on with the both, how do i believe her this time with the previous experience have had with her. How will a married woman be so stupid and foolish and never learnt from her mistake. Pls i know you guys will abuse and insult me for accepting her back but honestly i am also regretting aswell and am ready to send her back to her family. I have had enough of all of this. God marriage is not easy atall.

Giy calm down. I for one will never use plate picked from the gutter to serve food for myself even if the food is celestial I nor go chop am but if you get the mind to pick plate from the gutter your brain suppose tell you sey you get yourself to blame if you use that plate chop without washing the plate first...you come carry disease. Dude your wife needs cleansing. You need to drag her head to the church for deliverance and soak her in prayer and fasting for the spirit of whoredoms to leave her alone. If you fail to do so she will keep sleeping around. If you cannot marry a virgin at least do your due diligence to clean up the wife you want to marry before marrying her.

No go die before you're time because of B.P, if she cheat, cheat back.

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No offence, you're still a child.