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I have been crushing on a girl in my school. Today after classes we went to ShopRite and got something to eat.
She bought meatpies and ice cream
While eating the meatpies
She invited me to join her in her ice cream then handed me the same spoon she was using to lick the ice cream.
I used her spoon and my saliva touched it but she didn't wipe it, she put it straight into her mouth and continued using the spoon.

I haven't kissed her or had sex with her
So please what does it mean when girl shares the same spoon with a guy.

Does it mean she don't mind kissing him or getting intimate with him.
Cuz I feel like using same spoon with someone is very intimate like kissing. Am I wrong?

Your saliva has been used.
Soon, the lucky girl ll be cruising with your destiny.
See what a boy is asking o!
Updated
See as boys dey fight ontop licking saliva beneath! The same boys bashing girls as if they were duped emotionally!
Nairaland is now filled with very childish boys on hear to date. You respond to their chat and you realize they are not just broke financially but broke intellectually!
Smh!

Goodlady:
Your saliva has been used.
Soon, the lucky girl ll be cruising with your destiny.
See what a boy is asking o!

Serious answers, not everything is a joke

She don use your saliva cash out

All I'm asking is
Is it intimate for a girl to share same spoon with a guy.
I think this is a sign that she doesn't mind kissing me.
Because she clearly saw the saliva Mark I left on the spoon and instead of wiping it off, she continued using the spoon with my saliva still on it.

Aboks:
She don use your saliva cash out

be serious for once in your life. Everything no be joke. I'm serious

ChizzyBuna:
I have been crushing on a girl in my school. Today after classes we went to ShopRite and got something to eat.
She bought meatpies and ice cream
While eating the meatpies
She invited me to join her in her ice cream then handed me the same spoon she was using to lick the ice cream.
I used her spoon and my saliva touched it but she didn't wipe it, she put it straight into her mouth and continued using the spoon.

I haven't kissed her or had sex with her
So please what does it mean when girl shares the same spoon with a guy.

Does it mean she don't mind kissing him or getting intimate with him.
Cuz I feel like using same spoon with someone is very intimate like kissing. Am I wrong?

Guy .....It doesnt mean anything....
Its embarrassing wiping the spoon just because u used it.....

These are the same children insulting WOMEN on NL! Look at this primary school issue!

advanceDNA:
Guy .....It doesnt mean anything....
Its embarrassing wiping the spoon just because u used it.....

Ok but she is the one that offered me her spoon to use and taste the ice cream
Even when I said no, she persuade me to try it.
I'm curious because a girl giving you her spoon isn't that a bit to personal and intimate.

advanceDNA:
Guy .....It doesnt mean anything....
Its embarrassing wiping the spoon just because u used it.....

U are missing the point,
She is the one that offered me her spoon to use, i even said no but she insisted.
My point is if she is not scared or irritated by sharing the same spoon with me does it mean she wouldn't mind kissing me or having sex.

ChizzyBuna:
Ok but she is the one that offered me her spoon to use and taste the ice cream
Even when I said no, she persuade me to try it.
I'm curious because a girl giving you her spoon isn't that a bit to personal and intimate.

If na you....u go wipe the spoon after she used it??

U ddnt wipe the spoon when she offered...
She ddnt wipe it too when u returned it...No biggie.

See, women no hard.....if a woman wants to be more intimate with you...u cant miss it.....no be by ice cream spoon

advanceDNA:
If na you....u go wipe the spoon after she used it??

U ddnt wipe the spoon when she offered...
She ddnt wipe it too when u returned it...No biggie.

See, women no hard.....if a woman wants to be more intimate with you...u cant miss it.....no be by ice cream spoon

You are still missing the point!!
It's not about wiping the spoon
It's about a girl not minding the exchange of saliva with you.
If a girl sees your saliva on her spoon and still licks the spoon. That's what I'm talking about.

advanceDNA:
Guy .....It doesnt mean anything....
Its embarrassing wiping the spoon just because u used it.....

Will you shut up
If you don't know what to answer
Just learn to shut up your mouth.

You must be stupid to think sharing the same spoon with a girl is not a big deal.
Only couples do that kind of stuff

Can you use the same spoon your father,mother or brother use without washing it?

It’s just your head connecting unnecessary dots, stop giving meaning to meaningless things, she was your along time ago but you were wasting your time and reading stupid meaning like a teen boy

Una too like toto.

ChizzyBuna:
I have been crushing on a girl in my school. Today after classes we went to ShopRite and got something to eat.
She bought meatpies and ice cream
While eating the meatpies
She invited me to join her in her ice cream then handed me the same spoon she was using to lick the ice cream.
I used her spoon and my saliva touched it but she didn't wipe it, she put it straight into her mouth and continued using the spoon.

I haven't kissed her or had sex with her
So please what does it mean when girl shares the same spoon with a guy.

Does it mean she don't mind kissing him or getting intimate with him.
Cuz I feel like using same spoon with someone is very intimate like kissing. Am I wrong?

Ahhhhhhh you small kids of Nairaland
Op, I would be highly disappointed if you don't knack this your crush this week.
Listen and listen good

If a girl dosent mind sharing spoon with you. It is a signal that
a) She really cares for you
b) She is very unhygienic and dirty
c) She really trust you
d) She don't mind kissing you

Don't let those amateur fools tell you it's not a big deal. It is very big deal unless she Is unhygienic girl.

Sharing spoons is the same as kissing
You are both exchanging saliva
Let's call it indirect kissing.

I eat with my babe using the same spoon because I have kissed her and gone down her 😺. So she is more comfortable sharing spoon with me

I advise you to make your move
Because she has given you the ultimate greenlight. Next time you both are alone try and kiss her.
For her to exchange saliva with you means she is really really comfortable with you. That's high level trust.
So make your move or you will regret missing your chance.

She actually sees you as her bf. Simple

But you don't have sense, at your age look at the kind of question you're asking.

SultanOfPuna:
Will you shut up
If you don't know what to answer
Just learn to shut up your mouth.

You must be stupid to think sharing the same spoon with a girl is not a big deal.
Only couples do that kind of stuff

Can you use the same spoon your father,mother or brother use without washing it?

Please no dey mention me....u dont have manners

ChizzyBuna:
You are still missing the point!!
It's not about wiping the spoon
It's about a girl not minding the exchange of saliva with you.
If a girl sees your saliva on her spoon and still licks the spoon. That's what I'm talking about.

Which saliva did u leave on the spoon that she saw?? Did u see her own saliva?? Tell me?? Did u actually see her saliva??
.... guy ..u are obviously sex straved making u overthink small matter..... good luck...

Rexymania:
She actually sees you as her bf. Simple

But you don't have sense, at your age look at the kind of question you're asking.

Ok thanks, I have sense stop the insult please, I was just curious because I have seen some girls avoid using the same cup I used, they wash it or find another cup.
But for this my crush to share spoon with me made it a big deal for me.
Thanks I will now proceed to make a move tomorrow and kiss her.

advanceDNA:
Which saliva did u leave on the spoon that she saw?? Did u see her own saliva?? Tell me?? Did u actually see her saliva??
.... guy ..u are obviously sex straved making u overthink small matter..... good luck...

I don't have time for childish arguments.

😂😂😂This was called indirect kiss in my secondary school days.

SultanOfPuna:
Ahhhhhhh you small kids of Nairaland
Op, I would be highly disappointed if you don't knack this your crush this week.
Listen and listen good

If a girl dosent mind sharing spoon with you. It is a signal that
a) She really cares for you
b) She is very unhygienic and dirty
c) She really trust you
d) She don't mind kissing you

Don't let those amateur fools tell you it's not a big deal. It is very big deal unless she Is unhygienic girl.

Sharing spoons is the same as kissing
You are both exchanging saliva
Let's call it indirect kissing.

I eat with my babe using the same spoon because I have kissed her and gone down her 😺. So she is more comfortable sharing spoon with me

I advise you to make your move
Because she has given you the ultimate greenlight. Next time you both are alone try and kiss her.
For her to exchange saliva with you means she is really really comfortable with you. That's high level trust.
So make your move or you will regret missing your chance.

First of all, I'm not a small kids ok
Why do you guys always insult people for no reason. Please stop it
Thanks for sharing your experience, I get what u are trying to say. I'm happy that she feels that way towards me.
I plan to kiss her tomorrow, that's the only way to find out if am truly special to her.

Nia69:
😂😂😂This was called indirect kiss in my secondary school days.

lol I can imagine.
I was surprised when she licked the spoon and gave it to me to taste her ice cream. After 3 spoons I gave her back the spoon and she licked it again before using it. I was shocked😂 but also happy
That she don't mind using the same spoon with me.

ChizzyBuna:
lol I can imagine.
I was surprised when she licked the spoon and gave it to me to taste her ice cream. After 3 spoons I gave her back the spoon and she licked it again before using it. I was shocked😂 but also happy
That she don't mind using the same spoon with me.

Sha drop update when you finally kiss her. 😂

advanceDNA:
Please no dey mention me....u dont have manners

Getaway u bug fool
Can you share the same spoon with a stranger?
Una go just open mouth dey talk like fools.

ChizzyBuna:
All I'm asking is
Is it intimate for a girl to share same spoon with a guy.
I think this is a sign that she doesn't mind kissing me.
Because she clearly saw the saliva Mark I left on the spoon and instead of wiping it off, she continued using the spoon with my saliva still on it.

ur saliva has been used

Na 2 things... She most likely like u too... But be sure before u go chop slap, cos it's possible she just get care free attitude.. but personally I no fit share spoon with someone if I no like Dem Sha.

Nia69:
Sha drop update when you finally kiss her. 😂

Nia, what about us?

BluntTheApostle:
Nia, what about us?

Who are you?

Nia69:
Who are you?

A bot.