Get a partner 1st, both of you will plan d wedding

Am planning to Get marry by next month. I had spent 3million and still spending..... Money Raised by myself alone.

Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

please, what tribe?

Princemedico18:
Am planning to Get marry by next month. I had spent 3million and still spending..... Money Raised by myself alone.

well-done

Blessedarethepe:

please, what tribe?

Yoruba.

rottable:



Mine was similar to yours. Introduction and traditional marriage together then court.

We spent less than 200k

So you mean the parents first time meeting was on the day of the event? Since the introduction was merged with the traditional wedding

reading comments....

Blessedarethepe:

So you mean the parents first time meeting was on the day of the event? Since the introduction was merged with the traditional wedding

They've met unofficially before, but the introduction is the official meeting of both parents

After my introduction in January, we planned on having the wedding and traditional on the same day this Easter, my guy said the contents of the list is much. Secondly, he's just finished tiling his bungalow house. We decided to pay the bride price, then postpone everything till December 2023/January 2024. He's not the type that likes borrowing nor begging people for assistance. So I supported his decision 💯. Make I still use that time work and save up some money. I've gat to support my honey with the smallest I earned.
God go run am for us. I believe God.

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Marisujuaku:
After my introduction in January, we planned on having the wedding and traditional on the same day this Easter, my guy said the contents of the list is much. Secondly, he's just finished tiling his bungalow house. We decided to pay the bride price, then postpone everything till December 2023/January 2024. He's not the type that likes borrowing nor begging people for assistance. So I supported his decision 💯. Make I still use that time work and save up some money. I've gat to support my honey with the smallest I earned.
God go run am for us. I believe God.

So are you bringing in 50% of the money necessary for the preparation or are you supporting him by mouth only?

Am not married yet,but I was almost married but the lady screwed up.I sold my car,i saved 100k monthly,and i did some business along the line.I had 5m.i budgeted 1.5m for wedding and I planned to get anoda ride after the whole stuffs.But when she disappointed me I pumped it to my japa plans,I processed France,was denied,processed Iceland,was denied,finally processed anoda European Country and was granted.I Thank God my money no waste.

Zeewirld:
...I believe the Lagos marriage he/she meant is the one that you will jump on a woman, impregnate her and she will park in and both of you will be co-habiting as couples

Okay....I see. That's really cheap oo

I'm not bringing 50% cause I can't assist a man to marry me. I can sort the things that pertains to a bride which I can do, but other ones is his ooooo. God will do it for him

Kobojunkie:
So are you bringing in 50% of the money necessary for the preparation or are you supporting him by mouth only?

Marisujuaku:
■I'm not bringing 50% cause I can't assist a man to marry me.
■ I can sort the things that pertains to a bride which I can do, but other ones is his ooooo. God will do it for him

So a man is marrying you and you are not marrying the man?

2. You can sort out what exactly? Are you paying for your own part of the celebration - clothing and all?

Just go through this it’s helpful



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Na man dey marry wife for IGBO land, not the other way round. If he can't afford it,he should wait till he's ready. Nobody is putting a knife to his neck

Kobojunkie:
So a man is marrying you and you are not marrying the man?

2. You can sort out what exactly? Are you paying for your own part of the celebration - clothing and all?

Marisujuaku:
■ Na man dey marry wife for IGBO land, not the other way round. If he can't afford it,he should wait till he's ready. Nobody is putting a knife to his neck

Hence the reason why marital life for the majority of ibo women in ibo land remains abi? Look, so many who have gone before you are full of regret for not standing shoulder-to-shoulder with their spouses from the beginning. They too bragged at the beginning about how they were gold being purchased by the man marrying them. Today, their tunes are so many times much different than it was in the beginning... it is a tune that goes something like "had I known...".

There's no regrets for me. God will guide us in every step of the way

Kobojunkie:
Hence the reason why marital life for the majority of ibo women in ibo land remains abi? Look, so many who have gone before you are full of regret for not standing shoulder-to-shoulder with their spouses from the beginning. They too bragged at the beginning about how they were gold being purchased by the man marrying them. Today, their tunes are so many times much different than it was in the beginning... it is a tune that goes something like "had I known...".

Marisujuaku:
There's no regrets for me. God will guide us in every step of the way

I hope by no chance are you referring to Jesus Christ who said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - in agreement with God's curse on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16? Your lot in marriages is determined by you and you alone... God hand no dey am..

Abolarin91:
My wedding was last week Saturday(21/01/2023). I have started planning since August, I started getting all I need in my house small-small, having it in mind that I don't want to do big wedding like that. After I have bought like 75% things I need in my house then I inform one of my brother about my plan, he promised to support me with all he can afford, he planed with me to budget 250-300 guest food(he arranged for all foods and drink), I paid for hall, decorator, mc, chairs and table. The wedding latter become a big wedding. If you are a salary earner, give yourself more time to plan and no do pass yourself.
Note: I didn't allow all the money to affect my business, wedding ceremony is just one day.

How much did you rent the canopy and chairs?

I paid for hall

adibo:


How much did you rent the canopy and chairs?

Kobojunkie:
I hope by no chance are you referring to Jesus Christ who said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - in agreement with God's curse on marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16? Your lot in marriages is determined by you and you alone... God hand no dey am..

i hope you know Christ first miracle was at a wedding ceremony at Cana in Galilee.
why do you like to quote the bible upside down tho ?

FriendsAndFans:
■ i hope you know Christ first miracle was at a wedding ceremony at Cana in Galilee.
■ why do you like to quote the bible upside down tho ?

1. Jesus Christ's first miracle happened at a wedding means Jesus Christ lied in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 when He said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God? Seriously, many of you no even pass English aptitude/comprehension class at all at all.

2. This 2023, please, na beg I take beg you, pick up and read a book on critical reasoning/logical thinking. I recommend the title Being logical. Read it as though your life depends on it so you no longer produce such irrational thoughts or conclusions as the one you produce here abeg!

When you are truly ready, the money go come

Olachase:
I bought baby ram for 10k and rear it for good 5years 😁😁

I set 10k to my mom in osun she supplies me garri and yam flower

I sent 10k to my wife mom in Ondo she supplies us palm oli and pepper

Inside the bride price list items that we brought, her mom still returned 80% of items, I love my wife family

Buh I don't like my wife for one thing she doesn't have power to make pounded yam

And she doesn't like me for one thing she said I nake like machine 😁😁😁

opera1:
I took a loan of 500k, use it for business and I was able to double the money for the wedding.
I had my wedding November 5th 2022.

Please which business did you use 500k fr?

Kirchoffs:
lack of sense

why you say lack of sense?

Get good family FIRST,others Will follow

Princemedico18:
Am planning to Get marry by next month. I had spent 3million and still spending..... Money Raised by myself alone.

hello how did it go

Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

great decision