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AlphaAlex:
just let her know since she is a virgin now, you respect her choice in being chaste but whenever she’s loses it And she wants to Have a sexual experience with you she should hit you up. Until then don’t call or text her again.

The outcome will let you know if she really likes you or not.

from my judgement she no like you bro.

Dabronze:
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adambeatz:
Omoh, i just joined your club recently in regards to this aspect minus the spending aspect. She claims to be a virgin and is open to anything other than sex, i didn't push her away cause she's claims to be a virgin. I only gave her the impression that i have other means of easing myself out nd honestly she's mad but cant say jack. Money wise i don't burn my financial resources on her though im a bit nice in the aspect of buying drinks and all.


I think you should have considered having other options at your disposal, nothing kills a woman faster than knowing she is easily replaced. That way she gets to have damaging thoughts and either chooses to give you the coochie or forever hold her peace. Some men may consider it cool to either beat or verbally abuse a female, but i digress cause from my experience I've discovered the one that kills them faster is when you're able to mess with them mentally and keep cool about cause they never expect a man to be able to out think them. At first she's been shit-testing me but i always replied with punishments then she got the message that any attempt to mess with me mentally would only resort in more problems so she's stopped(for now).


I'm still casual about her cause i believe my priorities are elsewhere and not her for now, she'll know eventually she'll have to make a sacrifice. If there's on thing she says to me its that "I'm too toxic for her mental wellbeing", I believe its better to shoot to kill and say sorry than not take that shot and be called weak for life.

The only exception to this method is that it only works on girls with a certain degree of intelligence & self awareness. There are some girls who are so toxic and damaged that any move you make would only fly over their heads.

oyetunjibaba:
I did as you said,she starts to post all this WhatsApp status bla bla about how it hurts to realize the person you taught you were important to, doesn't see you that way.

AlphaAlex:
lol allow her to wallow she’s trying to manipulate you bro

Dabronze:
The wife material test

pansophist:
In every area of society, your past matters, but somehow, women wants to change the game where it suits them.

Want to get a loan? or be promoted in your job? , how about assuming a political office, or even applied for upper level degree, your past qualifications and financial behavior matters.

Peter Obi is enjoying good pr because his past as governor in anambra matters. We can't say the same for other candidates. You play by this rule by default, so why change it?

If a man's future matters to a woman, then a woman's past matters to a man. ladies, I have one question for you.

So you met Mr perfect, as in, an antichrist with 666 under his belt (six packs, six feet tall, six figure salary). You confirm from your pastor if he is mr right, but the response was bad. You confirm from pastor number two.

Then your pastor told you that in two years time after marriage, he will loose his job, bank will take back the house, and you guys will be so poor, that a refugee from Somalia would be like Otedola to you guys.

Will you continue? Answer honestly. Of course not, the marriage can go to hell. I've asked many women this question in person and they all told me no. Fork the marriage. So his future matters right? But somehow, your past doesn't matter. You want to be God, who make and change the rule as it favours you. Nonsense.

And a woman's past matters to men for one simple reason, and it's that your past will be the reference you'll use to compare him with. If he buy Android phone for you, you compare him with your ex who proposed with iPhone 14 pro max.

Men are in competition with a woman's past, hear it from a man, and not from all those Instagram rubbish you guys listen to about relationship. To men, your past is like a dagger under his belly, and the dirtier it is, the sharper it feels.

No matter what he does, it would seems like he is just scratching the surface. This dynamic is well-documented in the Tom and Jerry Episode titled "Blue cats blue".please watch it and tell me it's a lie.

So your past is important to a man, just as a man's future is important to you, and for a valid reason. You don't want to suffer as a woman, so no irresponsible man.

A man also don't want his effort to be in vain, so he doesn't want a woman with a bad past that renders his effort either sexually, financially, and lifestyle unappreciated.

Lots of women saying there are no good men to marry actually mean that they do not want a man without a good future. You've profiled the men interested in you as broke, and imagine being in a two rooms apartment with him, then you reject him.

So you're basically playing the game you don't want men to play. You judge his future, but hates when he judges your past. How about not have a dirty past instead of expecting men to ignore it? Is prevention not better than cure again?

But if men do the same thing with your past, you see it as mysogyny, patriarchy, and any woke nonsense you can conjure. Sexual liberation abi? There is a price to pay, you are just not aware.

Of course a woman with a bad past can change and be forgiven, I'm not nailing such woman to the cross. But the dynamic at play has to be said. The truth may be bitter, but it will set you free.

Cc. Sagamite

Princeadebayo11:
Guy I need your opinion on this matter, there is this girl I met through her sister (my student), we exchanged contact and we started chatting. I propose love to her but she said she didn't have heart to love again. Now she agreed to visit me soon and I have been visiting her often also. Last week she even requested for my assistance which I just helped because of her sister. she is telling me she doesn't have heart to love and yet she kept giving me attention as if we are in relationship. Although I have planned if she visits me soon, I will touch body oo

AlphaAlex:
Which kind nonsense be this one you just meet girl you just start to propose love , you see how some of you put yourselves in trouble after you will start blaming women, The girl has started friend zoning you since you have made it so clear you are head over hills in love with her, so she has started using you for your attention as well as the service you provide, from your tone you sound desperate too ,

Now here’s what you’ll do call her Today and tell her truthfully that you like her as she knows already, you are also sexually attracted to Her and you would like to have sex with her Sometime soon Whenever she’s available, Her Response To Your Request will Tell you Everything.

Compliance = She likes you and is feeling you.
Resistance = She doesn’t like you like that

Gentlemen I beg you in the name of God whatever God you serve stop telling Ladies you “LOVE” them from the moment you meet that’s some stupid shît and it will get you in trouble, Ladies tend to Misread things most times because they have met men that said one thing but meant another thing lots of times and you don’t even know the girl too well you are already saying you love her?, what the heck is that? You don’t know how she interprets that word yet because of your horniness and desperation you Start using the word, when all you want is sex you gentlemen need to really have a depth of thought before doing or saying certain things especially to Women , That’s what causes problems and mixed signals, if you want to have sex with a woman have the balls to say so if you want to do otherwise have the balls to say so stop using your indecisiveness to confuse these women it’s Annoying Good day

Princeadebayo11:
Wow

CaveAdullam:
If you find or mold such kind of women:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1621897955732033546?t=H-8P27q5U6IvrTNiishxkw&s=19[/quote]Spot on! 👏
The best of women can be found among those under a strong masculine influence like brother or father.

pansophist:
If the past is the foundation, then the building is the future. A shallow foundation does not build a solid house. A bad past is unfit for a long-term relationship. Women don't know how soft and easily influenced they are.

Imagine a girl that said to herself, that only her husband will get her virginity. That she will keep herself pure, read as many relationship books from respected people, understand what men want, and how to make them happy.

Instead of giving the best of you (virginity) to men that gave you little to nothing in return (except butterflies). Meanwhile, the one that will marry you, and carry all the responsibilities of a married man gets the leftovers.

So many men right now, quite sad to say, have their wives' naked pictures scattered in different guys' phones. Some are on the internet, while their ex keeps laughing and assured that her husband can't make her sing in high soprano since they womb-print her.

Imagine someone of the caliber of Peter Obi, running for the presidency, and his wife's ex who has her naked pics on his phone when she was swallowing emailed Tinubu with the pics, and those pics becomes a dagger in Obi's career, that he either step down from the race of the pics will go viral.

And one idiotic girl says her past doesn't matter. Seems like women that sprout this nonsense think low of real quality men that they want. They think this man doesn't have their own standards, that they can just show up with makeup, and viola, he marries them. What delusion. The higher a person climbs, the more dense their standards are.

A girl that earns a lot will have higher standards than one in the village, and the same for men. Women may set the terms and conditions for sex, but men set the terms and conditions for marriage. And if you really love me as you said, why didn't you wait?

I don't care if you haven't met me when you were still unspoiled, just as you won't care if I didn't satisfy your requirement in a man. You won't care if my father was a drunkard, mum a tout, and I was born in the prison, and Nigeria happened to me, with poverty as the only qualification in my resume.

Infact before I will be allowed to play the romance game with you, I must be on a certain level, then it will matter whether I am God-fearing, kindhearted, and husband material. The roadside vulcanizer which no woman has ever asked out in his life will probably not care about your past, but you do not give a shit about him, because you care about his future (status, money, bragging rights etc).

Nonsense.

-- As a woman ages, her capacity to attract a top-tier mate decreases, as a man ages, his capacity to attract a top-tier mate increases. In the relationship game women are smarter than men, for they settle as their value is dropping whilst men will settle as their value continues to rise.

emmaodet:
I agree with you bro but the truth is that when a man is young and poor, it is a terrible moment i won't even wish my enemy.
You will be lonely, bored, depressed and desperate for a woman or the so called Love.
It is a boring moment of a man's life. You look into the future and you see nothing, i mean virtually nothing.
No hope, nothing so the only console is a woman then.
Imagine going like 3-5 years without any Happy birthday from any family member or a woman you call your own. You will feel lonely and rejected, like someone that never existed.
It is this factors that makes men very clingy, ready to simp for a woman just to atleast be acknowledged by 1 person in the world. ATLEAST 1 PERSON KWANU AND THIS LEADS TO A MAN TAKING AND ABSORBING A WOMAN BULLSHITS AND bad attitudes.
Let's be frank, majority of men won't make it which means they will be invincible to women in this world and even family members will avoid them.
We all are social animals - we want to be loved, respected, valued, listened to when we talk, associated with etc but a poor man is invincible to the world and because a poor man is invincibleto the world, he has no choice than to keep dropping and dropping his standards just to atleast have a mate and it gets so terrible, really really terrible that MEN are ready and willing to date and marry single mothers with as high as 4/5 kids(it speaks of a man with virtually no options and choice in life),disrespectful and bad attitude women, a serial cheating woman which the man knows about but has no choice that to be enduring it etc

Gadafii:
I have said it in my thread, I am saying it again, marriage is not important to men the way it is to women,don’t be forced or pressured to do it, you will blame your life forever till you die

Get money , travel, go to international tournaments, live concerts, network, and you will see how fulfilled that is