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Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

are you NOT married too?

Get lost , To hell with this your stupid question

You know what is happening between both of you is not very appropriate. How would you feel if your husband is similarly involved with a strange woman? Why not abstain from all appearances of evil. Remember a little liven liveneth the bread. Feelings have been sparked between both of you, it is a question of time, it will lead to conflagration. Be careful and respect the sanctity of marriage.

Beremx:
hmmm as if she doesn't like how the guy is being jealous. Abegi!!
That's why I said she will still unblock him. 😂😂😂

Okafor law in waiting

Ficklemind:
You don’t have to call me a names because I lack the understanding of not blocking my ex.

I never made mention of sending my pictures to him on my write-up.

I was a student, taking pictures with my male course mate is not a sin the last time I checked.

Holding hands is not a sin either.

It my status, I upload pictures from events with both females and males I took pictures with with no hidden agenda.


If you want to give advice, please do it politely .

which mature girl lacks the understanding to block an ex except of course she using him to massage her ego.

If your man is comfortable chatting with his ex I know you will flame up.

Now you didn't tell us about your current relationship status and if you're in a long-term or committed relationship then it's a sin taking pictures with males when they hold you.

If you're not in a committed relationship, taking pictures with casual males in certain positions also compromises your stand.

I correctly assume you send your pictures to him because he demanded you send yours after he had sent his.

That was only possible because you didn't object to his sending you his pictures.

Just like your moniker......so you are! you're seeking for co-validators to urge you to ''RUN'' with an idea i guess you have the answer.
See you on his bed next time

The only solution is to BLOCK HIM!
If you feel you don't want to offend him then go back to him.
Both decisions are mutually exclusive.

advanceDNA:
Sexist?? because i said u women pretend alot is sexist? No vex

What she just described is what men do alot. Una no dey sitdown one place. Piom piom piom piom...
Please don't come and tell me it's a man's world.

DriveByKiller:
which mature girl lacks the understanding to block an ex except of course she using him to massage her ego.

If your man is comfortable chatting with his ex I know you will flame up.

Now you didn't tell us about your current relationship status and if you're in a long-term or committed relationship then it's a sin taking pictures with males when they hold you.

If you're not in a committed relationship, taking pictures with casual males in certain positions also compromises your stand.

I correctly assume you send your pictures to him because he demanded you send yours after he had sent his.

That was only possible because you didn't object to his sending you his pictures.

He didn’t send me his pictures, he only sent my old pictures that were with him.

Maybe that your ex still dey send you lil stipend that's why you can't block him... Well that's up to you guys. E be tins according to Ghana people

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

una too d lie,if we check well e never tee wee una knack last and you still d miss him gbola na why you never block am. Stop paying naira in land to post lies here ok

Block him

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Block him
Simple!!!

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Do you go about taking pictures with random males and keep uploading them on ur status and walls?
For what reason pls.
Stop posting you and random males on ur walls.
If you must post, let it be you and ur fiance or husband.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

You: ‘please stop’

Or how else do you want to say it?

Psoul:
Do you go about taking pictures with random males and keep uploading them on ur status and walls?
For what reason pls.
Stop posting you and random males on ur walls.
If you must post, let it be you and ur fiance or husband.

IQ = -120

Unfortunately, old girl, the compatible and goodman who should have married you or have serious relationship with you,
will be put off by this your abaracadabra statements.....and double opinion standard of life...

my poser to you is: why do you still LOVE smell what you said you hated to eat?

Before this balloons against your marriage.....take a an urgent decision
afterall, the guy has moved on by hooking up with his heartthrob who has given him a child
that could not have been possible with your union!

Some people don't just make use of their brains. He/she became an ex for a reason so you got to move on.

Once am done with a girl I delete her number immediately, most especially the bitter ones and Delilahs. I avoid anything that would ruin my present relationship.

I still keep in touch with two of my ex girlfriends because they're mature upstairs. Even at that we only interact once in a while not always...... Just last year one of them that's married sent my girl some money on her birthday. I wasn't surprised because that's her nature. I wouldn't have kept her number if she's evil.

Ficklemind:
He didn’t send me his pictures, he only sent my old pictures that were with him.

alright. That's quite telling, clervely reminding you of the old flames that are still heating up

maziude:
IQ = -120

You want attention?
No...I will not grant u dat.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

You will change your mind easily.....Fickleminded

Mindlog:
You unconsciously still want the interaction, reason you don't want to block him and the talk of not wanting to "offend" him , when you are ready to severe all forms of communication.....you will know what to do.

my brother, she never ready

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

You know what to do. Stop indulging him and block him. Talking about "I don't want to offend him". Plus all these men giving us men a bad name. You're a married man and you lack sense still. Radarada.

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Block his tel number. If not, you are the one still scowling for his return.

The fact remains he's married so you guys should not be talk except its platonic. Any signs of reigniting old flame, BLOCK him quick cuz it wont end well

Just ignore his comments, he will eventually stop

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Politely block him no need to come here with all this long talk

You can't tell him but you are telling us. Okay continue

Gift96:
you are still attracted to him that is why you don't want to offend him and you don't want to block him

Or better still the ex still sends her money. 9ja girls and financial favors be like 5&6

Dey play, just dey play
Na so e dey start...
Una go soon enter Field play "friendly match "
Person wey you supposed block or ignore, una dey do playback abi...
Una two go soon cast last last

Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.

Block the mofo ASAP! Unless you are also married then it will just end in tatatatata but if you are still single, he will just tie u down. The choice is yours to make.
This one you are saying you don't want to offend him, you still have feelings for him.