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Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 6:37pm On Feb 11, 2023
1stmojisola:
Are you married yet? 🤷🏾‍♂️
Are you searching?
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by pansophist(m): 9:50pm On Feb 11, 2023
I bought an iPhone 14 pro max about a month ago. Before the phone arrived, I was feeling so excited and fly, but after a week, the novelty wears off, and I just leave am for house, and keep using my rugged techno phone.

You see what I did there right?
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Maxxim: 10:12pm On Feb 11, 2023
pansophist:
I bought an iPhone 14 pro max about a month ago. Before the phone arrived, I was feeling so excited and fly, but after a week, the novelty wears off, and I just leave am for house, and keep using my rugged techno phone.

You see what I did there right?
I guess this should be the reason for the massive divorce rate amongst young couples this days, see finish😅..
I used to have mental exhaustion when with friends and female friends that I used to think if I could ever make a lasting relationship, not to talk about getting too familiar with someone.
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by pansophist(m): 10:28pm On Feb 11, 2023
Maxxim:
I guess this should be the reason for the massive divorce rate amongst young couples this days, see finish😅..
I used to have mental exhaustion when with friends and female friends that I used to think if I could ever make a lasting relationship, not to talk about getting too familiar with someone.
E no easy my guy. Same here. I just like to be alone most times. People exhaust me. I suppose be monk sef. You fit recommend any forest? let me go there and monk in peace grin
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Maxxim: 10:51pm On Feb 11, 2023
pansophist:
E no easy my guy. Same here. I just like to be alone most times. People exhaust me. I suppose be monk sef. You fit recommend any forest? let me go there and monk in peace grin
Since our Oga patapata sef dey experience am, make we fret not.
Forest keh, our bushes no dey safe again, but na inside room dey sure pass. Lol..
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by pansophist(m): 10:37am On Feb 12, 2023
Maxxim:
Since our Oga patapata sef dey experience am, make we fret not.
Forest keh, our bushes no dey safe again, but na inside room dey sure pass. Lol..
Regardless of our "oga" or "oba" status, our human condition and experience are mostly the same. Na make God give person the strength to do the right thing. To fit de with one partner for life.

Because if I play out how my body want am, I swear na to de change women like diaper every single day remain. Polygamy sef even better, because it means the man take care of the woman and her children.

I'm taking about Genghis Khan style, that Mongolian warrior wey get hundreds, if not thousands of children with hundreds, if not thousands of women. A warrior who conquered and destroy empires, and impregnated as much fine chicks as possible.

There is a king Solomon in every man. Only say, we either de broke, ugly, short, so our fate is already sealed with few partners. But purely from biological expression, omo, na to go and multiply the earth o. Lol. For sure I'll get at least hundred children grin
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Maxxim:
pansophist:
Regardless of our "oga" or "oba" status, our human condition and experience are mostly the same. Na make God give person the strength to do the right thing. To fit de with one partner for life.

Because if I play out how my body want am, I swear na to de change women like diaper every single day remain. Polygamy sef even better, because it means the man take care of the woman and her children.

I'm taking about Genghis Khan style, that Mongolian warrior wey get hundreds, if not thousands of children with hundreds, if not thousands of women. A warrior who conquered and destroy empires, and impregnated as much fine chicks as possible.

There is a king Solomon in every man. Only say, we either de broke, ugly, short, so our fate is already sealed with few partners. But purely from biological expression, omo, na to go and multiply the earth o. Lol. For sure I'll get at least hundred children grin
I don't frown at polygamy cause I know it carries the true representation of greatness and being an alpha but as you've said Shey person get the ability to live that lifestyle.

Genghis na badass, to live his lifestyle one gats to be top of the richest man alive o 😁
I used to get this thought more like an obsession of having a kid for every tribe in this world, I go like spread my seed too but make I get money first😅

I've also noticed that as men our instincts gives us flashes as how our life is supposed to be, just like a caged wild beast even after being domesticated and not raised in the wild it'll always be feared. I believe we're made for greatness and we could kick start this ability once we get intentional about it.

Lol. For sure I'll get at least hundred children grin
Baba go ahead o, the bible verse to multiply and full the earth was to be fulfilled by you lol, you're good Boss💪🏿
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:54am On Feb 13, 2023
vacanci:
As soon as she sees the bulging stuff, she humbles and we start marathon. We are still very much attracted to each other in that regard even after 3 kids with the last being 5 plus.

Sometimes on a Saturday morning as early as 7am when they are all awake, we asked them to not come over to play with us in our room until we sent for them. We can just catch a quickie or 2 between room and bathroom. oh by the way, my wife and I share same room every night.

I still cannot find other woman more attractive than her and same goes to her. I have not seen any difference in our sexual experience especially the way she enjoys it and splash all over. If something has changed then i will be concerned that she doesnt find me attractive any more but it gets better and better.

We dont exchange words when we are angry at each other. We could stay up to 4 days not talking to each other but we still communicate using the kids as proxy. We just maintain the coldness towards each other. The day one of us manages to open up a conversation, omo, that person is the one feeling more Hot at that time and i can bet you that night will always be one to remember. That sex after making up is the most passionate
Oh my God you are lucky to have a woman who is angry with you and still maintain peace. Very lucky this is what I'm looking for matured partner not Instagram Slay queen
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by DonroxyII: 5:08am On Feb 14, 2023
pansophist:
E no easy my guy. Same here. I just like to be alone most times. People exhaust me. I suppose be monk sef. You fit recommend any forest? let me go there and monk in peace grin
Your Head will just Eat Herself and You would become a Zombie Janjawee ....

You can't do without people .. You wanna be talking Everything in You to trees and Birds grin..
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by 1stmojisola(m): 3:35pm On Feb 14, 2023
omooba969:
Are you searching?
NO.
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by omooba969(m): 3:00am On Feb 15, 2023
1stmojisola:
NO.
Yinmu 😏
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by Hassanmaye(m): 1:53pm On Feb 17, 2023
Evergreen12345:
most women /girls are very dirty they only look good smell good and dress good when they want to get the attention of men when you keep them in the house you will get tired of them in weeks , I mean how can you tie wrapper in your husband's house in this modern age ? cook you won't cook better food you won't keep house clean and you talk to the man as you want and you want him to stick to you like bread and butter common all men want is peace of mind we can't be hustling to make sure you look good and won't get appreciated some will even end up cheating on the man .
Are you serious I in weeks??
Re: Why Is It That After Marriage Couples No Longer Find Themselves Attractive? by 1stmojisola(m): 10:13am On Feb 19, 2023
omooba969:
Yinmu 😏
🤷🏾‍♂️
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