| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:22pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
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| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Moneyboyz: 1:22pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
What if someone else is shinning her Congo. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by fuelsaver: 1:23pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Ok 1 Like |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by chudez0147(m): 1:23pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Another fiction... anyways,just let her do whatever she wants to do... I heard some ladies discussing about some cult rules. One of the rules is that they get to chose the number of years they'd stay in marriage. I hope this is not true sha! GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by jesmond3945: 1:24pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. check her phone, if it is confirmed she is cheating be the first to leave her. Dont let her get the upper hand. Trust me, you would be fine without her. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:25pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
Well you have to calm down at this point and be ready take it very calm with her
Just keep loving her and assist her at home and where needed
She will notice the improvement in you and that may bring her mind back home
Wake the kids and prepare them for school before leaving and ask her what she is preparing for their lunch
Get things that you are not use to bringing home, hand it over to her and tell her that is for she and the kids, even is she is coming home by 10pm, hand it over to her
This valentine, ask her to pick a place she wants you guys to visit with the children and ask her what time is good for the outing
Keep doing good and loving and definitely she will have a rethink
I purposely don't want to ask you what you did to her or why the sudden change in her
There is no smoke with out fire
Women are drama queens
Women will always find a way to mislead men about what they truly want. See how you've successfully confused OP about female nature and what they want. It's simple. A woman doing what the OP wife is doing is ready to leave the relationship, and what I'll do in that case isn't to seek peace, I'll leave, before she does. More reasons I tell men to work on their look. If you're good looking, you'll easily find another woman to replace her. I don't seek for peace in issues like this, I simply find an alternative. Men, have options in all you do. Never you place your eggs in one basket |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Wfaluse: 1:26pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
OlawaleBammie:
Reason she's holding u ransom...
As a man, even if u re weak or desperate never show it to Ur wife, always act like u dont care so much, act like psychos.. believe me Ur marriage will always go well, just don't maltreat or beat Ur woman, treat her right and give her what u re capable of...then add small small weyreyism to the equation and see how Ur marriage will be balanced. Correct naija guy. You get sense die |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by koyeni(m): 1:27pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
Well you have to calm down at this point and be ready take it very calm with her
Just keep loving her and assist her at home and where needed
She will notice the improvement in you and that may bring her mind back home
Wake the kids and prepare them for school before leaving and ask her what she is preparing for their lunch
Get things that you are not use to bringing home, hand it over to her and tell her that is for she and the kids, even is she is coming home by 10pm, hand it over to her
This valentine, ask her to pick a place she wants you guys to visit with the children and ask her what time is good for the outing
Keep doing good and loving and definitely she will have a rethink
I purposely don't want to ask you what you did to her or why the sudden change in her
There is no smoke with out fire
Women are drama queens
I'm sorry sir ..these doesn't work again |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:28pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
Were you told she tasted another Gbola or you want to keep condemning women
If any man doesn't want his wife to look out he should do his job properly
The move will not end in complete failure because you are not a woman and you don't know what makes a woman have a second thoughts when issues like this comes up
Why do you think some men gives women their Mumu button, is because they value peace of mind
When you have your own wife, use her play gamble, that's when she will show you that women are drama queens Stop misleading men. Women ain't drama queen. They know what they're doing. Women convinced themselves into believing they truly love a man, when in the real sense, they don't even love. When a woman show you drama, show her the door once she's done displaying. Advise like yours don't work. Because that's what a woman believe Will keep them in a relationship, but it's not true. As a Man, do not care about what she does. And once she shows you she's ready to leave, let her leave. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by canDy4eva(f): 1:31pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. He (DEVIL) comes to STEAL KILL DESTROY... Face him head long and hard with your prayers! What the devil wants is for you to panic, do not succumb to that! WE LIVE IN A GENERATION WHERE MARRIAGE IS NO LONGER HONOURABLE and most people will not see anything wrong in what you are saying. Just like your wife they will call you an insecure man! don't be discouraged, you are in my prayers. Love her like never before. Keep praying for her. This too shall pass. 1 Like |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:33pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Lonestar124:
My brother is not your fault nah, or is there something you are not telling us..
Pls allow her go, sure your kids stay with you ... Perhaps his cat in his tale birthed them for him, thus they are his kids. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:33pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:
Women will always find a way to mislead men about what they truly want. See how you've successfully confused OP about female nature and what they want. It's simple. A woman doing what the OP wife is doing is ready to leave the relationship, and what I'll do in that case isn't to seek peace, I'll leave, before she does. More reasons I tell men to work on their look. If you're good looking, you'll easily find another woman to replace her. I don't seek for peace in issues like this, I simply find an alternative. Men, have options in all you do. Never you place your eggs in one basket You made me laugh that I sort of manipulated the Op with my mention The Op said he is confused amd doesn't want her to leave, do you want me to tell the Op to forget about her, will I feel her vacuum for him A man doesn't need to look good to get a woman, there are more women in the world than men, so you can always get another woman But will you keep changing women when they start their drama or you will learn how to humble one that you have when her drama starts A woman can still be under your roof and play out, still returns back to your roof and you will never know what if you are lucky she speaks out that she wants to leave, what you will do is to find away to bring her back before she finally leaves, especially when children are involve Unless you are already tired with the marriage, the you pray for her to leave quicker Lastly you said men have options Look women have more options because the option a man have is still another woman If you sell your dog and buy a cat, you are still staying with a domestic animal as a pet 1 Like |
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| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by bfeather1: 1:34pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Sorry about your situation but perhaps you may need to check yourself thoroughly and criticise yourself yo see what you have been doing wrong to your wife and your home.
Then if you are blameless, have a serious discussion with her has regards the implications of her actions on you, the children and the home .
More so, do this quick so that you can assure your children all will be alright.
Stop the bad things you do to woman as well, you need to know marriage should be enjoyable and should look like a trap or cage.
Women need freedom as well but advice them ìf you feel they are going astray.
Pray to God to help you fix it. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Donkmore: 1:35pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. Depend not anyone emotionally physically spiritual ore any Cally. If she want to go let here go. What makes you think that God can't give you something better? Remember the prodigal son. Some have to go to realize where they should be. Just be nice, and learn the habit of depending only on God and not human. If human wan move funny Shift for them make them move pass |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by jimmychang: 1:36pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
Were you told she tasted another Gbola or you want to keep condemning women
If any man doesn't want his wife to look out he should do his job properly
The move will not end in complete failure because you are not a woman and you don't know what makes a woman have a second thoughts when issues like this comes up
Why do you think some men gives women their Mumu button, is because they value peace of mind
When you have your own wife, use her play gamble, that's when she will show you that women are drama queens Taking advice from a woman on how to get a cheating woman back is a scam  Women are drama queens and bla bla bla.That is why women will never take responsibility even if they are at fault.I won't marry a partner who is emotionally immature.If you can't state the reason why you are angry or mad at me or why you start doing certain thing and you expect me to figure it out and win you over when I don't know what the Bleep I did wrong then you are not ready to be married to me.I am big on communication. Somebody like you will cheat on your loving husband and still blame him for it  Someone makes you angry you sulk,I make you angry unintentionally,you sulk.You start blamainh everyone and throw a fit.Women are adults too.If I don't get a woman that can communicate cuz communication brings peace.Omo I go rest. I want peace,I wanna leave longer than my father and grand father man.If she isn't giving me peace well I move. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:36pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
canDy4eva:
He (DEVIL) comes to
STEAL
KILL
DESTROY...
Face him head long and hard with your prayers!
What the devil wants is for you to panic, do not succumb to that!
WE LIVE IN A GENERATION WHERE MARRIAGE IS NO LONGER HONOURABLE and most people will not see anything wrong in what you are saying. Just like your wife they will call you an insecure man!
don't be discouraged, you are in my prayers.
Love her like never before. Keep praying for her. This too shall pass. The Lord hates divorce, but you need to see what men of the day are turning the holy institution of marriage into. This is a man who should hold his house together as the head and priest. But instead he's online selling fantasy to his viewers. He needs to watch the War Room and figure out that he is under siege from the devil and pray his way out of marital deterioration. He needs to upgrade his physical approach to loving his wife and become more caring. All these online tales aren't helping them stay together. 1 Like |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Niceguy06: 1:37pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
You made me laugh that I sort of manipulated the Op with my mention
The Op said he is confused amd doesn't want her to leave, do you want me to tell the Op to forget about her, will I feel her vacuum for him
A man doesn't need to look good to get a woman, there are more women in the world than men, so you can always get another woman
But will you keep changing women when they start their drama or you will learn how to humble one that you have when her drama starts
A woman can still be under uoir roof and play out still return back to your roof and you will never know what so if you are lucky she speaks out of you the what you will do is to find away to bring her back before she finally leaves, especially when children are involve
Unless you are already tired with the marriage
Lastly you said men have options
Look women have more options because the option a man have is still another woman
If you sell your dog and buy a cat, you are still staying with a domestic animal
I'm not saying Men have more options. What I was saying is men should try to have options. Be good looking, have nice body, tall and watch how your options rise. That's the only way to keep women. Thinking you need to be a responsible, caring, compassionate, and God fearing man to keep a woman interest doesn't work. Take care of your look and watch your option rise |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by FireUpNow(m): 1:38pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. Ask for separation and collect the kids from her. By the time the man she is seeing messed her up she will realize her mistakes. Be resolute |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:39pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
jimmychang:
Women are drama queens and bla bla bla.That is why women will never take responsibility even if they are at fault.I won't marry a partner who is emotionally immature.If you can't state the reason why you are angry or mad at me or why you start doing certain thing and you expect me to figure it out and win you over when I don't know what the Bleep I did wrong then you are not ready to be married to me.I am big on communication.
Someone makes you angry you sulk,I make you angry unintentionally,you sulk.Women are adults too.If I don't get a woman that can communicate and communication brings peace .
I want peace,I wanna leave longer than my father and grand father man.If she isn't giving me peace well I move.
Peace is very important to everyone, at times, circumstances will make you to be the one to bring peace to the table Remember the best and worst side of any human beings are after marriage is done not before marriage, so pray you get the one you can handle 1 Like |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by BRATISLAVA: 1:40pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Donkmore:
Depend not anyone emotionally physically spiritual ore any Cally. If she want to go let here go. What makes you think that God can't give you something better?
Remember the prodigal son. Some have to go to realize where they should be.
Just be nice, and learn the habit of depending only on God and not human.
If human wan move funny
Shift for them make them move pass God will not give him another woman because this woman is his wife. Unless you and your god suddenly became lovers of divorce. He should reconcile with his wife, pray hard, brush his teeth and hit the gym. You tell him to depend on God, get he should not pray and become the spiritual head of his home? It's good it's just a tale, otherwise some of you will destroy the marriage of another man while reasoning carnally. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:42pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:
Stop misleading men. Women ain't drama queen. They know what they're doing. Women convinced themselves into believing they truly love a man, when in the real sense, they don't even love. When a woman show you drama, show her the door once she's done displaying. Advise like yours don't work. Because that's what a woman believe Will keep them in a relationship, but it's not true. As a Man, do not care about what she does. And once she shows you she's ready to leave, let her leave. Am glad you said women knows what they are doing But since they know what they are doing and still do things that will confuse a man, is that not drama Men too have their own but highly coded and they code it because they don't want to see her drama when she finds out |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:44pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
koyeni:
I'm sorry sir ..these doesn't work again Ok naw, use the format that works best |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by FRANCISTOWN: 1:44pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
fuelsaver:
Stay there and be doing I love my wife I love my wife. Let her go before she gangs up with her lover and kill you. See what my wife believes in and she sent it to me thinking that because she's now a woman above forty she's now a man and no more a woman. She called me a useless man two days ago because she must have seen a useful man outside and I'm definitely leaving her for this. She had only A level when I married her. I paid for her to acquire whatever knowledge she's using to earn money which is not even enough to feed herself. I feed the family. I alone pay children's school fees. I pay rent. She only buys clothes and shoes . That's all. I've learned at last that I married the wrong woman that sees me as useless despite my struggles to provide for the family. Please let that woman go before it's too late.
Read what the naughty woman i called my wife sent to me written by an ungodly kenyan woman to feed her rebellious lifestyle which I cannot stay to tolerate anymore.
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*MEN SHOULD PREPARE THEMSELVES TO HANDLE WOMEN WHO ARE OVER 40.*
*Men , are you ready for this ?*.
*When some Women turn 40 or 50 years , something major shifts in their personality .*
*They become bolder , more rebellious , more religious , more focused , more opinionated and more emphatic about what they want*.
*Do not be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive Woman on turning 40/50 , changes completely .*
*Most especially , when she had given birth to Children .*
*At this age , she may not go with the flow anymore , she may begin to ask some questions :*
- *Is sex food ? .*
- *Query some of your instructions*
- *Even the way you behave .*
*She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind .*
*If care is not taken , you may have to do for yourself :*
- *Dry cleaning*
- *Preparing food to eat*
*because , it might take her more time before she responds to your request .*
*There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for Women .*
*If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions , get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude .*
*The only way to avoid total breakdown of Peace and Harmony in the home is for Men to become fair , objective and reasonable in their approaches to issues at home and/or at work*.
*Men should bear in mind that , at this age , Women also harbour lots of regrets about the decisions they have made in life so far ...*
*Their Husbands may be one of them ! .*
*A woman at this age , is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a Man using very different and weird parameters .*
*Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their Wives/Partners/Bosses/Subordinates et cetera ! .*
*What you put in is what you get ! .*
*If you have treated her fairly , then , you do not have anything to worry about . She will begin to appreciate you better , if for any reason , she did not do so in the past .*
*On the contrary , if you have not been nice to her , fasten your seatbelt , the ride is about to get pretty bumpy .*
*A Woman does not forget those who hurt her . And by her actions and utterances , you will know that , she is out to show you that , she is no longer that little girl you married . It might help to learn these early , especially , with the added Corona stress .*
*Dr. M. Job Mainye Ph.D , Kisii, Kenya*
*WISHING ALL MEN , A BLESSED AND GLORIOUS HAPPY FOUNDER'S DAY ! .* Hundred! Their two fit gather kill the man. And again. For this story up here. Your woman no change. That her character dey inside her since, the way e take dey inside every lady. Wetin no make her show the character before na because say she never get wetin go fuel her pride, shey you dey feel me . Na why I dey tell men them make them dey use their kafa. That lovely, sweet, innocent looking Bani, na whining ah. Na Demon dey inside am. And na only the language of fear them understand. Na fear them dey take rule women, no be love. Them no dey show woman love. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by ymarts: 1:45pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Ishilove:
Another episode of "Things That Never Happened"
ObamaMessi, you need to get a job and get busy.  |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by frozen70(f): 1:47pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Niceguy06:
I'm not saying Men have more options. What I was saying is men should try to have options. Be good looking, have nice body, tall and watch how your options rise. That's the only way to keep women. Thinking you need to be a responsible, caring, compassionate, and God fearing man to keep a woman interest doesn't work. Take care of your look and watch your option rise Ok If that is the case, what and who is he taking care of his look for Of course women naw |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Amumaigwe: 1:47pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. She has left you already. Can't you smell the coffee or is your sense of smell impaired? Let the bitch go and formalize her new found love affair. Before letting her go, bug all her chat apps to assist in building a case against her in case of child custody suit. Hear the words of an elder. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by casualobserver: 1:48pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. First of all increase your income so that your wife doesnt have to work and take care of the home at the same time. No woman whose husband provides all her financial requirements threatens to leave the home. The job of a man is to provide, if you are providing she has no reason to work. If she is working because you are not able to provide fully then you cant also complain that she doesnt perform her homely functions. If you are providing and she decides to work then you can blame her for not performing her primary role. How can your wife be coming home from work at 9pm and you are complaining that she cant cook, why is she working? is she a slave that she will be doing 2 jobs (bring home money and taking care of the home as well? Why can't you hire a cook....the answers to these questions are likely because you are not bringing home enough money!!! when a man does not bring home enough money insults are his portion...thats just the nature of the beast called marraige and women! The job of a man is to provide and that of a woman to nurture the home. You cannot change the roles of man and woman and then complain things are falling apart in the home. On a side note you talk like a weak man. A real man is not afraid of his wife leaving because 1) he is performing his role as a man and she would never leave and 2) he would easily get another woman if she leaves. That you are afraid of losing your wife says more about you that your wife. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by sweetkev(m): 1:50pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
frozen70:
Well you have to calm down at this point and be ready take it very calm with her
Just keep loving her and assist her at home and where needed
She will notice the improvement in you and that may bring her mind back home
Wake the kids and prepare them for school before leaving and ask her what she is preparing for their lunch
Get things that you are not use to bringing home, hand it over to her and tell her that is for she and the kids, even is she is coming home by 10pm, hand it over to her
This valentine, ask her to pick a place she wants you guys to visit with the children and ask her what time is good for the outing
Keep doing good and loving and definitely she will have a rethink
I purposely don't want to ask you what you did to her or why the sudden change in her
There is no smoke with out fire
Women are drama queens
See advise |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Anonymous0001: 1:50pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
You only need MONEY, IGBO call it EGO while Hausa call it KUDI. Pls pray to God and add to your hustle GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Sucre6: 1:51pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
Meandmycrew:
When you act weak in front of women they will take advantage of you, you are so emotional and your wife can see that in you. She knows you love her so much and probably that why she is doing what she is doing. I tell men most times dont over pamper and over love your woman.Love her but dnt over show it. Baba you need to stand your ground and act like the man of the house and put in her place if she misbehave i love men who dont take shit from
Women. Atimes try to bring out the beast in you it will help them reset their brain. Words on marble, this is Coming from, a lady, God bless you for this ✌😎 |
| Re: My Ten Years Of Marriage Is Falling Apart by Munamoqel: 1:52pm On Feb 12, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored. give her correct banding on Val day . Eat plenty bitter cola . 1 Like |
