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Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by KPGGlobal: 11:10am On Feb 14, 2023
Paulajeigbe:
I know you are angry. Your wife took you for granted. She did something that angered you so you are not happy or smiling with her.

But she has cooked your dinner. While you were angry at her she was in the kitchen sweating and making sure that your best food is set.
Now the food is set. Dinner is ready.
But Oga, you are still angry. So you went out because you are still angry at her. She even begged you to at least eat. But you want to make her see that you are still angry. You went out, go to a restaurant and you eat. You returned home and went straight to bed.

Oga, stop it. If you are angry with her, abeg don't let that reach good food.

But just to get the view and opinions of the ladies. That food Oga refused to eat, what happened to it? And if you have been in this situation before how did you respond to this?



Its just like asking an impotent man to knack with a sleeping something

Someone might be reading who is also in this mess right now.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Zanxx(f): 11:12am On Feb 14, 2023
It doesn’t always work that way and that person might have his reason for rejecting the food. Real life story, there is this man I know personally. He had issues with his wife but had that mentality of staying together for the sake of the kids. He got back from work one evening to meet his dinner served. He said immediately he saw the food, his instincts told him not to eat it. So he went out and gave the food to the dogs. In the morning all 3 dogs were dead. He confronted the wife and she confessed poisoning the food, while begging him not to tell anyone and that she wouldn’t do it again . He refused and told her family what she had done. Her family pleaded with him not to involve the police. Guess what, they are still together but he doesn’t eat or even drink water in that house. The money he gives is for the children.

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Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Exceed15: 11:12am On Feb 14, 2023
The food is my sweat in first place.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by advanceDNA: 11:13am On Feb 14, 2023
highchief1:
by the reply we know them bro.Even u sef na boy.

U just like to insult pple..... i no blame u shaa
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Bahamas95(m): 11:14am On Feb 14, 2023
What is food? Nonsense!


I don't think about anything else when am really angry, not even sex can make me act stupid. I eat everyday so not eating her food for sometime won't take anything from me.

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Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Robenna(m): 11:15am On Feb 14, 2023
superCleanworks:


you are in NO POSITION and you have NO AUTHORITY to tell any man on this earth how, when and where to eat.
You are NOBODY to tell any man what to do in his house.
Even Solomon in all his wisdom and Jesus in all his glory did not give such RULES. Who are you?

Keep playing
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Zaksart: 11:15am On Feb 14, 2023
SenatePresdo:
Based on say we no dey beat women for here, avoiding her food and ignoring her is the only way I can get back to her.

I cannot come and lose home and away, she has to feel some annoyance grin

This is a very wise saying.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by shantti(m): 11:16am On Feb 14, 2023
Beautiful94:

Wokeness will be the death of this generation
We all need to be vulnerable before our partners. If he eats my food even after we have had a fight my heart will melt towards him.

Please Which food are you really referring to?
Is it normal food like chin chin, fufu, beans etc
Or is it the other food, I call it the figurative food

Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Goodlady(f): 11:18am On Feb 14, 2023
Richy4:
People have different and various ways to register their displeasure in a relationship just to avoid domestic violence....
If he doesn't want to eat, let him be... He is an adult... When he is hungry, he will eat embarassed
You ll all starve to death. Dunno who still takes Nigerian men seriously

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Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by highchief1: 11:20am On Feb 14, 2023
advanceDNA:


U just like to insult pple..... i no blame u shaa
no vex bros body Dey pepe me.Good morning sir
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by mu2sa2: 11:24am On Feb 14, 2023
Most men don't know that the worst insult to your wife is to refuse to eat her food. Even if you have a genuine reason not to eat much, take a little but never, never refuse to take your wife's food. Also, eat whatever she has prepared without complaining about the type of food or even the salt content. Reserve your comment for a later time.Women in every culture an d clime across the world are the same on this issue.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by pho: 11:27am On Feb 14, 2023
Paulajeigbe:
I know you are angry. Your wife took you for granted. She did something that angered you so you are not happy or smiling with her.

But she has cooked your dinner. While you were angry at her she was in the kitchen sweating and making sure that your best food is set.
Now the food is set. Dinner is ready.
But Oga, you are still angry. So you went out because you are still angry at her. She even begged you to at least eat. But you want to make her see that you are still angry. You went out, go to a restaurant and you eat. You returned home and went straight to bed.

Oga, stop it. If you are angry with her, abeg don't let that reach good food.

But just to get the view and opinions of the ladies. That food Oga refused to eat, what happened to it? And if you have been in this situation before how did you respond to this?

Someone might be reading who is also in this mess right now.

That is if actually she begged, most ladies this days lack manners, even if you give most of them all the care they will still abuse you and find fault at you. For me if i actually see a woman who beg I will forgive but the thing is alot of ladis now are days will not beg o especially if God come bless am with little chenge for hands.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by SmartyPants(m): 11:29am On Feb 14, 2023
BigBrother9ja:

Not all these daughters of Jezebel of this generation...

One has to very careful...
An angry, jealous or scorned woman is UNPREDICTABLE...


Eat her food, eat poison and DIE!
Few months after, she'll be riding another man while you rot underground.

STAY WOKE!

Meanwhile,
To whom it may concern, as you go about doing your valentine, DON'T LOSE GUARD OF YOURSELF!

Don't lose your dignity and virtue to nonsense, worthless and valueless things...

I know some fools that have lost their virginity to Indomie and fanta, pizza, ice-cream and all sorts of nonsense.

Your virginity is the most valuable and most precious thing you have to give any man.
Any man who tells you that your virginity or past doesn't matter is ONLY DECEIVING YOU!
That man is definitely not a responsible man or he only wants you for fun and something casual...

No high value man want to make a SLÚT or WHORÈ a wife or the mother of his children.
No one likes leftover...
No one like a used product...
No man likes a girl that has been ran through and passed around like football by various men...
Most importantly, NO CHILD WANTS TO BE BORN BY A WHORÈ OR A RETIRED SLÚT...


YOU CAN GIVE A LOT OF MEN

LOVE
MARRIAGES
CHILDREN etc
BUT YOU CAN ONLY GIVE ONE MAN YOUR VIRGINITY!
IS SUCH VALUABLE GIFT NOT WORTH GIVING SOMEONE SPECIAL THAT YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?

Does your username tally with your message?
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Beautiful94: 11:34am On Feb 14, 2023
shantti:


Please Which food are you really referring to?
Is it normal food like chin chin, fufu, beans etc
Or is it the other food, I call it the figurative food
Whatever food you have in mind
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by 2starboy25: 11:36am On Feb 14, 2023
superCleanworks:


you are in NO POSITION and you have NO AUTHORITY to tell any man on this earth how, when and where to eat.
You are NOBODY to tell any man what to do in his house.
Even Solomon in all his wisdom and Jesus in all his glory did not give such RULES. Who are you?
God bless you for me
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by advanceDNA: 11:37am On Feb 14, 2023
highchief1:
no vex bros body Dey pepe me.Good morning sir

👍
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by pepetua(m): 11:45am On Feb 14, 2023
I can only eat the other food she serve in the room not the one on the dining lest she poison me.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Gohs: 11:48am On Feb 14, 2023
Now that we're talking about food....

Let's vote Peter Obi for president so we can have plenty food to cook!

Vote Labour Party cheesy
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Oasis777: 11:49am On Feb 14, 2023
Paulajeigbe:


But she be your wife na? So because she offend you now she has also now become poison? No now!!! The matter is you are angry with something she did, does not eating her food solve the anger? That's my point though.
if your wife cheats on you, will you still eat her food?

Remember it depends on what she has done wrong.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Oasis777: 11:51am On Feb 14, 2023
Paulajeigbe:


True. But don't you think not eaten because you are angry is not the way to easing your anger? And it does not show maturity. This is your woman. Abandoning food because of offense is not it.
my friend, there are things that will be done to you that will make you loose your appetite or you stop eating her food altogether.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Oasis777: 11:55am On Feb 14, 2023
Texess:
OP is right.. me I don't play with food o.. as long as she serves me food, I am good.. the anger will varnish
.
Meanwhile at a cheap price DM me for your logo and flyer design
if you allow your stomach and your genital to control you in your marriage, you have lost it.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Albertone(m): 11:55am On Feb 14, 2023
Some women nowadays don't care especially if she didn't see wrong in what she did. If she serves the whole family and you refuse to eat, she'll go pour it back in the pot.
You can't refuse her food forever so, you'll be the one to tell her to start serving you food. She can even taunt you by saying "shebi you said you don't want my food".

My own fear is how to take disciplinary measures when I marry. Some women will outrightly and repeatedly do what you asked them not to do, consistently disrespect you.
I'm this cool headed guy, I don't like shouting, I can never hit her.
How my wife wan take me serious like this?
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Ahvenjah: 11:59am On Feb 14, 2023
yomi007k:


He is a to-to worshiper. Look at his former threads. He can't think.


Imagine his personal text states ; " living daily for my lover".

Is he not FINISHED?

He is indeed finished
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by BigBrother9ja: 11:59am On Feb 14, 2023
SmartyPants:


Does your username tally with your message?
Get SENSE na
I'm your big brother and a Nigerian
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by Oasis777: 12:03pm On Feb 14, 2023
Goodlady:

You ll all starve to death. Dunno who still takes Nigerian men seriously
this is why women will never be taken seriously, you guys sabotage yourselves at every turn.
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by godofuck231: 12:12pm On Feb 14, 2023
Thats how men end up dead ,
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by tunapawizzy: 12:13pm On Feb 14, 2023
Paulajeigbe:
I know you are angry. Your wife took you for granted. She did something that angered you so you are not happy or smiling with her.


Make una dey give properly weighted advice o, what if you are angry with her because u caught her with another man, no go eat poison o.

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Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by babyfaceafrica: 12:17pm On Feb 14, 2023
Zanxx:
It doesn’t always work that way and that person might have his reason for rejecting the food. Real life story, there is this man I know personally. He had issues with his wife but had that mentality of staying together for the sake of the kids. He got back from work one evening to meet his dinner served. He said immediately he saw the food, his instincts told him not to eat it. So he went out and gave the food to the dogs. In the morning all 3 dogs were dead. He confronted the wife and she confessed poisoning the food, while begging him not to tell anyone and that she wouldn’t do it again . He refused and told her family what she had done. Her family pleaded with him not to involve the police. [b]Guess what, they are still together [/b]but he doesn’t eat or even drink water in that house. The money he gives is for the children.

The guy is playing with fire
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by babyfaceafrica: 12:20pm On Feb 14, 2023
Albertone:
Some women nowadays don't care [/b]especially if she didn't see wrong in what she did. If she serves the whole family and you refuse to eat, she'll go pour it back in the pot.
You can't refuse her food forever so, you'll be the one to tell her to start serving you food. She can even taunt you by saying "shebi you said you don't want my food".

My own fear is how to take disciplinary measures when I marry. Some women will outrightly and repeatedly do what you asked them not to do, consistently disrespect you.
I'm this cool headed guy, I don't like shouting, I can never hit her.
[b]How my wife wan take me serious like this?

Any woman who doesn't care about his husband welfare even when they are fighting is unserious and men should be careful of them
Re: Oga Sir!!! Even If She Offends You, Eat Her Food. by babyfaceafrica: 12:21pm On Feb 14, 2023
Albertone:
Some women nowadays don't care especially if she didn't see wrong in what she did. If she serves the whole family and you refuse to eat, she'll go pour it back in the pot.
You can't refuse her food forever so, you'll be the one to tell her to start serving you food. She can even taunt you by saying "shebi you said you don't want my food".

My own fear is how to take disciplinary measures when I marry. Some women will outrightly and repeatedly do what you asked them not to do, consistently disrespect you.
I'm this cool headed guy, I don't like shouting, I can never hit her.
How my wife wan take me serious like this?


Never hit a woman, however show you are in control, if not
. Na sorry be your case. Respect is very important

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