I was a daddy girl but he left when I was 7 years,if he was alive he wouldn’t allow me go through the emotional distress am going through in my marriage…A husband will travel and it’s not necessary for him to FaceTime with his kids n talk to me,,I have peace when he is not at home cos of shouts,nagging and quarreling,a man who puts his mother,brother and sisters interest first before his wife and kids…knowing fully well they don’t like me or his children,.God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u …

If u are a husband/father pls love your wife as Christ as instructed you to,build your home cos it pays to be responsible and loved by your nuclear home,being irresponsible will only bring hatred to you waiting for you at ur old age or God forbid you fall sick and will need the assistance of that ur wife n kids and they turn their back on you…your brother and sister will not leave their family and attend to you,at that point u irritate them…when will Nigerian men start behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u

You left him cause he wasn't promising right?

Mraphel:

You left him cause he wasn't promising right?

Watch how all the femails will come to console and side without the need to want to hear the other side of the entire story. "Let's cherry pick just one testimony and chew on it!"

Febails!!!

ellaV:
I was a daddy girl but he left when I was 7 years,if he was alive he wouldn’t allow me go through the emotional distress am going through in my marriage…A husband will travel and it’s not necessary for him to FaceTime with his kids n talk to me,,I have peace when he is not at home cos of shouts,nagging and quarreling,a man who puts his mother,brother and sisters interest first before his wife and kids…knowing fully well they don’t like me or his children,.God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u …

If u are a husband/father pls love your wife as Christ as instructed you to,build your home cos it pays to be responsible and loved by your nuclear home,being irresponsible will only bring hatred to you waiting for you at ur old age or God forbid you fall sick and will need the assistance of that ur wife n kids and they turn their back on you…your brother and sister will not leave their family and attend to you,at that point u irritate them…when will Nigerian men start behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

try to make urself happy don't let anyone be author of ur joy stay healthy and try to ignore him starve him that attention.

Bonesbreaker:
try to make urself happy don't let anyone be author of ur joy stay healthy and try to ignore him starve him that attention.

thanks for the advice,appreciate

ellaV:
I ..... behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

...you still have lessons to learn. You probably got married to your current husband based on assumptions and generalisations . Continue looking for anambara men, they are the solution to your problem

Advision:


...you still have lessons to learn. You probably got married to your current husband based on assumptions and generalisations . Continue looking for anambara men, they are the solution to your problem

I waka pass..happy Sunday

LocalStandard1:


Watch how all the femails will come to console and side without the need to want to hear the other side of the entire story. "Let's cherry pick just one testimony and chew on it!"

Febails!!!

"Who" is going to tell the other side of the entire story here on Nairaland?

Mindlog:


"Who" is going to tell the other side of the entire story here on Nairaland?

The husband of course!

LocalStandard1:

The husband of course!

Then invite him over to Nairaland, to state his own side of the story.

Mindlog:

Then invite him over to Nairaland, to state his own side of the story.

Until then you and all your type should shut up with the judgement till I bring him here. Okay?!

LocalStandard1:


Until then you and all your type should shut up with the judgement till I bring him here. Okay?!

Maybe after you finish shutting up those close to you.😆😆😆

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ellaV:
I was a daddy girl but he left when I was 7 years,if he was alive he wouldn’t allow me go through the emotional distress am going through in my marriage…A husband will travel and it’s not necessary for him to FaceTime with his kids n talk to me,,I have peace when he is not at home cos of shouts,nagging and quarreling,a man who puts his mother,brother and sisters interest first before his wife and kids…knowing fully well they don’t like me or his children,.God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u …

If u are a husband/father pls love your wife as Christ as instructed you to,build your home cos it pays to be responsible and loved by your nuclear home,being irresponsible will only bring hatred to you waiting for you at ur old age or God forbid you fall sick and will need the assistance of that ur wife n kids and they turn their back on you…your brother and sister will not leave their family and attend to you,at that point u irritate them…when will Nigerian men start behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

My sister, you have to grow up. Only you can make yourself happy. Find something doing that can keep your mind busy, you will not even remember if he is around or not.
The little you have, eat what you love and show love to your children and be happy together.

Emotional write up but it's never quite that easy. We need to hear the other side first. I've met a number of manipulative and toxic women whom specialise in flipping the script.

ellaV:
I was a daddy girl but he left when I was 7 years,if he was alive he wouldn’t allow me go through the emotional distress am going through in my marriage…A husband will travel and it’s not necessary for him to FaceTime with his kids n talk to me,,I have peace when he is not at home cos of shouts,nagging and quarreling,a man who puts his mother,brother and sisters interest first before his wife and kids…knowing fully well they don’t like me or his children,.God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u …

If u are a husband/father pls love your wife as Christ as instructed you to,build your home cos it pays to be responsible and loved by your nuclear home,being irresponsible will only bring hatred to you waiting for you at ur old age or God forbid you fall sick and will need the assistance of that ur wife n kids and they turn their back on you…your brother and sister will not leave their family and attend to you,at that point u irritate them…when will Nigerian men start behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

I'm sorry to hear about the pain you've experienced in your marriage and the loss of your father at a young age. It's understandable that you would want your husband to be more present and supportive in your family life, and that you feel hurt and frustrated when he prioritizes other relationships over yours. It's important for husbands and fathers to recognize the impact of their choices and behaviour on their families, and to prioritize building strong and loving relationships with their spouse and children.

However, it's also important to recognize that every person and family is unique and that there may be factors at play in your situation that is not immediately clear. It's possible that your husband has his own struggles and challenges that make it difficult for him to be fully present and engaged in your family life, and that there are opportunities for healing and growth in your relationship if both of you are willing to work on it together.

Ultimately, building a happy and healthy family requires effort and commitment from all members, and it's important to seek support and guidance when needed. I encourage you to consider seeking counselling or other forms of support to help you navigate the challenges you're facing and find a path forward that works for you and your family.

ellaV:
I was a daddy girl but he left when I was 7 years,if he was alive he wouldn’t allow me go through the emotional distress am going through in my marriage…A husband will travel and it’s not necessary for him to FaceTime with his kids n talk to me,,I have peace when he is not at home cos of shouts,nagging and quarreling,a man who puts his mother,brother and sisters interest first before his wife and kids…knowing fully well they don’t like me or his children,.God gave me a man I termed”Peace Of Mind” but I left him because of u …

If u are a husband/father pls love your wife as Christ as instructed you to,build your home cos it pays to be responsible and loved by your nuclear home,being irresponsible will only bring hatred to you waiting for you at ur old age or God forbid you fall sick and will need the assistance of that ur wife n kids and they turn their back on you…your brother and sister will not leave their family and attend to you,at that point u irritate them…when will Nigerian men start behaving like Anambara Men…it pays to be a loving husband and father ,it’s a seeds u are sowing and u will reap from it.
In loving memory of my dad.

Are you a male or female? Cause your monika state that you are a male and you also indicate on your profile that you are a male. What are you really?

Rubbish...