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I have never in my life had a relationship heartbreak
Guys should learn to be tough, whether In relationships or life in general.
I have never looked for a job after graduation, I change jobs like water before I am tough and I always put myself first. If you put yourself and your happiness first, everybody will learn to respect you and put you first.

The more you say NO to a lady, the more the lady will respect you and wish to have you. She will see you as a guy that have so many choices and she will try her best not to offend you.

I learnt about this years ago, when I was still in my year 1 in university and till date, I have dated the finest ladies, never had a heartbreak, I have not even spend much on any woman. Every woman I date don’t even want me to spend much because they always assume that I have one goal or ambition that I am chasing that need my money.

If you take a girl out, stop trying to make sure that she enjoys herself. You are the one doing the spending so please focus more on enjoying yourself. Trust me they will notice it and be surprised because many guys always try to overdo

If the lady you are dating ask for anything unreasonable, turn it down immediately and tell her plain that what she is asking for doesn’t make sense. Don’t sugarcoat words. She will get angry but she will be the one to call you and reconcile

Be the MAN in a relationship, even if you are broke, try to show that you are in charge. No do pass yourself. The ladies will love you more and they will stay with you and believe in your future.

Lastly, your future is better than any woman. You can spend on a lady but don’t forget that your future need your money more. Please the fight of Everyman is against poverty, don’t forget it. NO DO PASS YOURSELF. If a woman find out that you value her more than your future, she will tag you mugu and she will leave you for a better guy and you will end up poor in life like most men in this world.

Apt.

As a man you must first love yourself with all your heart, women will pick up on these cues subconsciously and fall madly in love with you.

You cannot give what you don't have. The message from OP is simple, love yourself and women will love and respect you. And herein lies the major problem with so called "redpillers" on NL these days. They hate women because they hate themselves and women hate them in return for this. You will see them avoid this thread like a plague.

But when it's a woman-bashing thread, they would've rushed in here with their contributions (insults).

kenedyx:
Apt.

As a man you must first love yourself with all your heart, women will pick up on these cues subconsciously and fall madly in love with you.

You cannot give what you don't have. The message from OP is simple, love yourself and women will love and respect you. And herein lies the major problem with so called "redpillers" on NL these days. They hate women because they hate themselves and women hate them in return for this. You will see them avoid this thread like a plague.

But when it's a woman-bashing thread, they would've rushed in here with their contributions (insults).

Yes !! Glad you got the point. Many redpillers get this relationship all wrong, and if you investigate, they are not enjoying a healthy relationship. Always looking for red flags and spreading hate

Na sooo!!!

mayor02:
Yes !! Glad you got the point. Many redpillers get this relationship all wrong, and if you investigate, they are not enjoying a healthy relationship. Always looking for red flags and spreading hate

I've come to realize that they're not dealing with "the girl next door" in their everyday lives but with oloshos, prostîtutes and street girls, that's why they don't see any good in women and are quick to label them hoes and whatnot.

Prostitutés are not a part of a functional society.. hence you only find them in excluded areas. So, anyone judging the wider population of women by the actions of these degenerates is just docile.

They say women are lazy and entitled but they don't consider their physical and mental limitations. Can a woman defend herself against predators who would come for her resources like how a man would, easily? They ignore things like these and also things like, why are women always grouped alongside children? It's crazy.

Apologies for the digression.

One fool blocked herself on my whatsapp yesterday,she posted something like ...make men dey run after women to dem happy,what of me,who will make me happy.she say no wonder girls like married men.i tell am say na teenagers dey do their all to please women..any man above 30 who still dey live for women na mumu..value yourself and dont take nonsense.

mayor02:
I have never in my life had a relationship heartbreak
Guys should learn to be tough, whether In relationships or life in general.
I have never looked for a job after graduation, I change jobs like water before I am tough and I always put myself first. If you put yourself and your happiness first, everybody will learn to respect you and put you first.

The more you say NO to a lady, the more the lady will respect you and wish to have you. She will see you as a guy that have so many choices and she will try her best not to offend you.

I learnt about this years ago, when I was still in my year 1 in university and till date, I have dated the finest ladies, never had a heartbreak, I have not even spend much on any woman. Every woman I date don’t even want me to spend much because they always assume that I have one goal or ambition that I am chasing that need my money.

If you take a girl out, stop trying to make sure that she enjoys herself. You are the one doing the spending so please focus more on enjoying yourself. Trust me they will notice it and be surprised because many guys always try to overdo

If the lady you are dating ask for anything unreasonable, turn it down immediately and tell her plain that what she is asking for doesn’t make sense. Don’t sugarcoat words. She will get angry but she will be the one to call you and reconcile

Be the MAN in a relationship, even if you are broke, try to show that you are in charge. No do pass yourself. The ladies will love you more and they will stay with you and believe in your future.

Lastly, your future is better than any woman. You can spend on a lady but don’t forget that your future need your money more. Please the fight of Everyman is against poverty, don’t forget it. NO DO PASS YOURSELF. If a woman find out that you value her more than your future, she will tag you mugu and she will leave you for a better guy and you will end up poor in life like most men in this world.

The delusion is real with this one

Sixfeetbelle:
The delusion is real with this one

Coming from a lady, PAIN !