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Marriage is highly favorable to the women because women don't need to bring anything to union other than themselves and their private parts.


Let's be honest, a man getting married is a risky decision because if the relationship ends in divorce, the woman likely gets half of the man's money along with child custody due to court rulings.

So my advice to men is this: if you're going to get married , ensure you don't get involved in any court marriage because once the state is involved, be ready to lose your hard-earned money to a woman with a broke background

60% yes, 40% no. But don't they say the majority carry the vote?

Jashub:
Marriage is highly favorable to the women because women don't need to bring anything to union other than themselves and their private parts.


In fact, getting married might even be a risky decision because if the relationship should end in divorce, the woman will likely get half of the man's money along with child custody due to court settlements.

If you're going to get married as a man, ensure you don't get involved in a court marriage because once the state is involved, be ready to lose your hard-earned money

Wrong... give your own terms before marriage and let her sign it

Never marry a woman that bring only her body to the marriage ... she MUST assist financially no matter how lil

Both parties
If he no favour men make them stay single

Autobot05:
Wrong... give your own terms before marriage and let her sign it

Never marry a woman that bring only her body to the marriage ... she MUST assist financially no matter how lil

That will depend on the country you're living in . For example, in you're in the US , most prenuptial agreements have fixed conditions as instituted by law and even at that , the courts will still require the man to pay a certain percentage out that amount.

Secondly, how many women do you know that are willing to partner with a man in marriage ? How many women actually want to bring something to the table...? Very few my brother ...very ,very few.

Marriage should not be discussed in a public space like nairaland.

Jashub:
That will depend on the country you're living in . For example, in you're in the US , most prenuptial agreements have fixed conditions as instituted by law and even at that , the courts will still require the man to pay a certain percentage out that amount.

Secondly, how many women do you know that are willing to partner with a man in marriage ? How many women actually want to bring something to the table...? Very few my brother ...very ,very few.

I get your point . Well if there's no way to protect my assets after a divorce.. I ain't doing it in the first place then

Older women do that but it's rare among the younger women

Its left for we men to rise up

Jashub:
That will depend on the country you're living in . For example, in you're in the US , most prenuptial agreements have fixed conditions as instituted by law and even at that , the courts will still require the man to pay a certain percentage out that amount.

Secondly, how many women do you know that are willing to partner with a man in marriage ? How many women actually want to bring something to the table...? Very few my brother ...very ,very few.

What do you want your wife to "bring to the table", if you are to get married?

If marriage isn't favourable to women as God has ordained it, gladly marriage your fellow man so that the favours will be balanced.

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Mindlog:
What do you want your wife to "bring to the table", if you are to get married?

Look, I'd like for my wife to be a traditional woman in the sense that she can cook, clean and look after the kids while I'm away making money to support the family . Any woman who can do this effectively (while being submissive to my peace of mind )is a woman I'd gladly die for if I were in the midst of 10 men.

Studies have shown that married men are happier than married women. And single women are are happier than single men.

Is this Whining or Something?

Who still ask this kind of question these days when you know the answer already🙄

Beremx:
If marriage isn't favourable to women as God has ordained it, gladly marriage your fellow man so that the favours will be balanced.

God cursed women in marriage - Genesis 3 vs 16. How is a curse favorable to women?

Ardar:
Studies have shown that married men are happier than married women. And single women are are happier than single men.

Dey deceive yourself. Comedian.

Autobot05:
Wrong... give your own terms before marriage and let her sign it

Never marry a woman that bring only her body to the marriage ... she MUST assist financially no matter how lil

GBAM!!!

Now I can EXIT the Group Chat.

Answer. . . . NO!
Marriage is a partnership of separate but EQUAL entities with a 50/50 share-holding portfolio.
Anything short of this formula is NOT A MARRIAGE, but a relationship without equity or equilibrium.
It benefits only those who invest wisely and are committed to making the marriage work.
If only one person is working for a relationship. . . .there are no beneficiaries only enablers and opportunists.
End of discussion.