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umarfantami:
I never knew most of tthe people(esp the female) that gave advice to her are just animLs in human skin. Were you not the one that celebrated WOMEN DAY yesterday.

You live in your mother's womb for 9 months ,with your BIG TOOTHED MOUTH suckle her breast 2 years plus. Pooed and pee on her for....... Years. Am sure the way you sounded she is not with your father, and you can't support her ,bringing your mother's issues to faceless forum.

Her telling you get married is not a bad idea, because you live alone and anything can happen and you're her daughter, she will not see bad things happening to you AS YOU WANT HER TO SEE.

And if you prefer to stay and be receiving your DOGGIES, REVERSE COWGIRL, BL, HEADS.......with that useless who will dump you later, Continue. KARMA IS REAL and the WALL. await you.

why are talking the girl as being wrong ?

please be emotional intelligent, the same person who asked het to leave is the same person who want to home in with her


what has changed now ?

Do you know why most some
people have anger issues, its becoz of how there are treated, feelings not respected or taken into account

do you know most people suffer from low self esteem due to the fact that we cant talk bad to our elders and these elders abuse us due to the fact that their are elders, they dont regard your feelings and mental wellbeing

ahnie:
Bunch of cretins I must confess.sick of reading his senseless vituperation.

I missed when sexkillz was still a mod,it's braggarts like these he doesn't waste time banning.

Two wrongs doesn't make a right. Ahnie be calming down naw. U too dey hot

Hey there,happy new march.

GentlePEACE:
Two wrongs doesn't make a right. Ahnie be calming down naw. U too dey hot

Glad you're still around.
Warmest regards to you.

I don’t care about these nowadays parents.

Very irresponsible!

I don’t think I want any of my parents to live with me.

And par adventure they end up staying with me, I must not hear “Pim”.

You cause trouble, I throw you out.

I’m not your retirement plan, plus I was not asked to be born.

You’ve lived & enjoyed your life, let me do mine.

Rolexxxy:
My dad is not in the picture. My mom never married my dad, they were mere lovers. I was born out of wedlock. I am my mother's only child.

stand up for u, realize that only u got u. If she & any supporters she may have decides to make a monster out of u cos u walked away from her drama, chaos, deformatory accusations to u, humiliation, attack on ur peace of mind & mental wellbeing, then so be it. Let her live with d imaginary moster she has made. I repeat ur life will be damaged, do not let her in. U need ur mental stability to function in day to day life. Block her number & not feel guilty about it, it's an act of self preservation. U cannot pour from an empty cup as she is deplating & exhausting u emotionally & mentally like dis. Protect ur sanity. Since she is sowing discord & chaos with u rather than love & peace & compassion, let her reap it cut her off. U can't be living with ur enemy, see urself as motherless, d earlier u do, d better for u. Grief her exit from ur life, cry if u must, but see her for what she is. A demon. & Then move on. Blood isn't thicker than peace of mind. Ur mother is a demonic, malignant & psychopathic narcissistic woman. She is jealous of everything u re, will sabotage u in every way & yes can m**der u go read about toxic narcissistic mothers & gain knowledge, yes she hated u

ZIMDRILL:
why are talking the girl as being wrong ?

please be emotional intelligent, the same person who asked het to leave is the same person who want to home in with her


what has changed now ?

Do you know why most some
people have anger issues, its becoz of how there are treated, feelings not respected or taken into account

do you know most people suffer from low self esteem due to the fact that we cant talk bad to our elders and these elders abuse us due to the fact that their are elders, they dont regard your feelings and mental wellbeing

Her mother didn't asked her to laeve. She only said she left because of emotional torment and SHE IS A MANAGER. SO SHE RENTED HER APARTMENT. My question is why she didn't leave when she was 10 -15 years, because she is now capable she will rather leave her mother for ashawoism than to tolerate her.

umarfantami:
Her mother didn't asked her to laeve. She only said she left because of emotional torment and SHE IS A MANAGER. SO SHE RENTED HER APARTMENT. My question is why she didn't leave when she was 10 -15 years, because she is now capable she will rather leave her mother for ashawoism than to tolerate her.

what does SENT ME PACKING MEAN ?

i dont how you are understanding the story

have you asked why the mom wants to move in into her place ? why is she leaving abandoning her own place ?

1Sharon:
Why do people love to say this shit?

Instead, the mother should have been nicer, the kids have limited time to spend with her because they're going to move out one day and start their own lives.

One day you'll become a mom and know it feels

Failure2019:
One day you'll become a mom and know it feels

Are you a mother?

ZIMDRILL:
what does SENT ME PACKING MEAN ?

i dont how you are understanding the story

have you asked why the mom wants to move in into her place ? why is she leaving abandoning her own place ?

Home trainings and cultures varies but in my culture you treat your parents as they treated you when you were a child(am sure no mother will treat her own child badly) .You can't argue with them and never go against thir wish.Because they own you and what you owned.

Sorry for your troublesome mother. What of your dad? Just insist on renovating her place for her since she's very troublesome. Who likes a troublesome fellow?

ahnie:
Hey there,happy new march.
Glad you're still around.
Warmest regards to you.

Yes i am. How are your Children doing?

GentlePEACE:
Yes i am. How are your Children doing?

My fam is great

Stillwhites:
You are the brainless one here.

Who cares if women are leaving nairaland? Please leave asap so we can have peace of mind.

Now you can run along the gutter where your fellow mad men are, you have been noticed.

No wonder you guys are giving wrong advices to the men , I also said it that nairaland only support men whether they're good or bad .

They only support their fellow men in aspect of cheating on their wives .

Some mothers are programmed to hinder the progress of their children.

Some mothers are best associating with from a distance...

Please do not listen to family and blood blah blah ...

Get your mother her space and If she refuses the gesture then just focus on your life....

Cutehector:
Women supporting their fellow women in the mud.

They just celebrated IWD yesterday

That is why i laugh whenever they celebrate IWD because its all fallacy.

Now look at them preventing their mother to stay in to allow them continue to visit men.

They know that woman is problem that is why they cannot deal with their own shït.

It is so difficult for two females to stay in one place in peace.

Once again you failed to make any sense.

Failure2019:
One day you'll become a mom and know it feels

true..

You are a foolish boy for this useless comment of yours.


quote author=Stillwhites post=121588927]You are a very wicked girl. You are completely stupid! You don't want to let your mother in because that your useless boss is spending the night with you always in that house and you don't want your mother to know. If you don't want to receive curses go and bring that woman in.[/quote]

managingpartner:
You are a foolish boy for this useless comment of yours.


quote author=Stillwhites post=121588927]You are a very wicked girl. You are completely stupid! You don't want to let your mother in because that your useless boss is spending the night with you always in that house and you don't want your mother to know. If you don't want to receive curses go and bring that woman in.

Kobojunkie:
That's even better as that means you don't have to fight back against an additional ego in the background somewhere. I think you need to let your mother know you are happy with who you are and that she has to learn to let you be. You are 23 and not too old to live and enjoy life with your mother. I am about twice your age and my mother is part of my regular if not daily life still. We aren't necessarily best of buddies — but we live as though roommates and everybody respects each other's boundaries because we learned to become more understanding of each other's differences as we became adults. Push back and let your mother know that you've got this — your life that is.

You are always active in advising people on nairaland guy

Stillwhites:
You are a very wicked girl. You are completely stupid! You don't want to let your mother in because that your useless boss is spending the night with you always in that house and you don't want your mother to know. If you don't want to receive curses go and bring that woman in.

It is thunder that would strike you for insulting someone you don't know.