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Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Karikapapaya(m): 10:15am On Mar 15, 2023
Please 🥺 I need advice. Since I graduated from University of Benin in 2011, I have not had a good job. I also have a Masters degree from same Uni. I reside in Warri in Delta State. I also own a diploma in theology, that means have been to bible school. Have been teaching in different private schools since 2011. Am 34 now will be 35 in few months time. Lots of people are putting pressure on me to get married but I am scared I can't sustain a family with my meagre private school teacher's salary. Am considering relocating to Abuja to see if I could get a better life with my credentials. I don't know how life really is over there? If I could get a better job? even if it's a good private school that pays well. What's the cost of accommodation? Am just trying to take a leap of faith. Though it seems late, but better late than never. I just feel a change in environment would be better because help is not forth coming from anywhere. I could also work as a pastor in a church if I can get accommodation. Someone please help me I need counsel. Thank you in anticipation 🙏. I have been thinking 🤔 too much lately. Seems like am running out of time cos most of my mates are already married and settled. Help a brother. Am Esan by tribe but born and brought up in Warri. Am like a burden to my aged parents right now because I still live with them and feed from them. I have savings of up to 150k. Keep the advice coming please. Should I just rent a small house in Warri and be managing things or I should relocate to Abuja ? Or even Lagos? I know I am brilliant because I graduated with a second class upper grade with a 4. Point CGPA in biochemistry. I can speak fluently and can defend my certificate but have not been really lucky with jobs. Have spent t fare attending different interviews in Lagos in the past I had to give up and stop coupled with he fact that the age factor isn't on my side anymore.
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 15, 2023
Certificate alone is not a road to landing a good job in Nigeria.Are the northern Fulani more educated than you?No!They get lucrative jobs in government while they are nowhere to be find among the technocrats in private sectors apart from politicians who bought shares and use their influence to employ their aboki brothers to be a manager in a private firm.

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Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by iloemmanuel(m): 12:28pm On Mar 15, 2023
It's just not easy anywhere, moving to Lagos will give u more job opportunities that doesn't mean there are no job applicants in Lagos, just that more organization and companies are situated in Lagos than other parts of Nigeria..
For Abuja, it's either a government, NGO or hotel jobs speaking from my little observations..
The better option would have been if you had learnt a trade or skill then u invest in it while u maintain your job,even if you get to Abuja or Lagos without accommodation in this present day Nigeria,it will be a disturbing factor to you...
They say.... When there is a will, there is a way...
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 2:25pm On Mar 15, 2023
There's something people failed to understand. The world is going to a time that only those learn, unlearn an relearn will be really living good life. Yes, let me tell you, 2011, I was still in searching for admission but now am making 100 of thousands by God's grace. I know really do any job per say. But what I do is, I teach foreigners and whenever they pay, it's huge money, the Teaching is just an hour per day, so you can see how easy it's. Am planning on expanding and getting more students, if I have like 5 students, that's 500k in a month. Looking at me, those that sees me will think I dey do Yahoo. People suffers because they focused on what they've learnt or know in the past, they don't relearn new things and that's why they are unemployed.
As internet is, it has connect people together till the extent that you can even have a farm in USA and be monitoring right from there. You better go and upgrade yourself. A lot are making legit money from affiliate marketing, freelancing, crypto currency, Amazon KDP, drop shipping, skits, pranks, and people who are delusional will say they are Yahoo guys. No be everyone dey do Yahoo o, I have a friend that teach affiliate marketing that earns 50k daily. Yes, fifty thousand daily, the guy is still in 300l. in fact, I met him on Nairaland. And he make such money. People are making money in different things like farming, export, import, transportation business. You better up your game or else, you might remain here. See internet has connected the world and made it easy to an extent that if you don't use internet to make money. Na your problem o.

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Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 2:31pm On Mar 15, 2023
so, that's the advice, the advice no be to go Lagos or Abuja but to get good life, the money I make in my Oyo State here, some people living in Lagos aren't making it. Am not bragging o, am just telling fact. Don't think of Lagos or Abuja now but how can you change financially. that's what you need. As you said warri, there are so many opportunities you can leverage on and sell to people in Lagos State. Forget about customers, internet will do that.

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Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by socialjustice93: 8:19pm On Mar 15, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
so, that's the advice, the advice no be to go Lagos or Abuja but to get good life, the money I make in my Oyo State here, some people living in Lagos aren't making it. Am not bragging o, am just telling fact. Don't think of Lagos or Abuja now but how can you change financially. that's what you need. As you said warri, there are so many opportunities you can leverage on and sell to people in Lagos State. Forget about customers, internet will do that.
Boss can you put me through on how you're making it please
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 9:09pm On Mar 15, 2023
socialjustice93:
Boss can you put me through on how you're making it please
what?
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Nobody: 9:20pm On Mar 15, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
There's something people failed to understand. The world is going to a time that only those learn, unlearn an relearn will be really living good life. Yes, let me tell you, 2011, I was still in searching for admission but now am making 100 of thousands by God's grace. I know really do any job per say. But what I do is, I teach foreigners and whenever they pay, it's huge money, the Teaching is just an hour per day, so you can see how easy it's. Am planning on expanding and getting more students, if I have like 5 students, that's 500k in a month. Looking at me, those that sees me will think I dey do Yahoo. People suffers because they focused on what they've learnt or know in the past, they don't relearn new things and that's why they are unemployed.
As internet is, it has connect people together till the extent that you can even have a farm in USA and be monitoring right from there. You better go and upgrade yourself. A lot are making legit money from affiliate marketing, freelancing, crypto currency, Amazon KDP, drop shipping, skits, pranks, and people who are delusional will say they are Yahoo guys. No be everyone dey do Yahoo o, I have a friend that teach affiliate marketing that earns 50k daily. Yes, fifty thousand daily, the guy is still in 300l. in fact, I met him on Nairaland. And he make such money. People are making money in different things like farming, export, import, transportation business. You better up your game or else, you might remain here. See internet has connected the world and made it easy to an extent that if you don't use internet to make money. Na your problem o.
Knowledge is power
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by boldx(m): 4:40am On Mar 16, 2023
Please you need to relocate fast. Do you have a friend in Abuja or Lagos that can accommodate you for a while. I stay in Abuja and teaching is lucrative here.
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by FunnyDude(m): 5:59am On Mar 16, 2023
I do tell people that your destiny is in your hand and brain. Internet has made the world a global village.

Though destiny ain't the same I know, but we need to still try.
With current exchange rate and level of inflation in Nigeria, I don't think anyone should settle for less anymore. I mean you earn $1000 and that equals 750,000 Naira in our local currency.

Bro...

Wake up, don't sleep...you can use your phone and internet use to watch TikTok to learn freelancing and make such income every month.

I'm a testimony. In 2018, I went to search Lagos for job and attended interviews till fustration became my other name.

Today, Internet saved me from lack and poverty.

Not my certificate.

Please learn a skill with that your internet. You will smile.

No one is coming to save YOU. Wake up please!

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Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Greatdand007(m): 7:52am On Mar 16, 2023
FunnyDude:
I do tell people that your destiny is in your hand and brain. Internet has made the world a global village.

Though destiny ain't the same I know, but we need to still try.
With current exchange rate and level of inflation in Nigeria, I don't think anyone should settle for less anymore. I mean you earn $1000 and that equals 750,000 Naira in our local currency.

Bro...

Wake up, don't sleep...you can use your phone and internet use to watch TikTok to learn freelancing and make such income every month.

I'm a testimony. In 2018, I went to search Lagos for job and attended interviews till fustration became my other name.

Today, Internet saved me from lack and poverty.

Not my certificate.

Please learn a skill with that your internet. You will smile.

No one is coming to save YOU

PIC 1: some proof of earnings from Upwork

PIC 2: some earning from foreign client on LinkedIn.

Wake up please
Cc: Karikapapaya

Wow boss plz can you put my thru
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Greatdand007(m): 7:53am On Mar 16, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
There's something people failed to understand. The world is going to a time that only those learn, unlearn an relearn will be really living good life. Yes, let me tell you, 2011, I was still in searching for admission but now am making 100 of thousands by God's grace. I know really do any job per say. But what I do is, I teach foreigners and whenever they pay, it's huge money, the Teaching is just an hour per day, so you can see how easy it's. Am planning on expanding and getting more students, if I have like 5 students, that's 500k in a month. Looking at me, those that sees me will think I dey do Yahoo. People suffers because they focused on what they've learnt or know in the past, they don't relearn new things and that's why they are unemployed.
As internet is, it has connect people together till the extent that you can even have a farm in USA and be monitoring right from there. You better go and upgrade yourself. A lot are making legit money from affiliate marketing, freelancing, crypto currency, Amazon KDP, drop shipping, skits, pranks, and people who are delusional will say they are Yahoo guys. No be everyone dey do Yahoo o, I have a friend that teach affiliate marketing that earns 50k daily. Yes, fifty thousand daily, the guy is still in 300l. in fact, I met him on Nairaland. And he make such money. People are making money in different things like farming, export, import, transportation business. You better up your game or else, you might remain here. See internet has connected the world and made it easy to an extent that if you don't use internet to make money. Na your problem o.

Boss plz can you put me thru
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Greatdand007(m): 7:55am On Mar 16, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
There's something people failed to understand. The world is going to a time that only those learn, unlearn an relearn will be really living good life. Yes, let me tell you, 2011, I was still in searching for admission but now am making 100 of thousands by God's grace. I know really do any job per say. But what I do is, I teach foreigners and whenever they pay, it's huge money, the Teaching is just an hour per day, so you can see how easy it's. Am planning on expanding and getting more students, if I have like 5 students, that's 500k in a month. Looking at me, those that sees me will think I dey do Yahoo. People suffers because they focused on what they've learnt or know in the past, they don't relearn new things and that's why they are unemployed.
As internet is, it has connect people together till the extent that you can even have a farm in USA and be monitoring right from there. You better go and upgrade yourself. A lot are making legit money from affiliate marketing, freelancing, crypto currency, Amazon KDP, drop shipping, skits, pranks, and people who are delusional will say they are Yahoo guys. No be everyone dey do Yahoo o, I have a friend that teach affiliate marketing that earns 50k daily. Yes, fifty thousand daily, the guy is still in 300l. in fact, I met him on Nairaland. And he make such money. People are making money in different things like farming, export, import, transportation business. You better up your game or else, you might remain here. See internet has connected the world and made it easy to an extent that if you don't use internet to make money. Na your problem o.

Boss plz put me thru
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by socialjustice93: 8:10am On Mar 16, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
what?

On the Abuja/Lagos thread you talked about making money via teaching foreigners. Please can you put me through on it or any other sources of earning I will so appreciate, thanks.
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by ahiboilandgas: 8:11am On Mar 16, 2023
Karikapapaya:
Please 🥺 I need advice. Since I graduated from University of Benin in 2011, I have not had a good job. I also have a Masters degree from same Uni. I reside in Warri in Delta State. I also own a diploma in theology, that means have been to bible school. Have been teaching in different private schools since 2011. Am 34 now will be 35 in few months time. Lots of people are putting pressure on me to get married but I am scared I can't sustain a family with my meagre private school teacher's salary. Am considering relocating to Abuja to see if I could get a better life with my credentials. I don't know how life really is over there? If I could get a better job? even if it's a good private school that pays well. What's the cost of accommodation? Am just trying to take a leap of faith. Though it seems late, but better late than never. I just feel a change in environment would be better because help is not forth coming from anywhere. I could also work as a pastor in a church if I can get accommodation. Someone please help me I need counsel. Thank you in anticipation 🙏. I have been thinking 🤔 too much lately. Seems like am running out of time cos most of my mates are already married and settled. Help a brother. Am Esan by tribe but born and brought up in Warri. Am like a burden to my aged parents right now because I still live with them and feed from them. I have savings of up to 150k. Keep the advice coming please. Should I just rent a small house in Warri and be managing things or I should relocate to Abuja ? Or even Lagos? I know I am brilliant because I graduated with a second class upper grade with a 4. Point CGPA in biochemistry. I can speak fluently and can defend my certificate but have not been really lucky with jobs. Have spent t fare attending different interviews in Lagos in the past I had to give up and stop coupled with he fact that the age factor isn't on my side anymore.
Lagos .
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by FairlyUSEDpussy: 8:17am On Mar 16, 2023
Karikapapaya:
Please 🥺 I need advice. Since I graduated from University of Benin in 2011, I have not had a good job. I also have a Masters degree from same Uni. I reside in Warri in Delta State. I also own a diploma in theology, that means have been to bible school. Have been teaching in different private schools since 2011. Am 34 now will be 35 in few months time. Lots of people are putting pressure on me to get married but I am scared I can't sustain a family with my meagre private school teacher's salary. Am considering relocating to Abuja to see if I could get a better life with my credentials. I don't know how life really is over there? If I could get a better job? even if it's a good private school that pays well. What's the cost of accommodation? Am just trying to take a leap of faith. Though it seems late, but better late than never. I just feel a change in environment would be better because help is not forth coming from anywhere. I could also work as a pastor in a church if I can get accommodation. Someone please help me I need counsel. Thank you in anticipation 🙏. I have been thinking 🤔 too much lately. Seems like am running out of time cos most of my mates are already married and settled. Help a brother. Am Esan by tribe but born and brought up in Warri. Am like a burden to my aged parents right now because I still live with them and feed from them. I have savings of up to 150k. Keep the advice coming please. Should I just rent a small house in Warri and be managing things or I should relocate to Abuja ? Or even Lagos? I know I am brilliant because I graduated with a second class upper grade with a 4. Point CGPA in biochemistry. I can speak fluently and can defend my certificate but have not been really lucky with jobs. Have spent t fare attending different interviews in Lagos in the past I had to give up and stop coupled with he fact that the age factor isn't on my side anymore.

Bros......I would advise u skip Lagos out Oooo........don't really know bout Abuja tho

Even the whole saving wouldn't get u a room self con in Lagos.........and don't be surprised same might not get a single room either in developed areas.........
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 8:23am On Mar 16, 2023
Greatdand007:

Boss plz can you put me thru
which one?
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 8:24am On Mar 16, 2023
socialjustice93:


On the Abuja/Lagos thread you talked about making money via teaching foreigners. Please can you put me through on it or any other sources of earning I will so appreciate, thanks.
what's your interest
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Greatdand007(m): 8:24am On Mar 16, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
which one?

Any one you can put me thru I go appreciate am
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by Tohsynetita1: 8:25am On Mar 16, 2023
Greatdand007:


Any one you can put me thru I go appreciate am
message me on Whatsapp then 0803154250 nine
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by djoe21(m): 9:09am On Mar 16, 2023
Personally I would say you should try Abuja. It's less expensive compared to Lagos and you get better value for money.

I don't know about private schools but I believe an average one should pay better compared to Warri or Lagos.

I don't know how you will do your initial accommodation when you come but I have quite a strong feeling that moving to Abuja will be better for you.

As a pastor I do not need to tell you the importance of praying about it.
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by socialjustice93: 10:08am On Mar 16, 2023
Tohsynetita1:
what's your interest

Anything legitimate that can earn me money whether online or offline, please.
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by FunnyDude(m): 3:06pm On Mar 16, 2023
Karikapapaya:
Please 🥺 I need advice. Since I graduated from University of Benin in 2011, I have not had a good job. I also have a Masters degree from same Uni. I reside in Warri in Delta State. I also own a diploma in theology, that means have been to bible school. Have been teaching in different private schools since 2011. Am 34 now will be 35 in few months time. Lots of people are putting pressure on me to get married but I am scared I can't sustain a family with my meagre private school teacher's salary. Am considering relocating to Abuja to see if I could get a better life with my credentials. I don't know how life really is over there? If I could get a better job? even if it's a good private school that pays well. What's the cost of accommodation? Am just trying to take a leap of faith. Though it seems late, but better late than never. I just feel a change in environment would be better because help is not forth coming from anywhere. I could also work as a pastor in a church if I can get accommodation. Someone please help me I need counsel. Thank you in anticipation 🙏. I have been thinking 🤔 too much lately. Seems like am running out of time cos most of my mates are already married and settled. Help a brother. Am Esan by tribe but born and brought up in Warri. Am like a burden to my aged parents right now because I still live with them and feed from them. I have savings of up to 150k. Keep the advice coming please. Should I just rent a small house in Warri and be managing things or I should relocate to Abuja ? Or even Lagos? I know I am brilliant because I graduated with a second class upper grade with a 4. Point CGPA in biochemistry. I can speak fluently and can defend my certificate but have not been really lucky with jobs. Have spent t fare attending different interviews in Lagos in the past I had to give up and stop coupled with he fact that the age factor isn't on my side anymore.

Seun front page please
Re: Abuja Or Lagos People Please Advice Me, Am Depressed! � by yunus22: 12:55pm On Mar 19, 2023
boldx:
Please you need to relocate fast. Do you have a friend in Abuja or Lagos that can accommodate you for a while. I stay in Abuja and teaching is lucrative here.
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