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Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Hed0nist(op): 10:06pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
she means if men are not made unacceptable 4 marriage by promiscuity , then women should not be condemned too.
Please where did I state otherwise? Abeg show me.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
so u like it when all is not well with me, that means all is not well with u too
😂 I don't know you so why should I care if you're well or not.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Hed0nist(op): 10:12pm On Mar 19, 2023
Banilla:
Oh! Okay... Who are they having sex with tho, spirits? grin

If promiscuous women are gutter water, the men are too, right? Every man who's a non-virgin, who sleeps with prostitutes, who fornicates... grin
It seems you just want to go back and forth for the sake of it. I just gave an analogy to show how your question sounded. We all know that the most important reason for not drinking gutter water is to avoid ingesting germs. Why then will you take the main reason away when answering the question. Don’t just read to respond. Nobody called promiscuous women gutter water.

In your other responses you keep alluding to men who don’t really have anything going for them. The thread was created to inform men who are either successful or have the potential to be. Relax.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by HellVictorinho7: 10:16pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
😂 I don't know you so why should I care if you're well or not.
u called it good, do u think i want to waste Banilla's time? if she can't at least tell me anything about her, then whatever.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by HellVictorinho7: 10:17pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hed0nist:
Please where did I state otherwise? Abeg show me.
ask her , u guys have been arguing.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Nobody: 10:17pm On Mar 19, 2023
Lemos14:
You're trying to be clever by half and you're fooling yourself more...you're trying to defend her out of sentiments...

I asked a simple question and you couldn't answer because you know you made a stupid comment...
Lol. I mentioned you earlier just to let you know slut-shaming her just to hurt her because she stated facts isn't wise. I know my girl well. 😌
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Nobody: 10:19pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
u called it good, do u think i want to waste Banilla's time? if she can't at least tell me anything about her, then whatever.
You'll be fine.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Banilla: 10:19pm On Mar 19, 2023
Hed0nist:
It seems you just want to go back and forth for the sake of it. I just gave an analogy to show how your question sounded. We all know that the most important reason for not drinking gutter water is to avoid ingesting germs. Why then will you take the main reason away when answering the question. Don’t just read to respond. Nobody called promiscuous women gutter water.

In your other responses you keep alluding to men who don’t really have anything going for them. The thread was created to inform men who are either successful or have the potential to be. Relax.
Metaphor. undecided

Same thing. Don't date promiscuous men, it's like drinking gutter water (why would you want to ingest germs?) undecided

I never did that! undecided

Rich and poor men should respect women regardless of how many men they've had sex with.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by HellVictorinho7: 10:20pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
You'll be fine.
meaning?
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Hed0nist(op): 10:22pm On Mar 19, 2023
Banilla:
STDs?

Something most men are familiar with. Most STDs can be treated. How many men have complained about being infected? If a promiscuous woman catches a disease, she can easily treat herself before getting married. What men do! undecided

So it doesn't make sense.
Let me spell out the 3 reasons you asked for since it’s so hard to sieve

1. I never said STDs alone. I said fertility issues (complications) from STDs. Stop shifting goal posts. Since you want to go there, most STDs don’t show symptoms in most women. By the time they are diagnosed, complications have risen. Have you aver seen a man with PID?

2. Higher risk of cheating. It will break a man’s heart if his wife cheats. It has nothing to do with how it makes him look. Heartbreak de pain. Plus high risk of paternity fraud.

3. Starfish sex, log of wood in bed, vanilla crumbs etc
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Nobody: 10:25pm On Mar 19, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
meaning?
It will turn out alright for you.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by HellVictorinho7: 10:27pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
It will turn out alright for you.
is that why banilla can't know me at least?
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Hed0nist(op): 10:28pm On Mar 19, 2023
Banilla:
Metaphor. undecided

Same thing. Don't date promiscuous men, it's like drinking gutter water (why would you want to ingest germs?) undecided

I never did that! undecided

Rich and poor men should respect women regardless of how many men they've had sex with.
I gave an analogy not a metaphor.

It is not my concern what women do with promiscuous men.

I love and respect women, even prostituttts. The fact that I respect a promiscuous woman doesn’t mean I’ll wife her up. Not when I’m in my right senses.

The thread was created to inform men who have something going for them in life.

I am not here to argue Mail vs Femail. Not me.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Lemos14: 10:34pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
Lol. I mentioned you earlier just to let you know slut-shaming her just to hurt her because she stated facts isn't wise. I know my girl well. 😌
You still havent answered my question sha...I'm fascinated because you've not even met her in person

So again..how do you know?
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 19, 2023
Lemos14:
You still havent answered my question sha...I'm fascinated because you've not even met her in person

So again..how do you know?
I know her off NL. Are you satisfied?
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Lemos14: 10:41pm On Mar 19, 2023
Nia69:
I know her off NL. Are you satisfied?
Okay let's take your word for it that you know her offline. The question still stands because you're not with her 247

How do you know?
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by eazzzy1(m): 6:31am On Mar 20, 2023
This is like opening a thread giving people reasons not to eat poop. Anyone who needs to be given reasons not to eat shit, deserves to eat shit.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Tenrack: 7:50am On Mar 20, 2023
eazzzy1:
This is like opening a thread giving people reasons not to eat poop. Anyone who needs to be given reasons not to eat shit, deserves to eat shit.
Lmao. Period.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Karlifate:
It's pretty simple;

A woman is born with value.
Hence, she has to protect it.
This is why her past matters.

A man is born with no value.
He has to build it.
This is why his past does not matter.


In addendum, from concrete & reasonable observations:

Women marry financially up.
Men marry morally up.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Danlax(f): 9:34am On Mar 20, 2023
Banilla:
You are wrong!

Like I said, a woman's body count bothers insecure men... And you proved me right with this

Basically, men don't want promiscuous women because they will cheat or they will never be satisfied... Yet women are getting married to men with high body counts. Won't they cheat too? And compare their wives to the experienced girls they've slept with? undecided

Secondly, it wouldn't be a risk if she's clean, right? No STDs, cause that's the only legit issue. The irony of how a lot of women complain about their husbands infecting them with diseases. grin

Stop being emotional.
You again..?? Why yo just taking this sh*t personal? You obviously telling us tha you've got high body count... Smh🤦 Pls yo gotta got some shames...! Ur future hubby fit dey this NL dey read this Ur crap...!
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by Hed0nist(op): 12:10pm On Mar 20, 2023
eazzzy1:
This is like opening a thread giving people reasons not to eat poop. Anyone who needs to be given reasons not to eat shit, deserves to eat shit.
Some people need to be taught. Especially now when some people try to shame others for looking out for their best interests. Common sense is not that common.
Re: High Body Count: Reasons To Avoid As A Man With Something Going For Him In Life. by eazzzy1(m): 5:44am On Mar 22, 2023
Hed0nist:
Some people need to be taught. Especially now when some people try to shame others for looking out for their best interests. Common sense is not that common.
Lol G, if someone needs to be taught this then they do not have a choice, even a five year old would prefer to have a new toy than one with 53 previous owners.

So if I have to give someone reasons not to eat poop, I just assume the only option available to them is poop.
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