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Thecan:
Just say u no see husband marry

superCleanworks:
Comrade will you make heaven like this?

Katcall:
i find married women sexually unattractive after childbirth

Katcall:
how many men have you slept with?

Permit me to remember the number your dad falls on before answering this question.

I don't like to tell lies

Thecan:
Just say u no see husband marry

You mistake me for your mom

Katcall:
i find married women sexually unattractive after childbirth

Katcall:
hmm. may your wisdom never run dry

superCleanworks:
little pig : "DADDY WHY IS YOUR MOUTH VERY LONG?"
father : when you get to my level you will know if your own mouth will be short or longer than my own

PoliteActivist:
There is something you are all missing - a woman can easily make herself unapproachable. By simply being consistenly formal, serious, and taciturn she will turn men away from her. Any man that tries her will quickly regret it.
Bottom line: it is women that control sex not men. Whenever sex happens just know it began with a woman displaying that she is open to it and available!

onumadu:
The answer lies in the fact that human beings are also animals. Duh

The only thing that separates a human being from other animals is the brain, but even that brain is still subject to basic animal instincts, like eating, pooping, fkng. You can be as "civilized" or as "intelligent" as you want, but if you fail to satiate these instincts, you will misbehave. Guaranteed.

A wise woman would do everything in her power to meet her husbands sexual needs ( ANYTHING short of harming herself).

A wise man would do everything too to ensure that his wife's sexual needs are met.

Failing which sex will happen OUTSIDE of the marriage. Guaranteed. Unless he or she is ASEXUAL.

All these name callings and sanctimonious admonitions will not change anything.

PoliteActivist:
1400 years ago a man could have as many wives/women as he could afford and who were willing, and men did just that - because that's how NATURE made them. Women on the other hand would rather sleep with just one man but be flirtatious and admired by lots of men. Now, you want men to curb their polygamous nature but women continue to maintain their flirtatious nature. The fair thing would be that women dress in that moslem black burka covering them head to toe!

davillian:
Only few men can control that hunger to cheat....
Sometimes men would want to test his hunting skills lmao....
Sometimes women indirectly force thier husband to cheat....I've heard of men begging thier wife for sex such man can leave the wife and get a side chic.
Some women after one child they begging to behave like grandma and be tying wrapper up and down....
As for why women cheat hmmmm
This one is complex o.
If she is sex starved
If the husband doesn't gives her his time and attention she might end up falling for such man and might give him sex
For money

Badb0y4lyf:
It has always been so. our fore fathers had two or three wife even the men of old all in the Bible and Koran had more than a wife or different concubines or mistress. The white man just came telling us man is ment to marry just one wife which is fundamentally wrong it goes against nature however looking at it from the perspective of man having freedom to have many wife there would be population explosion and the current resources on earth won’t be able to sustain mankind. However man is an animal first before shoe and tie the instinct to propagate procreate and dominate sexually will always be there.

falcon01:
You said it all! And women blame you for checking other ladies out. Well if the fun days of your life are over, mine ain't. I still love you but you can't keep the least you can do is let me get a youngblood outside and keep it going 🤣. With this said, I believe a man is not meant to be with one woman! Religious or not, Traditional or not, a man is Built to have many women! Its just This white men coming and telling the world how to be civilised how not to marry a girl below 18 when 30 years ago they married girls as young as 15 years old and all of a sudden they be like nah! That's wrong.

Katcall:
are you a eunuch?

Katcall:
how many men have you slept with?

Divoc19:
There is still chance for a change if you realize on time

kelspinall:
seriously what I see nowadays in marriage made not to think about it... May I no even go relationship side shaaa...


but on a serious note to the both genders: if you are not ready to settle down and have a family, please be single .. don't fuhkin play with human heart and feelings... you no fit come out when you jam de wrong person...

SundayNightGist:
This your take dey be me one kind sha

SundayNightGist:
By "a change', do you mean to re-marry?
Please enlighten us

SundayNightGist:
Why do married men cheat?

They are everywhere- men who though are married- still take pride in sleeping around with other women (both single and married). They are in our offices (public and private), churches, schools and markets- some are even reading this post right now.

Thing thing has not only become rampant, it is fast becoming normal but disgusting to would-be married men.

Is it that these people don't know that chasing other women when you have your own wife at home is abnormal or you still think you're single or you just hate your wife so much?

I keep asking, what is the essence of getting married when you'll still be cracking dirty jokes about women in bars and changing women like diapers every week?

Why all these lavish weddings that end up being a smokecreen for nothingness?

Is there something married men who continue to live promiscuously after marriage are not telling us?

What could be the main reason why married men go about committing adultery?

Could it be:
A. Lack of sexual satisfaction with their wife?
B. Spirit of adultery?
C. The devil?
D. Lack of self-discipline?

Somebody should help we upcoming eligible bachelors with answers abeg cos I don dey vex laidis.

SundayNightGist:
You sure?

PoliteActivist:
There is something you are all missing - a woman can easily make herself unapproachable. By simply being consistenly formal, serious, and taciturn she will turn men away from her. Any man that tries her will quickly regret it.
Bottom line: it is women that control sex not men. Whenever sex happens just know it began with a woman displaying that she is open to it and available!

okoroemeka:
you forgot option E which means cheating is meant only for oyibo people,there is nothing like cheating men in Africa,it is legal to marry more than one wife,have more than one mistress, cocumbines and side chicks,it is traditional and legal,

Divoc19:
Discover yourself and make a change even if you have to walk out.

Remarry may not be the solution. If you love love then, stay committed to someone

We didn't come to this life to live for anybody but for ourselves.

We can't blame anybody for anything on judgment day

falcon01:
how e dey be you?

SundayNightGist:
E no too clear fam

Persephone1:
Same way i feel about married men .

Katcall:
i concur. Have you seen the way they look at men that try to toast on the street? as if you are not normal

Divoc19:
Discover yourself and make a change even if you have to walk out.

Remarry may not be the solution. If you love love then, stay committed to someone

We didn't come to this life to live for anybody but for ourselves.

We can't blame anybody for anything on judgment day