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She's obese.
She's older than I am.

Oga,

Did anyone force you to do? What's with the recent eye-opening to her obesity? Aren't you yourself obese with sex?

When you dey fück her toto, you nor know say she be twice your age and she obese, abi?

So if she is obese can't you unobese her?? See never underestimate a good character in any woman of nowadays o because to find such is very rare. So it is better you join her to work on her weight. Help her loose weight. Visit the doctor to know the kind of exercise she can be doing and dieting as well. My brother age is just a number as they say. To have a wife who gives you peace of mind in your marriage is an underrated blessing i swear.

chatinent:


Oga,

Did anyone force you to do? What's with the recent eye-opening to her obesity? Aren't you yourself obese with sex?

I saw all these way before the pregnancy and that was why I stated my intentions of not wanting marriage which she accepted. Like I said, it disturbs me not having to spend time with my boy as he's still small.

Her calmness is also another thing that is making me have a second thought. She doesn't give palpitations like other girls do.

Red flag : Don't date and sleep with girls you are not sexually attracted to


For Suffering Promax & smiling - Marry Her 😍
For Probability - Marry someone else 💔
For Peace of mind - Don't marry at all 😂


Choose your poison wisely 👍

VikingKing:
When you dey fück her toto, you nor know say she be twice your age and she obese, abi?

It involved two adults who agreed to engage in the act.

fyzaila:
So if she is obese can't you unobese her?? See never underestimate a good character in any woman of nowadays o because to find such is very rare. So it is better you join her to work on her weight. Help her loose weight. Visit the doctor to know the kind of exercise she can be doing and dieting as well. My brother age is just a number as they say. To have a wife who gives you peace of mind in your marriage is an underrated blessing i swear.

You got my point. It's the peace of mind for me. I don't know if I'd ever find someone like that again.

If you miss this opportunity according to how you described her attitude, the so called young slim ones, will finally mess you up and it will
be too late then

UncleSuru:
We were colleagues.
She's obese.
She's older than I am.
She got pregnant for me.
I accepted.
She had a boy.
I told her I wanted the baby and not marriage and she accepted.

She got a job and she's taking good care of my boy even as I perform my responsibilities: feeding, school fees and all.

It hurts me that we don't stay together. I go to see my boy and I wish to stay longer. I really want to bond with my boy.

This lady is okay aside the obesity and the age factor. She doesn't even argue with me and we're cool. She'll be proud to show me to her people as a young man but I'm not proud to show her to my own people because she looks twice my age. She's my best friend. None of those young girls can stand her in terms of character. I really wish I can love her. It hurts more having that thought of having children with different women. It really hurts.

If she can allow you sleep around in peace whilst been married to her then go ahead and cement the union...
Discuss it with her .. tell her you are ready to make her a wife on the condition that she no go dey put eye for you when you dey kpansh small small sweet girls....
You suppose get OT nah ...

Op marry her heaven will not fall

UncleSuru:
■ I saw all these way before the pregnancy and that was why I stated my intentions of not wanting marriage which she accepted. Like I said, it disturbs me not having to spend time with my boy as he's still small. Her calmness is also another thing that is making me have a second thought. She doesn't give palpitations like other girls do.

1. Leave her alone abeg! Go marry a person wey you feel say you fit to accept. No go ruin the woman peace abeg!

fyzaila:
■ So if she is obese can't you unobese her?? See never underestimate a good character in any woman of nowadays o because to find such is very rare. So it is better you join her to work on her weight. Help her loose weight. Visit the doctor to know the kind of exercise she can be doing and dieting as well. My brother age is just a number as they say. To have a wife who gives you peace of mind in your marriage is an underrated blessing i swear.

1. She tell you say she want loose weight? She tells you say she wan change herself to fit a man who will marry her? If a woman tells you that she will not marry you unless you lose weight for her, do you think it would make sense for you to enter into such a marriage?

Kobojunkie:
1. She tell you say she want loose weight? She tells you say she wan change herself to fit a man who will marry her? If a woman tells you that she will not marry you unless you lose weight for her, do you think it would make sense for you to enter into such a marriage?

But the op said the lady is obedient now. If she is, then it wouldn't be difficult for him to cajole her to loose weight.

UncleSuru:
You got my point. It's the peace of mind for me. I don't know if I'd ever find someone like that again.

Work together with her on her size and weight. Try convincing her for her health sake. A woman always commit to a supporting partner.

Unclesuru. musician life e no easyi I wanna be an obesed starrr