labasulla:


Congratulations capo
You were in my prayers because I was expecting your BA all through the week. Best gift for Easter

Thank you ma, @ 41weeks. I was tired and scared oooo. Afraid of been induced oo. BS coming soon.

Hauwi:



I didn’t even read this before replying 😂 I’m officially the only one left. Congratulations our able cappo. Thank God for safe delivery

It will definitely end with praise. We are praying for you.

younix:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

God celebrated Easter with my family and gave us a gift for Easter. April cappo don born o

EDD - 2nd April
D.O.B - 9th - April
Weight: 3.25kg through V.D.

Wishing all other waddling mama safe delivery.

Congratulations to your family. Happy Easter

The Lord has remembered me once again.... Officially registering for team October 😍😍
It has been God all through and I know HE will finish the work he started with me.

To all the Mama's here...We will carry to term and deliver safely. Nothing will cut short our joy.Amen

Where are my teammates? Make una come out oo...I believe MS is gradually packing her load.

sunbestie:
The Lord has remembered me once again.... Officially registering for team October 😍😍
It has been God all through and I know HE will finish the work he started with me.

To all the Mama's here...We will carry to term and deliver safely. Nothing will cut short our joy.Amen

Where are my teammates? Make una come out oo...I believe MS is gradually packing her load.

Congratulations mama. The Lord who has started this beautiful thing will see it to a successful end. There shall be no more loss in Jesus name. I cover you with the blood of Jesus.

younix:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

God celebrated Easter with my family and gave us a gift for Easter. April cappo don born o

EDD - 2nd April
D.O.B - 9th - April
Weight: 3.25kg through V.D.

Wishing all other waddling mama safe delivery.

Congratulations mama, God bless the baby and the entire family in Jesus name. Kindly add me to those who gave birth in April as I ported from May.

labasulla:
BA!!!!!!! BA!!!!!! BA!!!!!!

I welcomed my little man weighing 3.3kg on 4th April with tears. At 39weeks 6days

EDD 5th April

Wishing other mamas safe delivery
April capo please take note

Congratulations mama. God bless the baby and the entire family.

@ iamfertile, How is everything, hope you are fine?

yumyogo:



Into the lake of fire Sis has no joy oo... Honestly I can't wait to have mine too oh

Congratulations sis

Don't mind me jare. I am done giving birth. Na to find correct FP as soon as my baby clock 41 days. I no wan hear story that touch the heart.

bez:
BA!!!!BA!!!!BA!!!!
I gave birth to my princess on the 30th of march!!! team April I ported ohh based on emergency c section Birth story coming later

Congratulations mama. God bless the baby and the entire family.

kunmisola:


Congratulations mama. The Lord who has started this beautiful thing will see it to a successful end. There shall be no more loss in Jesus name. I cover you with the blood of Jesus.

Amen
My teamie that year🥰 how are you and Bobo doing?

suremum:

I have experienced exactly this pain b4 ( though it was before i got pregnant) i had left pelvic pain wc travels down my thigh. Although mine wasnt fibroid, it was ovarian cyst. U can google symptoms of ovarian cyst.

Please what did you later do? How did you treat it while pregnant?
I’m facing same issue now

younix:


It will definitely end with praise. We are praying for you.

Amen Amen . Thanks cappo

Good day beautiful mamas
Please I need your advice on something bothering me. By special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from a anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The question is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

Sis, believe me, I can relate to this. The only thing that keeps me going as a Muslim is that With Allah's mercy, I am religious. I understand the worth of parents especially mother. My point here is, you mustn't trespass, insult or make them angered.
You have to be really patient with her and treat her right. If she wants to come, don't stop her and don't expect anything from her, say thanks to anything she do and don't complain for the ones she didnt.
This is my third journey, mum never come for omugwo, she comes day before naming and return the day after. It has always been me and MIL, and thank God MIL has always been a mother to me, so I don't feel her absence as I never expect anything from her. Just be polite as a child should to a mother. Thanks

Ijelenwanyioma:
Good day beautiful mamas
Please I need your advice on something bothering me. By special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from a anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The question is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

Team August(Team Grace)..Roll call for April.

Ananne___________________________ August 15th

Thejourney200.____________________August 30th

Bluevy_____________________________August 4th

Senorita__________________________August 24th

TemmyB18_______________________August 21st

Olorilolo__________________________August 30th.

Iyabetajos_________________________August 17th.

Michelle55________________________August 22nd.

August Mamas make una show o

How are you all doing? Hope you are enjoying the second trimester.

I know some of us will stat checking our baby's gender soonest. Keep us updated.

Ijelenwanyioma:
Good day beautiful mamas
Please I need your advice on something bothering me. By special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from a anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The question is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

If u can get help like her younger sibling maybe from ur side or hubby side that will assist u in doing chores those periods cos u can't deny her of coming

indian03:





The doctor suggested that because it's a "precious baby" , believe me CS is safer for baby most times than vagina delivery became of risks involved. But nonetheless, Normal delivery is possible and everything will be alright. Pls don't worry. I've started taking dates today. Take dates 6 to 10 pieces in a day ,don't miss it, take red raspberry leaf tea (2 bag in a cup) daily. Pineapples,okra water, ewedu, All these strengthen the uterus and stimulate contractions when it's times. Then start taking walk daily if you can. Also, has your baby turned? You don't want to go into labour if baby has not turned. Also,doctors suggest CS for their own convinient sometimes. They always want to make it fast

Pls mama, what's the function of pineapple, date and zobo in pregnancy. My first baby was through CS and I don't want to go through it again. I'm April

iamfertile how far? Hope you're good, been expecting you B.A

Abeg, nobody born for Ibadan? The craving for naming rice these days ehn, person fit break fast o

UmuMuhsinah:
Abeg, nobody born for Ibadan? The craving for naming rice these days ehn, person fit break fast o

🤣🤣🤣

Don't worry very soon Ibadan people will invite you .

Ijelenwanyioma:
Good day beautiful mamas
Please I need your advice on something bothering me. By special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from a anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The question is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

Simple!tell her not to come

Gistme12:

Pls mama, what's the function of pineapple, date and zobo in pregnancy. My first baby was through CS and I don't want to go through it again. I'm April

They speed up cervix ripening

Ijelenwanyioma:
Good day beautiful mamas
Please I need your advice on something bothering me. By special grace of God, I am expected to have my baby in 3 months time. The issue is that I don't want my mother to come for my omugwo. I am her only daughter but she hate me so much. At first I thought it is old age but she's just 60+ and I have seen older women treating their daughter right.

The last omugwo she came I saw hell, I gave birth on Monday and she came on Thursday. I had 3rd degree tear(that type that they will stitch from a anus to vagina) I explained to her that I can't stand for long because of the pain. Meanwhile before she came, a woman from my husband place was taking care of me and she won't let me come down from bed except to eat, bath, breastfeed my baby and sleep. But when she saw my mum, she stopped coming. The woman already prepared soup and kept inside freezer on Wednesday before my mum arrived. It was that soup we ate till Sunday. On Sunday morning I asked my mum what we will eat and she told me to wait for people that are coming to visit us so I can send any of them to market and cook. Like how can I send my visitor message? So I waited for my husband and son to come back from church. I just took tea and also served her. My husband went to market and bought the things I needed to make stew. My baby was sleeping and I went inside kitchen to make stew. My mum sat down comfortably in the sitting room watching film and gisting with visitors that came to see me and my baby. I was in serious pain but I have to cook what me and everybody will eat. I served her the food after cooking and she gladly ate it. She's is neither sick or having pain anywhere.

My mother never cook anything in my house for 4 months till she left. The day I mentioned it to her. She started crying that she knows I hate her like my father. Like how? I even expected her to apologise and lie that she wasn't feeling fine that day. Among all her children, I give her more money but she always show me I am not important.

The question is, even though this is my third child, I can barely take care of child under 1 month. Apart from cooking, my mum always makes me cry by telling me some very harsh word. She will force me to drink very hot water that I can't even pour on my skin. If I refuse to drink she will get angry and start her wahala again. I don't just want her to come to my house again for my mental health. O ti su mi 😭😭

Your story is perfectly relatable, it happens to the best of us!! But since U're a third time mom, I assure u, u can cope better than u thought. If u don't want her to come, let her know then u fix things with ur hubby who will help take care of the older kids while u take care of the baby, also the person that comes to help u from ur hubby's side and be invited too to make it lighter for u. With my first birth, I had a very bad episiotomy which took exactly a year to heal, the things I see from my "mothers" hand no be here but I thank God for Grace, when I had my second baby, hubby and I decided that my health is the priority so we told both mothers to stay in their houses and thank God COVID was at it's peak then. Myself and hubby did the whole omugwo thing together, he was the one pressing my tummy and tying for me and we also took care of our toddler together! Yes, it was stressful but the peace I got was indescribable, infact I glow differently and everyone was in shock as to how I managed to. You got this sis, just brace up.

kunmisola:
@ iamfertile, How is everything, hope you are fine?

Ahh sis, I've been having contraction since Monday o. Dr. said if Labour don't Come b4 Wednesday I should pack my bag & come that they may induce. I'm scare because I heard it's painful. The contraction is becoming stronger & on & off.
How's our little prince doing?

UmuMuhsinah:
iamfertile how far? Hope you're good, been expecting you B.A

Yes o. I can't wait to send my B. S.
Started contraction already

indian03:



Simple!tell her not to come

You read my mind. I'll just tell her not to come bluntly. No fight

iamfertile:


Ahh sis, I've been having contraction since Monday o. Dr. said if Labour don't Come b4 Wednesday I should pack my bag & come that they may induce. I'm scare because I heard it's painful. The contraction is becoming stronger & on & off.
How's our little prince doing?

Don't be scared mama, I was induced with my first and God gave me victory. You shall be victorious in Jesus name.

iamfertile:


Yes o. I can't wait to send my B. S.
Started contraction already

God be with you

iamfertile:


You read my mind. I'll just tell her not to come bluntly. No fight

You know how our mothers can be. She may be blackmailed later. I'll still advice to let her come if she wishes, but not to expect much from her so she won't be disappointed

UmuMuhsinah:

You know how our mothers can be. She may be blackmailed later. I'll still advice to let her come if she wishes, but not to expect much from her so she won't be disappointed

For me, there’s no need of her coming when she can’t be of help to a new mum.

She can politely tell her that things no too balance for she and Oga. That they want to manage themselves.

I will never understand why my own mother would be terrible to me during the time I need her most, it is understandable with mother-in-law but my own mother? Then she should forget anything mother daughter relationship. Haba