I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids.

We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange.

My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse.

They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

Normally I can't allow my mother and sister to stay with me.

They can visit and leave
But stay it's a big NO

Nataliace:
I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids.

We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange.

My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse.

They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

what is the relationship btw you and your in-laws like before now?

Meet his friends or people he respects and speak to them. Don't let your marriage get ruined by his family. Also watch how you behave and work on areas you need to. I hope that your husband is not under a spell.

have you ever thought that maybe (just maybe)... what you may have seen as a great union, wasnt so great after all and/or in the eyes of others... and possibly your husband finally opened his eyes and (with the help of his family) said "no more"?!

if it only took his mother/sister to end your "supposedly" peaceful union, then it may not have been so peaceful afterall...just saying.

Start cheating on your husband and his brain will reset.

VictorMessi1:
Start cheating on your husband and his brain will reset.

Go and read for your JAMB exam, bro.
Adults are talking here.

If I is you is this happens to me, I will suit you to coat.

Lie that what?? That u slap ur mother in law.?? Or u told her to go to her house??.. Madam no let small matter dey worry u jaré.....

...Go and buy sexy underwear
...push up...
..half bump shorts....
..nice perfume
...Be rocking it everyday ....in the kitchen, sitting room, every where...Ur oga will not too hear their petty noise...

WhisperedNoise:

Go and read for your JAMB exam, bro.
Adults are talking here.

Are you suffering from micro penis syndrome? Be careful who you mention or else you will mention a troll who will troll you till you shit your pants out of your mouth.

Nataliace:
■ I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids. We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange. My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse. They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

1. If you don't already have a job, then I suggest you go get one. Keep yourself busy and out of the way of your in-laws who are living with you so they do not keep finding ways to attack you. Spend whatever free time you have with your kids — take them out to the park and/or start backyard gardening in your spare time — basically, keep yourself occupied with things so they have less to say that is wrong about you. Additionally, develop and grow your self-confidence so that what people say, including what your husband concludes, rolls off of you as if nothing. If you are both to allow your in-laws to stay longer in your home, then you need to grow tough skin so you can love and care for yourself.

It's obvious you are a young chap.
Please endeavour to learn life lessons. It's vital

VictorMessi1:
Start cheating on your husband and his brain will reset.

efelicity:
If I is you is this happens to me, I will suit you to coat.

Aboki.. No go join ur mate for sambisa dey type rubbish for here.

Madam, calm down first and retrace your steps if there's anything you need to correct.
Then call your husband privately to discuss the issue.
Let's start from there

Nataliace:
I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids.

We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange.

My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse.

They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

OP, what did you do? Were you disrespectful to frustrate them to force them to leave?

Your husband will not allow you to force them out so deal with the reality with wisdom.

Kobojunkie:
1. If you don't already have a job, then I suggest you go get one. Keep yourself busy and out of the way of your in-laws who are living with you so they do not keep finding ways to attack you. Spend whatever free time you have with your kids — take them out to the park and/or start backyard gardening in your spare time — basically, keep yourself occupied with things so they have less to say that is wrong about you. Additionally, develop and grow your self-confidence so that what people say, including what your husband concludes, rolls off of you as if nothing. If you are both to allow your in-laws to stay longer in your home, then you need to grow tough skin so you can love and care for yourself.

This guy again?
you are here constituting nuisance.

Shapeaso:
Aboki.. No go join ur mate for sambisa dey type rubbish for here.

Get a life and stop fooling yourself around.

I said it

VictorMessi1:
Maybe you should stick this down your mother's glory hole and stop fetish niggars from patronizing it like a cue of customers in the super market.

VictorMessi1:
Are you suffering from micro penis syndrome? Be careful who you mention or else you will mention a troll who will troll you till you shit your pants out of your mouth.

Grow up, aburo.
Get a life.
I wish you well. Cheers!

VictorMessi1:
Maybe you should stick this down your mother's glory hole and stop fetish niggars from patronizing it like a cue of customers in the super market.

Sadly, you are not too bright as seen from your lane clapbacks. Sad.

Nataliace:
I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids.

We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange.

My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse.

They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

When someone else said her Mil wanted to move into their house, this was your response

Nataliace:
I would advise you to meet your maternal uncle's and talk to them about your predicament. Don't let her in no matter what happens. Some mother's are witches, who knows if she's the one who stopped you from getting married? She explain why she doesn't want you to repair her own house and insist to live in your house. Something is fishy about her insistence to move into your apartment. Don't accept that! A word is enough for the wise.

I'm sure your evil advice is what you are foolishly implementing in your own home. I can guarantee you that you won't last long in your husband's house.

You are a very foolish woman and your husband will eventually chase you and your evil character out because you are very senseless. Maybe when you are chased out, you will go back to your father's house and learn home training that you didn't get.

Another one bites the dust

Nataliace:
I have been married for five years and my marriage yielded two beautiful kids.

We were living peacefully with my husband untill last year did things started turning strange.

My mother-in-law came to spend the Christmas holiday with us and since then she hasn't left. This year my sister-in-law came and this is where everything became worse.

They always lie to my husband and say unprintable things about me. This made my husband to start treating me badly. I tried to let him remember how we lived prior to their coming but he wouldn't listen to me. Life is becoming unbearable for me. I don't want what will destroy my marriage.

I just want to get my marriage back on track and win my husband's love and care towards me.

There's no way to win a man's love, if he doesn't love you, just accept it and act accordingly.


If he listens to his family without considering your opinion, then lock up and treat him like he deserves.


He should have married his Mom.

WhisperedNoise:


Grow up, aburo.
Get a life.
I wish you well. Cheers!

No you need the growing since your mother has used your height in exchange for a charm to cave your father in confusion so she can cheat unnoticeable to people.

WhisperedNoise:

Sadly, you are not too bright as seen from your lane clapbacks. Sad.

Still no one in your family tree can compete intellectually with the dullest kid in our family.

You can use my clap backs to teach your kids how to quick respond to criticism or if it choked you on the throat, you can take 40 minutes as cooling-off period of time.

Get some walloping fragments of sense.

Saintmary:




There's no way to win a man's love, if he doesn't love you, just accept it and act accordingly.


If he listens to his family without considering your opinion, then lock up and treat him like he deserves.


He should have married his Mom.

Another cheat talking trash.

VictorMessi1:
Still no one in your family tree can compete intellectually with the dullest kid in our family.

You can use my clap backs to teach your kids how to quick respond to criticism or if it choked you on the throat, you can take 40 minutes as cooling-off period of time.

Get some walloping fragments of sense.

Lame

VictorMessi1:
No you need the growing since your mother has used your height in exchange for a charm to cave your father in confusion so she can cheat unnoticeable to people.

VictorMessi1:
Start cheating on your husband and his brain will reset.

Singlehandedly, the worst advice on Nairaland in the 2nd quarter of 2023.

wisdomkid:


Singlehandedly, the worst advice on Nairaland in the 2nd quarter of 2023.

Just disregard the guy jare. He's a nuisance seeking for attention. He'll be fine, eventually.

PS: I'm sure he's a pimple faced teenager.