Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

To cut the long story short, find her a boyfriend

Ok

Urheadmaster:
To cut the long story short, find her a boyfriend

You know that is not possible. She is old enough to fund herself a boyfriend.

This is super story...

Your children are probably in need of cousins anyways

His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands.

Seems like you want to know how lack of respect is in your home?

Seems like you want to experience lack of peace of mind in your home?

Seems like you want to experience sisters fighting in your home mid night ?

Seems like you want to look like a boy in front of your in-laws?


Sometimes, simple casual food fails to digest and equally hard to be vomited hence such food has to be avoided.

Get her accommodation now. What if she gets married this month won't your wife and kids stays without her?

Will she stay with her husband and kids in the same apartment with you?

Your reason for keeping her is good, but will leads to had I known, look beyond now.
Be careful, respect is key

Do not try it if you are a man that value your intergrity and self respect. Think of the filth that you will be dragged through should any attempt result to a backfire. Do not misplace your moral uprightness. The heart of man can be free until you make it treat you as a prisoner of guilt.

If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stays in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

Oga wan collect. Don't blame nobody for your lustful desires. Talk to your wife to caution her sister, or you mind your damn business.

You have make up your mind, why disturbing us

Don't try that play ooo....

I think your sister inlaw should leave, since you say she's wearing seductive dresses on purpose.

She must leave.

Shes a boss abi she can get an apartment.

nicej2:

She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .

When men out there are not ready to spend on babes, you dey spend on her lol. why won't she feel God don answer her prayer and you also thinking you should get things in return.

Aww what a nice dude.

Make up ur mind. Screw it or maintain peace. No disturb us.

The only solution is for her to get another accommodation. Or you change your daily schedule/activities and ensure you hardly stay in that house. I don't know why some ladies dress seductively when living with their male in-laws. I also do not know why you men cannot control your feelings when living with female relatives/in-laws.

You've once attempted to go meet her, but was almost caught by your wife.

Your Mind is definitely made up.

The ending will be disastrous for you.

LilMissFavvy:
Or you change your daily schedule/activities and ensure you hardly stay in that house.

In his own house?

No now babes

There is a reason why Joseph had to run out of the room when Potipha's wife seduced him. If he had stayed i bliv he wouldn't have been able to overcome the urge. So just help urself by renting a place 4 that girl cos the more u see her the more the urge will increase nd one day you'll eventually sleep with her. Let's be real, men don't have what it takes to resist frequent sexual temptation especially when it's presented on a platter of gold. A 28 yr old lady shud be planning to get married soon nd not deliberately trying to cause problems in some other person's home.

If I'm in your shoes, this is what I will do:

I'll call my wife into my room the very day I come back from travel. After hot totori with her, I'll tell her as follows: Your sister has been a very good family member and has helped us in more ways than one. But at this juncture I want to tell you that I'm developing erotic feelings for her. I don't want anything that will break the peace we enjoy in this family. Please tell her to get an apartment ASAP. She can always come over and stay with you whenever I travel. If you don't feel comfortable telling her or doesn't know how to tell her, call her in right now let me tell her myself.

If she chooses the later option and brings her in, I'll say to her: Baby girl, I so much appreciate your presence in this family, but problem is brewing. I'm having erotic feelings for you, I don't want it to materialize. Please get an apartment ASAP. You can always come back and keep your sister company when I travel. I'll support you wherever necessary. I know you're of age so you perfectly understand me. And please let this be our little secret.

A figment of your imagination. My regards to your imaginary family.

SyrusdeHansome:
There is a reason why Joseph had to run out of the room when Potipha's wife seduced him. If he had stayed i bliv he wouldn't have been able to overcome the urge. [b]So just help urself by renting a place 4 that girl [/b]cos the more u see her the more the urge will increase nd one day you'll eventually sleep with her. Let's be real, men don't have what it takes to resist frequent sexual temptation especially when it's presented on a platter of gold. A 28 yr old lady shud be planning to get married soon nd not deliberately trying to cause problems in some other person's home.

If he rents a place for her, he will be visiting her to "see how she is doing". Paying the rent, would tend to make him rationalize the visit.

Do what's in your mind and impregnate her. Then your eyes go clear say na forbidden fruit you chop.

Then when your wife realizes that her sister is not just her sister anymore but her rival and when your wife's children grow up and realizes that they have siblings from another mother who is their aunty, you will then be proud of the web you are spinning...

One day you may become caught in the web when one of the players i.e your wife, her sister, wife's children or wife's sisters child decides to take you down by ending your life when you least expect it.

It is not a bad suggestion since he cannot control his emotions. Some men still lust after their decently dressed house maids so don't think the blame is only on the scantily dressed lady.

JoyousFurnitire:


In his own house?

No now babes

LilMissFavvy:
The only solution is for her to get another accommodation. Or you change your daily schedule/activities and ensure you hardly stay in that house. I don't know why some ladies dress seductively when living with their male in-laws. I also do not know why you men cannot control your feelings when living with female relatives/in-laws.

You think say conji is a respecter of family relationships or societal values?

Person wey dey chop him wife, will equally wants to have a taste of her sister too if provoked. Afterall variety is the spice of life

nicej2:


You know that is not possible. She is old enough to fund herself a boyfriend.

Then start introducing guys to her. Or make it compulsory in a subtle way for your wife too ti join you. There is fire on the mountain, and the earlier you act, the better for all of you. Your carelessness can scatter your homen

28 year old sister inlaw. So she has been staying with you since she was 22 and nothing happened for the whole 6 years.
The whole 6 years and it is now she started seducing you.
okay oh

Mindlog:


If he rents a place for her, he will be visiting her to "see how she is doing". Paying the rent, would tend to make him rationalize the visit.

Visit her as what? Renting a place 4 her will take her out of his sight nd will thereby make him 4get abt her

Fake story

The mistakes in the sentences were also done on purpose

SyrusdeHansome:
Visit her as what? Renting a place 4 her will take her out of his sight nd will thereby make him 4get abt her

Out of sight, is certainly not out of mind.

Someone (if true) who acknowledged being a Peeping Tom while his wife was in the house and had not yet slept with her is because he is not always around and what would stop him from visiting her, when he is away from home?

Point of correction she is not seducing you, na you gan gan dey list after her... If e dey enter your eye, close am

So she’s wearing seductive clothing around you and her sister (your wife) have nothing to say?

She’s either really dumb or your story is fake.

And you also lack self control as a man what’s stopping you from letting your wife know how she’s seducing you and sending her packing?

What you encourage will continue plain blank period.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Lol
The evil in me is seeing sweet opportunity to enjoy yourself
Even though story is fake