The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Just tell your husband to take you along .. whenever he is traveling or leave you alone at home .. that young man will get you pregnant if care is not taking.

Dress properly always cover it body while Ur husband is away

What kind of play brought this rubbish, that's why it's good to make your boundaries very visible to any guy be it husband's brother or any other guy.

Take down your profile picture

Politely tell him you know what he wants, and that he should remove his mind far from the idea because it is not gonna happen.

I don't blame him though, we are in the era of sexuademic most people don't care who they fu.c.k as long as the conji spirit is satiated.

And you might be a hotty to boot.

Warn him severely, on record.

Let him understand that you will report him to relatives or their parents if he won't stop.

Then if he didnt heed, report him to relatives or parents if they have one.

If he wouldn't stop, tell your husband.

Don't waste much time before he enter u o cos as u are planning, he is also planning

Last month, you were asking if your boyfriend or your mother should live with you.

Talk to him politely. Let him know you will report him to his brother if he doesn't stop that nonesense. Make sure you record your conversation without him knowing. That will serve as a reference whenever you decide to report him at the end

Fake stories too full this platform

You can also bring your grown brother to come stay if you have any that has time to spare.

attention seeker

I see comments urging you to warn him.

Before you warn, you need to also remember that it is thoughts that forms assumptions and they are not always correct.
Do not warn him on something he hasn't done as warning him in advance on a sensitive issue based on assumptions may be wrong.
And if you flip the coin, am sure you know how it feels.

If he touches, follows, looks or does anything to your dislike, pin point the deed and hit your warning on him head-on and spot-on without delving or generalizing.
Tell him never to repeat else you will tell on him. And if he does repeat or goes that far, materialize your warnings without hesitation.

*Fake story or not, issues like these happens alot nowadays and your input might be relevant in a positive way to somebody, somewhere, someday*

Hmm

@op you don't look like us you look Kenyan or Tanzanian.. your identity lack integrity going by your last topics.

damosade:
@op you don't look like us you look Kenyan or Tanzanian.. your identity lack integrity going by your last topics.

@Foodqueen Candidlady Arelius1

That's Obama Messi Stop wasting your comments.

You obviously didn't set boundaries initially.

That young man should stop being around you whenever your husband is not around.

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Fake fake fake

I know your husband madam.

I will be the first to inform him.

On issues like this, I don't mind my business.

My cousin's boss is your husband's friend.

My cousin should be able to get me his number

Your husband needa to know their now before it gets out of hand.

Temptation is real.

Pussy asss brother in-law...........The bro code must be respected all the time....

Op, simply report to your husband..

Make advances at him back. It's normal in that your area.

We all know the area where father-in-law sleeps with daughter inlaw, brother inlaw sleeps with sister inlaw, cousins sleeps with cousins, Harvesters incorporated, Ogun state branch!

How does it concern us?

Back to the issue, you only narrated your brother in-law advances towards you without telling us the green light you emit to him unconsciously. How do you want us to judge the matter now?


That your brother in-law must be an animal if your words are true.

You are obviously enjoying the touching n already sizing up his manhood, otherwise you won't bring this rubbish here.

The husband should sha do DNA test when you give birth.

Nothing worse than being with somebody who has a weak resolve. Do what's already in your mind. Gerrout

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you too make DISadvances at him. Nonsense and ingredients. Is that what is doing Nigerians now. it's because firstly he knows where you stand.

Rolexxxy:
@Foodqueen Candidlady Arelius1

That's Obama Messi Stop wasting your comments.

Lol, the guy na virus? What does he gain from fake stories

Truly he is fake, but mod no dey check before posting fake stories?
The op posted another story just recently

Nataliace:
My mother wants to live with me as her house rent has expired and my boyfriend too want to live with me...who should I let in?

It’s a planwork. Your husband knows about it

Fake profile. Fake story. Dude using the profile picture to set a trap for scam

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

Tell your hubby before it's too late. You are at a risk of commiting abomination/dultery and losing your husband if you keep it as a secret

Fat lie. Nairaland no be better site. Mscheew.