U re planning to rape ur sister in-law and want just need encouragement from just one person to validate it.
Any day u succeeded with ur pen!s, to stop won't be easy and it may lead to a broken home

LilMissFavvy:
It is not a bad suggestion since he cannot control his emotions. Some men still lust after their decently dressed house maids so don't think the blame is only on the scantily dressed lady.

It is not so a good suggestion.

Where should he go?

Sleep on the road or hotels?. That's dangerous.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

There is no way you won't fall for this and the only way to escape it is for you to discuss with your wife on how you guys have to get a self contain apartment for her

The reason is that, she will be on her own so that she can be free to find a suitor for herself

If you have agreed with your wife, then you guys will invite her and discuss it with her

But you are already a the point of sleeping with her if you don't apply caution or discipline

Now think of the respect the whole family have for you and how you will just mess up things just because of what you could have avoided

Women will always tempt men and most times it's done with ulterior motives

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

hahhahahahahahahaahahah, even me self I been dey think be am, oh

Call your wife and talk to her about it,if she refused call the girl and talk to her, if she feels bad then send her out, Jesus says if your right hand will bring you shame cut it off, be

I think your sister in-law is Magnoliaa Stxrlight

superCleanworks:
28 year old sister inlaw. So she has been staying with you since she was 22 and nothing happened for the whole 6 years.
The whole 6 years and it is now she started seducing you.
okay oh

man don dey chop the babe since,but wan pull out now that e don taya .

Looking for excuses,whereas the babe want more fun

I pitybtge wife

She was wearing sexy cloths in the house and your churchy wife thinks that's ok?

Somehow, they both forgot that men are sightseers?

You wonder how to kill the urge?

Sebi one still puts question marks in rhetoric questions ba?

Cheers o.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

guy fvck her na. No dey doll jooor.

How can you be living in separate room with your wife? Go and rearrange the room allocation again.
You and your wife in one room
Children, if they are not grown up, in one room
Sister in-law in one room.
With this, that devilish urge will die a natural death.

Like someone explained above

1. Have a meeting with your wife and explain to her that you are a man and that you love her so much and respect for her and marriage dignity. Tell her everything and let her know that you cherish your marriage and you will never allow anything to destroy your home.

2. Since she is working tell her it is time for her to get apartment for her self, don't get involve please

3. Try and distance yourself from her and tell her straight that you are not comfortable with the way she dresses especially when you are around

4. Your dreaming about her is of spiritual and the earlier you tackle it the better for you.

5. Marriage is sacred and most marriage has been destroyed by husband and wife in allowing grow up adults to live with them

6. As a marriage counselor, I have handled many cases like it and most of them completely destroyed the peaceful home

7. In case your wife is not seeing it from this angle, please do all you can to convince her including involving her pastors or imams or any one she respect.

8. As a marriage man and disciplined man do all you can never to sleep with her please.

Pirosaw:
Like someone explained above

1. Have a meeting with your wife and explain to her that you are a man and that you love her so much and respect for her and marriage dignity. Tell her everything and let her know that you cherish your marriage and you will never allow anything to destroy your home.

2. Since she is working tell her it is time for her to get apartment for her self, don't get involve please

3. Try and distance yourself from her and tell her straight that you are not comfortable with the way she dresses especially when you are around

4. Your dreaming about her is of spiritual and the earlier you tackle it the better for you.

5. Marriage is sacred and most marriage has been destroyed by husband and wife in allowing grow up adults to live with them

6. As a marriage counselor, I have handled many cases like it and most of them completely destroyed the peaceful home

7. In case your wife is not seeing it from this angle, please do all you can to convince her including involving her pastors or imams or any one she respect.

8. As a marriage man and disciplined man do all you can never to sleep with her please.

Thanks. I will kick the evil urge out of my mind . My wife family have great respect for me and I will not let them down . I will discuss with my wife when I return back from travel

Those crucifying me note that I have never done this before , she has been living with us for the pass 6 years and never have I imagined this in my mind. It just started of recent.

Trouble dey sleep
Yanga wan wake am😂
What if it a set up too. U no fear these women with their silly game and test

Omo no shit for where u dey eat o.. .
Even if you wan play away match no be with your wife sister o😂

Baronthecelebri:
Call your wife and talk to her about it,if she refused call the girl and talk to her, if she feels bad then send her out, Jesus says if your right hand will bring you shame cut it off, be

nicej2:


You know that is not possible. She is old enough to fund herself a boyfriend.

Keep making excuses to have her around, s'o gbo? O ma ya e l'enu!

Next time she dresses scantily while you're around, boldly tell her to go cover up appropriately. (Since she doesn't want to respect herself)
If she does not like that, then she can leave your home.
Take charge.

You can only be seduced, when you allow yourself to be seduced.
Take responsibility for that.

Also, I hope you don't get jealous when you see her with a man.

When you think of the end implications after the evil act you should have sense. What happens to your feelings for your wife . Why do you want to disgrace your generation... why why

Smh, you indeed have self-control.

Mystery9:
When you think of the end implications after the evil act you should have sense. What happens to your feelings for your wife . Why do you want to disgrace your generation... why why

I have thought of this implication too. I can't afford to lose guide because of 5 minutes or more of evil enjoyment that will hurt me forever. So i am really careful not to do it. I still have 100% feelings for my wife. And she reciprocated too. I don't know where this evil urge is coming from to be honest with you. I must overcome it.

nicej2:


I have thought of this implication too. I can't afford to lose guide because of 5 minutes or more of evil enjoyment that will hurt me forever. So i am really careful not to do it. I still have 100% feelings for my wife. And she reciprocated too. I don't know where this evil urge is coming from to be honest with you. I must overcome it.

Send her away.

STARGREEN:
Seems like you want to know how lack of respect is in your home?

Seems like you want to experience lack of peace of mind in your home?

Seems like you want to experience sisters fighting in your home mid night ?

Seems like you want to look like a boy in front of your in-laws?


Sometimes, simple casual food fails to digest and equally hard to be vomited hence such food has to be avoided.

Get her accommodation now. What if she gets married this month won't your wife and kids stays without her?

Will she stay with her husband and kids in the same apartment with you?

Your reason for keeping her is good, but will leads to had I known, look beyond now.
Be careful, respect is key

Your advice is well appreciated...I must kill the urge, no matter what. I rather go outside ( though not good for married man) instead of getting down with her. Though man can never be predicted cos is more easy to say than to really stick to it. I will brace up my disciplined culture.

mariahAngel:


Send her away.

To be honest, sending her away will not be easy for me. Cos I can be away from home for 6 months or above. So my wife will need her company as she lives in the compound with the kids alone.

nicej2:


I have thought of this implication too. I can't afford to lose guide because of 5 minutes or more of evil enjoyment that will hurt me forever. So i am really careful not to do it. I still have 100% feelings for my wife. And she reciprocated too. I don't know where this evil urge is coming from to be honest with you. I must overcome it.

Use that energy on your wife now haba!

& Please stop looking at the girl's breast

SleekyP:

Use that energy on your wife now haba!

& Please stop looking at the girl's breast

I have so much energy that only my wife can really handle and if need be I can take that extra energy outside not to my sister in-law.

For stop looking at her breast that will not be possible. I don't want to lie here. Is the breast i really like in a woman body.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀
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Bros WOMEN ARE DEVILS. Am telling you this from life experience .Since you're now having feelings for her, my own little advice to you is: inform her sister you don't like the way her sister dreses in the house. Never give devil a chance women are more evil than Evil.be warned now

Modifire:


I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀


Bros WOMEN ARE DEVILS. Am telling you this from life experience .Since you're now having feelings for her, my own little advice to you is: inform her sister you don't like the way her sister dreses in the house. Never give devil a chance women are more evil than Evil.be warned now

Thanks for your advice....To be honest i don't have the courage to tell my wife...cos she will be disappointed that such talks is coming from a disciplined man she used to known me to be. A woman can be naked in my front and i will not be moved... but she will not understand as man navigates through the world some things began to change.

The reason why Joseph ran from potiphers wife was because she no get nyash like @rokiat own if she had trust me Joseph otilor

SyrusdeHansome:
There is a reason why Joseph had to run out of the room when Potipha's wife seduced him. If he had stayed i bliv he wouldn't have been able to overcome the urge. So just help urself by renting a place 4 that girl cos the more u see her the more the urge will increase nd one day you'll eventually sleep with her. Let's be real, men don't have what it takes to resist frequent sexual temptation especially when it's presented on a platter of gold. A 28 yr old lady shud be planning to get married soon nd not deliberately trying to cause problems in some other person's home.

MrAgbako:

forget that thing, no peace for the wicked

Modifire:


I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀


Bros WOMEN ARE DEVILS. Am telling you this from life experience .Since you're now having feelings for her, my own little advice to you is: inform her sister you don't like the way her sister dreses in the house. Never give devil a chance women are more evil than Evil.be warned now

tell us the life experience

Baronthecelebri:
tell us the life experience

No life experience here. I haven't indulged in such act. So you that have done it you can advice me on the implications [left][/left]

nicej2:
■ There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
■ I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

1. So, you are lusting after this gal who may not even see you as a man let alone someone worth her time and life, but you have come here to blame her for your lack of sexual control?

2. Nobody can cure another of sexual lust — your wife doesn't have magical powers enough for such a thing. Those chemicals in your brain leading you to lust after this gal you will need to resolve on your own by first being aware of the obvious delusion and channeling that energy towards more meaningful endeavors. I am afraid you have your work cut out for you.

nicej2:


Thanks for your advice....To be honest i don't have the courage to tell my wife...cos she will be disappointed that such talks is coming from a disciplined man she used to known me to be. A woman can be naked in my front and i will not be moved... but she will not understand as man navigates through the world some things began to change.

That's why you should be more disciplined,come out plain since one of the most important attributes of marriage is loyalty,be loyal confront your wife and open up to her when you still got the chance. And another thing you can do to break the enchantment once and for all is to face the little slot and scold the shit off her,give her a federal warning in the presence of her sister. If you want to retain your integrity that's one way you can go about it. WOMEN ARE MORE EVIL THAN EVIL. this one phrase I'll always repeat.