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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by SUFFERInSMILIIN(m): 7:27am On Apr 14, 2023
Jennyclay:
Why not Return back to your father's land (Nigeria) if life is hard in u.k and its making you depressed. undecided

I'm even looking for someone who would take me to U.k.


Most Nigerians are illiterate all they want to do in another man's land is start supporting criminals and do party. The only thing you see Nigerians doing abroad following their own criminal..

Once in another man's land or another country people know you are a Nigerian or they find out you are a Nigerian they just keep their distance from you.

Nobody in another country wants to associate themselves with Nigerians.. I saw a Nigerian man in UK he bought £750000 hours what's the neighbours found out he was in Nigerian they went to court and told him to leave the road. They started giving him problems they don't want him on their Road .America and Canada I have seen the same thing

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Koppaguard: 8:24am On Apr 14, 2023
If you are a female I don't mind keeping you company, just bring me there and you will always have someone to talk to, I promise I won't talk to anyone else over there, I am also available for marriage ☺

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by EriMma1: 9:36am On Apr 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO!
grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy
Na for bad things you dey like to shine teeth put.
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by MrBroke(m): 9:36am On Apr 14, 2023
The Message here is that; Everywhere Hard!

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Nobody: 9:38am On Apr 14, 2023
Come back to Nigeria na, let other people go

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by RedpillAnalyst: 9:58am On Apr 14, 2023
Reminderz:
the way the system is designed is to keep the average people poor... it's the matrix.. you'll keep working and working and working while you forget yourself slowly... the taxes, the bills are designed in such a way you'll continue working as a slave till you die... this is why only until you break free from the matrix, and stop working as a slave, unlock your potentials that's when you start to enjoy life... but if you're still an NPC, doing what the average Joe does, you'll never amount to anything...

The Matrix, John Wick, Free City is trying to tell us the truth... but people aren't seeing it... When the guy in free city was still working as a slave (normal 9-5), he doesn't have time for himself or has any love life or any sources of income apart from that bank, he wanted to purchase a shoe with his salary, no matter how hard he works, didn't sustain him... until he was able to break free from the Matrix, that's when he started enjoying life and finally bought the shoe... most people are NPCs thinking they are free... it's a prison we design for ourselves and we night never break free because we are so dependent on the system, and powerful people made it so to keep the average person in control...

you may not believe it, but starting a good business in Nigeria is far better than oversees... at least for now... the taxes wahala, the laws to keep average people poor and in control, the bills, the known and unknown bills and restrictions ain't much here and you can easily scale up your business... but there.. you'll work and work and work and work till you have any sustainable income, and it will never be enough.... you need other sources of income, break free from the Matrix, think outside the box and stop consuming and doing what the average Joe does... most people think they are free or enjoying because they live in these cities that satisfies their illusions, but deep down, they are fvcking sad, depressed and tired... until you break free from your prison and anchors holding you down, you'll forever get stuck in this loop designed for the average person...

it is not about where you live or work, but how you live and work... people are still making it in this country till tomorrow, abi you want to tell me we don't have people suffering or homeless in overseas??.. it's about discipline, mindset and doing the right thing in order to win..


You have high probability of winning in life. The world needs normies to keep the ball rolling

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Nobody: 10:06am On Apr 14, 2023
SUFFERInSMILIIN:


The only thing Nigerians like all over the world is following a criminal and praising a criminal. Once there is no criminal to follow Nigeria and not happy. I have seen this in more than 15 countries around the world

Kk
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Figger(m): 12:03pm On Apr 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. So, the same depression no dey Nigeria at all? Look, this is per person problem and should be treated as such. There are equally Nigerians out there who cannot stand a day in Nigeria as they find life there as depressing as hell. Do we then declare Nigeria a depressing place to be? undecided
no mind them, bunch of extroverts that can't make some adjustments knowing full well you're no longer in Nigeria so it can't be as noisy as usual.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by OgaTheTop2: 12:34pm On Apr 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
A trip to naija for two weeks vacation everytime this loneliness creeps in? Isn't a trip to a behavioral health counselor for help on overcoming the problem at its core a lot cheaper and longer lasting option? undecided
Is this a behavioral health issue? This is induced stress and people need to take time off. That's my own thinking though.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Nobody: 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2023
rickpat:
but your beloved Nigeria is always here for you...WHY NOT RETURN?..since na social life be una problem...after complaining,the UK government says they are not renewing your visa..na una go still dey beg, hide,do fake marriage,just to remain there
A poor desperate man thinks money is everything, till he can afford to eat and live well, he will begin to see there is more to life. I don't blame anyone though, some are very desperate.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by rickpat(m): 12:51pm On Apr 14, 2023
JDistribute:

A poor desperate man thinks money is everything, till he can afford to eat and live well, he will begin to see there is more to life. I don't blame anyone though, some are very desperate.
yes bro...the needs of man are endless...get good food,you will want good clothes,get good clothes,you want that car...have it all and you remember you need peace of mind,love, etc...get it and you will still want something...life sometimes is easy but we just complicate it by excess want without wanting to sacrifice anything

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Nobody: 12:57pm On Apr 14, 2023
rickpat:
yes bro...the needs of man are endless...get good food,you will want good clothes,get good clothes,you want that car...have it all and you remember you need peace of mind,love, etc...get it and you will still want something...life sometimes is easy but we just complicate it by excess want without wanting to sacrifice anything
Speak on your situation, don't brush them off as senseless. A life where you eat, work, Bleep, eat, sleep, work, without an active social life and circle can lead to depression for some.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by StrandedBird: 1:18pm On Apr 14, 2023
Ma so
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by NaijaCover(m): 1:19pm On Apr 14, 2023
Nothing Good Come EASY

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Dimehook: 1:21pm On Apr 14, 2023
Cry for what? They should be grateful to be in the UK in the first place. If life is so hard, they should go back to their shitty country. Who cares if they cry themselves to sleep? Cry me a river, Nigerians. Nobody wants to hear about your whining and crying. If they can't handle it, they should just shut up and stop complaining.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by emperorlaqrin: 1:22pm On Apr 14, 2023
Na Uk make me know say depression Dey very real. God! Even the brits are depressed not to talk of we Africans with no family here.

I wonder how those with no family and partners are coping and most especially for a lady. Chai

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by GloriousGbola: 1:22pm On Apr 14, 2023
Part of the problem is that the average Nigerians entertainment begins and ends with party and fk.

Books dey
Netflix dey
Video games dey.
Even Nairaland sef dey.

But the average Nigerian is into the most basic forms of entertainment, so here we are.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by CodeTemplar: 1:22pm On Apr 14, 2023
rickpat:
but your beloved Nigeria is always here for you...WHY NOT RETURN?..since na social life be una problem...after complaining,the UK government says they are not renewing your visa..na una go still dey beg, hide,do fake marriage,just to remain there
hater spotted. Bad Belle dey kill faster than boredom and depression.

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by NBAjunior: 1:23pm On Apr 14, 2023
Rokiat:
They can always return home what’s stopping them?

When you go come service me with that yansh?
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by LordAdam16: 1:23pm On Apr 14, 2023
ednut1:
Complain complain complain is all they know. Uk to Nigeria is 6 hours away. Come back

Guy the thing tire me.

@Gerrard59. E never do for these people?

Mk dem tk timeout abeg. Dem fit resume next year.

-Lord
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Eriokanmi: 1:23pm On Apr 14, 2023
This is one of the many reasons I chose not to stay back after my studies in Buffalo, NY. I'm an African man, original. I love seeing my people around me.

Depression no be anyone's mate. Dem go talk say your siblings wan marry, you no fit come home. Your mama or papa dey do birthday, you no fit show face.

I really pitied one guy whose dad died back home. This man spent a lot on his education, up to his master's degree in Europe. The day he died, this guy couldn't come home. He was crying and crying. He was not done with his adjustment of status yet. Which kain life be dat one na? You can't barge into your neighbour's compound and ask if he or she had chilled stuff. You can't even say hello or attend your neighbour's birthday party without official invite. You can't even share your thoughts with anyone and that's the cause of many suicides over there. I no fit live that kain life abeg

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by emperorlaqrin: 1:23pm On Apr 14, 2023
Oboto700:
talk for urself oga

Abi oo. Me I don’t miss home oo. Lol me wey be say I Dey very private and prefers been alone

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Funkyswagzz(m): 1:25pm On Apr 14, 2023
You get depressed over there if your not careful. Living there very tough for me i missed everything about nigeria especially the food. I lived in harrow and kenton buh nowhere to buy nigeria stuff unless you go all the way to elephant and castle or peckham about an hour and half by train. Tho the night life was fantastic

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Kobojunkie: 1:25pm On Apr 14, 2023
OgaTheTop2:
Is this a behavioral health issue? This is induced stress and people need to take time off. That's my own thinking though.
Everybody experiences stress on a regular basis but not everyone experiences loneliness of this kind. undecided

There are people who never take time off, because their time and mind occupied with things is how they best cope with stress. undecided

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Lexusgs430: 1:26pm On Apr 14, 2023
If you acted like a lizard in Nigeria, you can never rush to become a diaspora crocodile 🐊🐊🐊🐊🐊......

It takes time and patience....... That crocodile in you, would eventually manifest itself........😂😁

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Foodempire: 1:26pm On Apr 14, 2023
MrBroke:
The Message here is that; Everywhere Hard!

Exactly
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Mindlog: 1:26pm On Apr 14, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. So, the same depression no dey Nigeria at all? Look, this is per person problem and should be treated as such. There are equally Nigerians out there who cannot stand a day in Nigeria as they find life there as depressing as hell. Do we then declare Nigeria a depressing place to be? undecided

Yes, it is per person problem....at this stage of my life, I can't switch the UK for Nigeria. Me whey get different places where I dey go relax weekly.😂😂😂

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by emperorlaqrin: 1:26pm On Apr 14, 2023
Oboto700:
They don't have Sense.. most of them are very weak people naturally.. the men are simps.. who gives a Bleep about loneliness inasmuch iam working and receiving my pay.. I can stay without talking to anyone for one year except calling Mom and Dad if iam that's the way it is... they should come back home and start partying about in poverty... nonsense.

Exactly but the honest reality here is that things doesn’t seem as you have stated because you see that work part is where the depression is gonna start from most especially those who came here with debts.

Imagine working very hard and getting back to an empty house with no one to laugh with

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by BloomingDale(f): 1:26pm On Apr 14, 2023
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by SLOVFO(m): 1:27pm On Apr 14, 2023
rickpat:
but your beloved Nigeria is always here for you...WHY NOT RETURN?..since na social life be una problem...after complaining,the UK government says they are not renewing your visa..na una go still dey beg, hide,do fake marriage,just to remain there
You dey mind them.
Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by OtuologyProf(m): 1:28pm On Apr 14, 2023
I wonder why a full grown Nigerian will leave his large expanse of land in his village, travel out to pay bills. This is a landlord we are talking about oh..

For otu's sake! Who did this to black people?

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Re: Nigerians Reveal What Makes Them Cry In The UK by Cerebellum: 1:28pm On Apr 14, 2023
It is in the UK you'll understand that money is not everything

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