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specialmati:
satan smiling at this harmless date. thats what he did with eve and now look at our world

😂😂😂😂 Holy Ghost fire

frozen70:
The truth is that, there is nothing like harmless date because one day that harm will go down

So if you are married don't go for any nonsense and just don't go on any harmless date because that's where that nonsense will start

Before you know it, you will start feeling for him

Men these days doesn't want to know If a woman is married, once they liked you the next thing is to go down with you

If you are discipline you can resist them

Okay sis, thank you 🙏😉

Lamanii22:
No not at all… lol

I won’t even take it from someone I date, talk more or my wife

Lamanii22:
It’s not about money lol… it’s about the connection… pardon me 😂😂😂

lol. Sha be careful. Nothing comes easy/free nowadays especially with pretty mamas like una.

Lamanii22:
Okay sis, thank you 🙏😉

Welcome dear sis

lead us not into temptation

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

How old are you in marriage first?

You think goat and yam should be kept together and nothing will happen?

We all know what we are doing
Keep pretending that all is fine and harmless

Ashawo…that’s how after few years Childs DNA wahala go burst. U better go and tell ur husband and stop flirting around with so called top politician. Opio

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Women usually think only when sex involved that will call cheat"

So, harmless hangout that you can't tell ur husband, what is that?



Little wonder people confirming that they have seperated/divorced on daily basis.

Then, married women used to reserve and hangout with only their husbands and friends with husband relatives alone, but now, women in serious relationship with different besties.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Your husband pen!s nor reach you? Yeye girl... Shior

frozen70:
The truth is that, there is nothing like harmless date because one day that harm will go down

So if you are married don't go for any nonsense and just don't go on any harmless date because that's where that nonsense will start

Before you know it, you will start feeling for him

Men these days doesn't want to know If a woman is married, once they liked you the next thing is to go down with you

If you are discipline you can resist them

Are women this day know that they are married by not going off their boundaries?

*Married woman pressuring man that not her husband for money and gifts.
* Married woman sending her pictures for man which is not her husband on social media.
*Married woman having male bestie outside marriage.
*Married woman going out on harmless date with man.

worldclass68:
U knew what u re doing......your mind knew every possibilities of what may happen and you have already made ur decision ma'am.


If u cant tell ur husband about the so called harmless date ( lol) then u knew what u re actually up to.

She dey use grammar cover her nonsense.
I just can't be that ur husband. .
What nonsense post.
U are slotting already and so dermn annoying I must say. She is a crazy bitch

MrBrownJay1:
1) why would you give your # to total strangers who wanna take you out? you are suspect!
2) there is NO SUCH THING as harmless dating. this man wants something from you and you are pretending you dont know what it is. just because you are bored in your marriage, shouldnt be a reason to use yeye excuses to meet other men. just be honest with your husband about how you feel in your marriage.you are suspect!
3) if you indeed gave him your # for help, then what does that "help" got to do with going on dates?! you are suspect!
4) so if your husband can get help from females out there, he should also be allowed to go out on dates with them, abi?! you are suspect!

She's just a hoe.
No need for her long useless grammar.
I just pity your husband.
DNA is always d key las las.
Go Bleep no wahala.

KanuSE:
She probably knows what may trigger her husband's anxiety, therefore didn't want to hurt his feelings by mentioning the supposed harmless date she's not even been to.

She's a wise wife.

NONSENSE. 😠

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date...


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

The fact that you left the most important info about the situation to your husband only to come create a thread about it here on nairaland surprises me, are we here on nairaland more important to you than your husband?
Things like this should be discussed with him, and carry on with what ever he decides.

KanuSE:
Darling, please don't mind all these insecure commenters masturbating on your thread - They simply cannot comprehend.

They quickly forgot that you specified it was a harmless date but they're here foaming in their mouths. They wouldn't even respect the fact that you're an adult with an independent mind.

Ignore all of them please!

serial fornicator and a prostitute spotted

Iamuk:
She dey use grammar cover her nonsense.
I just can't be that ur husband. .
What nonsense post.
U are slotting already and so dermn annoying I must say. She is a crazy bitch

Lamanii22, her type will spread her legs wide for any man just to get a Federal Government job. Check all her post as regards her family and you will notice that she wanna fvck outside. She's just looking for validation.

Her marriage is not up to 5yrs and her daughter is not up to 3yrs, but na "harmless date" with another person husband she wan go.

Na her type dey make people laugh Yoruba married women.

There is nothing like harmless date.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

My sister, just imagine your husband seeing you with him in your 'harmless date'.... Be wise!!!

Allardyce:
Lamanii22, her type will spread her legs wide for any man just to get a Federal Government job. Check all her post as regards her family and you will notice that she wanna fvck outside. She's just looking for validation.

Her marriage is not up to 5yrs and her daughter is not up to 3yrs, but na "harmless date" with another person husband she wan go.

Na her type dey make people laugh Yoruba married women.

Naturally she is a bitch.
Hot pants.
Naaah.
This ome go Bleep her boss and d rest 😊.
She's a real bitch ass.
No bleeps given though it's just her husband I dey pity. The hrt break no go b here oo.
NEVER MAKE A HOE A HOUSE WIFE.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Lol. Dance make I dance.. le le le le o.

Allardyce:
Just incase you want to delete this post.

my nigga. God would continue to expose this wicked gender.

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

In every ramifications this maybe a harmless date to you but for him it's not , He want something you will still come back here to tell us how he nearly or sleep with you

Fiscus105:
Are women this day know that they are married, by not going off their boundaries?

*Married woman pressuring man that not her husband for money and gifts.
* Married woman sending her pictures for man which is not her husband on social media.
*Married woman having male bestie outside marriage.
*Married woman going out on harmless date with man.

Read second to my last paragraph

Lamanii22:
No not at all… lol

So what is it....??
The funny thing is u are justifying it with words like harmless date, he's just a friend, yet u are hiding the full details from ur man, cos u wont take the same from him

two..u are the one creating excuse of federal connection the man ddnt say he will help u with.... u are already thinking of what u will gain but u dont think the man is thinking of what he will gain....because in ur mind...he's just lookimg for where to spend money abi...u think u are wise...

The summary is that u miss ur single life when u used to freely jump on dates for fun and free food...i like free food too...who doesnt like awoof and adventure?? .old habits die hard

u want that life once in a whil...so own up with ur full chest and enjoy.....and accept wateva comes out of it as well... dont hide under harmless date

Allardyce:
Just incase you want to delete this post.

Comrade

Ekpekus:
Comrade

Your moniker sounds like Kpekus oh

This reminds me of the movie

Na so she self take "harmless business trip"

Don't pretend like you don't know the answer to your question.

Madam Una go nack... I see cheating in your future

Allardyce:
Your moniker sounds like Kpekus oh

Na wa oh

It's very simple, madam.
Let's do it this way ok. Advise your husband if it is good to go on a harmless date with his colleague and that answers your question.
"Do to others what you want them do to you ma"

Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

KanuSE:
It's just a harmless date.

that"harmless"na the hidden word for "fvck"I don talk my own

youngreezy:
that"harmless"na the hidden word for "fvck"I don talk my own

Is it okay if she used the phrase 'hold a meeting' instead of harmless date?

It's actually beyond me how most of you summarily concluded Op is going to have sex with her friend.

It show the society is messed up and you people are the society.