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Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Lamanii22(f): 9:45pm On Apr 15, 2023
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Allardyce: 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2023
Your type will be easily swayed by gifts, chewing gum and orishirishi.
Your baby is not even up to 2yrs old, you're already contemplating in your heart whether to go on a "harmless date" with another man.

If you like, be friends with a goat, it will surely eat your "Yam" someday.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by tochez24(m): 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2023
Ashawo..... I just that innocent man the spent his life savings in marrying you!!!!!

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Allardyce: 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….
Just incase you want to delete this post.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by frozen70(f): 9:56pm On Apr 15, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

The truth is that, there is nothing like harmless date because one day that harm will go down

So if you are married don't go for any nonsense and just don't go on any harmless date because that's where that nonsense will start

Before you know it, you will start feeling for him

Men these days doesn't want to know If a woman is married, once they liked you the next thing is to go down with you

If you are discipline you can resist them

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by worldclass68(m): 10:02pm On Apr 15, 2023
U knew what u re doing......your mind knew every possibilities of what may happen and you have already made ur decision ma'am.


If u cant tell ur husband about the so called harmless date ( lol) then u knew what u re actually up to.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:13pm On Apr 15, 2023
OP, You can go
BUT
Remember that Preek no get Shoulder.
Once e Dey close to Towtow, him dey Enter. cool

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Daniel7543: 10:18pm On Apr 15, 2023
na so E dey start.
From harmless Date to harmless visit to his house, before u know, u go carry belle by accident

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KidDarkness(m): 10:21pm On Apr 15, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….
It's a very risky adventure that you want embark on. The fact that he's married doesn't rule out the possibility that he wants you or wants a taste of you. Be wise and guided so that you won't tell your husband that it was a mistake or better still, so you won't blame the devil. Keeping out the date part from your husband says a lot if he finds out

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by obi4eze(m): 10:31pm On Apr 15, 2023
Of course it's the beginning of adultery. Once he begins to give you gifts or even promises the job you are very likely to do anything to get even if it means sleeping with him. Just be careful. This is not a harmless date. And there's nothing like 'just being friends'.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:37pm On Apr 15, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery
Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…
Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….
He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

1) why would you give your # to total strangers who wanna take you out? you are suspect!
2) there is NO SUCH THING as harmless dating. this man wants something from you and you are pretending you dont know what it is. just because you are bored in your marriage, shouldnt be a reason to use yeye excuses to meet other men. just be honest with your husband about how you feel in your marriage.you are suspect!
3) if you indeed gave him your # for help, then what does that "help" got to do with going on dates?! you are suspect!
4) so if your husband can get help from females out there, he should also be allowed to go out on dates with them, abi?! you are suspect!

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by PerfectStranger(m): 10:39pm On Apr 15, 2023
"Harmless date" grin

From harmless date to harmless shifting of p#nt.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by TheFreshVanilla: 10:56pm On Apr 15, 2023

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Oluromantic: 11:27pm On Apr 15, 2023
Don't worry, it will end in harmless f*cking.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Red02(m): 11:29pm On Apr 15, 2023
How do you even feel ??

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by omooba969(m): 11:34pm On Apr 15, 2023
frozen70:


The truth is that, there is nothing like harmless date because one day that harm will go down

So if you are married don't go for any nonsense and just don't go on any harmless date because that's where that nonsense will start

Before you know it, you will start feeling for him

Men these days doesn't want to know If a woman is married, once they liked you the next thing is to go down with you

If you are discipline you can resist them

But there's love in sharing na. grin

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Apr 15, 2023
No, it's not.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by youngreezy(m): 11:35pm On Apr 15, 2023
If you go on that date,that man don fvck you aunty, nothing you wan talk and for you to no tell your husband about the"harmless date"means say you dey excited about getting fvcked and not being caught, infact na dat experience or adventure you dey find..... who knows the man fit be ya ex boyfriend and you no wan tell us.....to close my talk, imagine say your husband go on a "harmles date"with another woman?how you go feel?

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Terenceike(m): 11:59pm On Apr 15, 2023
Why tell your husband everything except the so called harmless date. You’re just trying to be intelligent by half

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Mjshexy(f): 12:01am On Apr 16, 2023
Let your conscience judge you, as long as you can not tell your husband that you're going on a harmless date with another married man then you know what you want, so continue madam undecided

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KanuSE: 12:26am On Apr 16, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery

Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….

He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….

I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….

Darling, please don't mind all these insecure commenters masturbating on your thread - They simply cannot comprehend.

They quickly forgot that you specified it was a harmless date but they're here foaming in their mouths. They wouldn't even respect the fact that you're an adult with an independent mind.

Ignore all of them please!

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KanuSE: 12:31am On Apr 16, 2023
Mjshexy:
Let your conscience judge you, as long as you can not tell your husband that you're going on a harmless date with another married man then you know what you want, so continue madam undecided

Don't even try to guilt-trip her ok, this is just a harmless date FFS. Who knows if doors of opportunities will open from there, does it have to be sex sex sex all the time?

Abegi... mtchew!

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KanuSE: 12:36am On Apr 16, 2023
Terenceike:

Why tell your husband everything except the so called harmless date. You’re just trying to be intelligent by half

She probably knows what may trigger her husband's anxiety, therefore didn't want to hurt his feelings by mentioning the supposed harmless date she's not even been to.

She's a wise wife.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KanuSE: 12:40am On Apr 16, 2023
youngreezy:
If you go on that date,that man don fvck you aunty, nothing you wan talk and for you to no tell your husband about the"harmless date"means say you dey excited about getting fvcked and not being caught, infact na dat experience or adventure you dey find..... who knows the man fit be ya ex boyfriend and you no wan tell us.....to close my talk, imagine say your husband go on a "harmles date"with another woman?how you go feel?

It's just a harmless date. undecided
Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Mjshexy(f): 12:40am On Apr 16, 2023
KanuSE:


Don't even try to guilt-trip her ok, this is just a harmless date FFS. Who knows if doors of opportunities will open from there, does it have to be sex sex sex all the time?

Abegi... mtchew!
I said let her conscience judge her
Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by KanuSE: 12:44am On Apr 16, 2023
Mjshexy:
I said let her conscience judge her

What has 'conscience judging her' got to do with a harmless date? She's a responsible adult and can think reasonably, we are not in a position to prejudge whatever.

Let's renew our minds please, we are just too sexualised in this fvcking corntree.
Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by specialmati(m): 12:50am On Apr 16, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin satan smiling at this harmless date. thats what he did with eve and now look at our world

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by akube34: 12:53am On Apr 16, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….
which one be harmless date ? Shey outside still Dey ur eye?

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 2:21am On Apr 16, 2023
From harmless date to harmless knacking.

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by HarunaWest(m): 3:17am On Apr 16, 2023
Lamanii22:
Or it’s the beginning of adultery


Ever since I sealed it with my husband I stopped giving out my numbers to guys, my phone barely rings lol…

Recently I met a man at my university who's elderly and as well married he asked for my number i did give him cause he may be of help cause he works in the federal parastatals… and he is top in his dept….


He said he wants us to be friends and all, he wants us to go out on a date, I actually gisted my husband about him and all but didn’t tell my husband he wants us to go on a harmless date….


I’m just tryna guard my heart, maybe it’s best I don’t go… or maybe there’s something called harmless date or that harmless could be harmful

Advices needed thank you….
Lamani can you imagine? You no gree go date with me all these while, buh you don see FG worker now, you don dey ask harmful or harmless nawa. Money

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Lamanii22(f): 3:25am On Apr 16, 2023
HarunaWest:
Lamani can you imagine? You no gree go date with me all these while, buh you don see FG worker now, you don dey ask harmful or harmless nawa. Money


It’s not about money lol… it’s about the connection… pardon me 😂😂😂

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Re: Is Going On A Harmless Date While Married Okay??? by Lamanii22(f): 3:27am On Apr 16, 2023
akube34:
which one be harmless date ? Shey outside still Dey ur eye?

No not at all… lol

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