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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by drsugar: 9:53pm On Apr 19, 2023
I disagree. Some men with inferiority complex are actually scared of successful and confident women.

That being said, real rich big men love their woman to be soft, successful and comfortable…. But they avoid the bitchy ones cos they don want drama or distraction

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by casualobserver: 9:53pm On Apr 19, 2023
Men are not afraid of successful women. Successful women unknowingly tend to become masculine and aggressive which is a trait required to be successful especially in the corporate, business or political space. Women don’t know how to switch back to home mode so they bring the aggression and masculinity home. Men find this character unattractive and unfeminine. That’s all there is to it.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Analyst7: 9:56pm On Apr 19, 2023
Because once a woman becomes successful there’s a high probability she will be cocky and unsubmissive, two captains can’t lead a ship

It’s rare to find a highly successful woman being submissive, that’s why men rarely marry such

They’re just scared of being disrespected which is highly probable with those women

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 9:57pm On Apr 19, 2023
CondenseMilk:
Most successful women lacks submission and this is the reason why they are single.

A Successful Woman is A Submissive Woman.


If You Are A Rich Single Woman Seeking For Marriage for Too Long; Then; You Are Yet To Be Successful in That Regards.


Success is Not Just About "Having Money".


Success Cuts Across:

B - Business Satisfaction,

I - Investment Satisfaction,

L - Lifestyle Satisfaction,

L - Love Satisfaction

S - Sexual Satisfaction.




If You Are Satisfied in The Area of Your Business Life; It doesn't guarantee Success For You in Your Lifestyle, Love or Sexual Life.


The Ability To Derive Satisfaction in All Those Areas of Life is What is Regarded As "ALL ROUND SUCCESS " which Everyone Truly Wants.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 19, 2023
Airlohim:
I'm successful myself so why should I fear

That is how a man who is sure of himself speaks

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Benrosaria(m): 10:00pm On Apr 19, 2023
because he isn't a complete man. complete men makes women wealthy
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Iamzik: 10:00pm On Apr 19, 2023
Curiouscity:


What you said is the truth. But "modern " women won't want to hear that. They exhibit every form of masculinity, yet wants a man to love and care for them.


I was driving to work on 3MB when I saw a lady whose car broke down. The good man in me wanted to pull over and help but Omo when I see how she dey shouting at her male persenger I jeje press my gas pedal

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by BloomingDale(f): 10:01pm On Apr 19, 2023
I wish Nigerian men will put all these effort into policing their fellow criminal Nigerian men. A lot of opportunities lost because of these criminal bandits.

Please start making threads and telling your fellow criminal Nigerian men to stop the drug peddling, yahoo yahoo, armed robbery, human trafficking etc.

Abeg you.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by FantasyWolf(m): 10:02pm On Apr 19, 2023
Depends on the perspective you're looking at it from..
Cuz it's true that some men are completely terrified of successful women, especially if she's wealthier than him...with the mentality that such woman will not be submissive or respectful to him cuz she faring better.
On the other hand some successful women become so egoistic,ignorant,rude and intimidating thereby chasing men away from herself without even realizing it...

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Benrosaria(m): 10:03pm On Apr 19, 2023
because he isn't a complete man. complete men makes women wealthy. a woman is to be wealthy as a man is to be king. if he cares
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by folake4u(f): 10:03pm On Apr 19, 2023
eepeepook:
Una no dey tire for hackneyed topics.

Likeeeeeee! I'm tired already.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by abidem4real: 10:05pm On Apr 19, 2023
RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.
I guess you are settling scores with an arrogantly pompous successful woman because this piece of yours seems so

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Goodlady(f): 10:05pm On Apr 19, 2023
CondenseMilk:
Most successful women lacks submission and this is the reason why they are single.
not true..
Men are just unbelievable

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Wealthoptulent(m): 10:06pm On Apr 19, 2023
Aah!
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by zicoraads: 10:06pm On Apr 19, 2023
RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.
You copied a write-up from Brian without a single thing to acknowledge it as his.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Iamzik: 10:06pm On Apr 19, 2023
casualobserver:
Men are not afraid of successful women. Successful women unknowingly tend to become masculine and aggressive which is a trait required to be successful especially in the corporate, business or political space. Women don’t know how to switch back to home mode so they bring the aggression and masculinity home. Men find this character unattractive and unfeminine. That’s all there is to it.

Think about a female invigilator, female boss in the office, female politician

I won't say all women but most women allow their position get into their head. I don't know whether it's deliberate or unconscious but somehow power intoxicate women easily than men. In fact many women prefer a male boss than having a female boss

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by EndBuhariNow(m): 10:07pm On Apr 19, 2023
Apart from. Clitocurrency women in Nigeria.. no other successful women in this clime
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by smiliyB(f): 10:07pm On Apr 19, 2023
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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Dshocker(m): 10:08pm On Apr 19, 2023
Once a woman becomes rich, she becomes overwhelmed and influenced by her status to berate men below her status...

They can't handle and manage power.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 19, 2023
BloomingDale:
I wish Nigerian men will put all these effort into policing their fellow criminal Nigerian men. A lot of opportunities lost because of these criminal bandits.

Please start making threads and telling your fellow criminal Nigerian men to stop the drug peddling, yahoo yahoo, armed robbery, human trafficking etc.

Abeg you.

What are you even saying? Have you advise your gender to stop prostitution, hook up and paternity fraud?

And how does your comment even relate to the topic?

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by DriveByKiller: 10:13pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.



you get sense

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by bigdammyj: 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2023
Okay.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by youngreezy(m): 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.



wetin you dey drink make I order one crate with cat fish pepper soup for you....

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Dshocker(m): 10:21pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:


Hahahaahahahabbaha tell that to someone who cares. I am a woman I am not after any woman pussy, men will tiptoed not to offend women because after all they need pussy not me.


Be it a man or woman issue imma say what I truly believe in. grin

So you believe with pussy, every man will surrender, or what are you trying to say?
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by ukaface(f): 10:22pm On Apr 19, 2023
CondenseMilk:


Better unlearn this your idea for your own good.

Provided you are a human with natural biological make-up, you need the opposite sex for completion.
You’re complete
You’re whole with or without the opposite sex
You actually need to unlearn

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by duduade: 10:23pm On Apr 19, 2023
Who breeds all these kain fellow brothers who believe that because a woman works her buttsss off to be someone she should not enjoy

Please please the same way a man enjoys it's the same way a woman should enjoy too

something is wrong with your ideology

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by michael1508: 10:25pm On Apr 19, 2023
GboyegaD:
I think it is a mixed feeling. Some men grew up been chauvinistic and misogynistic and for this reason, they feel since they can't control such women, they claim they are rude and have attitude etc. For others, they are scared of successful women because of their insecurities.
They claim or the so called women are rude?
Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by Adakintroy: 10:25pm On Apr 19, 2023
So this is a global trend not only particular to Nigeria. Its a complaint also in the west. Boss Ladies at least they are called. Its not that men are afraid of them, its more or less a new trend in some sense. Up till now men have rule the turf with money, power and statues and women subordinates socially. But with liberation of women comes change. Education and exposure has led to power shift. More and more women are gaining in this regards.

Note we are not talking money with powerful women, rather a strong mental awareness as in sensing their world all round. Economically, socially, politically culturally.

Men who have been use to occupy the high ground in this spheres now have to contend for it. Its strange for them in many ways. Usually in relationship men occupy this high ground and women feeling a sense of meaning by affiliation. But mind offensiveness for women means They are attaining meaning all by themselves..with this comes less need for the former affiliation. Its like a hunting lioness pack. yes they can hunt too just like the male.

The followup to this in his extreme, is that the female and male will meet up only for sex, as its is commonly practice in the wild. If both can gain food Independently, there will be less need for socialization or bonding. They will concern themselves only with that which they can't attain independently.."procreation".

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by jaxxy(m): 10:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

Men who want to control and subjugate their wives are actually afraid of successful women.

Some men believe in control than a balanced relationship where a woman can talk and ask questions so yeah it's partially true as no rich woman will take so much nonsense from a man unless there's more to it.

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Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by goldtube(m): 10:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Successful women need a simp... sad someone they can control

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