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Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

If you be chic, na you be David twin sister
Oil Dey shine for your head, have a blessed Thursday and May everything flow well for you

Omo see as honest & simple good opinion sweet my heart, good thinking

lexy2014:
What are you quarreling with exactly?

I only asked a question

I think you are the one that turns it to quarrel

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Nice one... You get sense, more wisdom to you

frozen70:
I only asked a question

I think you are the one that turns it to quarrel

I only asked you a question too: What are you quarreling with exactly?

Can you show me the quarel I turned it into?

Well am from a polygamus home if I am who.i am today because my mother is hard-working I don't see any issue if a woman achieve a lot it's just depend how you treat her that d simple truth

Men are afraid of all types of women

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Great submission

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Bar man,
Give this chic a carton of her favorite drink and a complete dose of her favorite sex position.


Thread closed!!!!!!!!

frozen70:
It depends on what you mean by submission, especially for those who are married to a man who cant provide for his family

She pays the house rent, school fees, hospital bills, other bills and probably feeding

These are the things a man that married her can't do and she is doing it all,

So is she not submissive enough

Or you expect her to work for the money and hand it over to the man

That's what you call submission abi ⁉️

Surely not. That's not the definition of submission. Any man who calls that submission is a cramp, if there's anything called by that name.

Now, the situation you painted actually exists in some occasions. However, what's wrong with such a man that his wife will do all of those things you mentioned and is still calling himself the man of the home?

No sane man will be comfortable getting all of those services from a woman you call your wife! If he is, then he's sick heavy.

Now, a wife could be favoured with all of those good things. A healthy husband should try to leverage on that woman's status by finding out what can I do to maintain my position as your husband!

Even if, your salary monthly may not be more than 200k, and here you have a wife earning 2m per month. Something from that 200k should come as your gift to the babe of your life regularly. Definitely, that salary of the man can't maintain the life of the wife, and a sane woman that earns 2m too is not going to be expecting you to maintain her and the home. All a sane woman will be looking for is just a sense of responsibility from the man. Buy simple things for the kids and the wife and appreciate the efforts of the woman.

That woman will be happy with your 200k and she'll do all of the rest with joy in her heart.

Anyway, remember my adjective for the woman, SANE! It's not everybody that is sane o!

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

If you have this mindset Rokiat, and that picture I saw in your profile, then your babe is living in heaven right here on earth. You rock! Kudos lady.

Rokiat:
Hahahaahahahabbaha tell that to someone who cares. I am a woman I am not after any woman pussy, men will tiptoed not to offend women because after all they need pussy not me.


Be it a man or woman issue imma say what I truly believe in.

with this your mindset you qualify to sit in the table of real men discuss

Africa women that are claiming woke don't know their left from right, the Freemasons are only in for the agenda of breaking up marriages and isolating women from the man like their master did to Eve isolating him from Adam as designed by the Creator

Funny thing is it doesn't always end well, we can see what the wokeness of right in the west is now doing in gender confusion LGBTQ+ and they keep adding more binaries everyday

The Truth remains this: women can't handle power.... without being demonized by it.

Generally, power corrupts, now imagine it in the hand of a woman.

Give a woman a little job that pays more than her husbands, watch how she will turn the head of the family.

Nobody is afraid of any successful woman....they simply become demons with little success....I Don't know a man who wants to associate with a demon.

CondenseMilk:
Most successful women lacks submission and this is the reason why they are single.

Poor man like you. If you like no go hustle. Dey there dey wait for successful woman wey go come submit to you. Yamayama fall on your bald head there

pansophist:
No man is afraid of a successful woman. Men are just turned off by what a woman have transformed into on her path to become very successful.

It's the women that are saying "I'm independent and don't need no man". So if men rejected the same woman that don't want them, is it fear?

no sir, it isnt fear. It is preference.

Because when a woman becomes so successful, she has the greater tendency of becoming rude, untamed, proud, arrogant, egoist, unsubmissive, disrespectful and unmarriageable to a great extent. And if you eventually stop providing for the family needs due to financial challenges, she may do it but get ready to be insulted to the degree you wouldn't fathom.

Many people are dumb.
No successful man or woman has the full time to take full responsibility of the home because time is money, a good time used well makes a lot of money , know this and be at peace

Only if she wants to be a wife ie. Submission and loyalty

Curiouscity:
Are you a man or woman?

If you're a woman, they (so-called feminist) are coming for your head.

Does that matter in saying what is really right. She's actually right. Being a successful woman can never turn you to a man, so you can't be a husband but a wife to be submissive to a loving and responsible
husband, only if you want a happy and everlasting bliss.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Nice one

franchasofficia:
Naturally, men are not attracted to a woman based on her achievements in life because men don't desire women because of provision, men are usually attracted to a woman mainly to satisfy their emotional need not for material need.



Once a man sets eyes on a woman, the first thing that runs through his mind is how pretty, sexy and enjoyable she will be in the oza room . He may consider other qualities in the woman later, but man's primary need from a woman is sex and care. It is because of economic hardship or financial difficulty that makes men even consider marrying a financially rich or comfortable lady. A rich guy cares less about a lady's success. He may only want the girl to come from a rich or comfortable family background to minimize the possibility of her becoming a gold digger, but not necessarily for her to be rich herself.




My wife is in a career that makes women become rich easily and this career makes them feel kind of pompous/arrogant to men lol, but she knows that whatever financial growth she is getting or will get in future from her career no concern me, so she remains loyal cos na me still de buy her undies



But from my personal observation from friends and some family members married to ladies richer than them lol, I will advice any young man to focus on being financially successful, pray as your wife gets richer, that God blesses you with more wealth oh, if not na Oyo state for you lol.



Financial success or career success can change women eh lol, except their hubby is richer and not depending on them or asking them for a dime.



Honestly with what I notice around friends that married ladies richer than them, its risky marrying a rich lady if you aren't richer than her oh lol.



This always makes me wonder how my own marriage would have been if I was broke and not able to provide 100 percent for my family, maybe my Nyarinya for de lock me for house with big chains


I thank God oh, I will never go down till I depart this earth, no woman except my daughter(s) will be richer than me till I sign out from this earth, and even if my wife becomes the next Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, I will make sure say na me de pay all my family bills 100 percent, make she carry her money go give her papa and mama abeg lol. Thank God my wife knows that I don't care if she earns 1billion per hour cos I will still be buying her car, paying for her driver, and making her know that she is still a broke woman where I de




To all these Naija single boiz searching for Linda Ikeji and Folarunsho Alakija to marry, make una de careful oh, we weh de on that table are grateful we escaped their wahala by grace, I wonder how a guy earning 1 or 2milla per month go survive staying happily married to all these beautiful successful career ladies, na cane them go de use wake una up for morning

Franchas, I have followed you here for long. And this has always been your position on this issue.

Now, I am wondering, why is your wife working?

If you foot all bills 100%, upto her undies, what is she doing with her money?

Why is she working because I know by her working, she will be busier leading to less time for you, sex etc; less time for kids, less time to do chores, manage the home etc. YET despite taking part of the time meant for you, she is still unable to contribute from the proceeds of the job.

Many men do this

Now, do you think this is ideal?

Watch them being humble as soon as the clock 40 without a man or a child. Look at Linda ikeji where is she now. Plus man of them. It's their attitude because nobody want to use his money and buy stress. Look at Blessing CEO when she come out of police custody she will be humble and the next thing is to find man. Man is really the price with his fertile rode.

Not at all they don't need a woman who 5hinks her money turns them into house boys , when a woman gets more money she feels she no longer needs a man

Divoc19:
A real man shouldn't be intimidated/afraid of successful women.

These days we have more lazy ass men without ambition in life that only want to feed off their women. They think having a third leg makes them a man.

We also have men that love their women so much that they want to limit the potential of their women because they are not man enough to maintain being her man when she becomes successful.

Let every man know their responsibility in life before looking for a woman that fits into is life. No Lies!

That man you called lazy and no ambition in life will leave you biting your fingers in shame when you see him sometime in the future. Women like you are always in the category of losers

ZIMDRILL:
they became cocky becoz men made them that way she is a product of her environment

You find her cocky then she is out of your league (get the fruits you can reach)

If you’re a girl, then that’s the problem with u guys
U guys can’t always calm down to listen to points, u always think you’re right then when the consequences come u play victims

Which one is product of environment, why do y’all always look for excuses, why not take accountability that u have a shitty attitude and work on it

Lol u just proving my point with ur comment, it’s obvious u will practice hypergamy the way ure talking, lol out of my league, don’t worry once u become hyper successful u can go for more powerful men, that’s what most women do, then when you see the consequences later, don’t come to cry victim

Only insecure men and simps are afraid of successful women.
I prefer upwardly mobile successful women and I have helped several young women to become successful; including Linda Ikeji and Success Iyoha who is the CEO of Kisses & Roses eStore on Amazon and opening soon on Flutterwave.

Behind every successful woman there is a man.

This kind of Intelligence is appealing.

...from a female/woman no less.

Many successful women have known this and have peaceful marriages lasting decades now.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

They threat men like sh•t

No man is afraid of a successful woman, men are only irritated with Thier lack of respect and submission and secondly a women don't know how to handle power they always translate being successful as having the uttermost power over Thier men, the man is the head in what ever circumstance.
A man is a man while a woman remains a woman no matter the circumstances.

It takes a god fearing successful woman with home training to be submissive to his husband