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jaxxy:
How is a husband a womans dad?? where did u get that analogy from?

also people have different kinds of dad's. some don't even speak to their dads.

Divoc19:
A real man shouldn't be intimidated/afraid of successful women.

These days we have more lazy ass men without ambition in life that only want to feed off their women. They think having a third leg makes them a man.

We also have men that love their women so much that they want to limit the potential of their women because they are not man enough to maintain being her man when she becomes successful.

Let every man know their responsibility in life before looking for a woman that fits into is life. No Lies!

ZIMDRILL:
you talk like a boy

asking questions to your father is totally different from asking someone u sleep with, have kids with, tend to get old with

Most african cultures we are programmed by both society and culture not ask right to our parents, eg questiions that tend to expose that your parent has no knowledge or lacks critical thinking

Your forbidden from embrassing them

Whereas with hubby you are meant to be asking but it comes back to that culture of not embrassing its carried over to hubby, where other hubbys dont allow women to say their own thinking, which might embrass hubby but in true fact he should embrace that wife has sharp mind too

Flamemignon1:
I'm gay and even at that I don't need or want a male partner to complete me. All I need is me myself and I

ZIMDRILL:
but do realise also that some men rush to call a woman arrogant simple becoz she refuse to lower her standards

eg a keke driver, might see a bank teller being an arrogant woman, she knows her selfworth as bank teller and she wouldnt want a keke driver

OkayDaddy:
I guess your mother gave birth to you without being impregnated by the opposite sex.

When you products of failed families speak, it's not hard to know.

RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

hotwax:
where are those successful women? i want to date one.

Its hard to see a successful woman...

JustcallmeFavou:
Not completely True!

My prayer each day is that, God the more you lift me higher in life, help me to remind humble, respectful, and not loose myself in the process.

I am a woman, and I can beat my chest and say what OP said is the truth. Most women loose it once they are very successful. The ones that are successful,and yet humble are not up to 2%. Most of them, even belittle their fellow women who are not yet as successful as them in the process.

We should call a spade a spade and not turn a blind eye, or sugar coat things that are not right.

Paramount01:
Yes! I'm a boy with a kid,I know you are still a novice sha in marriage.

Because a man sleeps with you makes you think you are equal?

Abraham sleeps with Sarah and Sarah still regards him has her Lord,check in the Bible the same respect woman gives to their dad is the same respect they gave to their husband

You advise your dad,didn't you? How did you pass the information? You correct him ,didn't you? How did you correct him?

This are small thing that leads to divorce,the same way you relate with your dad with love and respect is the same way you relate with your husband

In my language they even call husband 'Olowo ori mi' meaning the man that pays the price they put on my head.this is what makes a manyo be man

Analyst7:
If you’re a girl, then that’s the problem with u guys
U guys can’t always calm down to listen to points, u always think you’re right then when the consequences come u play victims

Which one is product of environment, why do y’all always look for excuses, why not take accountability that u have a shitty attitude and work on it

Lol u just proving my point with ur comment, it’s obvious u will practice hypergamy the way ure talking, lol out of my league, don’t worry once u become hyper successful u can go for more powerful men, that’s what most women do, then when you see the consequences later, don’t come to cry victim

RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

Rokiat:
Hahahaahahahabbaha tell that to someone who cares. I am a woman I am not after any woman pussy, men will tiptoed not to offend women because after all they need pussy not me.


Be it a man or woman issue imma say what I truly believe in.

frozen70:
How many things in the Bible does men obey

Including the one that says love your wife

Did the Bible say have side chic

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Adakintroy:
So this is a global trend not only particular to Nigeria. Its a complaint also in the west. Boss Ladies at least they are called. Its not that men are afraid of them, its more or less a new trend in some sense. Up till now men have rule the turf with money, power and statues and women subordinates socially. But with liberation of women comes change. Education and exposure has led to power shift. More and more women are gaining in this regards.

Note we are not talking money with powerful women, rather a strong mental awareness as in sensing their world all round. Economically, socially, politically culturally.

Men who have been use to occupy the high ground in this spheres now have to contend for it. Its strange for them in many ways. Usually in relationship men occupy this high ground and women feeling a sense of meaning by affiliation. But mind offensiveness for women means They are attaining meaning all by themselves..with this comes less need for the former affiliation. Its like a hunting lioness pack. yes they can hunt too just like the male.

The followup to this in this extremely, is that the female and male will meet up only for sex, as its is commonly practice in the wild. If both can gain food Independently, there will be less need for socialization or bonding. They will concern themselves only with that which they are attain independently.."procreation".

dhiqson:

It's crazy how "successful women" think men are afraid to approach them
No dear. A boss chick doesn't come with feminine energy
A boss chick is argumentative
A boss chick needs no Man
A boss chick is her way or nothing

And as I'll say
A masculine woman gets a feminine man
A masculine man gets feminine woman



When there are some uncomfortable discuss in the house, a boss chick flares up and is loud



I didn't go through the hazzle of life , stress of life, to come home to meet a "successful woman" debating on who should cook today
Your successful career or whatever, you owe it to ur parents
But understand a good grade score doesn't make u wifey
It makes u employment ready




#STaYtBalIibN
#HaKimITthEhErO

ZIMDRILL:
am not using product of environment as an excuse, but understanding were the behaviour comes from

Analyst7:
If u use where ur behavior comes from as an excuse, then others could do that and escape accountability as a result
We’re still back at the same problem

Fix yourself up if you’re shitty
Pointing fingers is an easy thing for everyone

ZIMDRILL:
again i never said the behavour as an excuse, am only pointing at why are people behaving that way

And i fail to see why you cant understand my point, every behaviour is caused by something, whether one uses it an an excuse or not but the behaviour reflect on people reaction to something

RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Hassanmaye:
Men have side chicks because we are polygamous

frozen70:
Dey play

Ask Yul Edochie how far with his DNA test and why he was disappointed when the result was negative

RTID:
“Men are afraid of successful women”

I wonder why men allowed this lie to go unchallenged for so long.

That is, they deceived so many women to believe that a man will see a woman making ground breaking achievements in her industry and be afraid of her success, instead he will go and chase one broke, unemployed and uninspiring woman.

Which successful woman in this world is single because men are afraid of her?

Watch women claim now that they know someone, not them oh. Someone.

I can tell you for free that a woman will buy Toyota Big for nothing and starts talking down on men that don’t have cars, becomes unnecessary rude to everyone around her and when people avoid her, she’ll say it’s because she’s successful.

No one is avoiding you because you are successful, they are avoiding you because of your bad attitude. There are women that are more successful than you that are happily married.

Why your own dey different?

Men are not afraid of successful women. Men are afraid of women with bad attitude, successful or not.

CondenseMilk:
Most successful women lacks submission and this is the reason why they are single.

Rokiat:
This is a great topic with many layers to it.


The problem is that many women lead with their achievements. They achieved and believe oh well
I’m a high achiever I don’t gotta clean for no man I don’t gotta cook for no man infact I don’t need a man. That’s the issue right there.

I have said it before and I will say it here again, men don’t give a damn about a woman’s achievements. Maybe your home girls will clap for you but this is not all a man is looking for. An uneducated woman who’s broke and never been to college don’t work but can cook, have good nurturing skills, a good mother, fine as hell, good in bed, will always get the better man than a woman who’s hella accomplished and is totally out of touch with her womanly side and roles.

Fun fact as you are off to work, he’s fu..cking that unemployed woman that truly makes him feel like a man.



Also many of these women achieved and start shouting it at the top of their lungs, a big turn off to many men. A man’s would love you to leave space for him to come in and be a man, provide for you, get you that car that house for the family etc but if you buy yourself all
Of these things and claiming to be an independent strong woman that has everything and the only thing you need is a man well my sister you will stay long waiting for that man.

The truth is bitter, but a successful man is treated like a big baller in society but you as a successful woman well sorry but many men don’t care. And the issue is that many successfully women wants the accolades, the praises, special treatment and to be exempt from their womanly duties simply because they are successful in society. It’s just as bad as men wanting special treatment and better positions because they look good. Lol that’s funny but imagine a man thinking because he looks good so he will get a higher position…rarely ever as in ever. A woman looks yes that matters but a man? Nope not really because that doesn’t impact on his ability to provide or protect. Women have to stop thinking just because they are successful and high achievers they don’t gotta do what a man’s requires of a woman to
Make him feel like a man.


And this is for the women that wants lasting and happy relationships. If you want to be a strong independent woman that don’t need no man kudos to you, do you but you can’t have your cake and eat it too.

frozen70:
It depends on what you mean by submission, especially for those who are married to a man who cant provide for his family

She pays the house rent, school fees, hospital bills, other bills and probably feeding

These are the things a man that married her can't do and she is doing it all,

So is she not submissive enough

Or you expect her to work for the money and hand it over to the man

That's what you call submission abi ⁉️