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Saw this on Facebook and it really got me, masturbation has really destroyed a lot of people

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Bros S.O Sapele Oghenek I'm seriously in p@ins!!

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I dated my husband for 3 years before we got married. All through the 3 years we didn't have $êx and I wasn't bothered because I believe he was trying to keep to the words of God in the bible.

Our marriage is now 6 years and now I am bothered because every time I have to beg or force my husband to have $êx with me.

😢 😢 😢..... Just 2 weeks ago here, I caught my husband m@sturb@ting in our bedroom. I became m@d at him because I never for once denied him $êx but always begging him for $êx.

Just 3 days ago, he came to me prostrating and confessed that m@sturb@ting is the only thing he knows how to do, feel for and enjoy for over 15 years.

I am totally weak in spirit because I don't know what to do.
How can I safe my husband and marriage?

Abeg make unu advise this lady on what to do, as she dey see unu comment 👇

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I never knew masturbation can affect a man to a point where he doesn't fancy a woman, it's very disheartening

Kingibiza:
■ I am totally weak in spirit because I don't know what to do.
How can I safe my husband and marriage? Abeg make unu advise this lady on what to do, as she dey see unu comment 👇

Couples sex therapy right at the same time as professional marriage counseling. You two have a lot to talk about with each other.

Kingibiza:
I never knew masturbation can affect a man to a point where he doesn't fancy a woman, it's very disheartening

That is what you got from the story? Even drinking water can affect a human to the point where he doesn't fancy anything else. FYI, the water isn't the source of the problem. Rather it is the mind of the one consuming it that is the problem.

Women should learn how to whoré for their husband.

Every man that masturbate love penetrating sex except he has weak erection. If not please talk to him to be more open. He might not be into you, or maybe your down side smell bad and he can’t tell you straight up. I am not trying to shame the woman . But out of experience most times men hate smelly vaginas

Every day, women and husband

Husband and side chick.

APC and bad government

Is sex the only problem in Nigeria? Everytime sex related issues. What is it?

The mind consuming it is the problem
Just like some men will say blowjobs can't make them cum
But when they use their hands they will

It's all in the mind

How will your husband detoxify this process is what I can't really say
But you have to be there for him

His mind needs to be restructured again

meum:
Is sex the only problem in Nigeria? Everytime sex related issues. What is it?

Na today you just realize say THAT na the top priority for many out there in Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
Na today you just realize say it fit be the case?

This sex matter don too much.

I've dated a girl that I enjoy masturbating more than having sex with her. Your marriage is a mess leave the guy he doest find you sexually appealing.

Your toto no sweet, you have body odour, go and take care of yourself first. If I dey with my girl, my prøk always sings Alleluyah. You are not attractive at all. You are the problem here

The mindset has been altered, so he needs continuous aggressive sex to restructure the mindset back to default settings.

stevups:
Your toto no sweet, you have body odour, go and take care of yourself first. If I dey with my girl, my prøk always sings Alleluyah. You are not attractive at all. You are the problem here

Have you been on Ig recently?
You need to see the elegant ,very pretty woman her husband was/is sleeping with her best friend.

A man that is not disciplined will leave a goddess and follow razz and ugly woman.
Check some promiscuous men and their wives.

JayZ cheated on Beyonce.
Ay cheated on Mabel.
Tuface
Davido.

Abeg how woman want take fine and clean reach again?

poshestmina:
Have you been on Ig recently?
You need to see the elegant ,very pretty woman her husband was/is sleeping with her best friend.

A man that is not disciplined will leave a goddess and follow razz and ugly woman.
Check some promiscuous men and their wives.

JayZ cheated on Beyonce.
Ay cheated on Mabel.
Tuface
Davido.

Abeg how woman want take fine and clean reach again?

Some time pounded yam used to tire someone now.. Even me too I'm not a St. But each time I look at my wife, I used to say oya now.. sometimes I have to run away from home, so that I will not follow the same channel I followed when I was coming

Zonefree:
Women should learn how to whoré for their husband.

And this is what you got from the story when it is clear that the husband doesn't fancy his wife sexually because of his addiction to masturbation

Help him hold the joystick whenever he's in the act..

Hmmn.

Flora2Sweet:
Help him hold the joystick whenever he's in the act..

You say? 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀

Na my own advice be that....

bukatyne:
You say? 😃 😀 😄 😁 🤣 😂 😃 😀

This happened to me. I divorced his ass after many years of starvation, endurance, hopefulness and many other things I can't say on here

stevups:
Your toto no sweet, you have body odour, go and take care of yourself first. If I dey with my girl, my prøk always sings Alleluyah. You are not attractive at all. You are the problem here

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Hohaiiiode:
Every man that masturbate love penetrating sex except he has weak erection. If not please talk to him to be more open. He might not be into you, or maybe your down side smell bad and he can’t tell you straight up. I am not trying to shame the woman . But out of experience most times men hate smelly vaginas

Lol marriage Wahala too much for this part of the world....

I go still Marry!

marriage wahala no dey finish..but why bring it to the public

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