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Make she dey give her husband correct Mouth Action Everytime trust me with time she go forget masturbation

Isony:
The joystick will drop

So you have been there before ?

Hohaiiiode:
Every man that masturbate love penetrating sex except he has weak erection. If not please talk to him to be more open. He might not be into you, or maybe your down side smell bad and he can’t tell you straight up. I am not trying to shame the woman . But out of experience most times men hate smelly vaginas

I swear you hit the nail on the head!

meum:
This sex matter don too much.

Be acting like an hypocrite, are you saying you don't see the numerous post on crime, technology, politics that flood Nairaland daily 😒

Kingibiza:
I never knew masturbation can affect a man to a point where he doesn't fancy a woman, it's very disheartening

Yes this is real
If a man ejaculation there is no need for a woman again
And he have been doing it for 15years

He should draw a map and write down a commitment to stop masturbating. While you and him follow up with prayers, the spirit of addiction has taken over him. Also, always make daily sex with him so he gets use to heavy sex with you. Penetrating a woman ought to stop masturbation shall.

If she doesn't have children, it's best to leave him and find a new partner. If she has children, she will have to find a man to be intimate with. Prayers cannot fix that issue.

Masturbation is one those addiction that is hard to stop, masturbation doesn't care if you are single or married.
Try and be dressing sexy and be romantic with him... believe me you can make him stop that act.
Is not easy to overcome masturbation addiction but he can do it with your help.

jackcanfield:
Express way and Niddle way there is always a difference

Lol 🤣😆🤣

Kingibiza:
I never knew masturbation can affect a man to a point where he doesn't fancy a woman, it's very disheartening

he is gay

I see LGBT promoting their course through write ups like this lately..

The more you read topics like this the more it sets in your subconscious that it's a normal practice around you (Nigeria)

It's a psych thing

NaBanga:
If she doesn't have children, it's best to leave him and find a new partner. If she has children, she will have to find a man to be intimate with. Prayers cannot fix that issue.

There is no addiction that one can't stop..it's all about been determined nd been angry with yourself that enuf is enuf.......she can help him put an end to it.
Leaving the marriage or going out to fuvk another divk is not the best option here.

poshestmina:
Have you been on Ig recently?
You need to see the elegant ,very pretty woman her husband was/is sleeping with her best friend.

A man that is not disciplined will leave a goddess and follow razz and ugly woman.
Check some promiscuous men and their wives.

JayZ cheated on Beyonce.
Ay cheated on Mabel.
Tuface
Davido.

Abeg how woman want take fine and clean reach again?

On the flipside,

Have you seen the lady Jayz cheated with?
Have you seen the lady AY cheated with?
Have you seen the lady 2face cheated with?
Have you seen the lady davido cheated with?

If your answer to the above is no, then your argument is invalidated

Tell him you can help me mastubate (BJ or HJ)and gradually ask him to have his dick in you.Ask him what are his fantacies during mastubation cause he must have some imaginations while doing it.If it's pornography you can ask him to watch together.Put on some sexy clothes, lingeries, bumpshorts etc.Also smell good.lt's unfortunate this is a marriage and not a date.It might take time but things can change.

meum:
This sex matter don too much.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

Madam! There is something you are not doing right!
For a man to leave you and masturbate it means you have a problem. Go solve your problem.

It is annoying when you come to this forum and hear people tell their useless story while always sounding like the victim.
If your husband leaves you to masturbate then there is a problem. Go and solve it. Forget the trash you said that "eehh... He said that is the only way he gets satisfaction".

You people always know how to put it on the other party. Unfortunately it is your story against his story.
Like I said, go and solve your problem.

Expose him to Xvideos that involves both genders, with the female moaning during the act.
The man needs to start fantasies sexual acts with female.

GOVERNORR:
I see LGBT promoting their course through write ups like this lately..

The more you read topics like this the more it sets in your subconscious that it's a normal practice around you (Nigeria)

It's a psych thing

God bless you.
All these useless rotten story we hear everyday is just promoting abnormality indirectly. This forum is not only for matured minds. Some people who are even minors read these and subconsciously internalise these information and process them making the numerous stories appear like normal.


Everybody listen. All these rotten stories are not normal and they are evil and shouldn't make headlines!
If u have problem go and meet a shrink or a counsellor.
Someone will open forum and see rotten gist that will make your brain to be thinking rubbish.

Nonsense! 😤😤😤😤😤

Rotten society!

After dating 3years with no sex does it finally meet you as a virgin?
Secondly since you’ve caught him red handed he will change just make sure you always appear so Neat and dress cool in the house

Something became missing after he got married to you.
He finds you sexually unattractive due to;
1. Your sex drive
2. Your attitudes
3. You don't agree with him with his ideas.
4. etc

Note:
1. For him to masturbate means he doesn't want to cheat on you which implies that he wants to keep the marriage.
2. He must have at sometimes demanded something peculiar that triggers him from you which you do fail to give him.
3. You did not mention if you have children for the six years of your marriage. (Another thing)
4. Some good men, because of the bond with their wives, they feel emotionally awkward to have sex with them.
5. etc

Solution
1. If you have wronged him before, confess
2. If he is someone that can drink atleast a bottle of beer. Take him to a beer parlour to have it like a surprise. After drinking, ask him what is the most important thing you can do to please him.
3. Your friends and neighbour play important role. He definitely uses someone among them in his mind to masturbate since he can't approach them physically. So, your friend and her husband should be friends with both of you so that you can perhaps talk openly about sex as a social activity.
etc...

When you please your husband, he will open up to you.
Everybody on earth has a happy moment, so when both of you are happy, use the opportunity to ask him what he wants in a woman. I'm sure he will tell you what makes him masturbate that day

Kingibiza:
Saw this on Facebook and it really got me, masturbation has really destroyed a lot of people



https://www.facebook.com/100081915090915/posts/pfbid0TEseqPX5ef8o4vvKHEyLm9Jb84qaecFGKL4MU45jrK7EHB2Km5EcfXGiWR8qxNAMl/

Many a times wives drive their men to resume their masturbation.

You're surprised that you had to beg him for sex most of the time, if another person should ask your hubby why should his wife beg for sex, the response will be a surprise.

There has always been this lie out there about genders drive for sex; men can have sex in 30 seconds, whereas it will take a whole day to prime a woman for sex. This is the lie that has been destroying the sex and other areas of lives of couples in recent times. Men too have moods, not only women.

Those moments when a husband will be looking for cuddling from the wife and all you get is, pls leave me alone because of one thing or the other, no matter how genuine the woman's complaints may be, You need to realize that this is what causes what you're talking about now.

Just sit the man down and talk things over, and not that grandstanding of "I'm disappointed in my husband" that you're speaking all about.

Let me tell you, it's not going to be an overnight solution, because the guy has found solution to relieve himself when you PROBABLY are not there.

All of what I said may not be applicable to you, but please come down from this high horse of "I'm disappointed".

Masturbation that is helping some men stay like 2hrs on top woman without ejaculating anything...the guy get another problem....scrutinize him further

Your husband was sexually abused as a child.
Ask him.
I have dealt with cases like this.
The psychological effects could last a lifetime.

Kingibiza:
Saw this on Facebook and it really got me, masturbation has really destroyed a lot of people



https://www.facebook.com/100081915090915/posts/pfbid0TEseqPX5ef8o4vvKHEyLm9Jb84qaecFGKL4MU45jrK7EHB2Km5EcfXGiWR8qxNAMl/

One best way to handle this issue Is first to

AFFIRM YOUR HUSBAND AND ATTACK THE ADDICTION..
NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND...

SEPARATE YOUR HUSBAND FROM THE PROBLEM

YOUR HUSBAND IS NOT THE PROBLEM BUT HE HAS A PROBLEM....
DRASTIC ACTIONS MUST BE TAKEN TO SECURE YOUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE ITS QUARTER TO QUENCH....

LET HIM BE HONEST AND MAKE YOU HIS ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER AND HE SHOULD BE READY FOR YOUR DISCIPLINARY MEASURES....

WHENEVER HE FEELS LIKE MAST*RBATING HE SHOULD PRACTICE TO CONFESS IT TO YOU EVEN IF ITS INSIDE CHURCH....AND HE SHOULD BURY HIS HEAD IN STUDYING THE SCRIPTURES.....

ROMANS 12:2

DONT HATE HIM....

#HATE THE PROBLEM....

LASTLY IF AN EVIL SPIRIT IS INVOLVED THEN HE HAS TO SEE A DELIVERANCE MINISTER....

I REST MY CASE BUT DONT FIGHT YOUR HUSBAND FIGHT THE PROBLEM..

abdulskulboy:
Masturbating while his wife is available for consumption, this one should go and beg his village people abeg.

It's has become a habit that the wife should help him or he never finds her attractive. Just either of the two

Hmmm! This addiction called masturbation has been an hideous yet evergrowing concern in many marriages and relationships. Thing is masturbation is extremely difficult to stop if certain spiritual and physical factors are not engaged simultaneously.
FIRST THING: Let the couple engage in the place of prayer.VERY IMPORTANT

SECOND THING: If the man is serious about stopping the addiction, he has to stop watching pornography of any sort. Porn and masturbation are inseparable twins. Porn has the power to arouse and condition the mind. If it's possible, let him do away with his Android phone and get a touch light phone. OH YES, He may have to sacrifice his phone

THIRD THING(WIFE): The wife should try not to condemn or demonize him. At this trying time for the man, she has to support and be his confidence. Marriage is not easy and neither bed of roses. Things like this could happen. She must also try to spice things up sexually. She may have to work on her cleanliness and overall appearance. Also she should try making herself sexually appealing to him. This way, an improved sexual exercise with him will recalibrate his mind to be aroused by his wife and not by pornography where actresses are paid to fake moaning and pretend to enjoy the sex. What a lot of people don't know is that pornography is an entirely scripted play.

FOURTH: NEVER GIVE UP. There will definitely be failures along the way. The man may still find himself going back to masturbation after it seems he was making progress initially. He may succeed in going on a month free without masturbation and then BOOM, one evening when the wife's not around, he may just feel aroused from no where and then end up hitting the bathroom. He shouldn't give up no matter what.

MY TWO CENTS

Kobojunkie:
Couples sex therapy right at the same time as professional marriage counseling. You two have a lot to talk about with each other.

Why do you always have the most unreasonable suggestions? Like seriously.

Statistically speaking, any couple that starts therapy can kiss their marriage goodbye. It's always down the hill from there.

Madam he's the one with problems so relax dem no dey tell person!

ModCaller:
■ Why do you always have the most unreasonable suggestions? Like seriously.
■ Statistically speaking, any couple that starts therapy can kiss their marriage goodbye. It's always down the hill from there.

1. Why are you always under the assumption that I must think exactly as you wish for me to instead?

2. So? Is kissing marriage goodbye the end of the world? Therapists are equally there to help couples part amicably where possible. Therapy cannot make a couple do what they had not already been thinking of doing so I am not certain why you wish to assume therapy is where the blame should be placed.

The day women realize men have fetishes, crazy nasty fantasies , will be the day women realize sex to some men is not just about lying on ur back and opening your legs.
Most men want a slutty LovePeddler in bed but dont know how to ask for it cos most women are not even comfortable with it, hence men masturbate with their crazy fantasies or get lucky to find side chicks who are ready to be slutty in bed.