Rokiat:
Just $700? Is that what you are heartbroken over? That ain’t much naw for you to hold a grudge against your mother.

What she did was absolutely wrong but please let it go, my only issue here is the lack of boundaries the fact that she took the money without even asking for it when it was not meant for her.


Forgive her and let it go but you need to set some firm boundaries with her.

Someone can't be heartbroken because it involved mother , some mothers have render many people useless because we can't blame them , we are really far away

See ask her what she did with the money, people shouting 700$ is a small money while not do transfer to me now 🧎,stop encouraging nonsense just because you want to sound woke...so if the dad wasn't financially bouyant now or her life got to a point where the said people who sent money would start questioning what the money was used for? Her mother is plain selfish that's the plain truth if she really loved her,at least 200$ for her upkeep is okay.

Haba but nevertheless op forgive her but not after asking what she used it for,and warn her to never try that again so it wouldn't cause issues between her and the sender of the cash, which might give her a bad name in the family.
Just try your best to talk to her or even try asking for few cash to sort yourself and see her reply, before you take any other decision, people are managing 20k per month as salary... everything is management abeg $700 is too much, even the 20k me no get talkless of $700 and I know within ourselves that we can't take this from anyone 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Tallesty1:
To forgive is divine and to forget is the absence of common sense

I somehow knew you'll be very stiff

IyaebeTheGreat:
I somehow knew you'll be very stiff

I flexible pass flexible wire

Tallesty1:
I flexible pass flexible wire

See the way you were advising people against forgiveness

Yugoslavia247:


Dey play with your blessings. Better give her.

You won't understand sha.
Maybe you have not started hustling for money yourself.

Honour thy father and thy mother
Reward prosperity and long life.
If you give her money you Honor her.

See this life if you want smooth sailing forgive and forget.

700 dollar is nothing.

Can you bless her NO
Can she bless you YES

The floor is yours

Nigerian Christians are fake. You guys are hypocritically religious

IyaebeTheGreat:
See the way you were advising people against forgiveness

I am not against forgiveness, I am against forgetfulness.

Laurene:
Nigerian Christians are fake. You guys are hypocritically religious

Na u know.

ChizzyBuna:
Omo this your mumsi na Yahoo Mother
Some women worship money.
I'm very very sure your dad is rich, if not I really pity him cuz your mumsi fit dey cheat for him back. My aunty that year that woman can disgrace her life for money.
Just spray her money during occasion, she go hail you tire, dance for you, she fit
even fight for you Aunty Jo Jo

Thazard:

The girl for introduce her mama to street make she use her talent do yahoo
Her mama go sabi format

Rokiat:
Just $700? Is that what you are heartbroken over? That ain’t much naw for you to hold a grudge against your mother.

What she did was absolutely wrong but please let it go, my only issue here is the lack of boundaries the fact that she took the money without even asking for it when it was not meant for her

Forgive her and let it go but you need to set some firm boundaries with her.

all these your profile pictures...hmnnnnb

Yugoslavia247:


Na u know.

because she's the doesn't mean she should scam him

Laurene:
because she's the doesn't mean she should scam him

E get some things wey person dey overlook.

Remember there are two sides to a story.

Na her own side she sugar coat

FeliciaOja:
I feel so angry and heartbroken after I found out my mother has been collecting money meant for me behind my back for months.

I had an accident few months ago, I was hospitalized for a week.
I lost my phone in the accident, so majority of my friends couldn't contact me directly.

One of my uncle from Baltimore sent my mother $500 to give me and my cousin also sent $200. This happened February
My mum took advantage of the fact I don't have phone. She was the one majority of my uncles and relatives contact since they can't contact me.

Today, that my cousin is in Nigeria with my uncle and they decided to pay us a visit. I was happy until they were about to go and my mum just whisper to me
Tell your uncle thank you for the money he sent you. I was shocked.
After they left, I confronted her to know what really happened. She said she will explain later that she is late for church.

I feel very heartbroken, only God knows how many times they gave her something for me and she took it without telling me.
I want to cut her off and distance from her, how should I handle this so she won't ever touch my money again?

Should I report her to my uncle and relatives.

FeliciaOja:
I feel so angry and heartbroken after I found out my mother has been collecting money meant for me behind my back for months.

I had an accident few months ago, I was hospitalized for a week.
I lost my phone in the accident, so majority of my friends couldn't contact me directly.

One of my uncle from Baltimore sent my mother $500 to give me and my cousin also sent $200. This happened February
My mum took advantage of the fact I don't have phone. She was the one majority of my uncles and relatives contact since they can't contact me.

Today, that my cousin is in Nigeria with my uncle and they decided to pay us a visit. I was happy until they were about to go and my mum just whisper to me
Tell your uncle thank you for the money he sent you. I was shocked.
After they left, I confronted her to know what really happened. She said she will explain later that she is late for church.

I feel very heartbroken, only God knows how many times they gave her something for me and she took it without telling me.
I want to cut her off and distance from her, how should I handle this so she won't ever touch my money again?

Should I report her to my uncle and relatives.

So u hate Yor mother coz she spend Yor pocket MOINEY.... corrrrrrrect?...SHAME ON U 9 TIMES FOR HATIN YOR MOTHER... anyways are u lightskin?(no offenscce)

I'm also currently taking a break from my mother, that woman hurt me and betrayed my trust in her.

Though I forgave her, I just don't want to be anywhere near her for now.

It's not a crime to cut off toxic people from your life, family or no family... The most important thing is your peace of mind.

FeliciaOja:
I feel so angry and heartbroken after I found out my mother has been collecting money meant for me behind my back for months.

I had an accident few months ago, I was hospitalized for a week.
I lost my phone in the accident, so majority of my friends couldn't contact me directly.

One of my uncle from Baltimore sent my mother $500 to give me and my cousin also sent $200. This happened February
My mum took advantage of the fact I don't have phone. She was the one majority of my uncles and relatives contact since they can't contact me.

Today, that my cousin is in Nigeria with my uncle and they decided to pay us a visit. I was happy until they were about to go and my mum just whisper to me
Tell your uncle thank you for the money he sent you. I was shocked.
After they left, I confronted her to know what really happened. She said she will explain later that she is late for church.

I feel very heartbroken, only God knows how many times they gave her something for me and she took it without telling me.
I want to cut her off and distance from her, how should I handle this so she won't ever touch my money again?

Should I report her to my uncle and relatives.

FeliciaOja:
I feel so angry and heartbroken after I found out my mother has been collecting money meant for me behind my back for months.

I had an accident few months ago, I was hospitalized for a week.
I lost my phone in the accident, so majority of my friends couldn't contact me directly.

One of my uncle from Baltimore sent my mother $500 to give me and my cousin also sent $200. This happened February
My mum took advantage of the fact I don't have phone. She was the one majority of my uncles and relatives contact since they can't contact me.

Today, that my cousin is in Nigeria with my uncle and they decided to pay us a visit. I was happy until they were about to go and my mum just whisper to me
Tell your uncle thank you for the money he sent you. I was shocked.
After they left, I confronted her to know what really happened. She said she will explain later that she is late for church.

I feel very heartbroken, only God knows how many times they gave her something for me and she took it without telling me.
I want to cut her off and distance from her, how should I handle this so she won't ever touch my money again?

Should I report her to my uncle and relatives.

Cut her off because of money or what?

Yugoslavia247:


Dey play with your blessings. Better give her.

You won't understand sha.
Maybe you have not started hustling for money yourself.

Honour thy father and thy mother
Reward prosperity and long life.
If you give her money you Honor her.

See this life if you want smooth sailing forgive and forget.

700 dollar is nothing.

Can you bless her NO
Can she bless you YES

The floor is yours

This is the kind of mentality that is a resultant effect of loopsided religious interpretations. Some one is complaining about the untrustworthy nature of his mother and you are misquoting the Bible on obedience.
Is it not the same holy scripture that opines, we should be wise as serpent?
You aspect him to forget just like that?

Evilstorm:


This is the kind of mentality that is a resultant effect of loopsided religious interpretations. Some one is complaining about the untrustworthy nature of his mother and you are misquoting the Bible on obedience.
Is it not the same holy scripture that opines, we should be wise as serpent?
You aspect him to forget just like that?

See eh let me tell you today the law of man and the law of God are different.

Mark my words..

The law of God never gave children much of an option.

Except you want to deceive yourself.

That is why no matter how good or bad a parent his. Their words can hamper or make destiny.

You must be wise as Solomon and not serpent.

Serpent are all for food and survival.

Parents are our creators.

Can a clay tell the moulder how he wants to be formed.

See forget shit.

Go and check the greatest men in the world.

One by one. A large percentage had good relationship with their father.

A son loved by his father will excel. A son cursed by his father will never excel.

Jacob, David, Solomon,

Reuben till date is still the smallest and weakest tribe. He was cursed.

If you want to argue first ask yourself what power have you over your parents. And what spiritual power have they over you.

You don't have to believe.

The same way you can not change God but accept it in faith.

God knew before he made man. You will also give birth and assume that same power.

Okay.

FeliciaOja:
see this one, the only thing saving her is that I don't have heart of wickedness. I woukd have call my uncles and cry to them how my mom behaves badly. I must disturb her today. A whole $700 not even shishi enter my hand.
Can u imagine

sorry to say this-your own love for money self pass your mama own.See as you dey lay emphasis on the total money sent-$700!
Nevertheless i believe what she did is wrong.she could have at least carried you along.Clearly she's been doing it for long.

Wotoporiously speaking

Hmmm, family Mattias, I nor dey too like put mouth, just forgive and forget but no allow her use your head next time

Yugoslavia247:


See eh let me tell you today the law of man and the law of God are different.

Mark my words..

The law of God never gave children much of an option.

Except you want to deceive yourself.

That is why no matter how good or bad a parent his. Their words can hamper or make destiny.

You must be wise as Solomon and not serpent.

Serpent are all for food and survival.

Parents are our creators.

Can a clay tell the moulder how he wants to be formed.

See forget shit.

Go and check the greatest men in the world.

One by one. A large percentage had good relationship with their father.

A son loved by his father will excel. A son cursed by his father will never excel.

Jacob, David, Solomon,

Reuben till date is still the smallest and weakest tribe. He was cursed.

If you want to argue first ask yourself what power have you over your parents. And what spiritual power have they over you.

You don't have to believe.

The same way you can not change God but accept it in faith.

God knew before he made man. You will also give birth and assume that same power.

Okay.

It seems like we agree on certain things and the bone of contention can be easily resolve. I'm not disputing the validity of parental blessings because not only does our religion encourage it , our cultures and personal convictions sway in that direction.

What is sacrosanct ib life is we have bad parents and in as much they can bless or course their children, it doesn't mean you should take unwise discision when you have identified a parent weakness. The O P said the mother is not realible when it comes to money and he wants to set boundaries in that aspect. Tell me, is that not a good option?
Let's say he has a project to embark on or he wants to give money to his siblings through his mother? Is it wise to trust and give his mother?

Lastly, you ended up arguing with the Bible, it is clearly started that we should be calm as a dove and wise as a serpent in Matt 10: 16

Yugoslavia247:


E get some things wey person dey overlook.

Remember there are two sides to a story.

Na her own side she sugar coat

Most African mothers are like that... Not even mothers alone; siblings, fathers, relatives... They're so entitled to your wealth and happiness.
Mothers would remind you how you gave them issues for belle for 9 months.