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Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Qatar2022: 7:44pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Rokiat:Someone can't be heartbroken because it involved mother , some mothers have render many people useless because we can't blame them , we are really far away |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Jozilinn: 8:07pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
See ask her what she did with the money, people shouting 700$ is a small money while not do transfer to me now ๐ง,stop encouraging nonsense just because you want to sound woke...so if the dad wasn't financially bouyant now or her life got to a point where the said people who sent money would start questioning what the money was used for? Her mother is plain selfish that's the plain truth if she really loved her,at least 200$ for her upkeep is okay. Haba but nevertheless op forgive her but not after asking what she used it for,and warn her to never try that again so it wouldn't cause issues between her and the sender of the cash, which might give her a bad name in the family. Just try your best to talk to her or even try asking for few cash to sort yourself and see her reply, before you take any other decision, people are managing 20k per month as salary... everything is management abeg $700 is too much, even the 20k me no get talkless of $700 and I know within ourselves that we can't take this from anyone ๐๐๐๐๐ 2 Likes |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Tallesty1:I somehow knew you'll be very stiff |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Tallesty1(m): 8:59pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:I flexible pass flexible wire |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Tallesty1:See the way you were advising people against forgiveness |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Laurene: 9:25pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247:Nigerian Christians are fake. You guys are hypocritically religious 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Tallesty1(m): 9:25pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:I am not against forgiveness, I am against forgetfulness. |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:50pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
Laurene: Na u know. |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Thazard(m): 11:24pm On Apr 26, 2023 |
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Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by ChizzyBuna(m): 12:45am On Apr 27, 2023 |
Thazard:The girl for introduce her mama to street make she use her talent do yahoo Her mama go sabi format |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by HarunaWest(m): 2:14am On Apr 27, 2023 |
Rokiat:all these your profile pictures...hmnnnnb |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Laurene: 7:58am On Apr 27, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247:because she's the doesn't mean she should scam him |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Yugoslavia247(m): 8:30am On Apr 27, 2023 |
Laurene: E get some things wey person dey overlook. Remember there are two sides to a story. Na her own side she sugar coat |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by MechanicMike: 8:31am On Apr 27, 2023 |
FeliciaOja: |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by MechanicMike: 8:32am On Apr 27, 2023 |
FeliciaOja: So u hate Yor mother coz she spend Yor pocket MOINEY.... corrrrrrrect?...SHAME ON U 9 TIMES FOR HATIN YOR MOTHER... anyways are u lightskin?(no offenscce) |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Nobody: 10:55am On Apr 27, 2023 |
I'm also currently taking a break from my mother, that woman hurt me and betrayed my trust in her. Though I forgave her, I just don't want to be anywhere near her for now. It's not a crime to cut off toxic people from your life, family or no family... The most important thing is your peace of mind. FeliciaOja: 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by fmonigent(m): 11:49am On Apr 27, 2023 |
FeliciaOja: Cut her off because of money or what? |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Evilstorm: 1:06pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247: This is the kind of mentality that is a resultant effect of loopsided religious interpretations. Some one is complaining about the untrustworthy nature of his mother and you are misquoting the Bible on obedience. Is it not the same holy scripture that opines, we should be wise as serpent? You aspect him to forget just like that? 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Yugoslavia247(m): 1:16pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Evilstorm: See eh let me tell you today the law of man and the law of God are different. Mark my words.. The law of God never gave children much of an option. Except you want to deceive yourself. That is why no matter how good or bad a parent his. Their words can hamper or make destiny. You must be wise as Solomon and not serpent. Serpent are all for food and survival. Parents are our creators. Can a clay tell the moulder how he wants to be formed. See forget shit. Go and check the greatest men in the world. One by one. A large percentage had good relationship with their father. A son loved by his father will excel. A son cursed by his father will never excel. Jacob, David, Solomon, Reuben till date is still the smallest and weakest tribe. He was cursed. If you want to argue first ask yourself what power have you over your parents. And what spiritual power have they over you. You don't have to believe. The same way you can not change God but accept it in faith. God knew before he made man. You will also give birth and assume that same power. Okay. |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by thesilentman(m): 1:17pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
FeliciaOja:sorry to say this-your own love for money self pass your mama own.See as you dey lay emphasis on the total money sent-$700! Nevertheless i believe what she did is wrong.she could have at least carried you along.Clearly she's been doing it for long. |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Streetmovement(m): 1:21pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking Hmmm, family Mattias, I nor dey too like put mouth, just forgive and forget but no allow her use your head next time |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Evilstorm: 2:55pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247: It seems like we agree on certain things and the bone of contention can be easily resolve. I'm not disputing the validity of parental blessings because not only does our religion encourage it , our cultures and personal convictions sway in that direction. What is sacrosanct ib life is we have bad parents and in as much they can bless or course their children, it doesn't mean you should take unwise discision when you have identified a parent weakness. The O P said the mother is not realible when it comes to money and he wants to set boundaries in that aspect. Tell me, is that not a good option? Let's say he has a project to embark on or he wants to give money to his siblings through his mother? Is it wise to trust and give his mother? Lastly, you ended up arguing with the Bible, it is clearly started that we should be calm as a dove and wise as a serpent in Matt 10: 16 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Betrayal From Your Mother by Laurene: 5:19pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247:Most African mothers are like that... Not even mothers alone; siblings, fathers, relatives... They're so entitled to your wealth and happiness. Mothers would remind you how you gave them issues for belle for 9 months. |
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